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Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by femishoshogmai(f): 12:30am On Dec 17, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: @OP i dont need to write anymore am just absorbing peoples comments theres no point in me responding im just reading them. but this comment isn't a very nice thing to say and is quite hurtful u can't help who you love |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by femishoshogmai(f): 12:33am On Dec 17, 2012 |
lrguru: OP why not relocate for good yes |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by cooker: 12:49am On Dec 17, 2012 |
he is using you to satisfy his sexual urge, wait until his wife find out about you he will dump you and go back to his wife and try to save his marriage this happens all the time then he will take you like shit that wants to ruin his life and marriage , so he loves his wife but you are not lovable, you are a sex tool believe me by the time he is tired of having sex with you or his wife find out about you he will regret his actions and beg his wife and you will become an old story |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by Nobody: 12:53am On Dec 17, 2012 |
femishosho@gmai: i am just being real with you, and i certainly wont sugarcoat my words. you've been honest with us, and i need to be honest with you in return. if you came to NL expecting to receive "nice words" or stuff that would cheer you up from the miserable situation you find yourself into, then i am sorry about that. |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by femishoshogmai(f): 1:29am On Dec 17, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: ok i understand what you are saying .but i wasnt groomed tho i wanted to do things with him and we did other stuff together . anyways i get wat you and everyone is saying . i think the conclusion is im going to save money and move away because its too hard living in the same area as him . thankyou for everyones comments and taking the time .. but no more please is just depressing now. |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by Nobody: 2:03am On Dec 17, 2012 |
femishosho@gmai: remember that most groomed people dont have a clue they were being groomed. you were 16, and obviously (and probably still) clueless about life. why would you settle for a man who had kids AND about 10yrs older than you, at such young age, if you had any clues about life? this man has absolutely nothing to offer you yet you are still here hanging around, for what? only you know. |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by GoldenLady1: 2:42am On Dec 17, 2012 |
The truth sometimes hurts. What MRbrownJAY said is absolutely correct. He just gave it to you straight, no chaser. Like drinking 151 straight or pouring alcohol directly on an open wound it stings. You just received the perspective of a grown man. You can choose to stay in denial or take his advice and that of others who have told you to run fast and far away from this dude. |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by akhis: 7:11am On Dec 17, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Thirded Mynd_44: Thirded |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by akhis: 7:29am On Dec 17, 2012 |
@OP, am so happy for you that all those that contributed on this are the nice guys on NL and they wholeheartedly told you the truth. No one insulted you or made jest of you. On a very different day, NL that I know would have given you somuch words that u will go home with more problems than you came with. Anyway, am still not convinced if those that advised you here will not come back to demand for consultation fees for the quality advise they gave. All consultation are really great. Thank you all guys, at least una represent well. And for the poster, your conclusion is fine but u don't really have to wait till you save money to move out before you end this stuff because, I can bet you,the money won't be complete easilly. Its a thing of the mind, from this moment, start regarding him as one you are done with and done with for good!!! All the best |
Re: How To End A 4 Year Affair ?? by Youngpo413: 5:08pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
femishoshogmai:you are DICKMATIZED...nothing else. 1 Like |
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