I have an issue with my best friend. She just doesn't know how to completely cut off any male in her life. She will date numerous guys at the same time, get into an argument then continue talking to them for years because she believes someday they will change or they have 1 or 2 good qualities. The most recent guy is 33, with 3 kids who likes her but not enough to take her out on an actual date. I suggested months ago that she needs to get rid of him and she agrees and says that he is just there to keep her warm. I just don't know how to help her anymore nor do I want to hear about how he or the other dumb guys upset her anymore. I talked to my bf about it cuz every time we go out with her its always a different guy, he believes she is desperate. I know decent men that I could introduce her to but at the same time I don't think believe she is ready for someone good. What do u think? And what do you think I should advise her to do, or just avoid her anytime she brings these wasteful guys around?

If she cant manage a relationship, do u fink she can manage marriage Free her, when she is ripe, she will wise up.

Is she still a teenager?

I'll like to see how ds folds. Got an ex like that too. She alwys finds a reason to go not with the wrong guy.
I alwys feel for her

@OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration?

She's not ready to meet the right guy, so let her be. Shuo!!!

Sijo01: Is she still a teenager?

No, she is 25

lrguru: @OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration?

She's not ready to meet the right guy, so let her be. Shuo!!!

Its different when its your best friend and she calls you crying

KateSpade:

Its different when its your best friend and she calls you crying

but ur best friend aint u.

Hmmm

KateSpade:

No, she is 25

In that case, she need to attend maturity classes.

Sijo01:

In that case, she need to attend maturity classes.

lol

lrguru: @OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration?

She's not ready to meet the right guy, so let her be. Shuo!!!

i wonder ooo, he still dey drink panadol to another man headache

Sijo01:

In that case, she need to attend maturity classes.

I think a lot of it has to do with her last relationship (the guy broke her heart) but even that ended over a year ago.

KateSpade:

I think a lot of it has to do with her last relationship (the guy broke her heart) but even that ended over a year ago.

which relationship was the last? Tot she's been furrkin all this while? This story get as e be o

lrguru:

which relationship was the last? Tot she's been furrkin all this while? This story get as e be o

her last bf was over a year ago

Is she a LEARNER?

It could be loneliness. But, there has to be more to it than that and why she believes she doesn't deserve better.

Changing them like underwear lol

KateSpade:

her last bf was over a year ago

who then are those different guys she hangs around with?

KateSpade:

I think a lot of it has to do with her last relationship (the guy broke her heart) but even that ended over a year ago.

she's not the first to experience heartbreak and she won't be the last....... Tell her to growup and be focus, so as to avoid stories that touches!

lrguru:
who then are those different guys she hangs around with?

not boyfriends

..

^^
where have you been lady?

queensmith: Of course she is desperate, who doesn't want a partner in life? Who is the loner that doesn't want company? You have a bf, you probably don't know how that is.

It's cruel of you not to introduce her (if you really think she needs it, soo far the only problem I see is stupidity, not necessarily desperation) She probably doesn't need you to introduce her to men because meeting men isn't ever a problem. She just needs to be smarter with the decisions on who she sees and know who not to take seriously

Anyway, long story short, get off your high horse, if you think she will benefit from meeting your friend, introduce them. . . .(unless you actually like them. . . ) or allow her. Assuming she isn't ready to meet your friends is just plain rude. . . . some women think having a bf makes you a professor on happiness. . . . it gets soo annoying.

Thanks!

Lol...your friends a hoe....its that simple...lol

Most of the ladies i know go through issues if not all. This one is just an issue with your friend and in due time she will be strong enough to let go of those guys, be free and be ready to meet her prince. Just advice her to stay away from men for now so that she learns more about herself. The right one will not even need to be searched for as he might be watching your friend but feels its not yet time

Lolaabokoku: i wonder ooo, he still dey drink panadol to another man headache

My thoughts exactly

I know many girls like this. Friends with some also. Plainly speaking, she's just an eternal and emotional flirt. Her thoughts are conflicting yet she will not change her way of thinking. This makes her choices unwise and her relationships brief. You cannot help her. Sorry. In time, anything is possible.

she needs SERIOUS deliverance!

Yea I realized there's nothing I can do. Never introduced her to my male friend, if I do it will be casual, nothing purposeful.

As far as deliverance goes, you are free to pray.

Desperation isn't age specific. I know young chicks will date or Bleep anything and they r fit and attractive.