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dannyla20:
Hello everyone, happy new year 2021
This is dannyla with a new account.
I just thought I should share an update on how things turned out 1yr+ later.

This thread was a bombshell to me, I got so much responses, I could feel the concern and pity of the commenters which I appreciate so much.

I made up my mind to leave him but I didn't know how, there was this fear about what he'll do if I leave. I didn't reply DMs because I didn't want to drag anyone in. First thing I tried to do was to be financially stable, I went back to my Business and got something going, it wasn't easy but remembering all he did gave me courage, it took me about 6months to be able to stand. Those months were hell as some of it were in the lockdown but I thank God for support, there were big fights cus he beat me up and tore my cheque book and my sister went to challenge him, he beat her up and her boyfriend got guys to beat him up as well.
He threatened my family and I reported him to the police and he had to sign an undertaking that he won't try anything funny, he called to say that he doesn't have to attack me physically and there are plenty spiritual means. I told him to do his worst. I had to fast for some days just to be careful.

Leaving him was like coming out of a shell after 3yrs, I was able to meet old friends and everyone wondered where I have been. Being able to talk to people on the road without some kinda fear of being interrogated later, being able to attend meetings, travel, hangout with friends, post pictures on social media etc felt like privilege from heaven.
I met nice men as well but I don't want to rush things, I still feel scared of any kinda relationship, I know they're not anything like him but I don't want to carry any toxic mentality to a new relationship cus I've almost forgotten how to be normal.

My advise to everyone out there is:
Stay away from narcissists, obsession is not love, it's a crazy and twisted feeling that breaks people.
There are thousands of good people out there, don't stay in an abusive relationship for anything.

If you're in an abusive relationship, know this: your abuser only has as much power as you let them wield, you can leave them and nothing will happen, they're not as powerful as they claim. Nobody will judge you and there are hundreds of good people waiting to meet you. If you don't leave, it won't get better, it'll keep getting worse till it ends in death. Trust me, that person is not the will of God for you, forget about all the prophesies saying otherwise. God speaks to everyone of us who cares to listen, He doesn't need to speak to a prophet somewhere concerning your marriage unless you ask him to. If I could leave my ex and stand, you can do so too, lots of love

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Nice.

Memories by Maroon 5

Move on with your life bro and try to build your career. I want you to know that in any relationship the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least, so forget that your me I be confirm street boy thigz.

Swtbabyvee:
I swear manipulative , dated a guy who cried too but was a very wicked person . Introvertion has nothing to do with crying tho . I am kinda introverted too but I hate dating an introvert, tried it and it was very dull and very boring . In fact I don’t like mingling with introverts, in general. If u are an introvert and only hv introverted friends mehn u would be very stagnant in life .

Pure trash, ur comment reeks of hatred towards introverts and stop lieing u are not an introvert cos you seem to know nothing about them. Being stagnant has nothing to do with having friends who are introverts but u were just lazy and lack focus.

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Munzy14:
A lot of us where on this table till house help corrupt us...

I will tell mom then, to eat well so her stomach can grow big for her to poo out a baby..

Lolz

Ethiopia cos an emperor bearing my first name which is Johannes once ruled the country.

Johannes(Yohannes)

Derivatives
Yohans
Hans
Joe.

I was in primary 3 and I thought that sex wasn't needed before a woman can get pregnant.

cappucino925:
check your mail

Raysmak2fit@gmail.com

No, I can't.

Devil's work.

Criminology and security studies,
Studying criminology and security studies.

Here are phrases I didn't know of
NCDC
Social distancing
Mallam Abba Kyari and
Palliative.

Criminology and security studies, sociology, or psychology.

Hmmm I'm tired of this country.

missimelda01:
I have a friend whose phone is always on silence, we were roommate at a time and I found it really weird and annoying because she never picks my call once.. what if there was an emergency!! her stare is also scary... My friends tell me that alot.

This is just me, that's for the putting my phone always on silent.

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Are u joking.

$170

Devil's work.

Jordan, Jamaica.

akpunda86:
Guy he wrote it on the ladies palm.check well.

Read the first story again it's there.

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DanceVille:
Share yours bro.


Let's have fun

I wish I could but I can't cos I have never had a girlfriend.

Hmm, nice stories up there.

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I'm done,

destiny4luv:
Sent. Stay safe

Seen, thank you very much and may God continue enrich your pocket.Amen