shymexx:

That's definitely not a bad guy - just a decent bloke....

I probably do 90% of what's on that list and I'm definitely not a bad guy... Just an alpha male who can't be arsed...

How about woman beaters, rude, and abusive guys - what are you going to call them? Worse, or worst guys??

to+by:

and the most freakin thing's dat guys like you after bragging bout ur alpha ish in the open, you go undercover n weep, praying for change. And then after pokin around you become men of God mightily used. But the shameful thing is dat those you use n dump go on a revenge hunt. Its folly to brag about one's foolishness. Being a nice guy doesn't mean you'r a dk brain or a sisy. Ladies! I pity una cos na una go suffer d loss, guys have nothing to loose. Its either you keep ur sef, pray to God for what He created to compliment you or, get the devil's substitute.

shymexx:

You know how girls take everything for granted when it becomes excessive...

So I'd rather be normal than show too much affection...

BTW, when you keep women guessing, they tend to notice the good qualities you possess that you don't even are there...

It's better to let them do the chasing...

shymexx:

You know how girls take everything for granted when it becomes excessive...

So I'd rather be normal than show too much affection...

BTW, when you keep women guessing, they tend to notice the good qualities you possess that you don't even are there...

It's better to let them do the chasing...

Sagamite:

Some women like them!

Each person has their own personal standard of bad.



I don't even need to answer you.

By the time people that know me read up to the bolded, they will concluded you are talking moronic crap.

Goldieluks:
A man who positions his lady/intending lady to chase after him, should be ready
to loose her. You don't keep a woman in a tight corner for long, because the outcome is
mostly disastrous.

Sweetlemon:
Lol! Iv said it before, no amount of love is too much! If a woman is taking your love for granted then know that she's not the right one for you and it's time to look for someone else who will appreciate you cos every mature, right-thinking lady knows the worth of a man's love.
You can kiss a woman's feet and still be a man around her.

shymexx:

Lmao... That's what they all say, however, when they get ol'boy in the chokehold crying and acting like a wimp - it's a different thing entirely... Taking advantage in every situation we find ourselves in, is what makes us human - and everyone will take advantage when they're in the driver's seat...

carefreewannabe:
coogar, you think like that?
oh no

Tgirl4real:
What a depressing and hearthbreaking comment!!!
Sagamite, u sef second this. Too bad!!!
Are u guys saying the so-called alpha male can't be in love? And can't be a one-woman man?

shymexx:

You can't lose what's yours already, especially when you'r respectful and normal to the chic... And you possess some qualities that are rare to replace out there - that's where alpha-male-ism comes into play...

However, if she leaves you, there are tons of chics out there who'll replace here... That's more reason why guys need to work on achieving success/security before chasing after chics - it puts them in a position to take charge and demand without being overly controlling...

This is London and there are too many takers...

Sagamite:

One night of hitting and I will have you eating from the palm of my hand and you crying you want me all to yourself.

Some have labelled it fuku faka fuku faka magic.

Tgirl4real:

What a depressing and hearthbreaking comment!!!

Sagamite, u sef second this. Too bad!!!

Are u guys saying the so-called alpha male can't be in love? And can't be a one-woman man?

baby_123:

ok ooo, that is if you get the opportunity to zip it down or get it up.
You would have to pose with a picture of you washing my pant first. Otherwise, nothing.

coogar:

finally, she surrenders......

baby_123:

Surrenders? I know it is something he would rather die, than do. So it will never happen.

Sagamite:

Yep, never believe what a woman says, believe what she does.

I think what lemonade is trying to do there is to train a real man to develop the fortitude to need not protect himself and take all the risk. He should then move on and try again if burnt.

You be nice to her now and she would say "Awww! That is so sweet. Let us just be friends".

Nah! I respond to women based on my assessment of what I think they deserve. I minimise risk.

Sagamite:

Yep, never believe what a woman says, believe what she does.

I think what lemonade is trying to do there is to train a real man to develop the fortitude to need not protect himself and take all the risk. He should then move on and try again if burnt.

You be nice to her now and she would say "Awww! That is so sweet. Let us just be friends".

Nah! I respond to women based on my assessment of what I think they deserve. I minimise risk.

Tgirl4real:

Yes na. If d cheating is don wiv style

Sweetlemon:
What I'm trying to explain here is that a man can still be a man no matter how much love he gives a woman. He can kiss her feet and @ the same time still let her know he's in charge. The guy I described in my 1st post treats me like a queen, spoils me rotten and could break the head of anyone who mistakenly steps on my feet. But he let's me know that he's in charge and that if I mess up, I'm on my own. That's what I'm trying to explain here

coogar:

don't be too sure.....
the end would justify the means - 98% of the men i know would do worse than hand-washing undies just to reach the goldmine. he would simply claim you were ill and he helped out. that single move would even get him more chics.

Sweetlemon:
What I'm trying to explain here is that a man can still be a man no matter how much love he gives a woman. He can kiss her feet and @ the same time still let her know he's in charge. The guy I described in my 1st post treats me like a queen, spoils me rotten and could break the head of anyone who mistakenly steps on my feet. But he let's me know that he's in charge and that if I mess up, I'm on my own. That's what I'm trying to explain here

baby_123:



Now that is just desperate. .

The possibility of me using it to blackmail him though will stop him in his tracks.

By the way, Saga's way of thinking = Too many clashes. .

The issue is he sees me as something he must conquer.

I dont know, maybe it will make him feel more manly. . I will gladly squash all attempts.

Sagamite:

Good.



I see you as someone that wants me badly and hopes I pull down her pants and ravage her into ecstacy.

At least we see that you have come from "never" to "I am willing to negotiate, Sagababy".

baby_123:



Now that is just desperate. .

The possibility of me using it to blackmail him though will stop him in his tracks.

By the way, Saga's way of thinking = Too many clashes. .

The issue is he sees me as something he must conquer.

I dont know, maybe it will make him feel more manly. . I will gladly squash all attempts.

coogar:

desperation?
how do you know pundits have not staked their ££££ on sagamite to fail in his bid to get the goldmine? if saga stands to win £5000 from various bets you think washing clean panties would deter him? little did you know that saga has been trying to upgrade his audi to a benz!

baby_123:

hahahaha you are just trying to boost your friends ego. I can tell he is still hurting from previous clashes. Keep pushing him to enter one chance. His superiors o ti bolowo e. Na im mama go come call you to enter bush to release the son, dont worry. When she sees him washing paient. . 5,000 ko, one chance ni.

Sagamite:

And so?

So it is guys that should bare all the risk and take all the hits while you girls sit pretty and say "Go, girl"?

So guys should come and chat you up, burn credit calling you, take you out, buy you small token gifts for Xmas etc, show you you are special and then you conclude "Mmmm, well, you know what? I don't think I really fancy you that much. I am not really into you and I don't think it would work out".

Life is beautiful innit when you have can let something go because you have not invested much in it. Well we the smart bad boys have learnt to join you in that life.

We can be in love, at the right time, to the right girl, with the right stuff to offer.

Sagamite:

At least now I know not to eat anything you serve me because that would be your avenue of seducing me.

Mi o ni je efo e! (I no go chop your efo). We are going to KFC straight up!

Sagamite:

Nah, it is not about chop and clean mouth.

It is about how to attain my self-interest with minimal risk in the midst of madness.

A guy is nice to a woman yet is more likely to lose. He wants to be nice because he thinks it is what he would want someone to be to him and what he is expecting to get in return if he is but alas, he gets sacked after heavy investment that has now perished.

A guy is not so nice to a woman yet is more likely to win. She finds it exciting and a challenge and he is getting the opposite of his actions in return i.e. very little investment that has now yielded a good and heavy return.

Which is to a guy's benefit?

Even if "not so nice" is seen as bad, who's fault is that?

The logical thing is for people to be nice to each other but most hot women hate that and smart guys like hot women.

Very few hot girls will be able to stand a guy being nice to them, it is too easy and boring.

So if the hot ones are not going to be logical why should you lose?

It is women that oppose the logic of being nice to each other, so let them lose, not you.

So, baby, it is not about chop and clean mouth, it is about winning the good price. The win!

Now bring those curves here let me show you how I can drive it in gear 5!

coogar:

desperation?
how do you know pundits have not staked their ££££ on sagamite to fail in his bid to get the goldmine? if saga stands to win £5000 from various bets you think washing clean panties would deter him? little did you know that saga has been trying to upgrade his audi to a benz!

baby_123:
hahahaha you are just trying to boost your friends ego. I can tell he is still hurting from previous clashes. Keep pushing him to enter one chance. His superiors o ti bolowo e. Na im mama go come call you to enter bush to release the son, dont worry. When she sees him washing paient. . 5,000 ko, one chance ni.

baby_123:
@Coogar,
You miss how much Saga has fallen. He wants to take me out and do nice things. Saga is all mouth. He doesn't stand a chance fighting. He will go down.

y me:
Thats deceit and him stooping so low to get a woman shows he is less of a man too
that scenario na epic fail!

coogar:

some people have survived "one chance" - most alpha males do anyways.



kfc is actually a nice place to start. if it gets too crowded, then it's burger king or nando's.
these treats are part of the scheme. nothing softens a woman more than good food and cute whispers. don't worry, you would be fine!