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dynamo77:
She's seriously pretty

I hope she's mentally pretty too

I don't know if you meant behavioural? I know quite a few who are mentally pretty and you won't spend the next hour with cos they lack manners, but it all depends on what we value.

Toks2008:
A "fool for love" is a phrase used to describe a seemingly willing party who is ready to go all the way to please the other party to the very best of his or her ability.

We all know that love is a figment of imagination and no matter how you profess love to another person,that same person can turn around and rub it on your face and this is why many people are extremely careful in the way they express their affection towards whoever they claim to love just to avoid being called a fool for love.

But the bigger problem lies in trying to be too careful as many people have lost potentially wonderful affairs just because they preempt the motive of the other person who might just be very sincere with them thereby losing that person to another who is ready to be a fool for that same man or woman regardless of the expectations.

I have come to realize that the best way you can have peace in any affair is to risk it all...in other words, become a fool for that man or woman you truly desire..

If you feel like helping your bae through school,business or just buying him or her an expensive gift as well as going an extra mile please go ahead without second guessing or thinking negatively that the person could leave you someday for another.


How many of us have felt like getting an expensive gift for our bae or going the extra mile but have stopped to think "Is he/she really worth it?,what if he/she leaves me eventually?,what if he/she is cheating on me?" and we just change our mind.

If we must have a great affair and a peaceful one at that,we must learn to follow our heart and act towards our bae as if such person will never leave but at the same time, expect them to leave even if you give same the whole world.

The truth is that you don't go into any investment with mediocrity and expect a favourable outcome.

Every love affair is like a profit or loss business investment with an element of risk but deserves our "best" input to succeed and whether it works out or not is a different ball game.

Just follow your heart.

you have a point but I totally dissagree with it. Would you jump into untested waters with both feet? That's a suicide mission.

I can speak because I have been there. Its one step at a time, show some level of love, if the other party does same then you can begin to increase you level of commitment.

I used to have your idea of love , that is go at it with your all, when you do youu will defintely be taken for granted.

Some persons happen to be with us due to circumstance and when their situations changes you then realise they never liked you in the first place. They only stuck because of the benefits

So take one step at a time, if the other party doesn't reciprocate, take another step to clear any sort of doubt, if they still don't reciprocate, kindly lock up. That's became my style when I found my wife and we are both happy today.

Some people are naturally cheats, they have fish brain thinking they are wise. So NEVER EVER give it your all, if you do and the person is changing or changes , you too change. Its that simple.

cktheluckyman:
Buhari and INEC are confused, unfortunately for them,a mere certificate of return does not make anyone Governor. They will have to wait until the appeal is exhausted

me think its you that is confused!!! What business does buhari have here? Inec and the corrupt PDP is what I see. Read well before commenting.

slap1:
Buhari and his mosquito economic team are driving people to crime. Clueless, illiterate, certificateless, visionless, vindictive president. Unrepentant military dictator that only knows how to threaten, imprison and kill.

your comment is laughable. When you impregnate your girlfriend I hope you will also blame PMB for putting you in idle mode? Yeye fowl!!!!!!!

jeffooh999:
Buhari maka why!!

is buhari the cbn governor? If he fires him and put someone there you will scream tribalism, let him fail very well so that his people will ask for his head.

mamabomboy:
Buhari is a paedophilic southern hating certificate forging liar

a house divided against itself will fall... PDP is divided. Leave buhari out of this. Shameful the garden city I knew growing up now has streams flowing with blood. The seed of hate has been sown in the hearts of the youths , even among brothers of same parents. Ordinarily I fear an idle and power hungry ikwerre man, now many of dem have gone fetish. Its dooms day. Keep wiping off your generations.

brunofarad:
Wike has a point




I stay in PH
There seems to be allien strategy against PEaCE in PH.

The killings are too much

and what point my dear friend? That he isn't capable of governing rivers state? I don't get it!!! If it was the other way I will hear propaganda!!! Is wike now the grand commander of propaganda? Seems he is been infected with the blame virus!!!! Is he going to blame amaechi or the APC led federal government? All these people giving excuses should remember that there actions will hurt them at the ballot boxes soonest whether APC or PDP

opal4real:
In every 10 South-southerner in any region of Nigeria there are 100 other Nigerians in d south-south. Guess who will have more casualties.
Preach peace and not war.

No true Niger-Deltan will destroy oil installations located in their land and pollute their environment. These cyber militants and vandals are mercenaries from other part of Nigeria giving Niger-deltans bad name.

Soon d trap we set go catch them n we go disgrace them before d main d main.

please enlighten me. The militants in niger delta creeks aren't niger deltans? Are they possibly from the north?

FagsamPHP:
Buhari wont see this one... Gworo chewing "certificateless" Dullard Presidiot!!!

truth is as COAS, properrtyofabout N120M? Looking at where we are coming from I will say he has a good heart. Where man dey work that's where he eats. Do you know the job he is doing against bokoharam? Only metuh for doing nothing for nigeria as a country took N400M.

We know they are all corrupt, but the last adminisstration was fantastically corrupt. You think there isn't curruption in america and UK? Bottom line is don't let it affect the people. I don't expect PMB to bother about this . If I was him I won't be bothered. Its small compared to the job he is doing. If you don't like it go and hang. There will alway be corruption but the magnitude is where ther will be problem.

Am not going to spare you insults. I have been on thisbefore. I Was a fool. But you are a bigger idiot.

If a lady doesn't allow you check her fones just keep fucking hher, never spent a dime on her, because she is definitely cheating on you.
When it happened to me, I just walked away and never had anything to do with her, because if I go to her I will kill her one night so best thing was to leave.

My advice for you: just take yourself to a strippers club to see that any woman making you spend money beyond your comfort zone is actually a LovePeddler, they are no differnt whether you call her you girlfriend, difference is one is more commercialised and public than the other. Its same damage they will do to you pocket.

You took insecticide because of woman? You dey craze for head wella. If you die she will Bleep more dicks even when you are alive she is doing it. If I was any of you brother I will so beat you, then I will take you to the best club in town so you see, you can spend your money with any girl depending on how you bargain.
The only person I die for are those willing to die for me too.
In my own case after going to clubs rather than depression my heart was filled with hate... I mean real hatred for women. I felt used. I would rather you move from depression to hate. You will just die for nothing. 10 kobo cry she will not cry. Be a man, if you are single bleep more girls you will get yourself back fast. And chase more beautiful whores and make yourself feel good fast. Girls are even cheaper these days with the harsh economy.

Rasque1759:
i so much love the fight this man is giving FG and Efcc...

what do you love about it? You seem to have a corrupt mind too. So they should continue stealing?. When PDP was there who did they probe? Fayose is in a sunk ship, its just immunity that is preserving him. He wants to carry as much persons as possible. Thqats exactly what the devil is doing to the human race. On this one he can not escape. Let him expose allof them including PMB if possible. Its for the good of the masses

Gbawe:
It really saddens me to see what Ekiti folks have done to themselves. This Fayose is an embarrassment. It is shocking EKiti , with their vote, declared this misruling thug, crook and criminal the best to lead them. He is a pathetic clown , totally bereft of leadership credentials and ideas, who thinks governance is a joke and a theatre of 'awada' like Nollywood. This is why he is alway engaged in publicity stunts rather than meaningful endeavours to move Ekiti forward. Cutting pomo and fish everywhere, eating in local buka, faking "investment" press conference in China, this latest 'Zenith is begging me' nonsense and many other sad stunts just confirm Fayose is an attention-seeker whose calling in life should have seen him become a TV comedian like Baba Sala instead of the governor of a Nigerian state with the wellbeing of millions of people in his hand.

The man Kneeling down in the picture below is Bunmi Falana, a.k.a Bumshaka. Egbon, Bumshaka is one of the Ayo Fayose's boys together with Egbon,Goke Olatunji [G.O.K] Fayose's P.A in the past. Goke and Bunmi were together with Ayo Fayose during the 2003 Governorship struggle against Otunba Niyi Adebayo the then incumbent Governor.

When Fayose emerged as the Executive Governor of the State, he appointed Goke as Personal Assistant, while Bunmi [Bumshaka] was said to inform Fayose that he preferred a career job, hence he was fixed with Zenith Bank via the capacity of Ayo Fayose, and for his banking purposes.

He was brought in to handle all his banking transactions till 2006 when Mr. Fayose was chased out of Ekiti State Government House following his impeachment. After this regrettable rein of Mr. Fayose in 2006, Bunmi Falana [Bumshaka] was transferred by Zenith Bank to Ifo branch of zenith bank in Ogun State until 2014 when he was expectedly transferred back to Ekiti at the commencement of the June 21, 2014 Governorship Election Campaigns in the State as requested by Gov. Fayose.

This transfer request and the promotion of Bunmi as the Branch Manager are part of the conditions Gov. Fayose gave Zenith Bank before he could have confidence in any transaction with the Bank. About the ongoing drama titled, Ayo Fayose's Election fund by Zenith Bank; Fayose strongly felt disappointed in his boy [Bumshaka] in which the said boy realize and thereby resolved to beg his boss who by his chances rise to his present status in the Banking job.

To the notice of the General Public, Bunmi Falana a.k.a Bumshaka begs Gov. Fayose within his individual capacity, and NOT on behalf of the Zenith Bank. The way Bunmi Falana dramatised, by kneeling down to beg Gov. Fayose in the presence of the Zenith Bank Executives was strange, but left with no choice than to be short of words.

gabolak:
I thought as much too. How wil a professional banker of their standing stooped so low to dat extents. It is very glaring, they are two different sets of people. What a joke taken too far?

bros dey there.People do worse because of their jobs and money. Its only because this came out in camera. They will kneel because due process were not followed when the account was opened. So many shady deals and besides that volume may be what is sustaining the region.. How much dey ekiti? If you see 2 billion you will prostrate for a week. Rubbish!!! Banking job is the peak of slavery and the bad part is these guys will lose their jobs and possibly bag a jail term along with it. You need to be careful when dealing with politically exosed persons(PEP). This is just a shame.

AntiWailer:
Do u have a car ?

If u do , when u saw the soldier breaking the side mirror u felt it was ok ?

Then u are a liar , u av never bought a car before.

About me making mouth, u saw how that eediot passed by the accura ? Exactly the same way he will pass mine even if he is high on Ore Weed.

if I have a car? No!!! But I drove my first car in the year 2000, that's 16years ago. And I don't do stupid things because I hate to be corrected. I feel only idiots do stupid things.

wowmenow:
We know that it's apc that is sponsoring the crises in pdp

now that you know, what next? ****

code11:
This is what happens when you have a bunch of people who are so gullible and vulnerable to brain washing. Am not surprised they now have an army... FG has been concentrating of fighting in the Niger Delta thus neglecting the fragile fragment of the North.

I just remembered BuBus statement that he will make Goodlucks government ungovernable... Hehehe he now who's government is ungovernable? The Nigerian military has out of corruption denied soldiers weapons, how then do we fight insurgency?

did you read the initial or OP message? Seems you are commenting on the wrong topic!!!!

Love Machine:
Fuel was sold for #87 before baba go-slow jack the price up to #145.Some filling stations who adjusted their fuel dispensing machine to defraud buyers, now removed #2 and you are here jubilating.Buy 5litres and take to your house for measurement and see how you have been shortchanged.

is it PMB that will come and do the job of DPR? Find out how you can report them to the relevant authorities. You are failing yourself.

I love my country. Let's wait for the next 6-8 months and see if the story wouldn't change. All this crap coming up because things are much harder. Have you wondered why a graduate lady would rather date and marry a wealthy illiterate than date a broke ass PHD holder. What people need is the basics: food, housing, healthcare, job etc all others are stories for the press. No matter how people cry, PMB if God preserves him will see out his tenure. Either support the supposed certificateless president if you say so or suffer till he leaves. What I know is that he means well. Even if things aren't good enough.

God bless PMB!!!

God bless Nigeria!!!

lilprinze:
I thought buhari said when he becomes president he would make 1$ = 1N .
buhari and APC are the biggest scam in the history of Nigeria.

aren't you a scammer to have believed that? You want to reap where you didnt sow? It doesn't work that way. The strength of a currency is built over time.

lilprinze:
I thought buhari said when he becomes president he would make 1$ = 1N .
buhari and APC are the biggest scam in the history of Nigeria.

aren't you a scammer to have believed that? You want to reap where you didt sow? It doesn't work that way. The strength of a currency is built over time.

modelmike7:
This one pass heart attack o....... BTW, does that means he knows the DNA of all his neighbours?!

it may have been just two neighbours. What's important here is it doesn't match with his. Never wish my enemy a cheating wife, your life is bound to be miserable.

Holydude:
I know many will castigate me or hate me for this. But then it is what is happening around in so many churches. Almost all religions in the world promotes moral chastity. Even the traditional religion does.

Christianity isn't left out. For over 10-15 years many us have been going to church, reading in the Bible that fornication and sexual immorality is a serious SIN against God. And those practicing it will not inherit His kingdom. 1 Corinthians 6: 9. Yet after reading this, Many wont stop to fornicate.

To this extent, many Christian brothers and sisters, have form their own moral standard. They claim it wrong to sleep with one you are not dating, but as along you both are dating, there is nothing wrong if you both have sex.

It wonders one to think if the Bible says fornication is only for those dating.
I Corinthians 7:1-5 makes it clear sex was for only married people.
1 Thessalonian 4:3-8 urges all Christians to flee from fornication.

From what is happening in today churches, people no longer has issues engaging in premarital sex. They believe as long they obey other laws it more than enough. No matter how many times they read it in their Bible, it wont stop them. Their conscience doesn't trouble them.

The hypocritical part is, they are quick to condemn prostitutes. You defile your body for free, prostitutes does it for money, who is now cheap? They condemn homosexuals and say it a serious SIN and yet they glorify fornication to an extent that people are virgins are regarded as fools. Ask yourself who really is God proud of?

The truth is no true christian or a God-fearing person will indulge in fornication. Even if he does, he repents and never return back to it.

There are no ways about it. You cant slave for two masters. It either you are a slave to sex or to God. And as the Bible tells us, the sins of sexual immorality leads to eternal destruction. Who fornication epp?

Why don't we live by what we read in our Bible? It definitely mean 95% of Christians wont not inherit the Kingdom of God. God has no double standard.

It definitely mean 95% of Christians wont not inherit the Kingdom of God. Yes mattew 7:13 & 14 help me understand that many are fooling themselves, its been foretold only few will find the way, so am not surprised that even people who profess to be christians are that way. May the almighty Jehovah be praised . He is not one to be mocked, whatever a man is sowing that he will reap.

johnoris:
So you guys still believe in the bible craps..... Fornication could only be found in the Bible and maybe quran only..... Sex is part of Nature I mean human and animal nature.... Its a thing one must practice for medical balance.... Why do animal have sex? Are they not also created by God..... Nigerians and their mumulity..... #AfricansStillStucked InLimbo... More loading...

sorry bro but you are the ORIGINAL MUMU. Blind man talking.

KAYD007:
You can't disobey your bodily functions...it's a call of nature.
you don't need religion to cloths your self,
you don't need religion to feed your self,
you don't need religion to shelter your self,
And you certainly don't need religion to have sex or as you said...fornicate. These are basic human needs that's way beyond the dictates of religious dogmatics

where is your self control There are basic things you can't do without, and you definitely started them even before you knew you existed. Fornicators and adulterers will die in the hands of God. I don warn you sha. So control you thing, don't let it control and ruin you

Millermilli:
Which sin is not serious?

if I tell you: you are crazy!!!! Its not right, how about me sleeping witj your wife? Just saying. Which appears serious? That's my Jamb question for you. Nice day

The reasons are numerous
Lack of self control, peer pressure, sinful inclination of the flesh, youthful exurberance, and because the consequence for fornication isn't immediate. Etc

God will punish fornicators and adulterers, that is certain but the entertainment industry and society makes it feel good. If you say you are a virgin people term you abnormal mean while the are the ones with the abnormallies, inorder to feel liked some indulge.

TPAND:
She never meet correct guy na why. If she meets a correct guy and her other half, trust me hormone oxytocin go flow and trigger sex, she will offer that body as edible catering to her man.

Leave story, virginity is outdated. No real man wants a virgin, we need experience.

We no want no virgin, we need experience, someone who is ready to go on an awe-inspiring adventure of sex with her man, not my mommy/pastor says don't touch me there

while I would not support her making such public, its even more shameful seeing the comments of so many persons. Even if we are doing what is wrong let's appreciate and say truth. No wonder we have so many cheating spouses and broken marriages. So many people are married but still wish a sex life with one of the ex!!!! Let's get it straight, most people these days are enslaved to sex. Is shameful.

Kasimaramma2:
I know this post would provoke many Nls but i dont care.
When i was younger i dated a guy for three months he left me for my friend because i was not perfect and quiet immature. For two years the sore remained.
It was an inception of a new ideology ;that people who claim they are in love Stick with you when the grasses are in green and when they have something to gain.
I decided to follow that thread,date only wealthy guys. Yes, i was rejected because i had no perfection so i decided to use the same standard used on me by the guy who broke my heart on other fellows.
God understands my past pain so he is no furious with me for sapping guys financially and dumping them. My reason? I was hurt so i have to hurt.

continue its ur life!!!! Its none of my biz.

Honza27:
Soon reality will force Buhari & apc lead govt to re-think and replace all those gworo chewing non performing officials that have succeeded is ruining our country in just one year.

how can you fill your cabinet with Aboki and expect things to move forward, Buhari and his kinsmen can not give what they don't have.


How did we get here

I hope the CBNgovernor is also an aboki too.

isnovic:
Compare this picture of what the Army recovered from BH and what the Boko Haram exhibited as what was taken from Nigeria.

You will know that, the Army are still scratching their anus about the insurgency.

its really sad that in nigeria people tend to concentrate on your inadequacies if you are suceeding where they or their cronies have failed. Am totally dissapointed at your comments. Can you please if you have a television tell us how many suicide bombings you ve heard of in the past 4 months , compared to what it was let's say in the last 8- 11 months. While it is true more still needs to be done,your comments stinks and doesn't depict the true situation of things. The Nigerian Army is winning the war and decimating Bokoharam. I do not need your response to know that. Good day sir.

usmantoafiq:
This is why Islam is the best religion. we don't beg for money. Allah provides for us.

but you fight for your God by beheading people? Just don't say anything about your religion. God will say those that are really serving him

Olukat:
They keep changing their statement.
If Chief Tompolo was not on your radar, why raid his home and community?
Is this an indication he can never be found?
This NA sef

I guess they are looking for militants, and if he happens to be one, obviously he will be wanted!! But why the guy dey run na?