InvertedHammer: Poor guys are always nice because poverty erodes self-esteem. It is a trade off.

They tend to overcompensate, which ladies may misunderstand as being nice. Give the dude N10 million only
and he will get in touch with his inner A#s-hole and become a full-fledged jerk.

Very true, you couldn't have said it better.

it a whole lie nice guys ar good guys being nice is not cos by proverty its is the way of life u chose to live.
If u knw u ar out there nd u ar nice
Dnt change becos u want girls around
The parfect one will love you for who u ar.

Look how much time all of you are wasting just because of the female vulllva!

carefreewannabe:


that's not enough ... nice + handsome + smart

BTW, I never search for men online ... no need to

pretty, we can stil make it happen. Nobody come online for the sole reason of looking for the opposite sex...but when situation warrants, we can't help but make it happen....





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How come all the ladies kept quiet after I described what a bad and nice guy are?

https://www.nairaland.com/1108764/ladies-date-nice-guy/4#13060962

You all know which one you will choose?

Oya, all of you start confessing. Which will you go for?

With reference to Oga Saga's definition of what constitutes to being a good guy,me thinks I should be getting offers from those free sexy females ready to mingle


Na joke oh

jay bee: With reference to Oga Saga's definition of what constitutes to being a good guy,me thinks I should be getting offers from those free sexy females ready to mingle


Na joke oh

Why is it a joke? Are u scared ni?

Me I am single and ready to mingle jare.

Sagamite: How come all the ladies kept quiet after I described what a bad and nice guy are?

https://www.nairaland.com/1108764/ladies-date-nice-guy/4#13060962

You all know which one you will choose?

Oya, all of you start confessing. Which will you go for?

Me, I will go for Sagamite.

Oya, which one are you?

Tgirl4real:

Me, I will go for Sagamite.

Oya, which one are you?

Sagamu is a good guy. Very polite, humble, unargumentative and a virgin (I am assuming holding hands with girls is not counted as sexual intercourse?).

Sagamite:

Sagamu is a good guy. Very polite, humble, unargumentative and a virgin (I am assuming holding hands with girls is not counted as sexual intercourse?).

I don laff tire.

If that is true, then I am also one.

Sagamite: How come all the ladies kept quiet after I described what a bad and nice guy are?

https://www.nairaland.com/1108764/ladies-date-nice-guy/4#13060962

You all know which one you will choose?

Oya, all of you start confessing. Which will you go for?

Definitely not the first one being 70 % of all times selfish in bed Your competition is too big there.
And who told you women say "I love you" and wait for the guy to return the compliment? If it was me, you would wait a lifetime to hear those words. Actions speak louder than words
Damn Saga, you're becoming a big disappointment

jay bee: Who is a nice guy?

someone like you sir.

[size=2pt]*looks to see if chima is around*[/size]

InvertedHammer: Poor guys are always nice because poverty erodes self-esteem. It is a trade off.

They tend to overcompensate, which ladies may misunderstand as being nice. [size=18pt]Give the dude N10 million only
and he will get in touch with his inner A#s-hole and become a full-fledged jerk[/size].

SOOOOO true!!
I don't know what it is about some men and power. Give them an inch they will take TWO MILES.

You know its funny, I defended good guys in the "ladies would you date a nice guy" thread but truth be told many of them aspire to be the azzholes they claim are "stealing the ladies". One guy I grew up with was ONLY given a manager position at his job. You should see how this once sweet and soft spoken man turned into "Hulk", beating his chest and exacting revenge on the chicks who never paid him any attention. He started shortening their hours and giving them difficult tasks I couldn't believe it and what's hilarious is once he was able to finance his sports car, started getting tatted (tattoos) and hosting parties at his crib (apartment)...GIRLS STARTED TO GO AFTER HIM! I kid you not!!

offtopic: thank God for the back button oh! lol

carefreewannabe:

Definitely not the first one being 70 % of all times selfish in bed Your competition is too big there.
And who told you women say "I love you" and wait for the guy to return the compliment? If it was me, you would wait a lifetime to hear those words. Actions speak louder than words
Damn Saga, you're becoming a big disappointment

Me? I say I love you every morning, even when the girl slaps me.

When I finally have sex, I will be 100% steady and say "thank you, baby for you giving me the privilege to sleep with you" after every session. I would show I am grateful getting some.

I am a good guy o, not a bad guy.

*Kails*:



SOOOOO true!!
I don't know what it is about some men and power. Give them an inch they will take TWO MILES.

You know its funny, I defended good guys in the "ladies would you date a nice guy" thread but truth be told many of them aspire to be the azzholes they claim are "stealing the ladies". One guy I grew up with was ONLY given a manager position at his job. You should see how this once sweet and soft spoken man turned into "Hulk", beating his chest and exacting revenge on the chicks who never paid him any attention. He started shortening their hours and giving them difficult tasks I couldn't believe it and what's hilarious is once he was able to finance his sports car, started getting tatted (tattoos) and hosting parties at his crib (apartment)...GIRLS STARTED TO GO AFTER HIM! I kid you not!!

offtopic: thank God for the back button oh! lol

When he was a good guy, the girls sexually frustrated him while dishing out the goods to bad guys like a UN charity Apache helicopter on a food drop mission in Somalia.

So the guy did what he had to do to end his famine, and he got the results na.

Sagamite:

Me? I say I love you every morning, even when the girl slaps me.

When I finally have sex, I will be 100% steady and say "thank you, baby for you giving me the privilege to sleep with you" after every session. I would show I am grateful getting some.

I am a good guy o, not a bad guy.

Saga, honestly, don't tell me everything is either black OR white. If you consider yourself intellectual then you know that there are different shades of grey as well and even other colours.

If you EVER want to have a mature relationship with a beautiful, intelligent, well educated and SANE woman, you need to reconsider your views. If you don't, well that's your business.

A relationship between two adults is not about playing games (unless it's in the bedroom ). And it's not about playing roles.

Anyway, I know you will not try to understand. Have a nice evening. I have to leave soon.

carefreewannabe:

Saga, honestly, don't tell me everything is either black OR white. If you consider yourself intellectual then you know that there are different shades of grey as well and even other colours.

If you EVER want to have a mature relationship with a beautiful, intelligent, well educated and SANE woman, you need to reconsider your views. If you don't, well that's your business.

A relationship between two adults is not about playing games (unless it's in the bedroom ). And it's not about playing roles.

Anyway, I know you will not try to understand. Have a nice evening. I have to leave soon.

Why you dey lecture me?

Wetin I say that warranted the leshure?

Sagamite:

Why you dey lecture me?

Wetin I say that warranted the leshure?

Different things, e.g. your definition of a nice guy. A nice guy is not the same as a jerk.
I don't expect a nice guy to say I love you when I slap him. He would be s.tupid to do this.
Also, the fact that YOU believe that MOST women need the same kind of treatement. I can't believe it's coming from you.
Sometimes, you say things that make me feel like "wow", this guy is special and at other times I want to scream and shout and ask you: Why have you stopped using your brain and where is the potential I saw in you?

I know, you don't give a f... but this is how I feel about your "virtual personality."

carefreewannabe:

Different things, e.g. your definition of a nice guy. A nice guy is not the same as a jerk.
I don't expect a nice guy to say I love you when I slap him. He would be s.tupid to do this.
Also, the fact that YOU believe that MOST women need the same kind of treatement. I can't believe it's coming from you.
Sometimes, you say things that make me feel like "wow", this guy is special and at other times I want to scream and shout and ask you: Why have you stopped using your brain and where is the potential I saw in you?

I know, you don't give a f... but this is how I feel about your "virtual personality."

No 1, you have to catch up and get my sense of humour so you know when I am trying to be funny.

No 2, if I need to make a description (especially of people) I will always use a(n) average/norm/commonality/typical/etc as I have other things to do than describe for each individual in a group set of millions or billions.

https://www.nairaland.com/1093028/what-marriage-taught/1#12829684

So anytime you have this "disapointment" feelings, just try and regulate it and give me benefit of doubt because, trust me, you can never find fault in my fine, impeccable brain.

Sagamite:

When he was a good guy, the girls sexually frustrated him while dishing out the goods to bad guys like a UN charity Apache heicopter on a food drop mission in Somalia.

So the guy did what he had to do to end his famine, and he got the results na.

lwkmd!! hmmmm are you confessing something sir?
you sure know a lot about the reason behind that level of spite and revenge .

InvertedHammer: Poor guys are always nice because poverty erodes self-esteem. It is a trade off.

They tend to overcompensate, which ladies may misunderstand as being nice. Give the dude N10 million only
and he will get in touch with his inner A#s-hole and become a full-fledged jerk.

That's bcuz he was always a jerk, pretending 2 b nice.

Sagamite:

No 1, you [b]have to catch up and get my sense of humour [/b]so you know when I am trying to be funny.

No 2, if I need to make a description (especially of people) I will always use a(n) average/norm/commonality/typical/etc as I have other things to do than describe for each individual in a group set of millions or billions.

https://www.nairaland.com/1093028/what-marriage-taught/1#12829684

So anytime you have this "disapointment" feelings, just try and regulate it and give me benefit of doubt because, trust me, you can never find fault in my fine, impeccable brain.

1. Were you trying to be funny?
2. Your descriptions are based on the kind of people you interact with. That's your problem. It does not confirm my observations. Two different worlds we live in.
3. I can give you a benefit of doubt any time you ask for it BUT I easily find faults with you. Never mind, you're still interesting and nice talking to and I share and appreciate many of your views. However, not those discriminating against a whole group of people.
4. As you said, there are billions of individuals. If you are as clever as you claim to be, you can easily understand that your generalisations are of no use. Reality is complex. Deal with it. Simplicity is something for primitive people.
5. At the end of the day, our perception is never objective, so our judgements tell more about us than about those we're judging.

Good night.

*Kails*:


lwkmd!! hmmmm are you confessing something sir?
you sure know a lot about the reason behind that level of spite and revenge .

I have been on a famine since puberty, babes.

I am now planning to get the money, then the power then you will see the catastrophic spite and revenge from Sagamu.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ7HZATMKBY

carefreewannabe:

1. Were you trying to be funny?
2. Your descriptions are based on the kind of people you interact with. That's your problem. It does not confirm my observations. Two different worlds we live in.
3. I can give you a benefit of doubt any time you ask for it BUT I easily find faults with you. Never mind, you're still interesting and nice talking to and I share and appreciate many of your views. However, not those discriminating against a whole group of people.
4. As you said, there are billions of individuals. If you are as clever as you claim to be, you can easily understand that your generalisations are of no use. Reality is complex. Deal with it. Simplicity is something for primitive people.
5. At the end of the day, our perception is never objective, so our judgements tell more about us than about those we're judging.

Good night.

1. Get a sense of humour.
2. It is a very reasonable description of bad and good guys. But I guess in your world the bad guy is a saint.
3. You can never find faults in Gods. That is blasfemi in Sagamu.
4. I don't claim, everyone knows. Reality is complex but there is something called mode (frequency).
5. Mine is always objective. I am the God of objectivity, logic and intellect. The Alpha and Omega sent me to Earth to teach it.

Una all see how the girls screaming "I want a good guy" kept quiet when we gave them the description of good and bad guy.

carefreewannabe:

1. Were you trying to be funny?
2. Your descriptions are based on the kind of people you interact with. That's your problem. It does not confirm my observations. Two different worlds we live in.
3. I can give you a benefit of doubt any time you ask for it BUT I easily find faults with you. Never mind, you're still interesting and nice talking to and I share and appreciate many of your views. However, not those discriminating against a whole group of people.
4. As you said, there are billions of individuals. If you are as clever as you claim to be, you can easily understand that your generalisations are of no use. Reality is complex. Deal with it. Simplicity is something for primitive people.
5. At the end of the day, our perception is never objective, so our judgements tell more about us than about those we're judging.

Good night.

Chei!, this babe is intelligent! See as she dey blow grammer everywhere. O boy! I like you because i believe you know what you're saying (a quality very hard to find in our dogmatic world).

Michky: Chei!, this babe is intelligent! See as she dey blow grammer everywhere. O boy! I like you because i believe you know what you're saying (a quality very hard to find in our dogmatic world).

Thank you.

Most ladies this days aside just wanting to have fun, need a man who is in CHARGE. Full stop. A man that they can come back and tell all that is bothering them. They see a so called "nice guy" as someone who is not in control and cannot really take charge of whatever they throw at him. For Mr. Nice Guy to really get into it, then he definitely needs to drop that Nice Guy image. Fast...

The Kylie Minogue case is a perfect example of what happens to good guys when they date a young woman in her prime.

In the late 80s when Kylie was in her teens and early 20s, she was a darling of the nation. She was famous and cute. She was also in a famous relationship with a good boy, Jason Donovan, which everyone went "awww, they look so good together" to.

Then she met a bad boy.

Guess what happens to the nice/good boy.

http://www.topnews.in/light/jason-donovan-tells-how-kylie-minogue-broke-his-heart-272

He got dumped and she went for danger and excitement that he (Jason) introduced her to.

She was cheating on him behind his back.

She went for a notorious bad boy that took her for a ride.

http://www.express.co.uk/expressyourself/179016/The-dead-lover-who-spells-trouble-for-the-men-in-Kylie-Minogue-s-life

And the mugu Jason is playing friends with her now. He is still playing nice guy.

Lesson: Young, attractive girls in their prime want a baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad boy.