Sweetlemon:
N.B: He's not impotent at all. I know cos his ...... Stands up a lot

His what?

sexkillz: His what?

sexkillz: His what?

xynerise:
his finger

Must be his 11th finger. . .

sexkillz: Must be his 11th finger. . .

I'm used to guys being in a hurry to bed me.

kokosheen: The guy probably wants to make money first. Then he can afford to bed you at will.

You've got a keeper, don't mess up

Mynd_44: Is it too difficult? How can we know what he meant when even you his girl gon't?
Ask him its better than this

Sweetlemon:
And is it too difficult for you to see that I wrote that iv asked him severally?

k2039: I think the bed he wants to buy is your marital bed,so probably he is keeping you for marriage

nikkyshyne:
Giving her hopes eh?

Me just think he has a good sense of humour. I wouldn't read any meaning to that. I wouldn't even ask that question in the first place

vivian chinaza:

I just love you for this!

Sweetlemon: I have been in a very sweet friendship with a guy for about two months now. We chat about everything under the sun, We are both attracted to each other and we flirt a lot but we have not had sex yet and it surprises and trips me so much because I'm used to guys being in a hurry to bed me.
When I ask him why he isn't in a hurry to take me to bed, he says cos he "wants to buy a bed first"
I have asked him to explain but he refused. Now I'm in suspense. So men, please what do you think. Ladies can contribute if they ve been in similar situations. Thanks all!
N.B: He's not impotent at all. I know cos I have felt his ......

nikkyshyne:
You mean you don't love me before?

vivian chinaza:

Oh sweetie, I have always loved you, you know that right?

nikkyshyne:

dammytex: Reason number 1
He could be pretending for now to earn your total respect and trust completely so that when he starts, its just going to be all the way at anytime, anywhere and anyplace. Maybe he wants you to know he's different thereby requesting for a different service afterwards.

Reason number 2
Maybe he's just a gentleman. He doesn't want to take you unjustifiably so that heartbreaks won't be involved later. Or better still, he wants to achieve "sex after wedding" with you.

Reason number 3
Maybe he's just one of the rare good guys. He has another girlfriend and he does not want to just use you or he doesn't want to cheat on his girl friend.

Sweetlemon:
Thanks. I would have thought he has a girlfriend already but 2 mutual friends of ours have confirmed that he's as single as they come.
He also said at this stage of his life, he didn't need a girlfriend cos he can have sex anytime anywhere. He just said that I should wait till he "buys a bed"

nikkyshyne:

dammytex:

then I think its just a humourous response while trying to take his time.

My question is; are you desperate to bed him?

kitty kat: When a guy says he doesn't need a ggf at a particular time in his life. He means it. Pls don't hurt urself aitin for him or tryin to convince him. The man means what he said.

If I were you, I wld start looking for someone else to spend my emotion on.