Ekans: Why quote the whole topic just to make a simple input.pouts!

What i do with my post, is my business. I find it appealing cos i know that guys like you will whine over it and you proved me right. If you don't like it, hug the nearest trans.

afam4eva:
So, where in that passage is it explictly written that's a sin?

So, i go marry woman for you, help you fuckam too?
Nwoke, do your homework!

cantell:
So, i go marry woman for you, help you fuckam too?
Nwoke, do your homework!

is this in the Bible too?

As a girl child who saw her father's and brother's things ALL through my childhood, I was remarkably uncurious about it, I remember calling it their "pee pee".

It's only when I was an adult capable of making my own decisions when I first came up close and personal with an erect blockus and realized that it can do things other than pee

and friends and neighbours, IT'S ONLY G.ENITALS.

So basically to poster. Don't mind those idiots saying that you are ruining your (girl) children's lives because they accidentally walked into your room and saw your blockus. I never even thought about the fact that my male relatives had them. Now it's another thing when walking into daddy and mummy getting busy, that just scarred me for life. I WAS IMMACULATELY CONCEIVED dammit!

afam4eva:
is this in the Bible too?

Lol. Oji isi karia umunna ya.

Mavor: I dont support what that freak says but I believe in freedom of speech. Censorship is against the nature of a free society. I have only seen mods deleting comments because it is politically incorrect, only on fu<king Nairaland. It doesn't happen elsewhere. Pure Bull$hit.

It's not about that particular poster, there are too many people who grew up without an affectional bond with their parents on this thread.

On NL, there are circumstances under which a thread/post should be deleted, you do not necessarily have to agree.
This may not be one of such circumstances, but there are also times in which the moderator's personal judgement should be trusted. If the OP requests its deletion and the moderator agrees, so be it.

Most comments here are too_____ to even see the light of day.

Hey poster,

I am with you on this, I don't have this consciousness to hide my unclothedness, i sleep unclothed every night even with visitors around. I lotion also in the presence of mama and papa. So I don't see myself changing this habit when i start a family of my own. To me, Its no big deal.

It is absolutely wrong friend.....In my culture,it is a 4bidin tin 4 a kid to c eida his dad or his mum nakednex... So pls,listen to ur wife

op,it is not morally right but d way u choose to train ur kids depends on you.

Op definitely came here to get a pat on the back that he's doing alright but now that he doesn't get that,all Nigerians suddenly have low IQ!
How you come to seek advice from peeps with low IQ is what i don't understand...
...and how people start controversial threads like this expect not to get diverse opinions baffles me.
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Funny how op is stuck on his intial ideals on the issue and how he's discarded most of the things said here..
I'm out!!

Idi-Amin:

Believe i have decided to try, but I have to make a conscious effort and remember. My wife has good point, it's not like I disagree with her, but it is not in me to hide. some people here are posting nonsense as if, if I need to UnCloth, i will call them to line up in front of me to see me naked. people and assumptions.

Now that's fucckin hilarious.

well, this is what you get when you seek public opinions, people whose views differs from yours.
now don't get mad,
just go ahead and inculcate the habit of covering up just for your kid's alone.

@OP

Well, its no big deal but considering the fact that they are 7 and 4 then its another case. They are grown and these kids are smarter than you would imagine. So put on some clothes Sir.

By the way, Mrs Chima is a nudist ..I don't understand why she's talking about clothes here.

Mavor: If seeing his unclothedness was the right thing, then why did the other two sons who covered Noah up, walk in backwards with their eyes covered so as not to look upon their father's unclothedness? Are you Jehovah's Witness that likes to edit the Bible?

You just forced me to comment on this thread.
Must you bring religion into this? I hope you know you want to detrail this thread. Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible? Thats just plain silly. Are there examples you have to back up your claim? The fact that you dont agree with their interpretation of the bible doesnt make them "edit the bible". How are you sure your not the one editing the bible? Afam just asked you a question which you havent even aswered correctly and here you have turned the discussion religiously. Although the sons of Noah shielded their eyes from seeing their father's unclothedness, the question still stands, did Noah curse the other son because he SAW his unclothedness or because he MOCKED his unclothedness?
Just a question and you have changed it to Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible.

@all:
Sorry for derailing the topic a bit. But the quoted pissed me off how he misinterpret Jehovah's Witnesses. If you dont agree with them you dont have to go about misinterpreting them.

Yes, i am one of Jehovah's Witnesses.

baby_123: OP, nothing wrong. It didn't affect me. I was totally oblivious of this till I was like 15, when I started seeing the opposite sex differently. Then I noticed my parents. I personally only use a towel in the shower and then go about my business till I am fully dressed. So who am I to judge? Am not going to judge you. Your kids won't knock before they dash in. I even dash in when my parents are taking a shower, open the shower curtains to get what I want and leave when I like. We even used to have convo's sometimes with parents doing their business in the bathroom. I guess I don't see why everyone is so up tight.

Not everyone has the same level of intelligence, children these days are reading a lot and watching movies so don't underestimate their perception

Idi-amin, you asked for the opinions of NLnders, 80%, at least up to page 3, said you should agree with your wife on this. I do too.
Make a conscious effort to lock the bathroom door when having ur bath or ur bedroom door when dressing up.
Get your children their own toiletries(?) so they dont barge in while you're dressing up or having ur bath. If the door is locked, they learn to knock. It helps them, beyond your environment. It is advisable you stop this NOW.

Its actually not proper to do such

Is totally wrong and very very very very very very very wrong indeed!

ojesymsym: Yes sir, she is so right and u r wrong.

Gbam!

Abbott: Idi-amin, you asked for the opinions of NLnders, 80%, at least up to page 3, said you should agree with your wife on this. I do too.
Make a conscious effort to lock the bathroom door when having ur bath or ur bedroom door when dressing up.
Get your children their own toiletries(?) so they dont barge in while you're dressing up or having ur bath. If the door is locked, they learn to knock. It helps them, beyond your environment. It is advisable you stop this NOW.

if you look into my past posts, you will see where I agree will try and be conscious and try and teach my kids to knock before coming into the bathroom, it's not about getting an opinion different to mine, I don't mind that. i would not post and aslk for opinions if i only just wanted people to agree with me. What i can't stand is abuse from people, child molester, peadophile, bad father, one dude said ' I'm planning to be having sex with my daughters before they turn 10 years old, that is why I am flaunting my unclothedness in their eyes, so that it will be no big deal to them when i start to bleep them'. LOL disgusting

seechris:
Not everyone has the same level of intelligence, children these days are reading a lot and watching movies so don't underestimate their perception

Children are children. If you choose to expose your children to porn all in the name of being a modern parent then that is on you.Maybe that is why kids are spoilt because of the hypocrisy of parents.You let them watch people fu*cking and so on. And then shout that they have ideas in their heads. And now using that to justify being a prisoner in my own house is impossible. I will not wear hijab just so my kids are not molested at the sight of my boobs which they depend on for sustenance. I don't even like clothes that much. . If my kids dash into my room when am naked, that's it o. I continue with my business. I can even see my brothers things and it would look like am looking at a wall. So used to it and I don't have ideas or even fantasize. Yuck* you Nigerians have dirty, nasty minds. Most people here can't resist nudity, their perversion is showing.No wonder Nigerian's blame rape victims for wearing short things. Kai! I salute una. No control. *running away*

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Oga madam is very right.

Idi-Amin:


Even if they dont ask at home. dont they go to school? they will ask sooner or later, they will have peers in school. When you start hiding this this education from your kids and make it a taboo to ask about their private parts, that is when they will start exploring at age 13 and bring disgrace into your house

It is recommended at a certain age to not expose yourself in front of children especially opposite sex children. Probably around the age of 4 or 5 or so is the recommended age. It doesn't mean you are an abuser if you do but you want to teach age appropriate sex education. Why are you interested in teaching your 4 year old about adults private parts? They can be taught about their own shikena. Maybe even mention that opposite sex have different parts but they don't need graphic anatomical details about this topic at this age. Also you want to teach and model to them that private parts are private. How can you teach them not to show their private parts to others when you model that it's okay to put yours on full display?

Again it doesn't make you an abuser or a bad father but there is some validity to your wife's concern though she may be on the extreme opposite end of you.


*have not read entire thread so don't know if this has been resolved already.*

for those of you asking where in the bible that shows that unclothedness in front of your relatives (in this case POSTER's kids), read: [size=16pt]Leviticus 18: 6-18[/size]

Where is it recommended, which studies and which sources can you provide that proves that children on seeing private parts at an early age teaches sexual habits Please properly vetted scientific studies not bible class

I dunno why this is getting me up in arms but seriously, I had an uninhibited father who I regularly inadvertently found naked from an early age but I ONLY realized the s.exual function of private parts around puberty (WHICH is normal, I don't recall ever "playing" around or even being particularly interested pre-puberty). I don't think the human body is sinful or something to be ashamed of. I'm not an exhibitionist or someone who struts around naked at home because I'm innately shy but I've never seen bodies as PRIMARILY sexual.

This is the same people that will castigate a woman b.reast-feeding as exposing her b.reasts lewdly

ileobatojo:


It is recommended at a certain age to not expose yourself in front of children especially opposite sex children. Probably around the age of 4 or 5 or so is the recommended age. It doesn't mean you are an abuser if you do but you want to teach age appropriate sex education. Why are you interested in teaching your 4 year old about adults private parts? They can be taught about their own shikena. Maybe even mention that opposite sex have different parts but they don't need graphic anatomical details about this topic at this age. Also you want to teach and model to them that private parts are private. How can you teach them not to show their private parts to others when you model that it's okay to put yours on full display?

Again it doesn't make you an abuser or a bad father but there is some validity to your wife's concern though she may be on the extreme opposite end of you.


*have not read entire thread so don't know if this has been resolved already.*

Yes sir!!!!!! She is so right!!!

How can you, how would you even UnCloth in the presence of your children? Most especially, your daughters! It is so so wrong.

You'd be surprised one day in a gathering your daughter would just walk up to you and say "daddy, show my friends how big your **** is? Then, am sure you'd be embarrassed.

Please stop this act! You are indirectly molesting your children! You can be sued for this!!!

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS IN MY FAMILY.WHEN MUM IS BATHING OR DRESSIN,ITS OK 4D DAUGHTERS TO B THR BUT NOT D BOYS.SAME HAPPENS WEN DAD IS NAKED,D BOYS CANT STAY BUT D GIRL KNOW WAT TO DO,AND DAT IS TO LEAVE.

beebop: Where is it recommended, which studies and which sources can you provide that proves that children on seeing private parts at an early age teaches sexual habits

When did I say this? Exact quote please.

Omolola1: Yes sir!!!!!! She is so right!!!

How can you, how would you even UnCloth in the presence of your children? Most especially, your daughters! It is so so wrong.

You'd be surprised one day in a gathering your daughter would just walk up to you and say "daddy, show my friends how big your **** is? Then, am sure you'd be embarrassed.

Please stop this act! You are indirectly molesting your children! You can be sued for this!!!

You are a dunce, not only that, an ingnorant dunce. It's the perversion in your mind that is speaking. because your mind is so twisted and perveted, that is why when you think of unclothedness in front of a child, automatically your mind goes off to child moestation and child p0rn. Not everyone has twisted minds like you, some of us still think straight and pure and dont of think of molesting children, more so our own kids.

You use the word 'sue' and don't even know the meaning. LOL

Op respect yourself jor! You are a father and not a college kid anymore. Act accordingly

beebop:

This is the same people that will castigate a woman b.reast-feeding as exposing her b.reasts lewdly

By the way I routinely breastfed my kid in public in the first year. And occasionally still do now that he is a toddler. So judge a little more carefully.

Mavor: Remember the part where Noah grew a vineyard and one evening he got drunk on the wine from that vineyard. He slept naked in his tent as a result of that drunkenness. One of this three sons came in and saw his old man naked and went out to tell the other two laughing about it. The other two walked backwards into their dad's tent holding a blanket and covered their father, shielding their eyes. When Noah woke up, God made it known to him what happened and Noah cursed the son who mocked his unclothedness, cursed him and his descendants.

I believe those sons were adults in every sense of the word. You know in those days a man could live well over 500 years and have six or seven generations living in communes all around him. The world was a much smaller place and marriage between relations was a lot more common. That's the reason such was frowned at.

However the opposite happens today making it highly pertinent that even more stringent controls over one's exposure to minors is put in place. The world is a much larger and enlightened space that is totally out of the control of the average man. As relating to your kids, its not what they see at home that matters. That's just one part of the jigsaw. The other is what they see and hear outside that completes the picture. You cannot control that so it is important that you keep them at a level of half information or right information until they become adults. Exposure to minors if absolutely unavoidable MUST be accompanied with sound pro-active enlightenment of reproductive health and other peripherals. If you can't do that DONOT entice them. They will ask and the wrong person will tell.

Idi-Amin:


You are a dunce, not only that, an ingnorant dunce. It's the perversion in your mind that is speaking. because your mind is so twisted and perveted, that is why when you think of unclothedness in front of a child, automatically your mind goes off to child moestation and child p0rn. Not everyone has twisted minds like you, some of us still think straight and pure and dont of think of molesting children, more so our own kids.

You use the word 'sue' and don't even know the meaning. LOL

You are a bigger dunce! That is why you do not know what it means to do something indirectly!
What are u teaching your kids by being totally n.a.ked around them.
You can even tell them to bathe for you in the bathroom! Nicompoo

enitan2002: Hey poster,

I am with you on this, I don't have this consciousness to hide my unclothedness, i sleep unclothed every night even with visitors around. I lotion also in the presence of mama and papa. So I don't see myself changing this habit when i start a family of my own. To me, Its no big deal.

How old are you? Just curious!