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IN A CLUB- you possibly meet her in the worst condition, atleast you can predict the remaining of her deeds reasonably.

do i call it a normal occurence, if you think you can hit and run in some situations, you may probably be running from your shadows, it will always remain with you.

i had girls coming out straight to the point and i respect them for that, if i like you no problems at all, man can toast woman, woman can toast man, unfortunately i didnt dig the chicks so i tactically told them that i would have dated them were it not for the fact that am into a very serious relationship,actually there was none,i just needed breathing space, it was so bad she was kind of monitoring my so called relationhship if there were any problems so she could step in.

guys never try hit and run, possibly you wont be able to run, cos reality of life would point fingers at you.

its really unfortunte that these 419 boys are running out of ideas.

must it be recharge card? it simply shows how hungry they are. if you are into any kind of deal and you are asked to scratch card be careful because when you scratch cards for them, thats what they will use in calling you and giving one the impression that they are loaded, meanwhile they are simply using your money to fool you.

You said this wasn't the first time he is doing this shit, i get a bit worried here because he may try it with your wife,you thank God its your brother though, at least now you know you never had a girlfriend, what would she do with other guys in your absence? still on the recurrence of this incidence by your brother, are you younger than himself? there is still something i cant figure out, because if he sees a girl that concedes he will strafe again

am happy you have an idea of what your problem is, i am really confident you sent your message from a psychiatric hospital, i wont blame you, i blame whoever gave you access to a system and internet connection.

GET WELL SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dear nairalanders,

having some difficulties dealing with this situation:

Before i started dating my present girlfriend i was really into my cousin in the sense that there was nothing she would ask for that i wouldnt give to her because i really liked her and we were close coupled with the fact that she complains her boyfriend isnt this freehanded type, but for heavens sakes i will not date and cannot marry my cousin, since i started dating my present girl i definitely would attend less to her and her needs, this is bringing a rift between the both of us and between my girlfriend and her because at a stage they became friends.

please your humble suggestions.

cheers.

@ manibuds.


you are my man. he has taught me a lot. i subcribe to his write ups. you ve been there.

and get stepping on AUTOPILOT.

hey nairalanders,

whats with this location being lagos, some people here reside in the UK, US , EUROPE,ABJ, ABA, PHC, name it,

so what do you think?

hey dude,
the scammer knows you are a womaniser and felt this would be a better bait for someone like you, BOY OR GIRL, MAN OR WOMAN, GOAT OR DOG, the moment your money goes out you ve been scammed, thats just the introduction or a preface, its big SCAM.

@zignor
run for your life, they will milk you,

"she know you before that you're flirt. if not so, to be an handsome guy doesn't mean that you are not responsible. so be good"


poster, i will encourage you to take those lines seriously.

by the way whats your criteria for fine boy? i hope she is not , i didnt say anything oooooo,

i have met girls that first contact with them all that comes to your mind is have sex and dump them, i guess same goes here in your case, they need ypur wad you know.

hey man you have said it all, you simply need to change your attitude.

possibly you meet the naughty ones all too often, birds of same feathers flock together.
but you are not naughty

solution: be real, you seem to knowingly or unknowingly give the impression you ve got loads of cash that even when you are dry they still want to suck your ass out.

why on earth do we like doing unto others what we wouldnt want them to do to us?
do you think you are the better for her? try and see, the best might show up. the only problem is when you see her close to guys you consider better than you, you wont be able to sleep, because what goes around, comes around.

she would opt for you if what she is looking for in a relationship is in you, but the interesting part is:a lot of people have it in better doses.

take care, HAPPY HUNTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey man,

have you got the heart of a lion? do you trust her very well? do you both confide in yourselves? if you answer YES then go ahead with her, otherwise they can be very mischievious, she will use your money to train another guy, you know what i mean, you cannot predict her moves.

"SHINE YOUR EYE IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT".

@seun001,

"i also question the motive of the girl,because am thinking she just agreed to the better of two evils.i hope u don't mind my bashing your girl ooo."

hey man, no stress at all, i would have said worse if i were in your position.

if you get married to her there is evry tendency you will have to cather for another mans child, what are you lacking that she sees in another man? NO DICK, !

please kindly return her to her boyfriend/manfriend.

try going out with some male friends of yours, change your environment, see life as new, very soon you will fall in love with another guy, but please dont rush so you dont rush out.

take care.

@churchy
"how r u supposed 2 get ova him if u keep seeing him everyday, for instance, if u're working in d same place?"

in the quotes above i guess the guy is tired because you guys see all too often, you probably getting into him too much that he gets uncomfortable.


@ poster
in my opinion the guy is falling in love with someone, somehow, somewhere and i guess he prefers the latter to you, thats my humble opinion.

solution:
1. delete his number from your phone so you are never tempted to call, the more you call and beg, the farther he goes.
2. if he calls be very formal in your speech, and try ending the call first by telling him you have an appointment, its non of his business, now you have your whole life to live.

OH, if only you will have the courage to do this, LOVE IS WICKED.

no and yes, if in your area people love fat, slim, poor, short people, then try to be that, but i know a lot of people prefer good height, average build, otherwise i will ask 2 silly questions:
1. is it a disadvatage to be poor?right answer: obviously YES.
2. What finger do you use to arouse a woman's p, y? obviously, the longer because the shorter is disadvantaged.

poster,
 There are a few things that are DEAD GIVEAWAYS to a woman that you're a big-time wuss, and not worth her time.

  A few of them are:

1) Can't maintain eye contact

2) Has slumped, submissive posture

3) Fidgets nervously

4) Gives away his power

5) Looks for attention and approval from others

There are a whole lot of ways to approach a woman depending on location.

scenario 1:
you meet a girl in a restaurant, looks deep into her eyes and says hi! she says hello, she is probably wearing a very high shoe, a cap , having a funny hairdo, good make up.

lets go for the make up:

you: did you offer fine art in your secondary school?
girl: probably keeps mute or says yes ,why did you ask? or hissed away or, whatever
you: if she keeps mute Forget her, and look out for another girl( THIS IS A COURSE YOU KNOW), If she says yes why did you ask? in a very funny way tell her: "you are a very good artist",  you will do for a fine art teacher in my secondary school, at this point she is very relaxed and probably can not predict your next move. if the both of you happen to seat on the the same table just keep on talking.

you could still say : what do you think? i had this arguement with some male friends of mine and i need a female perpective: should a woman ask a man out? you just get her talking man, she would love your company and cannot do without being around you, when you have put her in the mood, quickly prepare to take your leave, before then ask for her number, i bet you she will not hesitate, you can do better man.

cheers

poster:"after grooming a girl for almost 9 years and she never caught me for once that am doubledating ".

so you were doubledating? but you were never caught? stroll to the next street, another beauty is waitng for you, this time around the girl will groom you for 9months not 9years.

just take it easy life goes on, meeting a womwn is like a hand shake, if you are not warm enough she wouldnt want to hang on for too long. you were too nice to her , most girls dont like nice guys as husbands.

skyope
"@de-reloaded. Do you see yourself as a price the guy with the best game plan wins? What happens when a game player comes along? See its a guy thing. He's just happy he won. Its a  short time feeling. He'll get over it. Believe me, as you might have noticed from other male's comment, it feels good to get a girl your competitive friend could not. Ask your male friends."

once again, i will say i appreciate your comments. if i was my friend i would feel like killing, because i would see it as defeat and intimidation, if it is sleeping with women at this stage there is nothing there no more, look we are guys, if a guy has slept with a girl if she goes, he doesnt feel bad especially when you do not intend to take her serious, because " HE HAS BEEN THERE", you know what i mean.  i later discovered why my friend was angry: BECAUSE SHE WAS A VIRGIN. hey! hey hey! i have been there severally. I KNOW.

A guy can go clubbing without bringing a girl home, i am an example, similarly some girls are not the evil you think them to be, and some so called angels are the devil himself, so if you discover a compatible mate, man carry go.

i know a lot of guys may not really like this, i wouldnt myself, this is no game here, it is LIVE, it is LIVE because our love today is greater than yesterday, today less than tomorrow.

our views are bound to be different, thats why no matter how harsh anyone may sound i try to reply as polite as possible.

cheers.

skyope
"@de-reloaded. Do you see yourself as a price the guy with the best game plan wins? What happens when a game player comes along? See its a guy thing. He's just happy he won. Its a short time feeling. He'll get over it. Believe me, as you might have noticed from other male's comment, it feels good to get a girl your competitive friend could not. Ask your male friends."

once again, i will say i appreciate your comments. if i was my friend i would feel like killing, because i would see it as defeat and intimidation, if it is sleeping with women at this stage there is nothing there no more, look we are guys, if a guy has slept with a girl if she goes, he doesnt feel bad especially when you do not intend to take her serious, because " HE HAS BEEN THERE", you know what i mean. i later discovered why my friend was angry: BECAUSE SHE WAS A VIRGIN. hey! hey hey! i have been there severally. I KNOW.

A guy can go clubbing without bringing a girl home, i am an example, similarly some girls are not the evil you think them to be, and some so called angels are the devil himself, so if you discover a compatible mate, man carry go.

i know a lot of guys may not really like this, i wouldnt myself, this is no game here, it is LIVE, it is LIVE because our love today is greater than yesterday, today less than tomorrow.

our views are bound to be different, thats why no matter how harsh anyone may sound i try to reply as polite as possible.

cheers.

poster,
i must say your situation is very grave. she deprives you of sex and she feels comfortable reading and enjoying proposals from another bastard, marriage is for better or for worse, i can accept a slap from my wife in public because "am sorry" can solve it, another man against your wife, for me: TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE. no situation would warrant that even if i travel for 20 years.

YOU CAN READ THE WRITING ON THE WALL .

@tushbobo,
"SHE S DESPERATE,
UR FRIEND IS JEALOUS,
You R IN LOVE
Thats the summary.BEWARE of this girl because she must have slept with more men than u can imagine(of course she ll tell u your friend never slept with her).FORGET about all the crying she does because its clear the cries r not a result of her love for you but 4 her selfish interests.A girl with her guts is AMBITIOUS and will do anything to get what she wants.investigate well n LOOK B4 You LEAP into marriage".[/color]

i really appreciate your comment, but there is something i have grown to discover as a man, if you want to go and start digging all the rubble in peoples past lives, you probably may not live beyond tomorrow, most importantly too is the fact that other people have married under worse situations, what matters most is how we see ourselves at present, what if i tell you i have slept with over 400 women, it doesnt change who i am now, does it? if my baby has slept with just myself and i dont love her of what use is she in my house, if she has slept with all the men and i appreciate her when i see her, man we will have God's blessings.  i guess what matters most is now and tomorrow, yesterday is gone and gone with its evils.

cheers

@wendymanda,

Why are students excluded?

"because in my area female students are considered not too financially bouyant".

cheers