chibabe3: Guys don't forget that the wages of sin is death... Please repent and accept the gift of eternal life.

You re correct but pls tell naija babes to be a little more considerate in dealings wit naija men... Meanwhile, i support your view na so e dey for bible na, na bible talkam....

it is simply called MULTI-TASKING......and of cos it is hard work,its not easy at all.
Na ur money kill am...The multiple visits,the multiple phone calls,the multiple dates and hangin outs,and here,s the risky one....the MULTIPLE SEX and MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS....I tell u dudes its just
pure hard work.
I just wish i find the right lady soonest and end this tedious lifestyle.

How about u let them know you guys are just linking. No heartbreaks and each party is duly satisfied

Cope ni.. I don't need to cope cos iplay when chance allows and let them go when they want but keep my first from knowing whatever. Do you keep an envelop after reading the letter inside? ibleep a fine girl and I don't call her afterwards and if she wants to keep in touch, iallow if chance allows my joystick to av some more plays or I politely make her go by putting up funny attitudes. Cope how?

Keeping multiple dates is the sweetest,and hardes thing to do. Infact am hooked with two ladies wanting to either kill me,or themselves if I didn't marry them.am regretting my life now,by next year,am getting married to one of them,and there was a day the second one threatens to kill me,if I didn't marry her. She said I've wasted her time with me.. I've tried all tricks in the book to let her go,she won't bulge at all..I was enjoying it initially,but now,I'm fried..
How do I cope? Scheduled my time properly as in I'm a pathological liar,I lie with everything,and anything if I want to have my way.and my oCcupation aiso helps,cos I'm always on official duty,which is a strong alibi for me.
Attimes I put my phone in silent mode,which I'm with the main one,or outrightly switch off..then starts cooking a strong alibi to tell the other one.attimes I go form vex wit any of them,if I want to be with the other one. With regards to money,I keep it simple as possible,I don't make it their right.I only spend when neccessary.right now,I'm with one,and the other as been calling me since friday,and I've cleared myself of being on official duty. know God will see me through.
Mind you,I'm a polygamist bachelor,I've other dates,but I'm only serious with just these two,which the other knows that I aint srious with them.

To cope wit multiple gals is simple as a b c..d fundermental principle is..pretend to giv ur heart to al,and make sure u r emotional attachd to none..

Know how to lie well
Have a good memory
Learn their weak spot
Most importantly never mistake ur number 1 4 any other

not as difficult as people think.

I have 3 now and they all take me seriously even though i only take one of them seriously.
My number one is working and doing a weekend programme so i see her like once in a month. I just enjoy the company of the other two since i see them at least once a week.
* Don't leave important messages where where they can see it. I can store messages on my phone and on my memory card. I also have an application (Hideme/call manager) that allows me to hide messages on my phone.
* Don't ever store any one's number in your contact list as honey or sweet heart or ife mi. Don't store it like that now and change it later. It's recipe for disaster. Even my number couldn't get me to do that.

* Even when u're dating several girls their pictures need to be on your phone so make sure u have the pictures of many of your male friends as well. That way u can tell any of them the others are just ur friend without being called a liar.

* You should be a good liar

* like some said before have a good memory

QED

Nawa ooo, d last time i checked Aids is still real and has no cure. Condom is nt 100 percent effective for prevention. A word is enough for d wise.

Guys, cheating ur partner does nt help a man grow. jus learn 2 b faithful 2 her n u wl enjoy her. No responsible lady 4rm a gud home wl lyk 2 cheat on a gud n faithful bf/ husband. pls no dat if u r faithful 2 ur gf, she wl b faithful 2 u 2.... its jus an harmless advice

I used t run a policy of honesty. If u ask, u get t knw d truth. dat way everyone knws where dey stand. no locking of phones nor deleting of texts..u can as well hang a sign on ur neck.
Dnt do dat anymore, in a relationship..Retired now

faithfulNess is and will always b d best. she'll luv n respect u more f it. nothing beats dat

divinelove: Nawa ooo, d last time i checked Aids is still real and has no cure. Condom is nt 100 percent effective for prevention. A word is enough for d wise.

shattap,are we talking about AIDS here,or advice on multiple partners..with the rate people do abortion,attimes I wonder if condom exist,this was disclosed by my close doctor pal.

Mynd_44: The rules are simple
*know how to lie but make sure each has an inch of truth in them
*never come up with elaborate stories. Keep em simple and short
* Learn how to plan your time and juggle
* Always answer every female call with hey babe and male valls with guy how far?
* Delete all messages immediately they come in.
* Have dedicated friends
*make sure you introduce the girls to one other as your "friend"
* and have a good memory

I believe this is the best answer... I used to be your typical good boy(as dating one girl) until I discovered that ladies take the Monogamist, gentle and caring boyfriend for granted.
I started dating 2, then moved on to 3. The truth is that, each of my girlfriends feel that she is the most loved and each wants to take me away from the others...
About money... Believe it or not, I spend far less now, than when I was keeping only one girlfriend. Though I feel guilty sometimes, but the truth is that girls don't appreciate the GOOD GUYS.

Lies

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acidtalk: How Do Guys Cope With More Than One Partner?

I find it amazing when I hear or see guys who boast of having up to 3 girls friends at a time (not flings). As a guy this is something i have never bothered trying. Once I am in a relationship, I stick to that partner (Emotionally and financially). Not that I don't get to have steady flings from time to time, but keeping up to 3 girl friends at a go is killing.

I would be the type of guy that will be termed 'very responsible'. Meaning I cater for my woman's basic needs and a little excess when the money is available. Even if the lady is richer, older and more sophisticated. It has always been my way.

I treat her like a brother, father, friend and lover by sharing experiences and advicing her. So doing all this with two other girls will probably drive me nuts.

Guys please how have you managed to cope with 3 steady girl friends over a period of time?

Dude quite the Advert, u are nt getting laid tonight

190:





for what shall it profile a man to stay with one woman hes not yet even married to

the thing tire me ooo

swtbb: Guys, cheating ur partner does nt help a man grow. jus learn 2 b faithful 2 her n u wl enjoy her. No responsible lady 4rm a gud home wl lyk 2 cheat on a gud n faithful bf/ husband. pls no dat if u r faithful 2 ur gf, she wl b faithful 2 u 2.... its jus an harmless advice

na lie joor Gud guris love badt boy so dey dump gudboys

190: brother its not easy
the incessant fone calls,
the plotting, planning
dividing your self
scheduling appointments, dates, everytin
but the beauty of it is youre in control, cos any small mistake from any of these gurls
snap shes off - not wen ure even killin urself to be wif her in d first place


menh. . its not easy to be a player abeg
attimes na so my fone go ring from morning till evening 7 different gurls 7 different wahala

Bro I dey feel ur pain. Not really Easy. One can't really help it still. I limit mine to 3. Anything above that na mental institution I go enter be dat. Just make sure they are not within d same geographical location.

The rule of the game is don't get caught,chickens.

I dnt reali luv relationship i just love sex so i prefer fwends wif benefit that all.i do play and hav lost count i just knw i go through my contact and solve d maths for d next week of fun...and if a lady calls me and say GUESS WHO's SPEAKIN i just tel u am kinda dumb and am nt good at guessing and when she is tired she would mention her name....2. I send text and always clear my sent items and i go tru my inbox as if i am d lady in search of clues, delete crazy text and leave a few.. 3. I save all my contact with d name their parent gave dem no specal effect or pet name no mata her ranking #SHEKENA

A deliberate practice of multiple emotional partnership will take you somewhere- an irresponsible godforsaken life.

AmBeautiful:
@ op

Having multiple partners is like a TUG OF WAR!

Seriously nobody is in control at all times and at any particular time, as control is shared between both sides at intervals.

For every girl you think you are playing, each of the may have like double the amount you have and are definitely playing you the guy as well!

You can never share your love and attention equally because you can never serve two masters at a time meaning that even the person you love most will be affected!


And while you think the girls are fools because you are playing them, so do the girls also think you too are a fool because they are doing unto you what you do to them!

Be wise

So on point dear. Thumbs up.

AmBeautiful:
@ op

Having multiple partners is like a TUG OF WAR!

Seriously nobody is in control at all times and at any particular time, as control is shared between both sides at intervals.

For every girl you think you are playing, each of the may have like double the amount you have and are definitely playing you the guy as well!

You can never share your love and attention equally because you can never serve two masters at a time meaning that even the person you love most will be affected!



And while you think the girls are fools because you are playing them, so do the girls also think you too are a fool because they are doing unto you what you do to them!

Be wise

So on point dear. Thumbs up.

acidtalk:

Believe it or not, 90% of girls that cheat on their guy actually had a fling and were not in a full time relationship with the other guy (though no statistics to prove but I know I am not too far from that figure).

If u say this, then I can deduce that u are not a 'street guy'. Many girls have full-fledged relationships on a multi-tasking platform. They will juggle 3 guys very well and conveniently and each will still feel like he is d only one.
When a woman stays wit u for a while and tells u she has to go see her Aunty that is not feeling well, u go follow her go?
Infact, men dey learn work wen it comes to d topic. Women are d pro.

Can a nigerian guy survive without cheating on his partner? As for m , i know there is a good guy somewhere who will never cheat on ♍ε waiting to meet ♍ε

No big deal, i've been into dat for the past 8yrs, and all the chicks beliveve me die. @190. Omo i give u a nod.

acidtalk: @190, you are correct.

I am a very bad liar. Once I try to lie, I will give up instantly. Also I don't know how to be sneaky. I drop my phones anywhere and anyhow. I just threaten to get annoyed with my girlfriend if she picks up my phone but she knows its only a mere threat.

I missed 3 solid dates within the past one week because she saw my BBM chat and the scheduled time of the different dates.

Also I spend heavily on my woman so I don't think I have excess to spend on a second and third.

All these are the reasons why it quite difficult for me to double date.

Most of my flings even always end up being my Ex, female friends or people who confess their crush on me. It is always stressful starting up a new relationship when I am already in one.

U sound like an ideal bf oh! Oya come ‎​Ãήϑ spend on me abeg! Enuf pervian hair tinz

mashnino: oga you are on a long thing..

d rules are;

make sure you are in love wit the first.

make sure you respect the first more

never delete msgs from the first

never take your phone away from the first

the first is actually your point of focus

never..i repeat..never fall in love with any oda but the first

make sure you are in charge of the rest..

infact everything is about your first...

y?

because you fall back to her if anything goes wrong with any of the rest

y?

because you are in love with her..

and about money...

pay me to teach you how to control the flow of cash through them

WORD!