KingMicky3286: A Nigerian woman lamented on facebook that has since gone viral on the internet that house maids are getting ssuitors and their daughters are been rejected.
She further stated that after training Maids on how to clean, good cooks and do good things. men will leave their daughters and marry the maids.
What do you think of our girls manners these days?
EsotericMonk: Pastor who doesn't know and understand the bible is worse than a boko haram terrorist. Bible says "be not many masters (teachers) cos you would be judged by a more severe judgement." I know its pastors like him who believe than any other sex position apart from missionary position is sin cos bible said "and he laid with her" Even "My Lord" is a pet name. Some use pet names like "My King", "My Prince", " Olori", "Princess"
johnnyvid: A pastor has told women that it is an abomination for them to call their husbands by his name or a pet name. Pastor Chris Ojigbani, who calls himself a marriage and relationship expert, said a man is a woman's Lord and as such, she should never call him by his name or by a pet name. He said names such as "sweetheart, darling, even baby" should never be uttered by women in relation to their husbands. He was especially opposed to the use of "baby" and said it belittles a man. Lol. What an archaic man! Pastor Ojigbani advised the female members of his congregation to refer to their husbands as "My King" and "My Lord". The use of ordinary names and pet names, he said, are as a result of wrong teachings. As he preached, the female members of his congregation were seen nodding their head in agreement. After the video was shared online, a lot of people expressed support for his teaching but some pointed out that he calls Jesus by name though he is his Lord. The pastor has now replied to those opposing his teaching. He wrote: It's amazing how many wives and unmarried women refused to accept the simple teaching in the video above where I taught wives how to become queen in their marriage. In the video, I simply asked wives to make their husbands king if they want to become queen. And to do that, I explained you must respect him by calling him King or lord and by serving him food like a king. But it's so unfortunate that some of the women are arguing the teaching and insulting me as well. After much consideration, I decided to ignore the insults and help you with further explanations. And I will like to start by asking a question. Is there anything wrong in asking a wife to respect her husband? Any woman who doesn't respect the husband is actually disobeying the word of God, which says that wives should respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:22). It's also interesting to note that any disobedience of the Word of God is a sin. If your husband doesn't treat you well, he has committed a sin and will have a question to answer before God on the judgement day. So, if you disrespect your husband because he doesn't treat you well, you will also have a question to answer on the judgement day. It's also important you note that you should respect your husband unconditionally. You don 't respect your husband because he treats you well. In Christianity, respect is not reciprocal. In the world, respect is reciprocal but in Christianity, respect is sacrificial. I also noticed that many wives commented they would never call their husbands lord. But the Bible tells us that Sarah called Abraham lord (1Peter 3:6). If Sarah called her husband lord, what makes you feel you are too big to call your husband lord? Apart from the fact that Sarah called Abraham lord, is there any other scripture that says the husband is the lord of his wife? Yes, Ephesians 5:22 says that you should respect your husband as lord. Verse 23 of the same chapter also says that your husband is your head just as Christ is the head of the church. So, my teaching is scriptural! And I didn't write the Bible. The teaching is very clear and simple. Apart from the fact that the teaching in the video is scriptural, what wrong have I done to ask you to respect your husband? I didn't ask you to respect me, but to respect your husband. Some of you respect pastors so much but have no respect for your husband. Some of you don't call your pastors by their names but call your husband by his name. One lady even commented that she must call her husband by his name because she calls Jesus by His name. Kindly check the scripture and you will find out that no disciple of Christ called Him Jesus Christ. Some may have referred to Him as Jesus when talking about Him to people, but when talking to Him directly, they called Him Master, Rabbi, Son of David, etc. The previous week, I published a video, where I rebuked only husbands and many women applauded the teaching. But because the teaching in this video advises wives, the same women are angry. One of the women even commented that my teaching is an African teaching. Please note that there is nothing African about the teaching. The teaching is directly based on scripture, and the scriptural references are Ephesians 5:22-25 and 1Peter 3:1-6. It will interest you to note that the teaching that supports equality of husband and wife is based on western culture. The Bible does not support equality of a husband and wife. It, however, supports equality of a man and woman, but not a husband and wife. It's different in marriage. A woman may be the head of a big organisation but her husband is still her head. The Bible clearly says that the husband is the head (Ephesians 5:23). You can't be equal with your head. There is no scripture that supports equality of husband and wife. Rather western culture supports it. Unfortunately, there is a mixup of western culture and scriptural doctrines. Many people practise western cultures, thinking they are practising scriptural doctrines. Having said this, I want you to know that I don't support the maltreatment of wives. God forbid! The teaching in the video was just to help wives become queen in their marriages. If you listen to the full message, you will see how I rebuked husbands. I actually rebuke husbands more because wives are weaker vessels. But I want you to know there is no other way of becoming a queen in your marriage apart from making your husband the king. For you to become a queen, your husband must first become the king. The message has been tested and proven. It works! From the comments I read, it's obvious that some of the ladies are bitter against their husbands. And I will like to beg you to take it easy with husband. He may be maltreating you, but you are also not treating him well. If you give him his due respect, you will be happy. The problem is usually who will become nice first. I know that some people wrongly teach you that you are equal with your husband. They are deceiving you. Such teaching makes so much sense but cannot be found in the Bible. Apart from the fact that the Bible says wives should respect their husbands, it's clearly better to respect than to disrespect a person. Do not see me as your opponent. God called me to help Christians, irrespective of one's church or denomination. That explains why I don't pastor a church. W Ives, I beg you to be respectful to your husbands. Be submissive to your husband as the Bible teaches us. You can't be disrespectful to your husband and still pray to God. Any wife who disrespects the husband has no relationship with God. A man, on the other hand, who maltreats the wife has no relationship with God. My teaching may be hard but it's the truth. We live in a time that people have itchy ears but I teach only what you should know. I don't teach what you want to hear but what you should hear. If your husband has annoyed you so much, please forgive him and have a fresh start with him. Put into practice my teaching, and your husband will make you his queen. You can't be happy in the marriage if your husband is not happy. Make him happy and become the happiest wife on earth. When I teach husbands, I rebuke them as well. But now, I am speaking to wives. Respecting your husband does not mean you are a slave. Rather, it cements your relationship better. I also want you to know that you cannot modernise marriage. Marriage is an old-fashioned institution and must be practised in an old-fashioned way. Any attempt to modernise it will destroy it. Jesus Christ said that if you put a new wine into an old wineskin, it will bust. The marriage system has “busted” because we are attempting to practise it with new marriage doctrines. We must go back to the scripture and practise only scriptural doctrines if we want to restore our marriage system. I would have explained further to you but I feel that I have already said enough. Watch the viral video below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNikk-X-O7E&feature=youtu.be.https://www.pressnewsng.com.ng/2018/05/its-abomination-to-call-your-husband-by.html?m=0
Wahala dey. As chauvinistic as they come, and na their type dey get women pass smh. When we say most women are confused...
Tessyama1: Is everything okay? Ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibrahim has deleted all the lovely photos of her with her lover, Nigerian rapper, Iceberg Slim on Instagram.
The only photo of him she has on her page now is an advert for a product they did together in February.
Although Iceberg still has photos of her on his page, but the last time the pair posted photos of themselves was in March, when they traveled to São Tomé island for a baecation to celebrate Juliet Ibrahim's birthday.
The pair gave fans major relationship goals by posting series of cute loved-up photos of themselves on their social media pages, as well as getting matching tattoos.
Juliet and Iceberg who were never shy of flaunting their love for each other also no longer attend events together, unlike them.
Now, some of their fans are asking questions if the two are dating, while others are speculating that the pair have broken up.
Juliet Ibrahim and Iceberg Slim stole the heart of many when they started dating last year and were one of the most talked about couples in the entertainment industry.
Let's hope all is well and they are just trying to stay lowkey.
Pls read through the thread . It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.
To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.
Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.
I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.
My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.
I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all
You had better move on! That is most Nigerian women for you, they do not know what they want and they are confused to boot!
Might be time to travel out of this country to the U.S. or Canada and actually feel like the man you are. Why? Because women of other cultures especially South African, Ghanaian, Indian, Chinese, Carribean, American or Canadian ladies will actually love you for the man you are! Not these drama you are currently seeing, all in a bid to marry a Nigerian lady!
yemi15: Abi, a total waste of 89 million pounds, make we sell am to Madrid for Kroos or PSG for Marco Verratti or Lazio for Sergej Milinkovic Savic (a Pogba that Pogba wishes to be that can actually defend).
IAmAmbrose: Believe me pogba is just a Bakayoko with adiddas sponsorship :/ :/
Abi, a total waste of 89 million pounds, make we sell am to Madrid for Kroos or PSG for Marco Verratti or Lazio for Sergej Milinkovic Savic (a Pogba that Pogba wishes to be that can actually defend).
This Man U team a total waste of my 50 naira, fearing for the FA Cup Final against Chelsea already smh. Mourinho has absolutely stifled the creativity of my team. Sad.
ogododo: The Reds, who overcame Manchester City 5-1 on aggregate in the quarter-finals, will host Roma on 24 or 25 April before the return leg on 2 May. Liverpool won the first leg 5-2. Liverpool have been handed a major boost after Adam Lallana was named in the squad for the Champions League semi-final second leg clash with Roma.
Lallana has been missing for over a month after sustaining a hamstring injury at Crystal Palace.
There were fears that the England midfielder would miss the remainder of the season, and he had even been sent to South Africa for rehabilitation. But Jurgen Klopp confirmed Lallana's return to training in recent weeks and his inclusion in the 23-man travelling party to Rome is a major boost.
Liverpool have Emre Can and Alex Oxlade-Chamberlain sidelined, with only Jordan Henderson, James Milner and Gini Wijnaldum the other fit senior midfielders.
Joe Gomez misses out on a place in the travelling squad after sustaining an ankle injury against Stoke City on Saturday, but Trent Alexander-Arnold is fit enough to be involved.
Sadio Mane is also fit to travel after missing the clash with Stoke.
Roma star Radja Nainggolan is taking optimism from the fact his side managed to eliminate Lionel Messi and Luis Suarez as they look to overturn a three-goal deficit against Liverpool in the Champions League.
Liverpool blitzed Roma in the first leg at Anfield last week and appeared to be easing into the final after going 5-0 up.
Roma gave themselves a glimmer of hope by scoring two late goals, however, meaning a 3-0 win in Rome on Wednesday will be enough to send them through to the final.
A Liverpool-Real Madrid final already, Liverpool's Champions League final to lose imo
PrettyCrystal: An intending groom, Obinna has advised guys to stop wasting time and marry whom they love after finding that person. According to him, he met his fiancee three weeks ago and without wasting time, he has already done her wedding introduction and is set to finalize wedding steps in the coming weeks.
Sharing pictures of himself and his partner, the music promoter wrote;
I found this girl just three weeks ago, but I have gone for her introduction, next two weeks am going to complete the marriage journey steps before our traditional wedding. So what I'm trying to say GUYS if you see whom you love go for her for marriage not for sex.
Relationship is not love #obichereme #2018 #matrimonyWAIT FOR US, WE COMING THROUGH
Chubhie: Once in kano I had cough and some guy advised codine syrup. He encouraged me to drink up. I must confess it was sweet in my mouth so I guzzled down half the bottle. The guy was just having some funny smile on his face while we walk away from the shop.
My steps started going into slow motion. managed to coordinate my steps until I got home and crashed on the bed. I must have slept for hours after that.
I swore by obatala never to near any cough syrup again.
anibestlala: Seems there a cheap cigar buhari apologists smoke that make them turn the law upside down to defend buhari. The law says the President needs approval from the NASS to spend such amount of money and not whether the money was for a good purpose or not.
Exactly, seems Buhari apologists are quite okay and in tune with a banana republic where the constitution is not followed but rather in a trash bin smh
10Ebisco: The Senate Majority Leader, Ahmed Lawan, says the issue of impeaching President Muhammadu Buhari has been laid to rest.
Lawan said the United States, US, President, Donald Trump’s confirmation that his country received $496m from Nigeria for fighter jets, has put the issue of impeaching Buhari to rest.
Speaking with Daily Trust, the Senator noted that impeaching the president holds no weight because “we didn’t lose money as a country.”
The lawmaker insisted that Buhari cannot be impeached for taking an “action to save Nigerians.”
According to Lawan, “I don’t know what the committee will report. I will rather guess but this committee is a representative of the senate and indeed the national assembly. So, since it has been confirmed that the money has been paid to the US treasury and President Trump has also confirmed it, I think this has laid the matter to rest.
“I’m not sure there was any serious motion for the impeachment of the President. If anybody did that, I’m sure the person misunderstood the entire process of parliamentary scrutiny
“My understanding of parliamentary scrutiny is to ensure that no public resources and money are lost. The release of $496m for the purchase of Super Tucano by the President has shown that no money was lost; more especially when the President of the US, Donald Trump, in discussion with the president said the American government is in receipt of the money. That goes further to confirm that we didn’t lose money as a country.
“So we really have not lost anything and I think this should give consolation to everybody because the fear will always be that someone took advantage and money was lost.
“How can we impeach the president for taking action to save Nigerians? It has been confirmed that the money has been paid to the US government.”
newsynews: More Photos Of Pastor Who Took Off A Lady’s Pant During Deliverance
Below are photos of a Ghanaian pastor whose mode of performing deliverance on women is quite questionable. He drew attention when a picture of him placing his palm very close to a lady’s private during deliverance went viral.
As if that was not enough, another picture surfaced showing him taking off a lady’s pant in the name of deliverance. The pastor called the lady in front of the congregation and revealed to her that some evil spirits that have been dealing with her hence her failure to secure a husband.
Since the photo of the pastor removing the pantie surfaced online, social media users have launched series of attacks on the pastor with many describing his actions as demonic.
Well, below are more shocking photos of the pastor delivering in a similar manner.
Women and religious brainwashing sha smh! Once pastor don talk something for most women, den dey do am even if that thing wey pastor yarn no make brain or sense!
LieDetector: Maybe you didn't do much to convince her. I created a similar thread coupla weeks ago and I got some good advice from well doing nairalanders relationship wise. Now this is what you do albeit it's going to be hard for you since you believe you "love" her : stop calling her and never pick her calls. Don't respond to her chats and don't chat her up. If possible, get close to any of her friends(female) and just have fun with her. You'd get to see this same girl that declined you looking for ways to crawl back to you.
Social proof at work! You learned well! Kudos bro!
As the Top five continue thier media tour today, Nollywood Actress and Producer, Lillian Afegbai has confessed to have taken full permission from Alex before sitting on tobi's laps for a selfie. Fans how ever, did not agree that alex gave full permission following her look on the selfie photo, see reactions below
Women and fame sha. Social proof here at work, notice Alex is still there despite the actress sitting on her man's lap. Social proof is how women are wired, for the guys. Just saying.
martineverest: typical example of how our youth will behave when given the chance to rule..... everybody is fighting to be in leadership position so as to grace his/her pockets
Funnily, this Afufu guy will run for office tomorrow and you wonder why Nigerian politicians are nothing to write home about. This is how the brigandages and thuggery behavior starts - at SUG level smh.
scaramucci: By now, they have bombarded you with private messages. I won't bother do the same. But one thing I must you is, you are stunningly beautiful.
No be only you see better thing bro, I sharperly send am pm, d girl set no be small
mikron: baba I am not watching this match o. Too tired to go out to watch.
You missed bro. 50 naira well spent for me. If Man United plays this kind of football at any time, I will watch them which I don't for now as their football is boring to say the least.
Sanchez01: The lust for attack is admirable but this Liverpool team would need to do a whole lot better to beat/contain Real Madrid. Their midfield, for a start would need to be charged, else, Modric and Kroos and possibly Casemiro would roam freely and keep the back line on their toes. A free midfield for Madrid means a free scoring Ronaldo.
And a free scoring attack means a Real Madrid defense conceding goals which they always do. Goes both ways.
Salah too good! Liverpool is playing what they call excellent football! I envy them and I am a Man United fan. That second goal and even the first goal shows Salah is a highly cerebral player! That second goal was Messiesque and that is what Mane should have done when he was one on one with the keeper SMH. Kudos to Liverpool and Mohammed Salah!
Farmerforlife: Patience and Contentment: As a sage once said, patience is not just the act of accepting whatever fate throws at you, it is the attitude you maintain while doing so. There is nothing comparable to a woman who is truly content no matter her circumstance, and truly patient in hard times. Such women are those referred to when it is said; "behind every successful man, there is a woman". Women who constantly gripe about how they have never been to Dubai mall since they married you, and how they only ate chicken lap in their father's house never give their husband the mental harmony he needs to develop his life. The griping may not even be overt; for example, she may just show it in her expression; like the repressed disgust on her face when her husband gives her money that is 'never sufficient' even while she is thanking him, or the envious gleam in her eye when she sees another woman in a Range Rover sport, and of course, the man will notice this, even though he may keep silent, and start plotting his escape strategy. Note that this is not a trait that can ever be hidden, nor can it be learned later; she either has it from birth, or she doesn't.
Good manners: Women who suddenly lose their self respect and become sharp tongued at the drop of a hat grow stale very quickly. They sorely tempt their husbands to make them lose their own self respect and become wife-beaters. In order not to become a wife beater, a man would always prefer to marry a woman with exemplary manners.
Logical reasoning: men are creatures of logic and reason. If they make decisions on behalf of the family, they want you to either oppose it logically the way they thought it through before telling you, or to keep silent and accept it. Conversely, women usually are emotional creatures; 'I just don't like it' is enough justification in most women's opinion. A man would be wise to keep a woman who helps him fulfill the status of two reasoning heads being better than one.
Bros, how many of our women dey use logical reasoning for issues? Na emotions na our women dey use do things bros. We gas manage them like that.
loverboys: What do men want in a long-term partner? I am sure you have some idea but I am about to clarify what men seek in a potential wife...
1. Dependability
Men want a woman who is faithful, reliable and trustworthy. They are looking for a loyal mate who will have their back and not stray elsewhere. Men need a good reason to commit to women, especially given the life-cycle of most marriages these days so it's no wonder that being a dependable partner is highly revered by men.
2. Emotionally stable
Men who a ready to settle down want a partner who has a high level of emotional intelligence. Physical attraction is only part of it and not as important to men as you may think. Men will only make a safe investment in a woman who is grounded and who will not make their life more difficult or potentially threaten their freedom.
3. Intelligence
This next factor is really important and highly undervalued. Guys want to be able to connect on an intellectual level to a woman. They adore women who have something between their ears and a high level of education to back it up.
4. Happy Demeanour
Guys love women who are happy within themselves. To men these women are a joy to be around. Playful women are irresistible women. There is something mesmerizing about a woman's playful nature - so be happy!
5. Sociable
Men want to cohabit with a woman who makes friends easily and can converse with their friends and family. Men think about this because they want to be able to socialise with a woman in the future. Going out and engaging with others is highly valued by men and you need to be comfortable at fitting in and interacting with new people.
6. Being Healthy
Men subconsciously assess how healthy you are when they meet you, this is a mark of your ability to be fertile in the future. Your skin, vibrancy, body disposition and energy levels are all factors men assess you on without even realizing it. However, what they will also take into consideration when dating you is how active you are and how much effort you put into staying healthy and looking good. A man will want to know if you are going to look after your body as he wants to be attracted to you now and in the future. So make sure you look after your self-image.
Issakendrick: A writer and advocate for gender equality "Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie" confronted former US First Lady and US presidential aspirant "Hillary Clinton" on her Twitter bio in which she identifies herself first as a "wife".
While interviewing Hillary Clinton at a PEN World Voices Festival lecture at the Cooper Union in Manhattan on Sunday night, Chimamanda asked the former Democratic presidential candidate why, with all her career accomplishments, she chose to be primarily identified in her Twitter bio as a "Wife."
Chimamanda said:
In your Twitter account, the first word that describes you is ‘Wife.’ And then I think it’s ‘Mom,’ and then it’s ‘Grandmother'. And when I saw that, I have to confess that I felt just a little bit upset. And then I went and I looked at your husband’s Twitter account, and the first word was not ‘husband.’
Bill Clinton’s Twitter bio leads with, "Founder, Clinton Foundation and 42nd President of the United States." There was no mention of his marital status, neither did he add that he's a father.
Adichie said she wanted to know if it was Clinton’s choice to first identify in relation to her husband, and if so, why.
And Hillary Clinton replied:
When you put it like that, I’m going to change it.
Clinton's response prompted roars from the crowd. But she had a good explanation for why she started by describing herself as a "Wife" in her Twitter bio. She said that women should be able to celebrate both their accomplishments and their relationships. She told a story about hearing the former US First Lady, late Barbara Bush speak at Wellesley in the early 1990s.
Quoting Barbara Bush, Hillary Clinton said:
She said, you know, at the end of the day, it won’t matter if you got a raise, it won’t matter if you wrote a great book, if you are not also someone who values relationships.
And though Barbara Bush got a standing ovation after that speech, Hillary Clinton told Chimamanda Adichie and the PEN crowd she’s not sure Bush was right.
Clinton said:
It shouldn’t be either/or. It should be that if you are someone who is defining yourself by what you do and what you accomplish, and that is satisfying, then more power to you. That is how you should be thinking about your life, and living it. If you are someone who primarily defines your life in relationship to others, then more power to you, and live that life the way Barbara Bush lived that life, and how proud she was to do it.
But I think most of us as women in today’s world end up in the middle. Wanting to have relationships, wanting to invest in them, nurture them, but also pursuing our own interests.
Why 9ja ladies dey always carry feminism for head like gala? All this their shakara for here, they den mellow down for abroad as 9ja guys get options who kon nice and fine to boot. Indian girls dey, Philipino girls dey, Chinko girls dey, Southern Africa girls dey, Canadian girls dey. Just dey yarn Wetin I dey see about 9ja ladies o but no be all be like that sha.
HigherEd: If I apply for a PVC now, will I get it before next year's election? Been at that place twice now at fagba, Lagos and they keep telling me they are done registering at 8am!
INEC state office for Ikeja no dey to register? Bros, we had get PVC o
Family › Re: "Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage" - Nigerian Parents by yemi15(m): 11:21am On May 06, 2018
. You Pastors should fix up your lives ni asha M.I. 
. Big fan bro, big fan