victorD3: Lies move women more than sight or word.

. U only need lies wen u are not yet successful. Successful men dont need to lie. Ur success will attract them. But on a more serious note, we alll (men and women) find rich successful men attractive. Parents tend to love d rich son more. We all tend to love our rich uncle who gives us cash more than our poor uncles. We all also tend to love our rich brothers and ssters more. We love rich in laws. Pastors, rev fathers (am catholic) etc tend to love rich members and visit them more. We guys,men,young boys love hanging out more with our rich friends more than our poor friends because more bottle will flow. Let us face d truth, wealth is very seductive to we all. It is not a woman or girl tins. It is simply humanity issue all over d world. Success rules d world.

jonsin:

thanx for being truthful,these days its the mixture of both actually,ladies want to be comfortable (which most times leads them to trouble),which has reduced drastically the craze for falling for 'words'. I believe that's why relationships don't last these days #justMYthought

i agree with 100 percent..

i wouldn't mind having a guy who is financially stable.
not to "take care of" me but to help me build the household i want for my future family.

atbu1983: . [size=18pt]U only need lies wen u are not yet successful. Successful men dont need to lie. Ur success will attract them....It is not a woman or girl tins. It is simply humanity issue all over d world. Success rules d world.[/size]

my point exactly!! esp. @ red.

Much Moni,less Talk While Less Money,Much Talk.dis Is The Principle.

Gentle Naaz: If u want 2 knw wat ladies actually want,
1. publish dat u need a girl frnd u wl b payn 1 million per month.
2. If u dnt hv much money or sweet mouth, bt u r very handsome, u wl b atttractd 2 most ladies.
3. If u no fn,bt hs a gud personality, u r attractd 2 ladies
4. U dnt hv any of ds, u r attractd 2 d grl u dnt want

u are absolutely correct. A man must have somtin good for him to be attractive to another person. U must have atleast one good trait. Try and developed sometin attractive about u. U kud be ugly but have a good dress sense, women will still like u. U kud be ugle but very funny wit sweet tongues, women will always like u over time, ugly and rich, women will love u, handsome but poor, women will Bleep u and dumb u. Being handsome is d least of all good trait because u contributed notin to it. Being rich, successful, funny etc are more valued and deeper because u aquired it urself, they are not just what nature gave u. Yes there are those who are rich because thier parents are rich. But a lady will still find a guy who made his wealth himself more attractive wen compared to a guy with similar wealth who got his from his parents.

Most women are moved first by what they see,the world over.just that the reasoning of gals outside Nigeria is very different.
90% of Nigerian gals are egoistic and madly materialistic,true love is very hard to find here,we can't blame them much cos the reasons are not farfetched;they want to change the statuse quo.

sight moves, words keeps

buh not 4 mature n focus abi na fucos ladies


abeg corrt me

atbu1983: not just Nigeria. America ladies are mostly moved by money too. I think america women are even far more materiastics. And above all, from history till date, woman are mostly moved by men with resources(wealth). Even ruth in d bible, seduced Boaz because he was rich. There were other men, who has more right towards her than Boaz, but she chooses Boaz as her target because of his wealth despite the fact that he was far older than her. Let us be sincere, i will prefer my sisters marry a rich man rada than a six packs dude. Six packs doesnt last in d first place. As hurdles of life, and career growth set in, u wont have time to maintain six packs in d first place. How many top ceo,politicians, top MD, etc have six packs?

Errm...Mark zukerberg [facebook founder] deos...lol but i agree with you a 100%

i noticed sometin wit girls, infact they er so foolish, do u knw y, let me tell u Y, a guy driving a rang rover can stop and pick up a girl and hav sex wit her dat same day witout giving her a penny, bt a poor guy can be chasing one girl and be spending all dat he has for over 8 months b4 gaining acses to her laps, dat is if he succeds, wat a cheating world, Lol

Chime Chimezie: i noticed sometin wit girls, infact they er so foolish, do u knw y, let me tell u Y, a guy driving a rang rover can stop and pick up a girl and hav sex wit her dat same day witout giving her a penny, bt a poor guy can be chasing one girl and be spending all dat he has for over 8 months b4 gaining acses to her laps, dat is if he succeds, wat a cheating world, Lol

sad but true

gree-die:
Words might make me wanna move, but it's sight that moves me!!

i trust u.....u no dey kari last

cindyrella: A little bit of both!

b precise dear

So ur comin here now 2 tell us what nah? Cos u sound like u wanna use her and dump.

Propelled by sight, then confirmed by words. Both are complementary except for the choice-less.

mercurie: So ur comin here now 2 tell us what nah? Cos u sound like u wanna use her and dump.

My friend park well, "use and dump"? Is she going to pay me for the nutrients I will lose in the process,? Abi na only me go enjoy am?

.

Good acknowledgment for hardworking independent ladies...

Chubhie: My respect to all hardworking independent ladies who dont belong to this category of my illusive mind construction.

Spot on....

madame_bebe: In my case its definitely words.. I've seen it all.. And have it all..

.

Sight is very important O. Words are equally important too. Just imagine seeing a great hunk that can't speak good English. You'll be disappointed.
I tend to pick up more girls and get their numbers when I'm driving than taking a walk.
Packaging is very necessary O.

Women are people who act and react with emotion, therefore they are moved by anything that appeals to their emotions either by sight or by word. That notwithstanding, both men and women share a common trait in their response to either what is seen or heard in the sense that what is heard no matter is magnitude always seem and feel a lot distant and might sound more of a fairytale than a real story. What is seen is more real and appeals more to our sense, expecting some organic response. In this wise both sexes are moved almost in the same degree. Men only differ as theirs is mechanical since they are emotionally slow.

Hasn't this topic been discussed already? NL is running out of topics, hence, the recycle.

vivian chinaza:

Great minds think alike!

. Watin be great for your mind.Lmao.Next please.

gabbidonbah: . Watin be great for your mind.Lmao.Next please.

*ignores*

Both thrills me

I'm moved more by sight cos I believe in actions more than mere talking. It's not about the money or the gadgets or whatever, it's just some guys are really good at the words thing and without backing that up with action, sorry, can't sway me. Your actions speak more of who you are than what you say that could change in a second.

gree-die:
Words might make me wanna move, but it's sight that moves me!!

Thatz why you are greedy lol

They are moved by both, I guess.That is my point!

OGA Y U GO TALK LYK DAT 1ST U DEY GYM 2ND WATIN U CARRY ONTOP DAT U COM ADD SWAG WAY U NO SAY NA BRAIN FOWL DEY GET U NO-NO SAY EVEN UR MAMA GO DIE/TRIP 4 U?

james1: Most women are moved first by what they see,the world over.just that the reasoning of gals outside Nigeria is very different.
90% of Nigerian gals are egoistic and madly materialistic,true love is very hard to find here,we can't blame them much cos the reasons are not farfetched;they want to change the statuse quo.

lol, its amazing this whole discussion has been skewed to women and money.

wyvilleinc: Thatz why you are greedy lol

chai i don suffer lol