lefulefu: if the guy must give the babe money then i go advise make the guy give the girl belle so make the girl no come dump the guy and run off wit the money.na so sharp men dey do am

naija gals have low business IQ.

That girl is being arrogant and childish...how on earth does she expect someone to give her N500,000, when she can't provide a reasonable business plan that would convince him beyond every reasonable doubt that indeed she needs that money.

charity00:

Perhaps this part wasn't made clear. There is a business plan; it is as follows:

I reject failure in the name of Jesus.

Do you trust that plan?

Not swot analysis no cash.

charity00: Perhaps this part wasn't made clear. There is a business plan; it is as follows:

I reject failure in the name of Jesus.

Do you trust that plan?

charity00:

Ok then, what is the bare minimum you would accept as far as a plan?

And where, if the girl refuses to provide information, can a guy go to get the info he needs to confidently invest?

sexkillz: Mbuk, I don't know how you make your money and how easy it comes. The choice is yours to make. No matter what anyone says, what you want to do, is what you will eventually do. As a matter of fact sef, you fit don write cheque keep, to give the kokolet. Whatever it is that made you come to ask this question here, you should be able to make a choice from the varied responses of the majority. That is one.

Two. I do not know what planet or geographical location you are in. Here in Lagos Nigeria, we still dey September. Maybe where you are, na December una dey for dia and maybe you don dey grow bia bia for face like father Christmas cos i see no fvcking reason why a common girlfriend wey never turn fiancee go dey give you that kain condition say if you have tire to blah blah, make you give am 500k to blah.

she dey madt?

If na dash you wan dash am, fine. But if you get hope to collect the money back, she must show the business plan mehn. This is business! Business is business, and she must pay with interest! Give am condition, else. . .

No fall hands o.

Mrs..Chima:

jay bee: Girl says this guy says that bla bla bla bla

It's obvious the guy is only worried because of the size of the investment.
Common sense tells me that the guy should do empower her with a trial run with a smaller investment and see how she performs.

AmBeautiful:


Its not about the size of the investment

dont you get it, how can you not confide in someone you are in a relationship with of an idea or [b]hint of a business [/b]you want him to give you #500,000 or whatever for

Isn't that not enough to even make you wonder self

I really don't support you giving that girl a dime till you have a hint, no matter how many years una don dey!

jay bee:
What else could she be possibly doing at a shop if none other than buying and selling.

Men should learn to empower serious g/f's, wives so the issue of bring bring bring wouldn't always be the other of the day.
Yes it's advisable for the girl to come up with a plan but sometimes over analysing risks usually stops us from taking that step.

AmBeautiful:

i am totally in support of empowerment 100%

But it should be done wisely

Giving her money without even a hint, except for the word 'shop' and [b]"i reject failure in Jesus name"[/b]is simply not it!

Don't you realize that some people just want to do business cos their friends are doing it and at the end of the day the business wont even do too well in terms of profit.

I think knowing a little details wont cause any harm, at least even if the business fails you knew what it was.

Yes you are right but the OP's grievance is probably more to do with the value of the investment rather than the attitude.
He has always been comfortable with doling out money with little or no questions asked so why is this any different if he can afford it.

If your girl-friend has no plan, then she is ready bound to fail. Even if she knows what to do with the money,