blackpanthar:
Bro its simple.... have a DATE where you tell each other your FLAWS.... she may think its just GIST but you got a secret plan to MAKE HER A BETTER PERSON...

for example... if she says she is MATERIALISTIC or she does not KNOW HOW TO SAVE MONEY or she can't COOK or she SLEEPS ALOT...

Then you tell her yours BUT after the date... go and research BOOKS or VIDEOS that can help her overcome her weaknesses.... and package it for her on her birthday or on any public holiday and GIFT her the SOLUTION to her issues....

NOW THE FEAR OF "what if I help her and she goes after another man" MAY arise... RELAX... lets look at it LOGICALLY... Everyone wants a BETTER LIFE and WANTS TO IMPROVE... if she gets improved by you and for some childish reason like money or sex she goes after another GUY... you just move on... because sooner or later she will WANT TO COME BACK BADLY... I hope you know that if you improved her cooking... everytime she cooks for the new guy or his friends/family and they compliment you... SHE WILL REMEMBER U... hehehehehe.... that is the secret o....

The people will always make her remember you because they will compliment your investment in her... and she will soon feel USELESS because they are NOT improving her but enjoying her for your improvement... At such moment she will realize she has messed up and in SHAME may not want to see you again or in Humility COME BACK TO BEG U.

SEX will never be continously MIND BLOWING over the years or even months....
JOKES will not always be FUNNY
FOOD will not always be appealing... because HUNGER DOES NOT LAST.

BUT character/content/personal development will always LAST.... if you can do this for any Lady, leaving you will be their LOSS and they will know it.

Thank you sir, this is wonderul.

blackpanthar:
You INVESTED wrong things.... Instead of investing MINDSET you invested HANDSET, bro you are dating a CHILD.......

i was once in your shoes and I had to leave her till all the euphoria of the car and Iphone I bought for the girl faded (it took 2-3years) then she came back begging with a BODY COUNT OF 9 GUYS... I listened to her super story and laughed and drove off and I didnt say a word because SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER FOR A FOOOOOL.

Bro listen TRUE investment is in the MIND/SPIRIT and that should come first before BODY or BAG or kits.... because those other things are perishable but content is forever.

TAKE it as a TEST and know that she is MATERIALISTIC and will only LOVE YOU FOR WHAT YOU GIVE HER.... her heart is into THINGS and NOT YOU. A real true LOYAL BABE will switch off just to speak with you and will hardly take calls that will cut her off from you at the time you are supposed to call her.

Pls give me some guidelines on how to invest in a girl's mindset

God bless you sir, i had the following dreams recently:
(1) i and someone who i cant remember were digging up the soil and we dug up a plastic funnel. it was still fresh and unbroken, despite the fact that it was buried in the ground. i picked it and cleaned it and told the man with me that the funnel will be useful.

(2) i and my girlfriend ran away from someone who was sent to kill us. we ran into an army barrack and boarded a motor bike that will take us home. (in that dream, the two of us were dressed in school uniforms, as if we are in secondary school). as the bike was moving i urged the bike man to increase the speed but he refused. i told him that we were escaping from someone but it didnt move him. we then got to a checkpoint, where people came down on foot to be scanned incase they were carrying weapons. when i saw that we will be scanned for weapons, my worries reduced a bit. after the man at the gate scanned me and my girlfriend, he asked us to give him something. so i gave him #100 for the both of us ( i gave him #200 note and he gave me two #50 notes). when he saw that she was with me, he smiled and we passed that place. we later tried to meet up with our bike man, but we couldnt find him after searching. though we were close to our destination now.

(3) i and my girlfriend went to a place that i think is a bank to open an account. ( the office looks exactly like my former department back in the university, even the staff there). when they asked me how much i have in my bank account, i told them to hold on because in that dream, i had no money, but was expecting money soon. i asked my girlfriend to come let us be going, but she was taking long to come out of the office she entered.

i wish to know the meaning Sir, thanks.

Raphael81:


Pray like this " My Father my helper, in good and bad times my trust remains firm in you, all my hope is in you, I have no other God but you , always answer me when I call upon your name. Today I release angels to locate my destiny helpers from the four corners of the earth, let Divine assistance remain with me. Amen".... Pray with Isaiah 30:21, Zechariah 4:6, and Psalms 37:4.... God bless you bro

Thank you sir, I remain grateful.

Raphael81:



a). You must be prepared for what you plan to embark on, don't rush, watch and pray for God to lead you so you don't end up making mistakes.

b. You must be strong in spirit to assist those chained by the devil, pray also environmental powers. Pray sir

c. Pray against setback, retrogression and regrets in life.

d. Your inner man longs for purification I guess u will understand better.

e. Pray for your helper and divine direction. God bless u bro... I gave u a shadowy interpretation because I want you to sit down and you will understand every message I have sent you. God bless u bro

I am grateful sir. Could you please guide me on how to pray for divine direction and also my helper? May God continue to empower you.

God bless you sir, recently I had a series of dreams:

(a) I and my girlfriend got married & I was still living in my family house (that is where I stay now). I wasn't happy immediately after the ceremony. (In real life, we want to get married and our friends are aware). After the ceremony, my mother asked me to tidy the sitting room where the ceremony just took place.

(b) I set 2 men free from bondage. They were chained in their feet and laid on the floor like firewood. The person who chained them saw me after I broke off their chains & tried to attack me, but I helped the 2 men to go over the fence, broke their chains completely and asked them to run with me. They were weak and so the man came and caught them again. He was looking at me & telling me that I will die, but I said "back to sender" . I also told him to prepare his will, because he will die very soon. The compound he was coming out from looks like my compound, so I wanted to tell him that I am his landlord but I didn't.

(c) I saw myself in the former compound where I stayed about 12 years ago. In that place, I saw the name of a different road/street written on the wall of the house. I kept seeing it and did not understand.

(d) After washing a pot, I later saw that my clothes and hands were very black. I touched my hair and it brought forth black soot. I then met a friend on the road and while we spoke I started washing my hands and head with soap and showing him how dirty I was. He sounded surprised.

(e) I wanted to go somewhere and someone offered me a free ride in his car (or his friend's car). Not very clear.