I can only swing if i don't love my woman.

What would be the point of marriage if we swing? We might as well remain single and do whatever we want.

I personally won't do it. Even with one man it's spiritually unsettling for my body, imagine more.


Erm, for the guy, I will probably watch him and take notes.


I can never say never.

Lol

Swinging is wrong from a Christian point of view. I don't approve of it.

......I don't know mehn, in the bible a lot of big names swung a lot.

Kandii, why can't you swing?

Lol, I don't know mehn.

It isn't for me.

kandiikane: ......I don't know mehn, in the bible a lot of big names swung a lot.

In which bible did you read that? And who are the so called big names that "swung a lot"? Please chapter and verse.

Lord_Reed:

In which bible did you read that? And who are the so called big names that "swung a lot"?

LOL Don't mind Kandii, she was prolly talking about Ester, Aisha or sth like that.

Wow, when was the last time I picked up a bible?


anYWAZ, the one who begged her husband to sleep with the house girl to have a baby since she couldnt.

Ileke-IdI:


LOL Don't mind Kandii, she was prolly talking about Ester, Aisha or sth like that.

Wow, when was the last time I picked up a bible?


anYWAZ, the one who begged her husband to sleep with the house girl to have a baby since she couldnt.

Please that is NOT swinging. As far as I know there is no recorded case of swinging in the bible. Adultery yes but NOT swinging.

Lord_Reed:

Please that is NOT swinging. As far as I know there is no recorded case of swinging in the bible. Adultery yes but NOT swinging.

LOL true.

So would you or would you not?

Won't.

Lord_Reed: Won't.

Phew, thought we'd have to break up.

Nice call

Ileke-IdI:


Phew, thought we'd have to break up.

Nice call

Lord_Reed:

I dnt knw y Idi-Ileke is avin ds thought bt I dare say if ma spouse eva tel me dat ehn na me go kil am!

Ileke-IdI:
Meaning, would you switch partners just for a night and several other nights?

i.e Let a woman sleep with your man, while you sleep with her man.


I know that it's not culturally a Nigerian thing to do, but what do you think of it?


Benefits of swinging in NIgeria

1. marital satisfaction.
2. Decreases polygamy.
3. Decrees # of unfaithful marriages.
4. se[i]x[/i]ual variety
5. You get to learn about your body, what you like and what you need.
6. carrying out one's fantasy
7. increases ability to communicate with each other.

GO BACK TO AFRICA...thats all i can say

lol benefits in Nigeria? Are the benefits specifically localised? what will one not hear.

Hmmm what are my thoughts on this; i will always want to try out a 'melange a trois' but i think ill prefer it with complete strangers. dont want it coming back to byte me in the ass. Then again with the right sort of communication and in a perfect relationship there isnt a thing one couldnt try.

queensmith: lol benefits in Nigeria? Are the benefits specifically localised? what will one not hear.

Hmmm what are my thoughts on this; i will always want to try out a 'melange a trois' but i think ill prefer it with complete strangers. dont want it coming back to byte me in the ass. Then again with the right sort of communication and in a perfect relationship there isnt a thing one couldnt try.

Nah, since this is a Nigerian forum, thought to emphasize on it that part before they start calling it a Westernized benefit lol.

Melange a trois? badt girl

CAMEROONPRIDE: GO BACK TO AFRICA...thats all i can say

The same Africa where men they nyash 4 plus wives? Na wa for you.

Lord_Reed:

Please that is NOT swinging. As far as I know there is no recorded case of swinging in the bible. Adultery yes but NOT swinging.

Who said solomon's concubines did not join in the fun?

Swinging=posh word for adultery.

kandiikane:

Was it not solomon that had wives and concubines?

That's polygamy and adultery. And remember, that brought Solomon to his fall.

Swinging is when a married couple agrees to switch partners with another married couple for the night (or multiple nights).

Er, so both have to be married?

They cannot bring in a single woman for the husband to nyash?

kandiikane: Er, so both have to be married?

They cannot bring in a single woman for the husband to nyash?

Na, that's what you call Three-some

Melange a trois

Well, according to the way Wiki defined it, I guess the other does not have to be married:


Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, [b]in which singles or partners [/b]in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity

Lol, is that not included in the swing.

From my post before, did I not say I could possible allow, watch and take notes?

kandiikane: Lol, is that not included in the swing.

From my post before, did I not say I could possible allow, watch and take notes?

LOL you dey crase o. . . .watch another chic touch my honey? LOL I go just snap like that

Lol!

Tbh, I'm not the jealous type, so if my marriage is dying and we need excitement ah go allow small.

It's better this way so I will know my husband will not be cheating or bringing home diseases.

Although, I do believe there could be a downside to it.

What makes you think since the relationship is open, he won't use that excuse to bang behind your back?

It's better to let him know that you claim ownership to their kong from the beginning.

And there's a chance that your husband might end up falling in love with the other person's wife.

Tough Question......It depends on the Quality of Babe u get sha.