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airminem:
Minimum per order 120 pieces

Let me have your contact.

asatemple:
it’s difficult for a private school owner to pay staff from their purses bearing in mind that parents will not pay school fees

Why won't parents pay school fees? Most schools shut down during exam.

If that school has a good policy. 95% are supposed to have paid as closure was during ending.

Now the remaining 5% if any has no choice but to pay.

You don't run your business with sentiments otherwise loss go full your head.


Your salary is not supposed to be tied to parents paying.

QuitNotice:
Can someone help me please? I wan die of hunger oo. Anything you can afford is fine. Op I'm sure you can help

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Gtb

Which state to transport this?

johnkey:
please add me to that group abeg

I trust sha.

CsRockefeller:
30 isnt late na.

Your friend said he was waiting to make money abi? Guess what? My friend just lost his job yesterday. I wish people would understand that word "money"

If I was a yoruba guy, I would have gotten married right now at 28 because only a Yoruba woman is ready to start small with you and watch it grow.

With d little u have and with what they have, they dont mind starting d journey even Beroms from Plateau are like that.

But u see Igbo gals, tufiakwa!!....... Its d love of money from them and their families that is their undoing.

Its just that I want to keep my bloodline in d Igbo way, if not......

You don reason owambe finish?

ademasta:
No, 34 isn't bad.

Naija no easy... Many people never marry at 39

Even 45. Unless the person is doing serious business.

whitelotus:
A friend of mine, a man, just got engaged. He is 34.

On our "group of friends" WhatsApp group, someone mentioned that the guy is marrying too late. It started a whole debate. The guy getting married at 34 defended himself that he waited until he had money, as starting a family is no joke, financially.

Some people were arguing that one should just get married at 25 and everything will fall into place.

I got married at 30 and people on the group were also blasting me that I got married a bit late. I am a man also

What do you guys think?

Please, mature responses

That group is senseless if this is what is bothering them. Instead of being happy with their friend, they are guilt tripping him. Who does that?

I will kukuma leave the group joor.

funkmrflexx:
I’ve been dating This Girl For Close To six months . At first it was incessant calls from guys and different chats . I confronted her. But she accused of being insecure. That I didn’t trust her. This happens from time to time . So I told myself that I want talk to her about the issue or even check her phone for any reason

So if I was using her phone and a message From a guy popped up goodnight With baby and the likes of it . I didn’t open it. I even allowed her talked to guys on phone in my presence. I didn’t say a word . Until I caught her

I saw a text from a guy about the both of them meeting at his place for hookup(if a girl is not cheating why would you go to another guy’s place)

I didn’t even say anything. So I took two of her best friends phone number and started talking to them on WhatsApp. We we call from time to time and eventually I lashed the two girls on separate occasions . Then I told her about it and she started crying. I didn’t break up with her . I just told her the next time I catch her cheating that I would lash her elder sister. I just continued
with her but my mind is no longer in the relationship because apparently she got other options besides me.

A friend said I was wrong to do something like that . Was I wrong?

You were wrong, morally speaking.

You fell down to her levels. You have no justification again to reprimand her and a relationship built on threats, cheating, lies, revenge is that one a relationship?

baldman:
Dear OP, Please keep moving on, and I advice you move on really fast. You should thank God that you got to know about her promiscuity early enough. You should never look past any act of cheating in a committed relationship ( meaning a relationship where both of you have professed love for one another, and are both looking for something that will be long term) . It is a huge red flag, and any kind of feeling that will make one want to continue with someone who has cheated is not a healthy one. I dare say it comes from the confusion caused by the unhealthy bonding which sex before marriage brings about ( Sorry, I digressed). The reason why cheating should not be condoned is that a successful marriage is built on trust. It is hard to trust someone who has once betrayed one's trust. You do not want to spend your whole life monitoring your wife. Moreover, cheaters are bound to lie, and there is nothing worse than marrying an irredeemable liar ( she cried even though she knew it was a lie). Again, you don't want to spend the rest of your life doing fact check every time you wife tells you something. It is even more terrible if you marry into a family where they have low moral standard. The girl's mother's reaction shows that cheating is acceptable in their world. Would she beg her son to marry such a girl? She is also highly manipulative ( the girl probably got that from her mum) the begging and cursing are way of trying to manipulate you. Her prayers and curses has no weight, just delete her number and her daughters and move on. There are seven lessons that I think you should learn from this, and I will outline them for other single guys to note as well.

1. Do not marry any girl who does not regard you as a bestie or maintains an opposite sex as a bestie even after meeting you. If you find that you are not able to overthrow her previous besties( not by force but by charm, conscious show of affection and commitment), work towards establishing friendship first. Under normal circumstances, the besties should gradually fade away as your friendship deepens. You know you have won when you are the one that has to remind her to check up on her friends or they have to befriend you to maintain her attention.
2. Do not marry a lady that is manipulative. She cried to manipulate him, she introduced the boyfriend in order to manipulate both of them. She got the Mum involved to manipulate him.
3. Do not marry someone that can lie convincingly over any matter whether having to do with infidelity or not. Liars should be avoided unless you want to be a life-long investigative journalist. Lying should be a deal breaker. If you discover one lie, you bet there are a thousand others still hidden.
4. Watch the family you want to marry into, speak to those who are married to their children, ask questions around their neighborhood or community. If they do not have values that aligns with yours, do not marry their daughter. Every girl you marry comes with a baggage - her family. Choose your wife having regard to the quality of her baggage. They will determine if you marriage will work or not. If a man report such a thing to some mothers, the mother will be too ashamed to call the boyfriend.
5. If you got her to sleep with you cheaply, if she does not think sex is something special that should be reserved, be careful about going on with her. If all of her exes got her just because they were dating, and you got her too because you guys are dating (no indication of something serious) be careful. I feel when young well raised men experience sex before marriage, they tend to bond with the partner to soon, and the judgment gets clouded. I will say, follow the word of God, but if you can't I will say, keep sex off the table until you are sure you know this person well enough to make a clear headed decision, and you are committed to them.
6. Always look out for loyalty and compassion in any girl you want to be with. The urge to misbehave will be there for every couple, both male and female, but people who have sense of loyalty will be hard to be swayed, and those who will just remember there partner and think, he does not deserve to be treated like this, may likely try to resist tempting situation.
7. Never marry a girl that does not respect the sanctity of marriage. Any girl that is quick to suggest divorce, any girl that thinks it is ok to date several men at a time, any girl that will selfishly date a married man should be a No-No.

I suggest you turn this advice into a book. 7 things to consider before marriage.

Quote scriptures and give examples to add content to it.

Nice .

Mywd:
OP so u are officially one of these so called hoes..

Girls are really being drilled in this Nigeria...

To that person saying she should save her body for her future husband,, do u know weda she is a vir*gin??

Even if she's not, she should save what's left.

Do you mean she should continue just because she's not a V?

psucc:
Except you have never committed sin, I will advice you go on with the divorce. But if you have, even for once, try and forgive her. She must have played that game to quit single.

Again, if you can accomidate her, yöu can as well build her into her own dream. Millions are married to illitrates and still build great homes.

Remember, you swore to an oath to love her till the end.

To be honest, legally the oath doesn't bind as it was sworn under false pretense and lies.

The problem is not only illiteracy but stubbornness, disloyalty and arrogance which were mentioned.

Lordsonn:
Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.

From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.

These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:

1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics
2) She has Diploma in Computer Science
3) She is a professional cake baker
4) She was three months pregnant
5) That she was 27 years

My discoveries after marriage:

1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result
2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all.
3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend.
4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big
5) She was 33 years.

NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.

I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.

The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.

The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.

She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.

Major problems that made me sent her out:

1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused.
2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read.
3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner
4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively.
5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like.
6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.

I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people.

What do you think I should do?

Oga, you have already done what you wanted to do. I don't think you need advice again. We can't force you to love her.

Besides you had to upload pictures to garnish your story making me feel its a twitter story.

dake40:
At Least, the Dad kept his distance

How did the father transport him? Wasn't it same car?

airminem:
Minimum per order 120 pieces

What's the unit price?

airminem:


Please get your facemask before May 4

Place order for you camouflage style Facemask

How much?

Do you have up to 50 pcs?

Makavelli25:
ND
Am already processing admission into a uni but corona put everything on hold

They see you don't have the right qualification. That's why they are exploiting you.

You need to see a Guidance Counselor on your career choice.

Makavelli25:
8500 but they pay me 8k
The 500 is contribution. Bro nothing is going well in this country for me again.

Is it that bad? It's not even up to the so called 'minimum wage'. Is it what they can't pay you for something that wasn't your fault.

What's your course and qualification? You deserve better.

Makavelli25:
It is a private school. So no work no pay

How much is it monthly?

PureGoldh:
Money na better blood tonic...but truth be told,I personally don't fancy what the dude did but anyways na him life and money......I know say Papa Ifeanyi (Davido) won't even be moved by dz post

How sure are you?

Drakkernoir:
Sense will not kill you

Maybe she wants to catch the attention of OBO.

Tobinrobin:
Conversation opener 150k? How much to now do the do?

1.5 million? Take it or leave it.

VEXT:
Thank God Iam a Christian. No matter how you insult my religion and insult Jesus,no Christian will dare to pick up a weapon to kill you or harm you. Because we believed the battle is for Christ and not for us!!
Mubarak Bala happen to be my frd on Facebook, with the kind of comments and threat I do see on his post and facebook page. That was the day I realise that there is no difference between bokoharam and some Muslims,they are all the same.They kill for their God...I blame bala for all of this,he stay in their midst and still use his real Facebook account to criticize them,may God save him..For all those criticizing Christianity,have you now seen how peaceful and loving Christians are. Shalom!!!

I understand him. If Mohammed is not a terrorist why do Boko Haram and other extremists claim to be fighting for allah?

Where did the term Jihad come from? Is it not from Islam?
His arrest who sanctioned it? Is it not Islam?

Which people shout allah khubar before detonating bombs.

Reason deeply on his assertion and you will know he's right.

Moslems are too violent.
Why do they fight for their god? Can't he fight for himself?

SangoOlukosoOba:
"If"

Nigeria would have been in a confused state.

They would have used the pandemic as an excuse to siphon what's left in our treasury.

GEJ's government was a "looting for all" and lawlessness.

If not not for the intervention of the Almighty God, GEJ and his cronies would have ruined the present and future of Nigeria.

But we still must be grateful to God almighty to have made our years of pains , turn into joy via the emancipation of His Excellence President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR)

So your almighty PMB hasn't ruined it enough?

Wait until the numerous creditors start laying claims to Nigeria.

Na wheel barrow dem go use carry you enter Cameroon.

Jokerman:
Yeah... They deducted up to 300 from my account, I was almost embarrassed at the atm

That one is corporate stealing.

Jokerman:
Yeah... They deducted up to 300 from my account, I was almost embarrassed at the atm

Bad things happen when good men keep silent.

Create a thread nah. Let's take it up.

Jokerman:
Lol.... Hope you know some organizations sacked some staffs after March salary payment, coz they've estimate there would be no inflow of money for April and May?

I've stopped putting money in my access account

Oh! You are aware of Access Bank fraudulent activities?

Jokerman:
Pay when you do no work?? How??

You are entitled to monthly pay if you are on full time employment.

It depends on your organization though.
That's why you should be careful, do your due research before taking appointment.


In another news, Access Bank are debiting twice! Are they hungry?

asatemple:
Someone like me that work in private school will go hungry until the date of resumption is made definite. God have mercy

Why?

Makavelli25:
No date yet for me to go back to work and start earning my salary back.
Issorite
Deep down am thinking if i will survive this season

Are they not paying you monthly salary?