Gben5: According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.
This quote settles it. Let him reconcile with his wife. You go and find yourself another man unless you want him to impregnate her again under your roof.
Gben5: I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.
He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.
He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?
End the relationship or whatever you call what you have. For him to tell you that means he doesn't regard you.
Besides what are you doing in that circle. What do you mean by he's delaying to protect who?
Oh you really sound gullible. Start another relationship to avoid heartbreak and untold pains. This I have seen
zedegit: Another advice would be for them to start selling their belongings to raise at least 3 million including the glk.
kennybabs1980
Don't give him the above advice as he'll misunderstand you. He should advise himself by the time they knack him 2×2, the charm his wife used on him would clear from his eyes and he'll be delivered.
kennybabs1980: His wife's family no dey give shishi. To be fair to the wife's family, I heard that the father in law, a secondary school vice principal also warned them against those stupid investments which they didn't heed. Where will a school vice-principal whose salary is not been paid regularly get such money? The wife is seriously avoiding me now because of her past mischievous attitudes to me. Very arrogant girl.
Warn those disturbing you sternly. People should mind their business. You've done your best. It's not as if he'll learn a lesson if you help him.
kennybabs1980: Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.
Another advice would be for them to start selling their belongings to raise at least 3 million including the glk.
kennybabs1980: My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.
At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.
I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!
How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself?
Let him use his stubborn wife as collateral. Worst mistake is to marry a senseless wife.
Even if he were to use people's money on that rollercoaster he should have collected what he can afford to pay off.
If he can't use his wife to get a loan, let him offer himself to police willingly. At least those debtors would rest or kukuma fake his death or relocate far away.
You've done your best for them unless you want them to drag you under water.
Gbadespet: It happens to me frequently most especially on my chest and my mum will literally say it's wall geckos... I don't think it's something spiritual coz my mum witch na original,she would not allow any shit happens to her son .......
kollinz1234: The major stumbling block to Peter Obi's victory is his own people.
Tinubu and Atiku has more terrible antecedents yet their people are promoting their candidacy; whereas, Obi is the best candidate on the ballot yet his people are dragging him down.
Whatever it is, we the north Central will borrow Obi and do our best to make him president. His people can go and hug transformer for all I care.
#Hope4southernKaduna
Which his people are you talking about? So Chidoka represents the voice of his people?
A chieftain of the main opposition party, People’s Democratic Party, PDP, Osita Chidoka has described the presidential candidate of the Labour Party, Peter Obi disruptor in the Nigerian politics, but one with the lack of a national appeal.
Chidoka made this assertion while speaking in an interview on Channels Television’s Sunday Politics.
He stated, “PDP is going to get considerable votes in Oyo, Osun and in Ekiti. We are going to get considerable votes in Anambra, Imo and Abia.
“We are going to come second. Tinubu is not going to come second in Imo, Abia and Anambra and Enugu. APC is not going to get it. It’s not going to happen.
“We are going to be first and second even in the Niger-Delta, in Delta, Akwa-Ibom, Bayelsa and Cross-River, we are going to have PDP.
“The only thing that will change is who is going to do well in the North.”
Sonnobax15: Remembered back then in 2014 when I first met my ex banny's mom,.....She was a very kind woman.....Served me banga soup with a native pot . Na so I begin salivate . Chaiii,even after breaking up with her daughter,I can still remember when my ex called me one morning to tell me her mom had a fire accident,I just left what I was doing at that moment and hurriedly went to meet them up at the hospital where she was taken to..Via say she was kind to me.
psalmistkakah: U can pay back installmentally, show them commitment and they won't disturb u like dat.. it happened to me i just pay like 50% of the money on the due date.. they call me the following day and i told them i will pay the remaining balance.. them no disturb me after like 4 to 5 days after i pay up.. and they were willing to give more loan but the interest rate pursue me.. is too much..
Sure with their grand patron as your running mate. Something Buhari who you vouched for couldn't stop. Is it you that will book a permanent bedspace in UK hospital will stop it.
falcon01: That brand is very Mediocre even a stupid person won't use it everything they have is worse than every phone product apart from the battery infact even the battery. The display is poor, resolution poor, Ram poor camera poor، Internet speed poor, phone speed poor, features poor, sensors poor, resale value poor, you can't see something innovative on itel every fucking thing about that phone Is poor and even worse they are using an SPD chipset the cheapest chipset on the smartphone industry Imagine! Even when they adopt the Mediatek, they choose the weakest slowest and cheapest among the already cheap Chipset. Mediatek itslef is already a mediocre chipset but when they use it, they choose the worst of the worst ahhhhh!!!! Every feature you see on itel is something other phones have done and has stopped doing it then they start doing after it's obsolete, like finger print when they introduced it, it wasn't something special again, dual and tripple camera wasn't something big when they did it and only one camera was working, the rest where stickers on the phone cover just like how their big brothers tecno and infinix used to do. When phones where using 8gb and 10 gb Ram Itel was introducing 2 gb ram, when phones where having android 6.0 itel was still on kitkat! Like what the Bleep! They should would be better off making calculators and watches Heck even their hardware gets quickly spoilt over time compared to other products. Maybe they intentionally do that to target the Poor people so that they can afford smartphones since their phones are very very cheap but still haba!! Do something good for ones. Nigeria shouldn't have allowed phones like that into the market they should be banned
You are taking it personal.The itel p series has good camera resolution better than techno pop series and other models. Their battery life is a catch too.screen size good.
Hmmmm. making relationship sound like a Job or I'm I the only one seeing it this way... you see why real Niggas run from all this relationship as it comes with a lot of burdens these days.
Na so one dey disturb me like yesterday say she loves me and would like to be my Wife I laugh tire ( the boldness off me), I come wonder wetin she fit offer me apart from her toto, just this morning Babe dey yarn me say she dey Hungry with beta boldness oh, I come tell am make she find something chop she say make I send am money I off, I told her if she recalled what she told me yesterday she said yes, then I replied her that she needs a good paying Job and not a Husband. babe provoke still dey ask me wetin I mean
Ladies should be comfortable to a point before thinking marriage as e get wetin hunger fit do you, you go marry to quench hunger and not marry out of love.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Accommodate His Ex With Three Kids by zedegit: 7:47pm On Jan 26, 2023
. Chaiii,even after breaking up with her daughter,I can still remember when my ex called me one morning to tell me her mom had a fire accident,I just left what I was doing at that moment and hurriedly went to meet them up at the hospital where she was taken to..Via say she was kind to me.