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Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by EfemenaXY: 9:09pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
And the drama continues... Spitting vs Witch hunting... Anyway sha, @Jide, I don open up that thread as promised. So for anyone interested, Efe's doing her very own Mother Christmas thing the Waffi way. I dey dash out Recharge card pin numbers at this thread in a couple of hours....so spread the good news around and tell your friends. https://www.nairaland.com/1145865/literature-writing-section-best-poster |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:10pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Paint me the way you want David , doesn't tear a flesh off my nose... don't have control over you and I wish I do tho |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by denzel2009: 9:10pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: [size=18pt]Tarababy sweetie please answer me see question...you be wwe referee? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: lol you remind me of a family i once knew when i was a kid who would regale us with wild stories of their lives in chicago. Until i grew up and traveled to chicago a few years ago and happened to stumble on their area... living in Ikoyi would have been a far far better existence than living in such squalor even in the US of A. I dont live in any of the areas mentioned... just wanted to point out that merely living abroad does not make you any better than the fellow who lives in Surulere. Apparently your snobbery does not stop at mere skin color, you seem to have an apathy to those who have not been "lucky" enough to snag a plane ride out to whatever white country you may reside in. Give it up dear, there is nothing special about you or your husband for that matter. The time spent babbling incoherently on this thread, you both would have had a nice trip down to broadway to catch a play and had some quality time together. But who am i to speak to the "lovey dovey marriages" you all talk about all day with everyone but your "decent" spouses who happen to hate their own skin color. May you not be a subject of a thread here later on. pls say amen! 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: Well good for you! Have you thought maybe we live where there are few dispersed Africans where we reside and we have no choice cos of our work? All my hubby's colleagues are caucasian and mine say 2 out of ten African. Do you know what evolution blah blah is in Biology? You adapt to your environment . Ofcourse I see people in grocery stores and wave ..... I tried to mix up as much as I could .... same goes to kids friends and schools too. So what's with the hypertension over somebody else's life? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: why? I am fine as i am thanks. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: Of course, how else will he take out his aggression on her if he stops spitting? Anyway OP, you have heard it here from your well wishers, at least he is no longer beating you ba 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by EfemenaXY: 9:16pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
^^ Na wa o! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
ileobatojo: At least she is married. Happiness is not necessary here. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by coogar: 9:17pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: there's no woman(baby mother) that is happy alone. quit such talks. of course, they would want you to believe all is well and dandy but it's far from the truth. for the sake of the children in the centre of this ish, divorce should be the last option after all methods have failed. davidylan: what's the gravity of what she uttered? haba. jidegirl's husband has the right to choose who he likes associating with. maybe he's had several ugly experiences with black people and he's decided to dissociate himself completely from them. abeg, there are enough nigerians i know in the uk who don't associate with blacks and who don't live in black neighbourhoods. their life, their choice. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:18pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: ^^ Na wa o! Efe, it's true now. Wasn't I nice by painting her life picture up to old age? I could easily have painted it up till the point she gets stabbed 15 times in a few years time like in baby mama's story. davidylan: Apparently! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by dayokanu(m): 9:21pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
[size=18pt]See as people dey yab we prison warders and correction officers? At least na honest living we dey make. O ga oo. God dey sha[/size] 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
^^ Lmao! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Sure you're right who are you to speak of my life even? Not your business I say. I don't need lecture from you ..... Efe 's doing a good job in literature section.....everybody's special in their own way..... It's been established now I don't like your values and you don't either so lets leave it at that....... Stop stressing your tiny brain bout me and my hubby .... we are doing just fine..... not chewing more than we can swallow and couldn't have asked for more happy married life Sh it happens but we'll work it out just like my parents taught me. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: No one (male or female) is 100% happy alone. But when you are faced with either being single or a life of constant headache, being ridiculed and treated as scum in your own home... i know which i would vote for. Its not like you cant marry again after a failed marriage. Lets stop pushing this false lie that being married is the be all and end all. Marry the right person and you are set for life, marry the wrong person and even hell would be a better option. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: Frankly nobody cares and nobody asked. You're the one spewing about your family here. I just wondered, if he was that great then why have you been here the last 3-4 hrs straight? Secondly... if by my values you mean believing that a woman should have the dignity of being treated with love and respect in her home then sure we both dont share that value. Enjoy the poo in your marriage. i am allergic to poo. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
dayokanu: [size=18pt]See as people dey yab we prison warders and correction officers? do you hang with blacks? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by coogar: 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: this argument is based on the fact that her case is hopeless. are you certain her husband is resistant to change? why are you in a hurry to conclude nothing can be done to rehabilitate the husband? na wa o. people strive to make their marriage work - not run at the first sign of trouble.
marry who? would you marry a mother of 2? why do we peddle options we would not take ourselves? how many single men would marry a mother of 2 or you want her to leave her husband and start cotching up with a widower, polygamist or another baby father? there's no right/wrong person to marry - if both parties work very hard to make their marriage good, it would be good! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Are you aware of the word 'WORK'? Yep ! that's what he's doing odę. Your second paragraph crack me up yeah right David how old are you again? so I know I've not been wasting my time! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by dayokanu(m): 9:35pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: I dont have a choice Everyone in My area Ajegunle Texas is Black 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: Don't mind them jare! Bunch of fat a ss hypocrites !! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: Her husband is not resistant to change i agree. But i also do not buy this idea that somehow places the burden of keeping the marriage solely on the wife. If the wife were the one beating the husband, would you be advising him to just stay strong, work on his marriage and give her room to change? Lets try to see things from the other person's perspective... would you be pleased that your brother-in-law turned your sister to a punching bag and your advice would be for her to just try to change him? By all means she should try to save her marriage but we should not wait until she is a corpse before we advocate that sometimes your life might be more important than keeping a sham marriage alive. coogar: I disagree. You can be married to the wrong person... someone who is just not compatible with you in terms of outlook on life. For example, i am very laid back and would have a hard time being with a high strung, sharp mouthed woman... just not going to be a good match. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
dayokanu: your area appears to be mostly white. the few blacks i ran into where at the airport. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: If she is a British, American, even Lebanese citizen, she will get a hubby quite fast. All she has to do is log in to nairaland. Guys are not smiling! 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: He works on saturday? Perhaps he is a medical professional... those are the only pros i know who work on weekends. I doubt he is though... just doesnt strike me as an intelligent dude to be married to someone like you. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Vikin: no kidding lol! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: And the drama continues... Okay Efe.... Let me commot for here and leave this petty |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Awwww.... very close .... see na only health professionals work on Saturday? I knew it! you're very interested..... keep cracking Me sef wey dey that line take weekends off for the kids.... keep looking dave |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: How can? bank tellers, bus drivers, prison warders, shop attendants... all work on saturdays. Unless you're a doctor or bringing extra work home, i have hardly run into upwardly mobile professionals who dont have their weekends off. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:52pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: You're claiming to be a doc now eh? Fat chance. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Na only doctor be health professional ?! Fool! Go back to school Dave you're just a waste of time looking for my attention! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by coogar: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: of course, i would ask him to seek solutions - not bail out of his marriage because the wife is spitting on him. marriage is not a relationship people bounce in and out of especially when there are kids involved. kids complicated things - the matter is no longer me n my wife, the children are involved too. making a drastic decision regardless of their happiness is a tad self-centered. davidylan: i would not be happy but at the same time, i would not ask her to leave her marriage!
sham marriage? the same marriage that has produced 2 kids? abeg, which marriage is actually the perfect marriage? none! both parties do sacrifice a lot to sustain their marriage.
opposites attract - that's the kind of person you actually need. you cannot have 2 laid back characters - someone would have to be a bit high-strung. |
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