cyril83: STORY!...I can only agree with her if only she's a virgin,anything after that let her phuck out if she can't give in

mompe: sexx isn't luv @ all. If u luv some1 4get sex cox sexx wil mar ur relationship.a gud relationship doesn't nid sexx QED

pellegrini2012: Well, the day has been kinda boring, so i thought i should publish this article on boyfriends waiting for sex. The girl usually has to take the decision on when she would allow sex in the relationship. Guys are more than willing to have sex on the first date itself, so it’s up to the girl to make up her mind on when to go for it. It’s important that the decision is whole hearted and that you don’t give in to any pressure from the guy.
Some girls end up having sex with their guy just because she feels she should not “hurt” him. That’s a wrong notion because most guys are quite “okay” if the girl does not want to have sex, they just feel a little frustrated but that’s not really a bad thing. The guy is going to respect you when he realizes that you are a “no nonsense” girl when it comes to drawing a line on when the relationship can get intimate.
A relationship needs to be balanced and “resentment” free. If you feel that you have to give in to your boyfriend’s demands or pressure that would indicate that you are creating an “imbalance” in the relationship because you are being submissive, and that can get very unhealthy for you in the long run. If your boyfriend is acting too needy and petulant about having sex, it would indicate that there is a hollowness to the relationship you share with him – after all sex is but a small aspect of close relationship.
Tips To Consider
So what if your boyfriend is insisting on having sex, how do you convince him to wait? Here are few tips:
Let Him Know That You Are Not Ready
You don’t have to be apologetic or timid about it, just let him know in no uncertain tone that you need some more time before you allow for such a level of intimacy. Tell him that having sex will take the relationship to a different level and you want to be sure that you are emotionally ready for it.
If there is even the slightest of resistance in you, it implies that deep down you are not sure or that your intuition is warning you against it. Pay heed to this intuition and stand firm by your decision.
Assure Him That Denial Is Not A Reflection Of A Lack Of Love
Your boyfriend will question you if you are in love with him or not when you deny him sex. It’s quite a norm for guys to use the tool of “emotional” pressure, so he is bound to get a little cross with you and demand to know if the reason why you are denying sex is because you are unsure of the relationship. You will need to convince him quite sweetly that this is not the case and that the relationship means a lot to you.
You can tell your guy that you are waiting for the relationship to mature in terms of emotional bonding and closeness before you take it to the next level.
Get Him To See This From Your Perspective
A girl might feel hesitant about engaging in sex early in the relationship because she feels that the guy might treat her differently once he gets physical with her. There are many instances when a guy’s attitude changes completely once he feels he has “scored” with the girl, this also leads to hollow relationships. Guys also tend to label a girl as an “easy” lay if she agrees to have sex within a few dates.


.....continue at the blog http://www.rosemarynkblog.com/how-to-convince-your-boyfriend-to-wait-for-sex/

Evashinen: This is really very true and something every lady must take heed to. Sex is worth waiting for till marriage.

k2039: If you tell him to wait and he cant,trust me he doesnt love you,he just wants to use you.

Yield: Good tips. *Takes notes.*

pellegrini2012: Well, the day has been kinda boring, so i thought i should publish this article on boyfriends waiting for sex. The girl usually has to take the decision on when she would allow sex in the relationship. Guys are more than willing to have sex on the first date itself, so it’s up to the girl to make up her mind on when to go for it. It’s important that the decision is whole hearted and that you don’t give in to any pressure from the guy.
Some girls end up having sex with their guy just because she feels she should not “hurt” him. That’s a wrong notion because most guys are quite “okay” if the girl does not want to have sex, they just feel a little frustrated but that’s not really a bad thing. The guy is going to respect you when he realizes that you are a “no nonsense” girl when it comes to drawing a line on when the relationship can get intimate.
A relationship needs to be balanced and “resentment” free. If you feel that you have to give in to your boyfriend’s demands or pressure that would indicate that you are creating an “imbalance” in the relationship because you are being submissive, and that can get very unhealthy for you in the long run. If your boyfriend is acting too needy and petulant about having sex, it would indicate that there is a hollowness to the relationship you share with him – after all sex is but a small aspect of close relationship.
Tips To Consider
So what if your boyfriend is insisting on having sex, how do you convince him to wait? Here are few tips:
Let Him Know That You Are Not Ready
You don’t have to be apologetic or timid about it, just let him know in no uncertain tone that you need some more time before you allow for such a level of intimacy. Tell him that having sex will take the relationship to a different level and you want to be sure that you are emotionally ready for it.
If there is even the slightest of resistance in you, it implies that deep down you are not sure or that your intuition is warning you against it. Pay heed to this intuition and stand firm by your decision.
Assure Him That Denial Is Not A Reflection Of A Lack Of Love
Your boyfriend will question you if you are in love with him or not when you deny him sex. It’s quite a norm for guys to use the tool of “emotional” pressure, so he is bound to get a little cross with you and demand to know if the reason why you are denying sex is because you are unsure of the relationship. You will need to convince him quite sweetly that this is not the case and that the relationship means a lot to you.
You can tell your guy that you are waiting for the relationship to mature in terms of emotional bonding and closeness before you take it to the next level.
Get Him To See This From Your Perspective
A girl might feel hesitant about engaging in sex early in the relationship because she feels that the guy might treat her differently once he gets physical with her. There are many instances when a guy’s attitude changes completely once he feels he has “scored” with the girl, this also leads to hollow relationships. Guys also tend to label a girl as an “easy” lay if she agrees to have sex within a few dates.


.....continue at the blog http://www.rosemarynkblog.com/how-to-convince-your-boyfriend-to-wait-for-sex/

Adufaye: sum gals r 2 lose,dat de gav der V 2 cheap 2 a guy dat hv no luv 4 dem,its normal 4 guys 2 ask,bt its nt normal 4 gals 2 giv it easily n cheap....dosent me a guy dosent luv u bcus he asked u 4 sex o!

k2039: If you tell him to wait and he cant,trust me he doesnt love you,he just wants to use you.

femi_seun: She no ready ... she dey drink Big stout
She no ready.... She chop barbecue Fish
She no ready.... she chop whole chicken
She no ready.... Nkwobi and isi ewu no escape her mouth
She no ready.... BIS na my responsibility
She no ready.... All eatery for Lagos sabi us
She no ready.... Silverbird and Genesis cinema every weekend
She no ready ... Cream, soap and other expenses dey follow
She no ready.... Festive period, birthday, Val Gifts etc is a must

And U ask me not to ask for my entitlement and wait till ... Leave story she must drop am or no contract

realfreddy: Am not and could never say sex isn't better after marriage but would be really heart-breaking for the guy to learn that the lady he's respected her wishes to not have sex until wedding night is straffin around. He could kill her, I asure you this.becuase the way these girls sleep around these days is saddening.

mega f: dt depends on if ur gal is 'omo oju ko ri ola ri'(..i.e her eyes neva see riches before),, bt if u demand for sex becos of ur money, i'll throw double of ur money to ur face..dt's for me sha...

Etumgbe: deny me sex and deny ursef money for hair and even recharge card

cyril83: ur write up is typical example of igbo gurls mostly imo babes...dem no dey close legs @ll, dat thing dey always sctracth dem...mehn I too straf dem wen I dey do my youth service for east....

double08:

Thats how you will end up not getting married,what if after marriage you find out the guy cannot have sex what do you do then,cheat on him?

what if you lose him to another lady that readily gave him the sex he craved for and they end up getting married.

It is not always by the book,we Africans always make out sex to be one big deal,and we fail to understand what will be will be even if you give him the sex or not. Bottom-line it does not have to always be by the book