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Religion / Re: .... by ZiriMane(m): 1:10am On Aug 24, 2020
Since you are now born again Love God more and keep all his commandments.
Search the Word (The Bible) to know the Truth...and the truth shall set you free.
It's all in your head. Nothing is wrong with you but your mind playing tricks on your body that is why you are getting skinny. Begin to think that you were never under any spell, that the one who threatened you was only blabbing when he confronted you... You just have to do these
Pray seriously at every given opportunity. It's your life that's at stake.
with all belief that you are free from all oppression and begin to watch how you get your turn around
Flee from Sin don't just walk away from it...Flee
Education / Re: Nairaland Help Me by ZiriMane(m): 11:37pm On Jul 27, 2020
Probably a wrong account number.
Try ascertaining the validity of the account number it could be a mistake from there
Religion / Re: Why I Prefer To Pay Tithe In UK Instead Of Nigerian Churches by ZiriMane(m): 2:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
OP, thank God you pay your tithe. The truth is that many today see the Church as a revenue to generate funds other than 'fellowshiping' with the trinity.
Nonetheless, do not lead others astray by your own opinions. You don't know if these men you mentioned pay tithe or not (I know you don't, as you think only Christians pay tithe. People practising Judaism pay too) . I've heard of Muslim men who pay tithe so it's safe to say some non-Christians pay tithe too.
OP, some may miss where you mentioned paying your own tithe and outrightly decide not to pay again because you've in a way termed Nigerian Pastors thieves. The Bible is not a lying book! There is a Curse! Be guided. The Bible didn't state if it's financial, but, there is a Curse
Malachi 3:8-10 Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings
Ye are cursed with a curse : for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation.
Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

Pay bountiful Offerings with faith to reap bountifully and one tenth of your income as your tithe. Jesus Loves us all!
Happy Sunday
Travel / Re: 10 Luxury Buses Impounded, 150 Passengers Arrested In Lagos (pic) by ZiriMane(m): 10:46am On Jul 23, 2020
I believe this all boils down to poor information from the governments
Federal Govt: We have removed the ban on inter-state movement
State Govt: The ban has not been utterly removed. There are curfew hours

Set of confused people. Only the poor suffer from their misinformation

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Family / Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ZiriMane(m): 10:32pm On Jul 19, 2020
Marriage is not a Scam! The moral of the story is "don't rush" into one when you are not "sustainably independent" .

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Literature / Re: Kola Onadipe's 98th Posthumous Birthday Is Today by ZiriMane(m): 8:39am On Jul 14, 2020
I just remembered when boys where learning to read that year. Mrs Adaka no go let person rest if you do mistake forget that book for house. Well I no see any sugar inside the book then ( because of Mrs Adaka of course), but sugar girl and Mrs Adaka helped me to learn to read perfectly!
Rip continua sir Kola!

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Politics / Re: Dora Akunyili's Posthumous 66th Birthday Is Today by ZiriMane(m): 8:35am On Jul 14, 2020
that woman was a rare gem. Maybe politics played a role in her death nevertheless her time at NAFDAC was superb

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea - (2 - 3) On 7th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 7:44pm On Jul 07, 2020
ZiriMane:
Let me bring your minds to this
Since the premier of Chelsea's new Jersey afer an agreement with telecommunications company 3 , the team has had a run of "3 goals" in each of their outing, 3 goals against them at the first outing and 3 goals in their favour at the second outing. Today they look poised to having another 3 goal streak in their 3rd outing. This time it presently looks like it would be in their favour or would it not? would any team be scoring more than 3¿ Who knows?
Game on...
Up Chelsea Up blues
And the 3 goal streak has happened. Game over?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea - (2 - 3) On 7th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 7:18pm On Jul 07, 2020
This page seems kinda silent today... Where are all those wailers, those loquacious ones that like clamouring Chelshit upandan? If Crystal palace do mistake equalize like dis ehnn...you go see dem rushing out in droves. But sadly that wouldn't be happening but please wail if that is what you know how to do best.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea - (2 - 3) On 7th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 7:00pm On Jul 07, 2020
Let me bring your minds to this
Since the premier of Chelsea's new Jersey afer an agreement with telecommunications company 3 , the team has had a run of "3 goals" in each of their outing, 3 goals against them at the first outing and 3 goals in their favour at the second outing. Today they look poised to having another 3 goal streak in their 3rd outing. This time it presently looks like it would be in their favour or would it not? would any team be scoring more than 3¿ Who knows?
Game on...
Up Chelsea Up blues
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Watford (3- 0) On 4th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 9:58pm On Jul 04, 2020
Should I order some bottles for this 5th holders?
well, this my Yoruba brother is saying ko necessary...probably next time
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Watford (3- 0) On 4th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 9:52pm On Jul 04, 2020
Ray07:
go check your remaining fixtures and stop making noise Oga.
Your chelsit might end in 6th place self.

List i forget, make Chelsea no forget to carry condom come for the forth round naking at Wembley grin

what I know is dat u wud definitely be a hurting ManU fan.
Well, list I forget too I still dey top u for the list

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Watford (3- 0) On 4th July 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 9:26pm On Jul 04, 2020
the only time ManU will be qualified to play champions league next season is if their neighbour ManCity ban is upheld.
I need sombody to shout Chelshit dia make I dey look
Politics / Re: Betty Anyanwu-Akeredolu Tests Positive For COVID-19 With Her Security Aides by ZiriMane(m): 8:08pm On Jul 02, 2020
God save this woman and her family.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me Check If It Scam Or Fake by ZiriMane(m): 3:38pm On Jul 02, 2020
you or any of your family person send application give dem bfr? if NO ... stay your house!
anslemarinze52:
I do apply some job through the jobs Facebook provided so I don't know if it from there
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Oya go check your FB activity log...trace am see if you send to dem anytime. It's better that way than to be sorry
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me Check If It Scam Or Fake by ZiriMane(m): 3:27pm On Jul 02, 2020
you or any of your family person send application give dem bfr? if NO ... stay your house!
Romance / Re: Help It Itches Me. by ZiriMane(m): 9:13am On Jul 02, 2020
Don't shave 'em off entirely. Get a scissors and trim it a bit.
Education / Re: “small But Mighty”, Meet The Shortest Sug President In Nigeria (photos) by ZiriMane(m): 11:35am On Jun 29, 2020
Mr Writer, at the end of the day we didn't know anything about him other than he is small and tiny .

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Career / Re: 10 Most Effective Method To Quit Gambling And Save Cash by ZiriMane(m): 12:41pm On Jun 27, 2020
olamariamjonez:

1. Enjoy A Reprieve
Enjoy a reprieve from betting. Make a timetable of every day so as to not get time to bet or visit a gambling club. Set objectives for every day and mean to satisfy them. Stay away from your gambling club mates and quit visiting places close to the club.
What of those ones wey the only place wey dem get to charge their phones since NEPA no do gree bring light na the betting club wetin dem go do?

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Health / Re: Please Help what is this on my chest(pics). by ZiriMane(m): 9:07pm On Jun 26, 2020
This is as a reaction to the cream or soap you used earlier. Try applying dusting Powder to the affected areas during the day and Damatol at night for optimum result.
Education / Re: Why I Abandoned My PHD Programme by ZiriMane(m): 2:28pm On Jun 24, 2020
jesmond3945:
see my brother I have been lecturing for 10 years before I ventured into something else. Students always act nice and lecturers see through that. What the lecturer cares about is 2 things; how to get money from you and how to get publications from you. Then some go further to want to sleep with you. The students knows this but they always want a soft landing incase they don't have money or they don't want to sleep with you. So no matter what you do the lecturer calls the shot. What's the point of being friendly when the lecturer would still sleep with you or collect large sums. So is better to just do your research and hope for the best. If it is good it might win him over.
It's all good... I understand your point
Education / Re: Why I Abandoned My PHD Programme by ZiriMane(m): 2:18pm On Jun 24, 2020
Don't dwell on assumptions. It is never better in any given circumstance to be unfriendly.
A little "how are you?" can make someone regard you as their friend not necessarily outrightly going out to please them but just by simply saying "how are you" at the right time. Anyways, what I mean is that you should have this warmth of care around you.
Now back to the original, I would like you to engage this concluding words not with their dictionary or whatever meaning, but try to 'circumspectively' analyze it with its idiomatic meaning and you'll see that they wouldn't see through you if you don't make them see:
" It takes a thief to catch a thief "
jesmond3945:
they would see your through your good boyism and know you are fake and become more wicked. Is it even better not to be friendly. Your good research would vindicate you

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Education / Re: Why I Abandoned My PHD Programme by ZiriMane(m): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2020
jesmond3945:
and you think is right? Mind you they are paid to supervise you.
The secret is... you become friendly with them before they begin their demands, there by making them consider the option of not demanding, because you've been a "good boy".
It's best to be psychologically smart and experience progress than to be stagnated or experience regress because you chose not to be.

#SayNoToBriberyAndCorruption

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Education / Re: Why I Abandoned My PHD Programme by ZiriMane(m): 1:02pm On Jun 24, 2020
Read Proverbs 18:16
Most times your generosity may endear you to them and grant you favour before them.
A little "Sir, please use this to recharge your line" or "Ma, use this one to buy bread" might have done the magic.

I don't and won't encourage corruption in form of bribery. However, good deeds like these speaks volume for us.

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Health / Re: Sniper Didn't Work For Me by ZiriMane(m): 11:04am On Jun 24, 2020
IntersexSherry:
thanks, i realized that. The best gift you can do for yourself is learning to love yourself

help to advocate for a better life and the #SayNoTOSuicide campaign, it would help alot. You just might not know who you are or may be helping.
Your initial post before modification seemed to be encouraging Suicide tho
Health / Re: Sniper Didn't Work For Me by ZiriMane(m): 10:43am On Jun 24, 2020
IntersexSherry:

Just don't know why it worked so well for others who succesfully used it in killing themselves but didn't work for me. I don't have the balls to do other methods, i would prefer death by fire, burning myself to blazes. you guys won't understand ..
Depression is very real. Please do not conform to the voice(s) you hear in your head saying you should kill yourself. Death for you isn't a way forward. I thought like that before, that death was the best option for me cos of my 'failings' but I didn't yield to it and now I'm glad I'm winning.

Hold yourself together. Nobody can love you as much as you .
Love yourself more than anyone else and know that your winning day is coming and it would be bigger than your losses. The time it would come¿ I don't know... But it's coming and it's gonna be big!

Hope is not a flicker of imagination. I'm a proof of Hope

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Aston Villa Vs Chelsea (1 - 2) ) On 21st June 2020 by ZiriMane(m): 5:53pm On Jun 21, 2020
How come is this Chelsea match disorienting some people¿

from the 'never- wishwells' to the 'I Too Sabi' the Pundits dem as if they've ever been to a football coaching school that qualifies them to be dishing out advice

.... the ones that don't know, the ones that think they know but they don't and finally to the ones that can never learn.

Peech
pish
thank God there wasn't Pinshur. All those school na scam crew.
Family / Re: My Encounter With My Successful Wife by ZiriMane(m): 9:24am On Jun 20, 2020
CHoccolaTE:

That's a man you quoted
yes, I know. That's why I'm bothered by his statement
Family / Re: My Encounter With My Successful Wife by ZiriMane(m): 8:21am On Jun 20, 2020
Ekwutox:


Lord knows I can't take such, that woman will be out of my life before I could count to ten.
I seriously don't understand what you wrote here. I'm just hoping it's wasn't what you meant

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Celebrities / Re: Hobbit Bilbo Baggins Dies Of Parkinson's Disease At 88 (Photos) by ZiriMane(m): 5:24pm On Jun 19, 2020
With Chariots of Fire and Lord of the rings you proved beyond doubt that you were a great actor both On-stage and On-screen.
“The elements are big, and the human voice is very small.” you made yours loud by making others happy.

Rest on Sir, 2020 is just too 'some how'.

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Family / My Encounter With My Successful Wife by ZiriMane(m): 2:09pm On Jun 19, 2020
Sorry this may be a long read , but do well to read till the end.
The problem I had in my marriage is that I married a woman who was more ambitious and hardworking than me. It was hard for me because I was raised to see a man as the one who must be more successful than a woman. I was raised to believe that the man must be making more money than the woman. So my ego could not handle it at first. We live abroad and my wife is a very intelligent go getter type of woman. She is more intelligent and more hardworking than me and it was hard for me to accept this. I brought the woman abroad, she studied nursing, before you know it she has upgraded to a Nurse practitioner and was making way more money than me. She was more financially successful. In the beginning of our marriage it was very hard for me to cope with her highly driven nature. I wanted her to slow down and wait for me. As a man it is not easy to see your wife work harder than you and no matter how you try, the woman no dey tire she will be doing 5 things at the same time and is brilliant at all of them. Whatever she touches turns to gold.
It became a major problem for me to keep up with her. I started competing with my wife, and that introduced major rivalry between us. It was the worst mistake I ever made. In trying to compete with her, I was putting obstacles in her way of success so that I can catch up with her, this introduced a lot of discord in our marriage.
First of all I refused to help out in the house chores, we don’t have any help, and we had 4 children. I will refuse to cook even though I knew how to cook so that my wife will spend time cooking and be slowed down in her progress. I wanted her to be tired so she won’t have the energy to be working so hard in her career. I wanted her to defer exams and stay home with the kids for a while so I can earn more than her. So I just frustrated her with house work and looking after the kids. I told her it was a woman’s job to do that. I tried to stay away from the house as much as possible so I won’t even be there to help, she did as much as she could but before long, we were quarrelling a lot. I would even eat and leave the plate for her to wash. She will cry and beg me to support her stay home if I am not working so I can help out with the kids but I will refuse. Then she will get angry and we will exchange words, I will always accuse her of disrespecting me because she is succeeding. I told her her success had entered her head. There is nothing I didn’t do to slow this woman down. To the point of denying her sex and cheating on her to get back at her for her success. Yet this woman made friends easily and those friends helped her with minding the kids, and then she was able to apply for a visa for her mum to come. I was hoping the visa will be refused but it was granted so her mum came.
With her mum coming, staying for a few months, going for a few weeks and coming again, she had more time and she progressed fast and got to the top of her career. She was so intelligent that passing exams was so easy. Meanwhile for me, I struggled to pass my own exams. Her own is one touch she passed. I think I can say that I was jealous of my wife, I was jealous of her success. I wanted that success for myself and I was very foolish in doing that.
As she became more successful, I became a bigger enemy of that success. The conflict in our marriage got worse. Just to frustrate her I will complain about everything, I moved out of our room, just the sight of her made me feel less of a man. I had serious inferiority complex, it was bad.
Knowing that she is a family oriented woman who wanted us to stay together and raise our kids, I will keep threatening divorce to scare her and it used to scare her a lot. She kept crying and begging me, each time I act my drama, she begs and begs and I will keep reminding her that I was the one who brought her abroad and that she is nothing without me. She would always express her gratitude to me and she really tried to be a good wife but No! I was not having any of it. Her mother did her best to try to reconcile us but I wasn’t listening. All I wanted was for her to stop earning more money than me but I couldn’t say it so I don’t sound wicked. Until one day, I don’t know what happened to my wife. But she came home and asked for separation and divorce on that faithful day. Her grounds was severe emotional abuse and neglect; she said we hadn’t slept in the same bed or made love for over 2 years, so we were practically separated. I was so shocked. When the reality dawned on me that this woman was serious, and the implications to me, having to move out of the house I pay the mortgage for, having to pay child support and the damage to my children, I truly did not want the marriage to end. But the cracks in the marriage was huge. All caused by me.
She said she could no longer cope with the stress in the marriage, it was affecting her mental health and she was making mistakes at work. Before I knew it she got a lawyer who was representing her. That was when I knew I had bitten more than I could chew. I have a good friend who knows everything and he had been warning me that I was going to lose a good woman but I refused to listen. I told my friend what was happening and he advised me to swallow my ego and start asking my wife for forgiveness. Omo this was what I did oh!!! She was surprised. She said she thought that was what I wanted, that I hated her so much. This woman cried so much from the pain and suffering I caused her for 12 good years. But she agreed to give us another chance. She insisted that we must attend marriage counselling and continue sleeping apart until we worked through our issues. After several months of marriage counselling my eyes opened to the beast I was and to all the nonsense I believed in. I was so ashamed of myself for punishing her. I was so ashamed of myself for punishing a woman for being hardworking, intelligent and progressive. We made so much progress. I have apologised to my wife nothing less than 100 times since then. I have cried and asked her for forgiveness and she has since forgiven me.
We have started anew and so far it is working. We have been married for 15 years now and I am glad I stayed.
I am particularly directing my advice at men. As more women are getting educated and rising to the top in their careers, prepare yourself to accept that one of these women might become your wife one day, prepare to accept her success, prepare your mind to see her success as yours, prepare your mind to be proud of her and celebrate her rather than work against her. We all have our destinies and for some men, their destiny is to marry a woman that their destiny is to marry a woman that will be more successful than them. It is important to see that succeas yours too so that you will not lose a good woman God has blessed you with. Never make the mistake of being jealous of your own wife. I am so glad I didn’t lose. #copied
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