I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.
A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.
My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).
My challenge: Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.
I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.
I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.
My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.
If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.
Please, how do I manage this?
You stay in the city but you are building in the village 🤣
Do you plan relocating back to village after so years?
I think sorting yourself where you stay and earn comes first b4 building anything in the village... Last last na family members go occupy there
A Nigerian gay rights activist, Micheal Ighodaro, on Monday night October 9 in New York city tied the knot with his Armenian-American partner, Jirair Ratevosian.
Guests at their wedding included Nigerian gay rights activists, Edafe Okporo, Jide Macaulay amongst others.
Jirair is a Democratic candidate in the 2024 California's 30th congressional district election.
Godoverevery: Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now. She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money. She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.
In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.
I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.
She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance. From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.
She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.
Do you have a mom? Have you tried given her 50k to see her reaction/smile?
@31 if iphone is her priority, you will have plenty issue in future the day you can't afford Brazilian hair and Aso ebi
Meanwhile I sell better Smoked catfish and Unadulterated Honey... Videos don't lie inbox me to check them out
[quote author=Crystaly post=126155120]please guys please don't just scroll pass. please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD bless you
U be like MTN on every thread begging with different username and account
Why not join a selling group, help advertise and make profit from selling for people
Morphinne: Most of the comments here are sickening. Why should his girlfriend take over the properties he left behind? Were they legally married? So she should take over everything only to start getting serviced by another boy in the next couple of weeks, abi? Let’s leave sentiments out of things at times and judge critically, Mohbad was only 27, it’s very wrong for a baby mama (I’m assuming they were never married) to take everything he worked for just because she had a child with him-common, the poor boy had families; a father and mother.
I saw a post on Facebook where the lady said he married her I guess
xin5: Please is that how it's been done? I bought a land early 2018 and now I feel like selling out. The families who sold it to me said they are entitled for their own percentage from the money the buyer is offering. Please I need to know if that's how it's done. I only went to inform them I would be handling the piece of land to a new owner and thought kola nut and palm wine would be it, since they also sold to several people there and also have some available I thought I should let them know for future reference... instead they are asking how much I am selling and wants to know every details of it.
Meanwhile the deeds that's about to be prepared would be in my name and that of the buyer, what consigns the family?
I had to tell them that's not possible it's my own land I bought from them I am selling, he went further and said it's either they buy it back from with same amount I bought 2018 or I give them their percentage from the appreciating amount or I develop and let matter rest.
Please help
Orishirishi
God for gimme small power so that I can be helping some people in need
BItt: I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.
During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.
Blood oath for this century?
She don watch Nigeria movie taya
At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.
She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.
Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other. How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?
She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.
Aboguede: A fake doctor identified as Omenka Abawulor has been caught by the Association of Nigerian Private Medical Practitioners while trying to apply as a medical officer at the Covenant University Medical Centre, Ota, in the Sango area of Ogun State.
PUNCH Healthwise gathered that Omenka had applied for the position of a Medical Officer and reportedly presented fake credentials, which included a photocopy of the Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria registration certificate issued in 2015.
The 35-year-old suspect also presented a certificate from the Benue State University where he claimed to have obtained a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery, and graduated with a Second Class Upper Division.
It was gathered that the suspect, who works as an auxiliary nurse at some private hospitals, was caught during a job interview held at the Covenant University Medical Centre while being scrutinised by three doctors about his credentials.
Omenka’s cover was blown after he failed to justify why his MDCN registration number was the same as those who got the certificate four decades ago.
A source told our correspondent that the suspect during interrogation confessed to having obtained the fake certificates from racketeers at Oluwole in Lagos State.
The source said, “The man first went to Covenant University Health Centre last week to apply for the post of Medical Officer.
I have experienced outbreaks of this kind the third time in the space of 5months. At first, it was like 3 appearing on my penis cap, the next day after a rough sex but i don't even know when it burst open and dried up because they were smaller in size compared to the outbreak in the picture and then later, a single one pops out twice which i burst open myself and they dried up leaving a tiny scar.
I thought it was all over until this recent outbreak. It doesn't itch or cause any pain and most times, I don't even remember it till i have to urinate.
I had unprotected sex 2 days before the last outbreak and noticed i urinated a reddish color urine and i used antibiotics and did not feel it again until the outbreak showed up.
NB: I haven't met the last person i had the unprotected sex with when i first experienced the first outbreak and both times were unprotected sex.
Could this be Herpes?
If this is Herpes, what are the medications I can start using?
pocohantas: Smh. The problem some of you would put your innocent wives into ehn. Only you sleeping with all these random women? Na God dey protect married women. Ensure you keep that your red polygamous pr**k away from your pregnant wife.
Ndi men are polygamous in nature. Men can cheat without catching feelings. But they can catch HIV and herpes. Tufiakwa!
Investment › Re: Unadulterated Honey by yetty247(op): 6:24pm On Oct 23, 2023*. Modified: 4:28pm On Oct 24, 2023
