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PoliticsRe: Nigerian Lawyers In Canada Stand By Kaycee Madu by zivility: 11:44am On Jan 26, 2022
When u go against Baba for no reason ur village people go locate u
FamilyRe: My Smallie Sister-in-law Makes My Life Difficult In My Own House by zivility: 8:40pm On Nov 20, 2021
My advice

She needs to wake up early and do chores then prepare breakfast. When she comes back from school assist your wife and clean up the kitchen after dinner. Going to church till 8pm should stop as it's a risk for a girl of her age being outside by that time by herself.

Discuss the issue with your wife and decide how you need to train the girl. It is your responsibility to train her.

Call her and sit her down and spell out her new way of living. In the present of your wife.
HealthRe: Antibiotics After Sex by zivility: 8:28am On Nov 16, 2021
Exkandayee:
What's the symptoms of gonorrhea brother, please tell me,I wan know,cos I don't know what's wrong with me, there's this guy I bang raw, after one week ,I com dey see whitish discharge coming out from my big gbola
� Bang guy! After whitish thing from ur big gbola! Homosexual!!
HealthRe: Anambra Woman Uses Garden Eggs To Revive Man In Coma Ten Days After by zivility: 4:28pm On Nov 14, 2021
seborrhic:
Disgraceful.
For him to even have the nerve to publicly air this rubbish shows he believes there are still many gullible out there that believe such poorly scripted narration.
Typical black man mentality, looking down on your own. Until WHO tell u that garden egg works b4 u believe
Nairaland GeneralWhatsapp Will Stop Working On Thousands Of Phones Next Week by zivility(op): 2:08pm On Oct 27, 2021
WhatsApp, the most popular messaging app in the world, is about to stop working on thousands of phones.

The Facebook-owned app is set to stop support for older phones around the world on November 1, 2021.

It will cease to function on up to 43 different smartphone models as it shifts the requirements for the Android and iOS operating systems.

In the FAQ section on its website, WhatsApp says people should use phones running Android version OS 4.1 or iPhones running iOS 10 and newer.

If you haven’t updated your system software recently, then you may well escape having to upgrade. But a few select devices – of which there could be thousands still being used – will lose security and feature updates.

And, in the very unlikely case you’re running WhatsApp on a Linux-based phone, you’ll need to update to KaiOS 2.5.1.

https://metro.co.uk/2021/10/27/whatsapp-will-stop-working-on-thousands-of-phones-next-week-15488835/
CrimeRe: Otoniel: Colombia Captures Most Wanted Drug Lord With 22 Helicopters by zivility: 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2021
Mashgash:
Colombia captures its most wanted drug lord 'Otoniel'

"...500 police personnel, 22 helicopters"



https://m.dw.com/en/colombia-captures-its-most-wanted-drug-lord-otoniel/a-59608144
This is a natural happening. He was raised by society as what he became!.
FamilyRe: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by zivility: 10:08pm On Oct 24, 2021
duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��
You seam a sensible person but life happened to u. I know it's good u have a child of ur own but more importantly a companion. Many are married but have no companion trust me. Being in the US gives u a lot of advantages but as much disadvantage still u r rich. I would like to see u go further and be happy but I can't tell it here inbox me and I'll gladly give assistant cheers.
FamilyRe: Bored In Marriage by zivility: 7:40pm On Oct 16, 2021
shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like thathuh

please advice
Marriage is overrated and chiefly for the benefit of the woman. Kind of the price for man to have children. Don't follow it in the stereotype way.

Start by having your own separate bedroom, with your study in it.
FamilyRe: Is This Appropriate At The Children’s Playground? (Pics) by zivility: 4:17pm On Oct 11, 2021
It's ironic depiction - when that is done children are made. They literally slide out hahaha
Science/TechnologyRe: Mystery As Hundreds Of Dead Ravens Fall Out Of The Sky In Russia ( Pics, Video) by zivility: 9:38am On Sep 29, 2021
Righteousness2:
And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity.
Men's hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken.


In the Skies, On land , The Signs of the times are Everywhere..
JESUS is Coming ,
Get ready!Don't be Caught Sleeping on a Bicycle.
He has come already, better seek and find! Don't be waiting for one pastor or prophet to tell u, they are fake. Or waiting for the pope to put it in a book. U r sleeping on a bicycle
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Shaibu Butchered To Death By Muslim Youths In Masu, Kano (Graphic Photos) by zivility: 11:29am On Sep 26, 2021
lalasticlala:
As shared by DEMAGOGUE PhD. senior advocat @von_Bismack:

"Pastor Shaibu, CAN chairman of Sumaila LGA in Kano was targeted and brutally butchered to death by Muslim youths in Masu village in Kano bcus as they said "his mission is growing"
This is repulsive and stand condemned.
For how long will this targeting of Christians continue."
I smell fake news
SportsRussian Daniil Medvedev Wins 2021 U.S. Open! by zivility(op): 12:05am On Sep 13, 2021
You have updates
18.51 EDT
While Djokovic was speaking, the Guardian recap was posted:

Daniil Medvedev ends Novak Djokovic’s calendar slam dream in US Open final
Updated at 18.51 EDT
18.51 EDT
Djokovic speaks. Well, after a prolonged ovation that again brings a smile and some tears.

“I would like to start off by saying congratulations to Daniil. Amazing, amazing match. If there is anyone that deserves a grand slam title right now, it is you. ... I wish you many more grand slams and many more majors to follow.”

Medvedev, emotionless to this point, looks moved.

Djokovic sniffs a bit as he says he visualized himself standing here in both scenarios. “My heart is filled with joy and I’m the happiest man alive because you guys made me feel very special on the court.”

Updated at 18.50 EDT
18.47 EDT
Trophy presentation with all the dignitaries and sponsors, along with legend Stan Smith.

ESPN’s Chris McKendry does the honor ... I mean, welcomes two 12-year-old Americans to carry trophies to the podium.

Tournament referee and umpire are thanked. When can we do that in youth soccer?

The next speaker congratulates Medvedev and says he’s thrilled that Medvedev won his first major in New York. He then congratulates Djokovic, who bows his head and smiles grimly. The fans roar, and that brings the tears from the 20-time major champion.

Updated at 18.47 EDT
18.43 EDT
About that crowd noise ... I’m getting several tweets and emails complaining about the New York crowd. Hard to argue otherwise.

Imagine how lop-sided this might have been if the pandemic was still keeping people at home.

One narrative would be that Djokovic ran out of gas after winning three majors and going to the Olympics. But his trip to Tokyo was his only tournament since Wimbledon.

The other narrative would be that a younger player finally broke through. That would be Daniil Medvedev.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/sportsnews/article-9982615/amp/STFU-McEnroe-Martina-Navratilova-blasts-fellow-tennis-legend-criticism-Emma-Raducanu.html
Christianity EtcRe: Explain These Bible Verses by zivility: 11:36am On Sep 12, 2021
Firstly The Lord Jesus did not die for the sins of man, He died BECAUSE of the sins of man!

Try reading the teachings of The Lord Jesus Christ without Christian religious prejudice and you will understand better. The doctrine of "He died to wash away your sins is false!". Jesus said carry your cross and follow me! He was killed
PoliticsRe: Femi Gbajabiamila Visit Asiwaju Bola Tinubu In London (Photo) by zivility: 9:33am On Sep 04, 2021
Otuegbe:
Who help am carry the leg up?
grin grin grin this is epic
Foreign AffairsRe: Australian Girl, Clinging For Life To A Tree Is Airlifted To Safety( Pix, Video) by zivility: 7:21pm On Sep 01, 2021
Righteousness2:
That was an Incredible Lift by the Police officer.

This is a Pictorial evidence of the GREAT Lift about to Hit this Earth.

In the Midst of all the Chaos and Choking Disaters ravaging Humanity, JESUS Christ is about to Break through the Sky and Lift all whose names are in the Book of Life out of this Sinking Ship.

Get Ready Folks! It is gonna Happen in a Twinkling of an Eye.
All you need to be in that lift is Humbly Surrender to JESUS Christ and Come into a Genuie relationship with HIM.
No that's not all u need to do! The ideology is erronous.

Seek and you shall find. Stop following religious doctrine
AutosRe: Pls What's The Name Of This Vehicle? by zivility: 11:57am On Aug 25, 2021
It's a Trike
Christianity EtcRe: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by zivility: 9:27am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMALhuh
Stop worshiping church! Stop worshiping religious book! Know that they r just trying to convey The Message of God to you. Find The Message.
CareerRe: Which Is Best, Architecture Or Civil Engineering by zivility: 1:44pm On Jul 09, 2021
Civil engineering. It's more versatile.
PoliticsRe: Police Kill 4 Wounded IPOB Gunmen Receiving Treatment In Rivers, Recover Charms by zivility: 6:39pm On May 15, 2021
I had the pleasure of reading through your loud write up and wondered what brought about the matter of god here. Anyway you are obviously seeking which means your spirit is strong. Seek and you shall find!

You get it wrong by taking it that Mohamed is like Jesus to Muslims. He is not, they have the recognition of The Lord Jesus Christ as well in Quran.

There is a Way. Man made religions that recognise Christ know he is above the prophets, or at least among the highest ones. The most comprehensive account of His teachings I know is in the gospels. Read His teachings alone, exclude all else in the bible, and you will gain a new understanding.

ThinkSmarter:
Shot at sight ba?
No due process?
Violence begets violence .
Both the police and the unknown gun men will suffer violence from one another, except they both sue for peace.
Wish the police and the military will incorporate the level of morale they are using against unknown gun men on bandits ,Jihadists.

How can an intelligent person believe that there is God.
When you can't prove it within the boundaries of intelligence.
Yahweh ,Allah ,Elohim, Baal, Venus, Jupiter, Sango etc are all tribal deities .
Man imagined and depicted God/Allah after his own image and likeness.
The Bible and Quran stories are Mesopotamia myths.

Note: I used to be a Christian and used to bbelieve in God ,but reading the Bible and Quran, I got interested with the stories and I digged deeper and discovered that the so called God were nothing but tribal deities.
The Bible of full of myths ,hallucinations, histories, wise sayings, moral instructions, faith and fantasies.

Heaven and hell are all religious fictions.
No physical proof that Heaven or hell exist.



For those mentioning me cuz of my stand on religion, please read through.

After thorough study and research in my quest to know the truth behind World Religions.

I have come to this conclusions.

El (Elohim) or Yahweh is a Jewish god of war.

Exodus 15:3 stated categorically thus: Jehovah is a warrior.

What Yahweh is to Jews is what the god of the Sun is to Greece (GreekoRoman Empire)

One thing I discovered with the Hebrew god is that it's powerful, mysterious more than the other gods in Arabia.

And it is a very intolerant god and aggressive god.

In so many scenarios like the way it turned Lots wife to pillar of salt for minor disobedience, the way he killed Israelites at mount Sinai where it comes with flames, thick smoke and thundering clap for drawing closer to the mountain.

Almost synonymous to the Yoruba Sango god and Igbo Amadioha god in their use of thunder, thick smoke and lightening.

The way the Ark of the covenant killed anyone that gets in touch with it.

Less, I forget, many places around the world in the early and mid centuries went about building temples for their god, gods, goddess or goddesses.

From India to Pakistan to China to Assyria to Persia to Greece to Rome to Egypt to Africa, every where gods, temples.

Could Jewish god that is always jealous of other gods be an exceptional god, different from other pagan gods ?

Could other gods of other regions be all that powerful for the Hebrew god to be jealous?

No, if Baal is to be ineffective and just but a man made statue, why will the super God alleged to have created the universe and everything therein be jealous of his tiny creations earth molded image(sculpture)??

Reading through the book of Exodus, especially Exodus chapter 13 Yahweh's demands for 1st born human and animal sacrifice makes me think, could this be God the creator?

Do the Supreme God need human and animal sacrifices?.

Why do most pagan shrines and temples use incense, the way it is used in the temple of El, YWH, Yahweh or Jehovah?

The are many mysteries to be unravelled.

I have come to also realize that the story of creation recorded in the book of Genesis is nothing but Jewish mythology.

Read #Genesis 1:26 and #Genesis 2:7 and behold a contradictory statements.



Read #1Samuel 15:3 Now go, and strike down the A·malʹek·ites,d and devote them to destructione along with all that they have. You must not spare them; you are to put them to death,f man as well as woman, child as well as infant, bull as well as sheep, camel as well as donkey.’”

Could a god that orders the killing of innocent children, pregnant women, widows, old women, innocent animals and the disabled be the #God of the #Universe??

Imagine America coming to perpetrate this kind of crime against a country or region?.

What will be your reactions?

Is God portrayed as the most compassionate, most merciful in this scenario?

Is that not a partial god that favours only the jews?

Could Yahweh be an over glorified tribal god?

#ForYourConsideration.

It's high time we start to unlearn the craps deposited into our skulls by the stone age ,iron age and bronze age people.



The Bible is a well crafted religious literature with real historical records of war written by different authors over centuries.

And the events centered around present day Middle East and Europe and some parts of Africa.

The genealogy recorded in book of Genesis and in the book of Matthew never branched or took account of other races of humans like the Asia, India, West Indies, Europe and Africans

From Adam to Noah.

from Noah to Abraham

And from Abraham to Jesus Christ.

This history of a tribe representing that of the entire World creation story is not plausible.

But one thing is certain

Truth is tested with time.

It's obvious that the Israel god Yahweh that rides a chariot was powerful to the Israelites, originally the Canaanites.

The world major religions: Hinduism, Buddhism, (Islam, Judaism and Christianity) (Abrahamic religions) have all stood the test of time.

And their Various teachings are so related.

What Jesus Christ is to Christians is what Shiva is to Hindu is what Saddhauta Gautama (Buddha) is to Buddhists is what Mohammed is to Moslems.

Though Shiva of Hindu is actually a god or deity that is very significant in Hinduism.

Jesus Christ, Prophet Mohammed, Buddha are very enlightened fellows and they all preached love and peace to humanity.



I know I am sounding controversial and weird to religious people

But the truth remains that I am standing on a neutral ground to decipher the truth behind World religions.

U can't quench my curiosity.

I knew that every religion faithful do uphold their own very religion as the best.

But the truth is that there is no better religion.

All religions came due to mankind quest to unite with the Forces behind the creations, the assumed god, gods and God.
EducationFirst Nigerian Mathematics Textbook For WAEC On Kindle (pictures) by zivility(op): 12:18pm On Apr 20, 2021
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Invention+Mathematics&rh=n%3A154606011&ref=nb_sb_noss

Read and learn on your phone's, tablets and PC

SportsRe: Umar Sadiq €60m Move To Bayern Munich by zivility: 10:14am On Apr 10, 2021
Dalil8:
Lol

So Op if na you, u go pay $60m for this kind player?
cheesy cheesy

When Paul Onuachu still dey.

The last team on earth wey go pay this kind money for player na Bayern Munich.

Lewandowski and co, dey no pay shishi for them, na come Sadiq something lmaoooo....
cheesy
Is it player hating or just a tribalistic monkey off d leash
CareerRe: Our Boss Asked Us To Resign Because We Refused To Take The COVID-19 Vaccine by zivility: 11:04am On Apr 09, 2021
Righteousness2:
We said it long ago that Covid is the Red Carpet to the Beast System.

No Mask, No Service!
No Vacc, No Service!
The target is
No Mark, No Service! Which will come into play After the Rapture!

So the rapture has happened -
Christianity EtcRe: Will There Be A Secret Rapture? by zivility: 12:36pm On Mar 14, 2021
The rapture is a spiritual happening and it is at hand. The mistake Christian believers do is that they know only what is put in the Bible. Seek and you shall find.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Here Is The Wicked Condition Someone Gave Before He Connects Me To This 80K Job. by zivility: 9:48pm On Mar 01, 2021
Offer him more - 30k for 6 months! But don't agree to 4 months. If a man ask for a mile go 2
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Falling Of My Father, By His Wife by zivility(op): 11:48am On Jan 03, 2021
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Fiction....but we will work with it.



Ok....but what if we say the same thing for your father.
That he refused to stay with his wife that has built her life, long life relationships and wealth in wise but your father selfishly asks that she leaves all that.


Ok...so na wetin dey pain you be this? Oya send your account number.


So your papa sef wan cash out with Nigeria money...abi was your mother's testament false??
Abeg, your mama is the hero of this story.
This is a serious situation and I don't assume that u are a woman. Not everybody's life is easy
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Falling Of My Father, By His Wife by zivility(op): 11:46am On Jan 03, 2021
[quote author=Asquare84 post=97672901][/quote]How do I start, in court? It will cost a lot
Nairaland GeneralThe Falling Of My Father, By His Wife by zivility(op): 10:22am On Jan 03, 2021
My father is in his present condition of stroke because of what his wife (our mother) did to him.

It is important we the people know the truth and learn to recognise evil before it hits.

My father's fall in politics is largely because our mother, his wife, stood against his election and witnessed against him in the build up to the election. Her reason being that he took up another wife. But what happened and why did he take up another wife?

This is what happened: Upon his retirement, my father decided to relocate from his house in wuse to his house in mararaba so he will focus on farming as vocation. He asked his wife (our mother) to relocate with him and leave the house in wuse for us the children. She refused. She chose the enjoyment of living in wuse over her husband, she turned her back on him. As he carried on with his life, single, in mararaba another woman came into his life and hence the second wife. It was around 2005 - 2006 that the issue of election came up and he participated only for his first wife (our mother) to deal him the heavy blow of betrayal in a meeting of elders in our village. There after, the election came and he lost narrowly. He tried to carry on with life but the obvious depression was to much and he had stroke.

What is the cause of all this? Disobedient wife? If she had agreed to go with him to maraba he would not have come into the hands of another woman. If there was a little act of wisdom on her part, owing that she was still working, and shuttled staying in mararaba and wuse to give her husband due consideration and respect, it would have been a different story.

Right now she has systematically grabbed all his properties and collecting rent without letting any benefit come to the children. A long time ago my father told us that our mother wants to grab his wealth and take to her village people. That is what I am seeing happening now. My father is almost a vegetable as he cannot walk on his own, he sits all day and only eat, watch TV and go to toilet with help.

All this seams like fiction but what is even more incredible is the fact that the first child is not his! The child which my father is called by: Baba C.... He told me himself a very long time ago as am the second born.

This is the story of my father today and I can testify to it in court.

I cannot fathom what to do about it right now.
Car TalkRe: Acura ZDX, Honda Crosstour And The BMW X5 by zivility: 8:42pm On Dec 29, 2020
If he really wants the BMW he should go for the rwd only model with the non turbo charged engine! That's how he can enjoy the bmw. Also the issue with BMW is over heating due to plastic parts breaking in the cooling system. Google YouTube for BMW maitainance advice
Nairaland GeneralIphones Worth $5,000,000 Stolen From Trailer By Armed Robbers (photos) by zivility(op): 11:04pm On Nov 17, 2020
A manhunt is underway after £5million of Apple products were stolen from a lorry during a robbery on the motorway.

The raid took place on the southbound slip road at Junction 18 of the M1, Northamptonshire, between 7.45pm and 8pm on November 10.

Both the driver and a security guard were tied up before the robbers drove the vehicle to an industrial estate in the village of Crick.

The thieves then transferred the trailer onto an awaiting truck and made their escape, leaving their victims behind.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2020/11/17/robbers-tie-up-lorry-driver-on-m1-and-steal-5000000-of-apple-products-13607106/amp/

CrimeRe: Businessman Strangled To Death By Househelps In Lagos (Photos) by zivility: 3:33pm On Nov 06, 2020
Righteousness89:
What a mean and Wicked World !
Mere 500k and jewelries for a Soul..
Condolences to the Family of the Dead!


I Look around at a World that is Lost and Deceived,
People are so Fixed on Treasures here on Earth without thinking about Eternity!
Approximately,
About 56 Million people Die each year
About 4,700,000 each Month
About 150,000 each Day
About 6,000 every hour
About 100 per minute
About 2 per second

Where are all these People Heading to?
We are not Promised our next Breath!
Now is the Appointed time to settle our Eternity!
Now is the Appointed time of Salvation!
There is no Repentance in the Grave!

GOD Give us Understanding of Life and Eternity so we don't waste our time Here on Earth..

There is repentance beyond the grave
PoliticsRe: Female Soldiers Deployed To Anambra To Restore Normalcy. by zivility: 8:03am On Oct 31, 2020
Damikjay:
I think female soldiers will show more compassion to the citizen than their male counter part.
Hahaha �� ask about their work at mararaba?
CelebritiesRe: Lil Frosh Apologizes For Battering His Girlfriend, Thacutegeminme by zivility: 2:22pm On Oct 12, 2020
"we" is making a statement and "I" is apologising? From one post! Who is we? how is I? Learn to know the correctness of your writing before u go online.

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