*Ileke-IdI:
What makes you think since the relationship is open, he won't use that excuse to bang behind your back?

It's better to let him know that you claim ownership to their kong from the beginning.

And there's a chance that your husband might end up falling in love with the other person's wife.

Lol, the thing is ileke, once he tastes the koko, the man can never fall inlove with another girl. It's impossible. The koko has been jujufied so I try to warn any future suitors.

Lmao.

Do people predetermine such things?

kandiikane:

Who said solomon's concubines did not join in the fun?

Swinging=posh word for adultery.

Following the definition of swinging literarily Solomon did not swing but if you want to make it a "swinging=posh word for adultery "matter then every one who commits adultery is swinging.

thats the whole point of swingin, he wouldnt need to mess about behind your back. its not for the faint hearted sha.

do u mean swing with jan-ku-lova as children like to do

No, like tarzan.

Can't believe I'm still banned in this section with my original ID

kandiikane:

Lol, the thing is ileke, once he tastes the koko, the man can never fall inlove with another girl. It's impossible. The koko has been jujufied so I try to warn any future suitors.

Lmao.

lol

Girl, please lol

ArQueBusieR: Do people predetermine such things?

What do you mean? Is is something to predetermine?

If you can predetermine what qualities your wife will have, then this won't be hard to predetermine.

Ileke-IdI:
Meaning, would you switch partners just for a night and several other nights?

i.e Let a woman sleep with your man, while you sleep with her man.


I know that it's not culturally a Nigerian thing to do, but what do you think of it?


Benefits of swinging in NIgeria

1. marital satisfaction.
2. Decreases polygamy.
3. Decrees # of unfaithful marriages.
4. se[i]x[/i]ual variety
5. You get to learn about your body, what you like and what you need.
6. carrying out one's fantasy
7. increases ability to communicate with each other.

wat of if the guy give my wife HIV AIDS

Yield:

u soooooo funny

so this thing about yoruba gehls being overtly promiscuous may be true

@ileke-idi i hail u aunty, you are the type of woman i ensure i never fall into her snare...

if i was married to ur type, i'd probably end up in polygamy...strictly cos i dont like ur character

Cra.zy thread.

Its high time you Nigerians abroad returned home finally before you lose all sense of morality and God-consciousness.

wtf!!!

Virgin Finder: Cra.zy thread.

Its high time you Nigerians abroad returned home finally before you lose all sense of morality and God-consciousness.

wtf!!!

lol

So would you swing?

lefulefu:
wat of if the guy give my wife HIV AIDS

wear protection, haba! What if you give the guy's wife HIV AIDs?

Virgin Finder: Cra.zy thread.

Its high time you Nigerians abroad returned home finally before you lose all sense of morality and God-consciousness.

wtf!!!

clap for yoursel ....i wonder about where we are heading ...next it will giant orgy or BJ competition ...aie Africa where are u going

kandiikane:

The same Africa where men they nyash 4 plus wives? Na wa for you.

they aint forced ....polygamy is better than what she is proposing....

CAMEROONPRIDE: they aint forced ....polygamy is better than what she is proposing....

Swingers arent forced too.

LOL @ Africans and their ignorance.

Ileke-IdI:


Swingers arent forced too.

LOL @ Africans and their ignorance.

who said they are forced EUROPEAN wannabe we don't want to swing ...keep it at the airport when you come back

CAMEROONPRIDE: who said they are forced EUROPEAN wannabe we don't want to swing ...keep it at the airport when you come back

It's not an European thing lol. I never said I wanted to swing.

However, I do understand why couples would want to do it to stimulate their sexual relationship.

Ileke-IdI:


It's not an European thing lol. I never said I wanted to swing.

However, I do understand why couples would want to do it to stimulate their sexual relationship.

what are u going to tell me that its an African thing? smh anyway ....people do what they want i guess. but not in Africa we dont want it

CAMEROONPRIDE: i was joking did u see the emoticon? anyway ....people do what they want i guess.

Yea, they do

Cava bien?

Ileke-IdI:


Yea, they do

Cava bien?

yes je vais bien et toi? and it's Ca va not cava with a cedilla under the the C

Ileke-IdI:


lol

So would you swing?

Never!!!

Virgin Finder:

Never!!!

You might find your virgin by swinging.

CAMEROONPRIDE: yes je vais bien et toi? and it's Ca va not cava with a cedilla under the the C

I know. I'm lazy typing. . . .I am fine, thank you.

Ileke-IdI:


You might find your virgin by swinging.




I know. I'm lazy typing. . . .I am fine, thank you.

welcome..so what r u doing?

CAMEROONPRIDE: welcome..so what r u doing?

About to get me some azz once dinner is done

Ileke-IdI:


About to get me some azz[/b][b] once dinner is done

sorry i don't get it.....

CAMEROONPRIDE: sorry i don't get it.....

LOL You are so cute in your innocence lol

CAMEROONPRIDE: who said they are forced EUROPEAN wannabe we don't want to swing ...keep it at the airport when you come back

Stop this ignorance!

Acting as if such things don't happen in africa. Probably, the type of person to say Africans only have s.ex in missionary position.

Ileke-IdI:


LOL You are so cute in your innocence lol

u stiil didn't explain what u mean by that .tho

kandiikane:

Stop this ignorance!

Acting as if such things don't happen in africa. Probably, the type of person to say Africans only have s.ex in missionary position.

lol abi. . . .no mind am. That's why African marriages, when it comes to sex, are sooo boring and dry.

CAMEROONPRIDE: u stiil didn't explain what u mean by that .tho

Sex.

kandiikane:

Stop this ignorance!

Acting as if such things don't happen in africa. Probably, the type of person to say Africans only have s.ex in missionary position.

sharrap ...where is the link with sex position with your babe and perversion...? i don't see africans gallowing their wifes to be bleeped by someone else.....and even if it's happening u should be against ........typical modern African always trying to copy the others.

Why should I be against something a couple choose to do?

What is my business there? Should I not be worrying about my own relationship and find my own ways to make it better. If swinging is what works for a couple, wetin be mÿ own?

Nawa for you oo. Mind your business!

It has nothing to do with being African but being human