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hello party 787,
its really pathetic cos you ve got a lot to worry about,  i fear for you since you said you have discussed with him, if he loved the mother of the child so much he should have married her, besides you are his wife and you both have become one flesh but in this case its not so, i guess i can understand how you feel, sometimes you want to kill, it can get that bad.

my advice: have a talk with him and the childs mother, that closeness is very dangerous, she possibly could have another child for him. if it doesnt come out positive, please make a decision you know you can very well cope with because as it stands he is enjoying his marriage big time while you are dying in silence, no, for me, thats unacceptable.

take care and pray really hard.

@VIC4U
"How did u get to kn her number in the first place since u said that your friend has been hiding it from u. we have only heard your own story and we have not hear from u friend.
u kn some people like justifying their action".

guy, this can very well happen: i was driving along the road barely  two weeks after my friend travelled back when i spotted her and we exchanged numbers, i guess there's nothing wrong there?

cheers

dear nairalanders,
the truth is she is evrything i have always desired in awoman, initially i was treating her really bad that she cries sometimes, due to what my friend said, still that did not change her attitude towards me, infact when i met her family members i knew i was home because that was a replical of my family.

I REALLY LOVE HER AND I KNOW AM NOT BLIND

dear nairalanders,
please read this true life story and tell me if i was wrong.

a year ago a friend called and told me he will be coming to visit me in abuja, two days after his arrival a cutie came to visit him in my place and he asked me to come and see his friend, she was really beautiful, all through the period of about a week he stayed with me he gave me the impression he was sleeping with her, being that i was not dating anyone then i would love to go clubbing and ofcourse come home with a girl and he would do same sometimes, so i was wondering whether my guy doesnt get tired, when he finally went back he didnt want the cutie to have my number, but she eventually did cos it just happend,she resides in abuja meanwhile he doesnt. we got talking once in a while and when i called him to say she called or we talked he would say she is a runs girl( prostitute) which wasnt true. at a stage i began to have feelings for her and i sensed she felt the same, i called my friend and said i am interested in this girl and all he said was if i have my way i should ride on, probably thinking it wont work, finally i invited her to my house and since then we have been going out and will soon get married, i called my friend back to tell him and he was mad with me that i stole his girlfriend, she said i should confirm from him that he never slept with her.

please tell me where i went wrong so i know what to do.

branded ben,
you are not the brand i know, why call her when she cudnt give you her number directly, are you sure she isnt tripping for your friend? you shouldnt have bothered, afterall she had your number before she left if she was interseted in you she would call or send a mail, you probably made a mistake calling her, you should have told your friend you dont need her number, because it seems to me she is closer to your friend.

walk down the next street, (an)other girl(sssssssssssz) are waiting for you

dear nairalanders,

i appreciate the boldness of this guy in question but i dont like the story because this is exactly what most guys do that makes them not to date beautiful girls, in my opinion the following points were wrong.

1. Your face looks familiar-
2. What I mean is that you remind me of all those supermodels on TV.-" you are already putting her in a position to get puffy , she hears this evrytime cos there are a million toasters, so she sees the guy as another loser".
3. Seriously. You look like Tyra Banks- " no more words,complicates point no. 2"
4.Hmmm nice name.- "the compliments should let her know by now that she can control this guy, cos he doesnt want to say anything she wouldnt like to hear, whats wrong saying 'it sounds like the name of my puppy' ."
5. So what's a beautiful lady doing here standing under this scorching sun - "another loser"
6. I came in my car- " whats the brand, anything wrong treking down"
7. Don opens the door for Bella to get in- " i guess its one of those cars that you cannot open from the drivers side, no central lock or keyless stuff."
8. Do you mind coming to know my
house then I can drop you off wherever you going afterwards?- " this was where the grenade exploded, its very clear the guy is jobless"
9. When is this 'other time'? I'll really love to see you again and
have some time to talk better with you.- " now she knows the guy needs her badly and will only love to eat his penny, and stroll off".
10.Ok Here's my card (passes his card to Bella) You can call me anytime.- " a typical lady will never call you, what for, with all the numerous toasters around, only a slut would."
11. Cool. I'll give you a ring.- am sure if she says come make love to me he will jump at the invitation, slow and steady wins the race man".
12. Hope to see you again so I'll give you a ring
sometime soon.Take care, Bel.- " i dont know what to say again".


the bottom line is this guy will not and cannot date this baby.

$ammy,

i want to believe your beauty here is physical, i mean pretty

truth:

1.beautiful girls dont like guys that give them too much attention, because they get to meet different guys every now and then, so she probably sees you as another loser.

2. avoid being too nice, it makes her feel you are a beggar, trying to buy her emotions, did she tell you she is that cheap.
3.dont always say things that will appeal to her simply because you dont want to offend her, say things that you know are right, even if it will make her hang the next minute.
4.have your self esteem as aman, never lat her dictate for you.
5. call her less often, possibly once a week or two, make her understand you have a world of yours to enjoy, if she wishes she can join you, common.
6. say funny things, make jest of her, tell her about yourself in a funny way, i remember a lady i met asking me what i do for a living? i told her i model for calvin klein,, ofcourse i dont do that, really wanted to be funny, the next thing she would ask is be serious, you can see now you are begining ti turn attention to yourself.


try some of these and be yourself, any pretty woman that doesnt like you for who you are, kindly walk your way to the next street, you will find another appreciative beauty, beautiful do have a heart if you act different from all the other guys she has met, and if she gets attracted to you , you might be related to "SEGUN ARINZE" and she will still love you.


guys, dont kill yourself on a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey man,

you'are in the wrong site , there are no flowers here, we've only got them SUCKERS here, you will be redirected shortly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mine 13 and finally 14th december.

on the 13th tried coming out with my legs at about 11:50 pm, percieved so much voilence in the world, ran back with the help of the doctor that am not strong enough to land on earth. finally on 14th there was an operational that brouht me out , truelly i didnt want to be born, but i had been given a quit notice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dear nairalanders,
its often said that what a man can do , a woman can do better, an example can be seen from what happened in the house of representatives, please is there any thing wrong if a lady(students not inclusive) pays the bill, at least make man still enjoy small?

suzie dorlin,

you are obviously a fraudster, how would you want nigeria if there are a lot of fraudsters out there, what are you looking for thats not in the united states like you claim, MILITANTS?  There a better versions over there: TERRORISTS.

Oh  lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

suzie dorlin,

you are obviously a fraudster, how would you want nigeria if there are a lot of fraudsters out there, what are you looking for thats not in the united states like you claim, MILITANTS? There a better versions over there: TERRORISTS.

Oh lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!