190-the-clown:
she cursed me because i stay on top of her for hours

masterpiecer: my baby gets short of words whenever there's a fight between us n we rarely do, n whenever she's lost 4 words, i just get calm n we make amends

i can't even imagine using harsh words on her cos she's so delicate, no matter how angry i am. she's such an angel

Precious15: there's nothing like saying something out of anger,
whatever anyone tells you in the heat of an argument,
has been harboured for a while and only got an opportunity to let it out.

lefulefu: yes one of my ex girlfriends call me coconut head because i refuse giving her money to do her hair

Omen100: She insulted me by calling me a horse that i am capable of killing someone's daughter, I cried for days & still crying till today.

lefulefu: yes one of my ex girlfriends call me coconut head because i refuse giving her money to do her hair

Mynd_44: She called me a cute puppy and I got angry and called her a good luck charm

Mrs.Chima:


That's not an insult..that's the truth!

lefulefu:
My head no look like coconut

Idowuogbo:
Ur warehouse big na! Ori! Gbam!

lefulefu:
i no like to waste my money ooo

Mrs.Chima:


what money

nyere84: seriously?? But is it true dat ur john thomas its small?? Abeg ans me asap.

lefulefu:
my 800k wey i hide for wardrobe

binger: Arguments and quarrels are inevitable in a relationship.It's impossible to agree with your partner in every situation,every day.During those 'heated' moments,invectives are sometimes used,emotions flare up,there is an adrenaline rush and we end up saying things we don't actually mean to our partner.In my own case,during a hot argument,she called me a 'stubborn beast'.The name rang in my ear for some minutes,i almost let out 'the beast in me' if not for my decent upbringing.Of course she apologised,& we still together... Over 2 u,share yours if any.

binger: Arguments and quarrels are inevitable in a relationship.It's impossible to agree with your partner in every situation,every day.During those 'heated' moments,invectives are sometimes used,emotions flare up,there is an adrenaline rush and we end up saying things we don't actually mean to our partner.In my own case,during a hot argument,she called me a 'stubborn beast'.The name rang in my ear for some minutes,i almost let out 'the beast in me' if not for my decent upbringing.Of course she apologised,& we still together... Over 2 u,share yours if any.

misterme:

You are lucky sir. This is not abuse. If you want see invectives come close to my wife. When she starts it on everybody and everything. And it happens every two to three weeks. She says un-printable things to me. She uses everything she knows about me both good and bad to abuse me. She curses and abuses my mum and my siblings using everything she know about them. She calls us all kinds of name. Most times I keep quiet because I cannot match her verbal ability. My mum she abuses is even in the US with some my siblings. She NEVER apologizes. She never says I am sorry. As a result the level of anger and bitterness in this marriage is killing. Without doubt the marriage is heading for the rocks. Her mother and siblings have talked to countless number of times but she does not change. She is 7th in a family of 9 siblings. Many women complain about physical abuse and they are right. Physical abuse is wrong. In our 4 and half years of marriage with the bi-weekly abuse I have never raised my hand on my wife. I don't intend to. But do you know that verbal abuse can be even more destructive for a man. It seeks reduce and eventually destroy the self esteem of the man. If a man allows an abusive woman to succeed in this the man is finished. Do you know how much spiritual and mental exercise I do to exorcise my mind of the evil debris of bitterness, anger and hatred this woman deposits in my mind. Do you know how much this used to affect my work before I started these exercises. Even with these efforts I still struggle. I think the only way out is to end the marriage. One of her elder sisters has even given me this advice. The problem is that we have two boys- 3 years and 2 weeks. The abuse since she delivered two weeks ago has been horrible. At some point my brother-in-law who is a medical doctor suggested that I should take her to hospital to check if she has post partum depression coupled with possible psychosis. I suggested this to my wife (who Inow find very difficult to call my wife) and all heal was set loose. Boy I am tired of typing. I am in a bus returning from Onitsha to Port Harcourt. The Owerrinta-Aba-Port Harcout section of the road is very bad. I can't hold up the Transformer well

misterme:

You are lucky sir. This is not abuse. If you want see invectives come close to my wife. When she starts it on everybody and everything. And it happens every two to three weeks. She says un-printable things to me. She uses everything she knows about me both good and bad to abuse me. She curses and abuses my mum and my siblings using everything she know about them. She calls us all kinds of name. Most times I keep quiet because I cannot match her verbal ability. My mum she abuses is even in the US with some my siblings. She NEVER apologizes. She never says I am sorry. As a result the level of anger and bitterness in this marriage is killing. Without doubt the marriage is heading for the rocks. Her mother and siblings have talked to countless number of times but she does not change. She is 7th in a family of 9 siblings. Many women complain about physical abuse and they are right. Physical abuse is wrong. In our 4 and half years of marriage with the bi-weekly abuse I have never raised my hand on my wife. I don't intend to. But do you know that verbal abuse can be even more destructive for a man. It seeks reduce and eventually destroy the self esteem of the man. If a man allows an abusive woman to succeed in this the man is finished. Do you know how much spiritual and mental exercise I do to exorcise my mind of the evil debris of bitterness, anger and hatred this woman deposits in my mind. Do you know how much this used to affect my work before I started these exercises. Even with these efforts I still struggle. I think the only way out is to end the marriage. One of her elder sisters has even given me this advice. The problem is that we have two boys- 3 years and 2 weeks. The abuse since she delivered two weeks ago has been horrible. At some point my brother-in-law who is a medical doctor suggested that I should take her to hospital to check if she has post partum depression coupled with possible psychosis. I suggested this to my wife (who Inow find very difficult to call my wife) and all heal was set loose. Boy I am tired of typing. I am in a bus returning from Onitsha to Port Harcourt. The Owerrinta-Aba-Port Harcout section of the road is very bad. I can't hold up the Transformer well

misterme:

You are lucky sir. This is not abuse. If you want see invectives come close to my wife. When she starts it on everybody and everything. And it happens every two to three weeks. She says un-printable things to me. She uses everything she knows about me both good and bad to abuse me. She curses and abuses my mum and my siblings using everything she know about them. She calls us all kinds of name. Most times I keep quiet because I cannot match her verbal ability. My mum she abuses is even in the US with some my siblings. She NEVER apologizes. She never says I am sorry. As a result the level of anger and bitterness in this marriage is killing. Without doubt the marriage is heading for the rocks. Her mother and siblings have talked to countless number of times but she does not change. She is 7th in a family of 9 siblings. Many women complain about physical abuse and they are right. Physical abuse is wrong. In our 4 and half years of marriage with the bi-weekly abuse I have never raised my hand on my wife. I don't intend to. But do you know that verbal abuse can be even more destructive for a man. It seeks reduce and eventually destroy the self esteem of the man. If a man allows an abusive woman to succeed in this the man is finished. Do you know how much spiritual and mental exercise I do to exorcise my mind of the evil debris of bitterness, anger and hatred this woman deposits in my mind. Do you know how much this used to affect my work before I started these exercises. Even with these efforts I still struggle. I think the only way out is to end the marriage. One of her elder sisters has even given me this advice. The problem is that we have two boys- 3 years and 2 weeks. The abuse since she delivered two weeks ago has been horrible. At some point my brother-in-law who is a medical doctor suggested that I should take her to hospital to check if she has post partum depression coupled with possible psychosis. I suggested this to my wife (who Inow find very difficult to call my wife) and all heal was set loose. Boy I am tired of typing. I am in a bus returning from Onitsha to Port Harcourt. The Owerrinta-Aba-Port Harcout section of the road is very bad. I can't hold up the Transformer well

rokiatu:

Both hunni. Clearly both. I caould care less though.

And I am far from ashamed I am proud of him. That is a trait I wish I had myself.

It has nothing to do with being a pus.s.y, a mumu or however you wants to put it.

He is clearly a very mature and understanding guy who value his relationship and don't mind putting away his pride and ego to make things work.

This his attitude have even make me better. We hardly fight I mean headly. I am extra cautious of his feelings and emotions. This man I got right here knows what hes doing. This formula breaks me down to my bones.

And I am not the kinda girl that take things for granted or look down on my man for what so ever reason. I have enormous amount of respect for him. I luv my man thank you very much.