Blizzy300: Waw thanks but (a) How do you survive? (b) How do you have fun ? (c) Do you hangout?
(d) Like let's say you want to embark on something (like starting a company) How do you start your team?
ANSWERS (a) some years ago, I resolved to never beg/borrow. if I perish, so be it. (b) I can go alone to a fast food joint & spoil myself. download movies online & watch alone, I also go to viewing center for football etc. everything a normal guy does. (c) I might have mastered the art of enjoying alone. (d) I love DIY so it's definitely a one-man business. I will hire &fire at will. goal-oriented. no sentiment
NB: I AVOID BULLSHIT IN GENERAL & JUNKIES IN PARTICULAR
Blizzy300: When I was a kid I grew up with street children I remember always been picked at by my fellow kids, I hated being a human then(though I always liked to dominate)...
During my secondary school days I decided to give friendship a chance. I attended junior secondary I met this 3 awesome friends Micheal and chidera This awesome girl necherem (I'm still looking for her till date) this people made my junior secondary school days awesome until they turned leeches they so much drained me that even though I was enjoying the ship I had to change school.
My mum decided that I should attend boarding school so as attain some discipline and learn how mange things. My new school was only for boys, I had a street mate who was also attending the same school with me, he had this trio gang, they always moved together did everything together, in school this type of relationship saves you alot, like being detained for labor during classes, this type of friends will help you submit assignment or help you with the notes (only borders might understand) I wanted one for myself so got some we were three main then like four other attachee Our relationship was cool, I have always been the sacrificial lamb but this time everyone contributed. Fast-forward immediately after waec I wanted to retain the ship. Was kinda close to all of them but particularly closer to bisa we grew fund of each other BUT MOST OF THE TIME PEOPLE DON'T GIVE BACK THE SAME ENERGY WE GIVE IN. It happened that after school bisa wanted to sell a phone he has been using and I also needed a phone too then I decided to buy from bisa, went down to his street for the transaction. As was on my way home street boys ambushed me they took my phone, money and my ATM card, they forced me on gun point to drop my pin they wiped my account thank I had little savings I was devastated after the incident I quickly ran to a hangout stop near and reported the issue meanwhile during the attack one of the guys named junior said he liked me so much and wouldn't want them to hurt me, he was the reason why those didn't hurt me cause I was a bit resistive. I went home call bisa he told me he will pay back in full there have collected, I thought I was with this bastard till I went back to hangout spot and the attendant told me that he saw bisa with a babe that evening and he was with the same phone they took from me, I turned cold my heart broken I didn't know what to do could it be? Yes bisa was the one who arrange the whole event I got to find out through junior who the hangout guy was close with, I confronted bisa he admitted, that he needed money to pay debts blah blah blah.... Again he promised to pay back I told him to keep his stupid money and stupid self to himself never in his lifetime should he contact me again.(karma is not always a bitch, bisa is doing well in Dubai now) Since that incident I broke the connection with rest, have never had any thing real again with anyone, i have developed a trust issue I'm currently in 300l I have never invited my so called friends, course mates and louge mates to my room I'm always comfortable to disclose my plans/secrets with a stranger than a friend.
Now where the problem lies... Due to ASUU I'm back to base I'm back in the street and currently working So I have been able to meet a couple of people (that might think they are my friends).
I just got a call from my religious aunt that a message gotten on my behalf was that a group of my friends are planning to destroy my life, I have never heard my aunt sound so serious, she said I should cut all ties with anyone I'm trying to meet both girls and boys...
Now my question is how are my going to enjoy my youth age without friends?
How do I get to trust people again?
Lastly How do social people cope with so much people around without getting hurt
not everyone is meant to have friends. get used to being a loner & work on your survival skills. I'm a loner and I have no regrets
sharon12345: Pls advise. I have successfully saved 500k.
He promised we will change appartintment from the free one we're presently in, but as soon as I agreed and got pregnant, he relaxed and refused to make any effort toward that.
I want a better accommodation before I put to birth. Our present place is terrible, it needs renovation. Almost everywhere is leaking during rain.
I'm thinking of getting a one bedroom apartment of 350k from my money. I know more expenses await me and all that, but I really need to stand up for myself and my forth coming baby.
What do you suggest I do? Pls advise
you said that your present accommodation is free. I suggest you get a good carpenter & tell him to fix the leaking roof. he will change a few sheets and patch up the rest. it might not exceed 200k, which means that you will still have some change from the 500k. maximize your free accommodation jare. renting a new apartment is going to stress you much and your present condition doesn't need that. all the best.
Cousin9999: That's common knowledge. That's not the point I'm making.
It's that other "races" are indigenous imposters and not legitimate as races.
true. the Europeans have done crossbreeding with the natives and also carried out ethnic cleansing/genocide. sometimes I feel that the native Americans have a more sorrowful history than that of black Africans. case in point, the native Peruvians
Cousin9999: Next, the researchers used software to test different scenarios that might have led to the current DNA dispersal. The best fit scenario involves some of the very earliest—possibly even the earliest—South American migrants carrying the Y signal with them, the researchers report today in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. Those migrants likely followed a coastal route, Hünemeier says, then split off into the central plateau and Amazon sometime between 15,000 and 8000 years ago. "[The data] match exactly what you'd predict if that were the case," Raff agrees.
David Meltzer, an archaeologist at Southern Methodist University who co-authored the 2015 study identifying the Y signal, says that explanation makes sense. Still, he adds, finding Australasian ancestry in ancient coastal remains would boost his confidence in the authors' conclusions.
Pontus Skoglund, a population geneticist at the Francis Crick Institute who was a co-author on one of the 2015 studies with Hünemeier, says he's glad to see South American scientists building on the previous work. "I'm excited that local research groups in Brazil are picking this up. They're doing exactly what needed to be done."
One unanswered question is why the Y signal hasn't turned up in any North or Central American Indigenous groups. One possibility, Hünemeier suggests, is that the Y signal–bearing migrants simply stuck to the coast and made it to South America without leaving any genetic legacy up north. It's also possible that groups with Y ancestry did live in North and Central America, but died out in the deadly aftermath of European colonization. "The population Y signal is a puzzle," Meltzer says, "but this is an interesting piece to add to it."
thousands of years ago, all the continents were joined together to form only one continent. in the book of Genesis, it is recorded that the earth divided. that's how seven came to be. we are all from the same family. search for"Peleg" in the Holy Bible.
omron: Please house I seriously needs advice here ooo I saw a very clean nice car that I love so much it worth 6m naira and I see it will help me market my work and make money from it but I don't have any other means to get the money than to sell my house ...The house worth 12m naira and If I buy the car with 6m I will have 6m left to invest in a very good legit forex trading g company and be making like 700k monthly...pls I need advise as some friends begged me not to sell the house..please advise me
village is calling you earnestly. go to the nearest mountain of fire church for deliverance. if you sell that house, don't be surprised to wake up One morning to see yourself squatting and broke. my 2cents though.
Dukio: Kindly help, how can one stop a cult group from trying to get them?
I had this friend, we stayed together.....but he is a cultist, now the nigga wants to put me into it but I don't want no part.
I have leave our house for him, but nigga still ringing me and trying to map me out...
Jeezs, I am kinda scared, don't wanna leave my current location due to my hustle and school
if you have some cash, take some soldiers to pay him a visit early morning. they will give him some slaps & put the fear of God in him. but you are foolish to have such a friend. the moment you see that someone doesn't value his life, cut him off
Dukio: Kindly help, how can one stop a cult group from trying to get them?
I had this friend, we stayed together.....but he is a cultist, now the nigga wants to put me into it but I don't want no part.
I have leave our house for him, but nigga still ringing me and trying to map me out...
Jeezs, I am kinda scared, don't wanna leave my current location due to my hustle and school
if you have some cash, take some soldiers to pay him a visit early morning. they will give him some slaps & put the fear of God in him. but you are foolish to have such a friend. the moment you see that someone doesn't value his life, cut him off
Negroid001: It's almost the hour of glory. Been tryna to round up another animation. Rendering on cinema 4d and after effects simultaneously has rendered my alienware useless. Attached is a screenshot of the shot I'm rendering in c4d. Lemme goan drag those bitter redpill mofos again.
I'll brb lol.
What are the basic things a novice needs to become a 3d animator?
I have this strange feeling that she knows the people who killed her daughter & she didn't vigorously fight for justice. now history has repeated itself. tragic
Tokskob2008: I don't want to form too much "Mr morality" next year atal cos it has only gotten me NOTHING so far.. 2yrs ago I and a friend of mine were into so many menial jobs just to keep body and soul together till he decided last year that he was joining the "laptop guys" and I had to stylishly run away from him.
Fast forward to some months ago i saw him around, the transformation was just too much, see freshness and increased body size someone that use to be very frail looking before, even the TV in is apartment is much more taller than me sef. I was so ashamed of myself honestly meanwhile I'm still here looking for jobs that aren't anywhere..
don't be envious of the wicked (a scammer is wicked ). they can lose everything in a single day. remember hush puppy and invictus obi were being worshipped 3 years ago. Keep your hands clean and God will smile on you soonest.
So I honoured an invitation to a church (name witheld) & as a stranger, my eyes kept wandering during the program (I'm sensitive). I saw a few things which I've never seen in a church before. A woman was wearing a ring on her big toe. Who has seen such before? what does it mean?
[quote author=ipain post=107125936][/quote]don't try any rituals. what if the man is behind your problems? look for the regional headquarters of mountain of fire church in your area. or if you can afford it, go to prayer city in Lagos. participate in their deliverance sessions and see what will happen. if I were in your shoes, I will ensure my sister blocks that man on all platforms. if she refuses, I will cut her loose because she's now a hazard.
akelicious: Why am I supporting Rotimi Amaechi for president of Nigeria 2023? That’s a good question, and perhaps there’s no good way to answer it. Or perhaps there is a good way to answer it. Either way, it’s a good question.
2007 Amaechi had hinged his socio-economic strategy on security of life and property; fiscal discipline, investment in education, healthcare, power generation, road construction, agriculture, and human capacity development.
By the time he was sworn into office, Rivers State was on the brink of anarchy, due to the activities of marauding militia groups disguised as Niger Delta militants. Mindful that it would be challenging to undertake developmental projects under the prevailing climate of fear, which had forced several multinationals and individuals to leave Rivers, he vowed to restore law and order.
Backed by the late President Umaru Yar’ Adua, he ordered a major military offensive in December 2007 in Okrika that dislodged members of the Niger Delta Vigilante led by Ateke Tom and other raids across the state.
Amaechi supported the security agencies in the areas of logistics and equipment as well as training of the police anti terror squad in Israel to enhance their capacity to provide security for residents.
Due to his zero tolerance policy against brigandry and banditry, before the late President Yar’Adua granted amnesty to the militias whose activities claimed several lives and destabilised the state, in 2009, Amaechi had restored law and order in Port Harcourt and other parts of the state. However, the security situation has deteriorated in the last two years due to the compromise of the security architecture as a result of faceoff between the presidency and Amaechi.
But as he leaves office, many Rivers residents, particularly the poor, would remain grateful to the Amaechi’s administration for the social changes it promoted and implemented over the past eight years, particularly in the education and healthcare sectors.
Prior to 2007, the state’s educational system had broken down, due to years of neglect that left basic infrastructure in the 1,300 primary schools with six classroom each, in ruins. School buildings with dilapidated roofs and where children in overcrowded classrooms sat on bare floor to learn, was a common sight.
The desire to reverse the situation spurred Amaechi to declare a state of emergency in the sector. First, he decided to fix the infrastructural deficit by constructing 500 out of the 700 planned new modern 14 classroom primary schools, retraining and recruitment of 13,000 teachers. , over 250 of these schools were equipped and the pupils were provided with free uniforms, free school sandals, free school bags and free textbooks. Several hundred Rivers indigenes and non-indigenes benefited from the state undergraduate and post graduate overseas scholarship schemes.
Regarding healthcare delivery, his administration built over 110 health centres located in nearly all the wards in the state. He also built referral facilities in Port Harcourt – Prof. Kelsey Harrison Hospital and Dental-Maxillo Facial Hospital,
To tackle the excruciating traffic congestion in Port Harcourt and its environs, Amaechi, within the first six years of his reign, expanded into dual carriage ways the following: Rumuola to Rumuokuta Road, Wimpey Road, Ada George Road, Old Aba Road, Ikwerre Road (beginning from Education to Agip bus stops), Woji/Elelenwo/Akpajo Road, Azikiwe Road, Olu Obasanjo Road, Rumuokuta/NTA/Choba Road, Oginigba Road, Stadium Road, Okporo Road, G.U. Ake Road, Nkpogu Road, Port Harcourt/Owerri Road. In addition, the Rumukwurushi-Igwuruta as well as the Garrison-Trans Amadi-Elelenwo to East West Road,. He is reputed to have constructed or upgraded more roads in the history of the state, more than all his predecessors.
To ensure food security and employment generation, the government collaborated with the founder of the Songhai Initiative to develop an integrated farm, which combines livestock, arable farming, fisheries, snail farming and poultry on 314 hectares of arable land in Bunu-Tai. The then governor also developed modern fish farms in four councils of the state. The farm in Buguma has a capacity for 1000 tonnes per year, but is unfortunate that the present Government of Rivers state came and stopped everything concerning Songhai etc( we don't know why)
Other strides in agriculture include, the acquisition of 2,000 hectares of land in Ogoni for the cultivation, production and export of banana for commercial purposes in partnership with a Mexican firm, San Carlos Nigeria Limited. It was expected that about 6 million boxes of banana will be produced from this farm yearly, so sad the present Government also put an end to it.
“Amaechi has set a standard that will be difficult to match. Amaechi showed he was 100 years ahead of every state in Nigeria.
I choose Rotimi Amaechi for president come 2023
Mrs Opem Udose.
the cap fits him but he won't be allowed to wear it
B11la2b: Well done .. but I can never leave my house because of fear of being accused of rape .. I have learnt my lesson .. I don’t even allow small male child Into my apartment ..
did the man rape the girl in your room after you went out?
Slimsaj: I have this friend he spent most of his life schooling abroad, got back to Nigeria about a year ago. He then met this 33 year old Yoruba lady who wears a wedding ring but isnt married (she was almost married to the stage of printing and sharing iv before d tin cut). She got pregnant, (supposedly) by him, she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl who was miraculously AA cause both her parents are AS. His parents and other fractions even common sense imposed a no marriage order based on the genotype thing and besides ma nigga is not even thinking of marriage. Except that her Mum advised that if she gives birth to another child (taking the risk that the child could be SS) the guys parents might not have a choice than to just synchronize and they can have some more ground in negotiating a marriage deal. Now to the question This babes Mum now invited this guy to her mother's burial who died while she was at her Granddaughters omugor. Stating her reason that she has bp fluctuations. She doesnt want her daughter to bring another child without a father, that she doesnt want to go through such ordeal again.( I.e just to show him off). SHOULD HE GO OR NOT?? AND WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN IF HE DOES EITHER?? like maybe he could be jazzed or something The burial is in a week...
tell the guy (I'm suspecting you ) that "if his life is important to him", let him cook up an excuse & miss the burial. no time to explain anything.
Gwapiick: My mom got an egg size fibroid in her and has been in pains for months now. She’s tried some ways like herbs and stuffs but she’s still in pain.
Pls if you know or can suggest the best way to cure this I will highly appreciate. Thanks
I'm not a doctor, but to preserve her life, maybe the womb should be removed. unless she still wants to have more kids. this stuff is a real killer
the guy is as foolish as Obadiah. instead of him to mention names, he is indirectly chasing clout. since he knows the truth & covers it, he is also guilty of bloodshed
even at his age, this guy wasn't wise. anything worth doing is worth doing well. if you were ready to die, then you should have mentioned the names of the terrorist sponsors. this death is a foolish one. died without achieving anything
samuel051: Around 2014,I dey teach my guy G for our mini hk,d guy just catch one oyibo for netlog then begin smile as he carry her enter Gmail,guy begin profess love for d old ugly pale looking wrinkled face oyibo.. next thing we see say oyibo type na follow by black monkey,Nigerian scammer continue typing black African monkey. Immediately my guy say he dey go buy me lacasera,guy go back of house go sit-down 4 like 10mins while I dey try convince oyibo say we no be scam,guy mind be say efccc don dey door already as oyibo type black monkey, scammer etc guy heart almost pop out of him chest..I won laff die dat day.
na all these things I dey try avoid. imagine seeing a uniform personnel & getting scared. freedom first
yinkaadesegha: God is about to send a destiny helper to you. Pray seriously that your destiny helper should manifest speedily. You may not be destined to become a politician but an helper of destiny is at the corner. Pray for its manifestation. Bless u