[quote author=DAY11. link=topic=555256.msg7195694#msg7195694 date=1290447850]The pressure is unbearable & intolerable on which I can't just marry anybody.
Now its my grandma's turn, *SINGING* every now & then ( MY SON WHICH TIME U GO MARRY ) It's so irritating.
My Great 9ja people, Please help ya lil bro, Please help!!!help!!!help!!!help!!! before they kill me
Cheers [/quote]What help do you crave for For us to ask your Parents to leave u alone so u can continue sleeping around or to help you find an NLe-wife? Asewo boy eh!
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=555184.msg7195568#msg7195568 date=1290446646]OP, Wromg Decission was taken by u. . . . , . Bear the consequencies![/quote]You're quite becoming a black mamba and fast too
jibo2412: i ve a short story to tell but it hurting me badly:here it goes i have a virgin girlfriend for 3 years and we are about getting married and exactly two months to our introduction ceremony she got disvirgin-ed by another guy but she claimed it was a mistake and she is really sorry and she love me and all that. i really need a serious advice because i cant share it with any of friends or family, like u know marriage is a lifetime contract, does she deserve a second chance or once bitten twice shy?
jay bee: How long did you guys court before getting married? Being friends with someone is totally different from being in a relationship with 'em Have you discussed all current worries with her? Are there anything you can do to get her in the mood? You can always romance before going straight for the kill
Some people don't like kissing so that's not uncommon but i[b]t appears you guys have a broken communication[/b] so i suggest you open your heart out to her first. Explain how her actions are currently affecting you and your preference of a workable solution for you both.
I completely agree wiv Jaybee esp on the highlighted lines. Communication is the key to any relationship and this appears to be lacking(as already said) in ur case.