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Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by jarkata(m): 3:48am On Dec 10, 2012
Dating is an act of familiarity btw two opposite sex with a view to determining d compatibility ratio and coefficient of performance COP.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by tintingz(m): 5:44am On Dec 10, 2012
Dating is nothing than silly fun. . .

What else will happen in a date that both spouse are not even sure of getting married buh to have sexx and waste yor mula on gals grin

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Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Crankshaft: 5:52am On Dec 10, 2012
Ninilowo:
CRANKSHAFT explaining with FLYWHEEL and PISTON/CYLINDER BORE illustration.

brayton cycle is well considered! Hehehe
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by AdeniyiA(m): 6:23am On Dec 10, 2012
to know whether the relp shu be taken to another level of courtship n ultimately,marriage.
but because of promiscuity n lusts of d flesh,most dating end @ dt level(dating) after some flings -bad for som ladies tho cos they might eventually not bn married to
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by poweredcom(m): 8:47am On Dec 10, 2012
To Bleep and run away nothing more
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by nollywood20: 9:14am On Dec 10, 2012
Dating is the first step is knowing and making up your mind on who to start courting for marriage.

Dating is not for sponging guys as most girls in Nigeria do by practicing pro-sti-tu-tion in the guise of being a "GIRLFRIEND". Because, sincerely, i don't see much difference between Nigerian girls who are dating and escorts in the US. They both get laid and get paid in the end.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by jlad2003(m): 9:18am On Dec 10, 2012
striktlymi:

Good evening,
The word "dating" has really been abused by a lot of persons in recent times. So many really do not know what it means to date. Some persons believe that dating is an avenue to have sex, while some others believe that dating has to do with being with someone you love. These are very wrong notions about dating. Though the second notion I mentioned is good but really does not tell us what dating is about.

I believe at this juncture an attempt at a definition is in order. I see dating as a platform where two consenting adults go out socially in order to decipher if both of them are compatible enough to start up a relationship while having marriage in view.

By the above we could readily see that dating does not imply that someone has already started a relationship with the other person and it certainly does not imply sex. We can also see that it is very possible to have a date with someone we are not yet in love with. From the above definition, dating is part of the series of events that takes place before someone agrees to start a relationship with another.

It is very important to know that, dating actually affords us the opprtunity, of getting to answer some of the questions we might want answered before we start anything. Questions bothering on genotype, religious views, sex etc should come up here cause it would be useless to say yes to someone only to break up tomorrow because of some of these unanswered questions.

In a nutshell I believe dating is needed cause it helps one verify his orr her compatibility with the person he or she is considering for a relationship.

Thank you!
abeg na only U̶̲̥̅̊ make brain 4 hia
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Morgan1092(m): 9:46am On Dec 10, 2012
Flytefalls: It's a transition period with many (many!) variables. Like any unassisted chemical reaction, a collision of no less than 2 bodies must occur, then nature reigns.
Hmmm! Re u a chemical engr? #Jst askin#
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by malachiizunna: 10:28am On Dec 10, 2012
tobechi20: Just to feel like ure maried
Is that wot your brain tells you about dating...You should come back i believe your very far.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Nobody: 10:30am On Dec 10, 2012
k2039: It's a time to know each other more, discuss about your future together, a time to project a possible future and see if you are compatible, also to know how far you can tolerate each other.


If you are satisfied, you proceed to courtship, in courtship you scrutinise your partner with a microscope. You design, model and simulate your future with parameters like, doctrine,perception towards life, goals, family background, intelligence etc.

If you are satisfied, with the outcomes of your simulation, you can then proceed to marriage.


Note: Simulation represent ideality and it varies from real life situation, but it should give you a very likely outcome.


sad
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Nobody: 10:32am On Dec 10, 2012
pekelepekele: Dating is like test driving a vehicle you about to purchase.

angry
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by MrSim(m): 11:37am On Dec 10, 2012
striktlymi:

Good evening,
The word "dating" has really been abused by a lot of persons in recent times. So many really do not know what it means to date. Some persons believe that dating is an avenue to have sex, while some others believe that dating has to do with being with someone you love. These are very wrong notions about dating. Though the second notion I mentioned is good but really does not tell us what dating is about.

I believe at this juncture an attempt at a definition is in order. I see dating as a platform where two consenting adults go out socially in order to decipher if both of them are compatible enough to start up a relationship while having marriage in view.

By the above we could readily see that dating does not imply that someone has already started a relationship with the other person and it certainly does not imply sex. We can also see that it is very possible to have a date with someone we are not yet in love with. From the above definition, dating is part of the series of events that takes place before someone agrees to start a relationship with another.

It is very important to know that, dating actually affords us the opprtunity, of getting to answer some of the questions we might want answered before we start anything. Questions bothering on genotype, religious views, sex etc should come up here cause it would be useless to say yes to someone only to break up tomorrow because of some of these unanswered questions.

In a nutshell I believe dating is needed cause it helps one verify his orr her compatibility with the person he or she is considering for a relationship.

Thank you!
Well spoken sir. Keep it up.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by blunderass01: 11:51am On Dec 10, 2012
4direct: Something tells me that I shouldn't date until the world makes sense again. ppl dont know the meaning of date here

I swear they are bands of stupid animals. Except a guy who posted above. That really make sense
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 10, 2012
It's a time to know each other more, discuss about your future together, a time to project a possible future and see if you are compatible, also to know how far you can tolerate each other.


If you are satisfied, you proceed to courtship, in courtship you scrutinize your partner with a microscope. You design, model and simulate your future with parameters like, doctrine,perception towards life, goals, family background, intelligence etc.

and if not u ben johnson!!!!!
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 10, 2012
egbe4real: It's a time to know each other more, discuss about your future together, a time to project a possible future and see if you are compatible, also to know how far you can tolerate each other.


If you are satisfied, you proceed to courtship, in courtship you scrutinize your partner with a microscope. You design, model and simulate your future with parameters like, doctrine,perception towards life, goals, family background, intelligence etc.

and if not u ben johnson!!!!!
so many fantastic tinz abt dating but the question is, do all of us go 4 these fantastic reasons or just the otherwise.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by timiflex(m): 11:20pm On Dec 10, 2012
bryanzanus@gmai:
it is medium to know each other very well,and also to share their love and care that will lead them into future plan
egbe4real: It's a time to know each other more, discuss about your future together, a time to project a possible future and see if you are compatible, also to know how far you can tolerate each other.


If you are satisfied, you proceed to courtship, in courtship you scrutinize your partner with a microscope. You design, model and simulate your future with parameters like, doctrine,perception towards life, goals, family background, intelligence etc.

and if not u ben johnson!!!!!
bryanzanus@gmai:
it is medium to know each other very well,and also to share their love and care that will lead them into future plan
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Nobody: 2:53am On Dec 11, 2012
Morgan1092: Hmmm! Re u a chemical engr? #Jst askin#

No. Chemistry, I love. But we don't date.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by carol1107: 1:56pm On Oct 02, 2020
Firstly, communication on the Internet gives us the opportunity to meet different people, expand our circle of contacts and just relax with a pleasant companion. The second advantage is freedom of choice. We ourselves are free to decide with whom and what we will talk about. To do this, there are questionnaires in which a potential interlocutor puts all the information about himself. The photo, the manner of filling out the questionnaire, as well as the goals of communication indicated in it, will help us decide whether to make acquaintance with this or that person.
The next plus of online dating is relaxation and pleasant pastime wink
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by hostes: 8:59am On Nov 26, 2020
In my opinion, it is the best approach to date someone as close to your age as possible. In this case, both partners achieve the best understanding. Especially if you are dating online, have a peek at this web-site. Considerable age difference is the first step to various disagreements and misunderstanding. And if everything can be fine at the initial stage of communication, it will change very soon.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by hostes: 11:10pm On Jul 27, 2021
There is nothing bad in dating. Actually, it is even a great psychological therapy. Nowadays, you can find a lot of dating sites https://whatisonlyfans.app. It is a big help to lonely people. You can register in a few clicks and start acquaintance with new people from around the world. Also, it is a wonderful chance for introverts. Online communication is much easier for them.
Re: What Is The Essence Of Dating? by Dicksonnet: 4:05am On Jul 28, 2021
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Your conscience must be alive and active
You must be educated (not below a first degree)
You must be Gainfully employed(preferably RICH)
You must be a genuine christian
Not a divorcee
Not a widow
Not a single mother
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