davidylan:

How can? bank tellers, bus drivers, prison warders, shop attendants... all work on saturdays.

coogar:
both parties do sacrifice a lot to sustain their marriage.

ileobatojo:

McDonald's workers, walmart workers, convenience store workers, car wash worker, laborers, cleaners, e.t.c ...

jidegirl12:

Na only doctor be health professional ?! Fool!

Go back to school Dave you're just a waste of time looking for my attention!

ileobatojo:

McDonald's workers, walmart workers, convenience store workers, car wash workers, laborers, cleaners, e.t.c ...

dayokanu:

Na wa oo

Na all the type of work wey I dey do una dey yab for hia.

One day na one day me sef go get weekend off

davidylan:

the reason i mentioned doctors is that frankly, those are the only people (with the exception of nurses) in the health sector that i regard as professionals and on par with. I know it is the fad now to bleat about being in the health sector, but everyone else besides those 2 are nothing but low income folks who just happen to work in a hospital. I hope to God you are not working in a nursing home. that would be hilarious! All that guff about being a "therapist"... nonsense.

Vikin:
If she is a British, American, even Lebanese citizen, she will get a hubby quite fast. All she has to do is log in to nairaland. Guys are not smiling!

ileobatojo:
Yes now. He has sacrificed beating her for spitting on her.

coogar:
half bread is better than nothing.

davidylan:
Do you have a sister? I dont but i would hate my cousins to sit around eating the half bread of spitting and beatings once a month. What say you?

coogar:

i have sisters and i did the due diligence of lecturing them on the kind of men they should watch out for. they are all married now with beautiful kids left right n centre......i have never heard a single incident since they all got married - it helps too when women take their time before jumping into marriage.

coogar:

i have sisters and i did the due diligence of lecturing them on the kind of men they should watch out for. they are all married now with beautiful kids left right n centre......i have never heard a single incident since they all got married - it helps too when women take their time before jumping into marriage.

Vikin:
Sometimes it's good to jump into marriage, you can never learn everything, if it doesn't favor you, just jump out! Life is too short to waste your time living miserably.

Vikin:

Sometimes it's good to jump into marriage, you can never learn everything, if it doesn't favor you, just jump out! Life is too short to waste your time living miserably.

davidylan:

wouldnt it be better to just not try at all?

coogar:

very good point.
by the time you are 50, you would have had about 15 ex-husbands. the society loves such women, isn't it?

Vikin:
Not when you are getting older, before now I told myself, if am clocking 30 s, and not yet settle because of reasons as perfect guy, I jump into a manageable one....if e no work, I just jump out. No time to waste!

Just make sure you have your onion. L'argent.

Vikin:
Which society are we talking about? The last time I checked Naija no follow for society IMHO.
Doesn't matter how many I have....my happiness counts

dayokanu: [size=18pt]See as people dey yab we prison warders and correction officers?

At least na honest living we dey make.

O ga oo. God dey sha[/size]

ileobatojo:

2. Have you tried conducting your arguments from a distance? Have you tried slowly backing away when the argument starts? Abi how many yards can he spit? Lol. Yee, mo gbe o!!!


Have you tried spitting on him too?

coogar:

and if the second marriage fails, you jump into the 3rd? acquiring step fathers here and there for your kids? how noble?

Sisi_Kill:
The flushed feeling of pride I had a few mins ago when I was ironing my Pink Molly Maid uniform just disappeared...fiaaaa!

I'm regretting reading this thread, now I can't look at my brooms and mops with joy anymore.

Thanks a lot guys....Thanks a lot.

Well sha...least I still have the soakaway maintenance one.

Sisi_Kill:
The flushed feeling of pride I had a few mins ago when I was ironing my Pink Molly Maid uniform just disappeared...fiaaaa!

I'm regretting reading this thread, now I can't look at my brooms and mops with joy anymore.

Thanks a lot guys....Thanks a lot.

Well sha...least I still have the soakaway maintenance one.

Vikin:

Which society are we talking about? The last time I checked Naija no follow for society IMHO.

Doesn't matter how many I have....my happiness counts

jidegirl12:

You mean our Black African peeps? Thank God the focus has shifted off of me

Vikin:

I mean Naija as a society not as a skin color!

So my dear, the focus is still on you!

tarababy:

I have spoken to the pastor,friends and family.He promised all of them he would stop but obviously he can't control his temper.
i have suggested anger management course but he has refused to ever attend such course.
He would destroy door,throw pot of stew in the sink and any disgusting thing when he is angry.

davidylan:

Efemena and co have tried to skirt around this but i like to shoot straight... your husband is a 2-faced hypocrite and you are not much better. lol he doesnt hang out with blacks and he is married to one?

Lets call a spade a spade... your husband has issues with inferiority complex and OBVIOUSLY doesnt know that many professional black folks and worships the very ground whites walk on. Believe me... whites are no more smarter than you are... i work in positions where i have to lead professional teams with whites (most with second and third grad degrees) and have never thought of myself as inferior in any way. If he cant hang out with black doctors or engineers then i wonder.

ThiefOfHearts:

Your husband isnt normal. Why stay with abnormal person? But Im sure people on Nairaland will tell you it's either your fault or you havent prayed enough. Good luck sha.

jidegirl12:

Well good for you!

Have you thought maybe we live where there are few dispersed Africans where we reside and we have no choice cos of our work? All my hubby's colleagues are caucasian and mine say 2 out of ten African.

Do you know what evolution blah blah is in Biology? You adapt to your environment . Ofcourse I see people in grocery stores and wave ..... I tried to mix up as much as I could .... same goes to kids friends and schools too.

So what's with the hypertension over somebody else's life?