baby_mama:

That is not what you said
You said you do not hang with blacks and that post came out of no where ,no need trying to put a spin on it now.
Quite unfortunate

jidegirl12: I really don't know why David is capitalizing my statement a big deal? Yeah it's true he doesn't hang out with blacks.....why? I'm not willing to explain....

He's the only Black in his place of work and happens to the the boss so what gives? ...... Nobody's licking no Caucasian's white azz!

All my employees are non-Africans too and I really don't know why I have to explain myself here?

Maybe to clear the fact that I'm not nor neither my man's a racist like David has painted me!


David is evil! You brought this 'your marriage this that first' , I didn't, will I fold my hands like a coco and watch you insult me ? Hell NO!

davidylan:

Where is the LMAO icon when you need it?

jidegirl12:

^^^ you should be ashamed of yourself.... Mr leader , don't you have paperwork to do on weekends Saturdays ? ASHI!!

davidylan:

It is a special delight to be "yeevul" to empty heads like you.

jidegirl12:

Eeeeesh ..... I'm married to the most decent man you could ever imagine...... not like you bunch of hypocrites .... doesn't hang out with blacks either ....he was the best thing that happened since Clinton regime.

davidylan:

I guess i could say i dont date blacks either. See Jidegirl, me and your hubby are even.
For the life of me i had no idea why that came up... i had no idea it was now a thing of pride for blacks to say they dont hang out with blacks. clear case of a neo-colonial mindset if you ask me.

jidegirl12: Efe.... It's hubby not me and can't change his mind on that.... has his reasons don't you think..... he's a grown a ss adult as can make his own decisions .... there are some things to just leave alone when it comes to marriage .... he doesn't do Naija sites either so you know ....

Kay! as per the card I hear you ..... I missed you na but you don't seem to I thot..... I inherited 'I can defend myself' skills from una now so wetin ....

Efemena_xy: ***sniggers***

"...I don't hang out with blacks..."

Now that is the most myopic, dumbest, inferiority complex laden statement of the year! Uttered by a black for that matter.

What's so special about non-blacks if I may ask?

baby_mama:

I actually thought it was joke
I am still assuming it is,
A black woman,Nigerian through and through with an accent hates hanging out with her kind?

jidegirl12:

No it's not .... get used to it!

davidylan:

You're quite a pathetic character if you dont realize the gravity of the words you uttered.

jidegirl12:

Paint me the way you want David , doesn't tear a flesh off my nose... don't have control over you and I wish I do tho

baby_mama:

It is an unfortunate mindset to have
I won't even move into a neighborhood with no black people
My neighbor across the street is an anesthesiologist,my next door neighbor is a retired police chief ,3 houses up is my neighbor who just ran and won the seat for district judge
They are all whites
But down my same street are two Nigerian couples and a Cameroonian
I don't know the type of black people you have near you for you to utter such a thing
Quite unfortunate
I love hanging out with my kind anyday anytime

jidegirl12:

Well good for you!

Have you thought maybe we live where there are few dispersed Africans where we reside and we have no choice cos of our work? All my hubby's colleagues are caucasian and mine say 2 out of ten African.

Do you know what evolution blah blah is in Biology? You adapt to your environment . Ofcourse I see people in grocery stores and wave ..... I tried to mix up as much as I could .... same goes to kids friends and schools too.

So what's with the hypertension over somebody else's life?

jidegirl12:

Like I care whatever you think..... Half baked knucklehead

This dodo doesn't know who he's dealing with you think I'm some random whatever section handle you can talk to anyhow?

davidylan:



Perfect example of the "do you know who i am" mentality in action. Abeg park well joo.

ThiefOfHearts:

Your husband isnt normal. Why stay with abnormal person? But Im sure people on Nairaland will tell you it's either your fault or you havent prayed enough. Good luck sha.

davidylan:

You're an anonymous web handle... why should i be bothered "who i'm dealing with"?

Perfect example of the "do you know who i am" mentality in action. Abeg park well joo.

jidegirl12: I can never have a better company like my kind?

You mean the majority of them that shoots you down when they don't agree with your ideas instead of respecting it rather than condemn it? Who judges you? Who thinks you are too proud when you're trying to show off your hard earned money?

I hear you babymama na another thread be that. You don't tell me what to do ... I think I can handle it. Thanks

jennykadry:

Same way one said to me in naija......."do you know who I am? I have been a Surgeon for 15 years........"? .....I was like "who cares? tough sh1t"

jidegirl12:

^^^That you're dying to know who the Hell is behind it

I don park wella.... na parallel parking I did sef!

baby_mama:

I mean it with all my heart
You just need a better group
I hope you are not referring to online folks and the banters
Your people will be there for you in time of trouble longer than any white person can
Go and ask NigeriAns who have been bereaved or are sick in the hospital
Your white friends will give you the generic " call us if you need anything" which is just a conversation filler
Your Nigerian folks will visit
Will sleep over
Will cook and bring you food
Well take your kids to sleepover
Will call
Will stand by
Wll contribute their hard earned money if need be

Well follow up,make calls and drop in to see how you are doing


I am giving you a testimony here not just mine but that of plenty others
You tell your real friends in time of crisis not when the going is good

You will understand me someday.

davidylan:

Frankly i would rather not... i fear i would spend my entire night laughing at you.
I find out loud mouths like you really dont have much going for you so you develop a fantasy personality online to make up for your deficiencies.

Isnt your husband back from work? Is he on the night shift too?

jidegirl12:

Thank you..... I got it ALL covered and under control

I was cooking soup the other day and suddenly realized I had run out of palm oil
Called up my friend down the street and sent my son with a bowl to go collect palm oil
I felt like I was in a face me I face you in ajegunke
It was a great feeling wallahi

jidegirl12:

, don't do other people's food and I got it under control

baby_mama:

I was cooking soup the other day and suddenly realized I had run out of palm oil
Called up my friend down the street and sent my son with a bowl to go collect palm oil
I felt like I was in a face me I face you in ajegunke
It was a great feeling wallahi

oshioke2012: hmmmm..... the initial thread was...... a husband spitting on a wife...... and wife needing advice on wat to do, which one come be jidegirl own and this war of WORDS. this isnt funny nomore, jidegirl accept it or not, ur hubby is a fucking racist... even worse than a racist(his own race) nd u his wife, a bigger one for defending him... God, pls leave dis thread!

jennykadry: I am not trying to make snide remarks here but honesty though, we have a blast anytime we hang out with our people, the fun, the side jabs which is never taken seriously, the pigeon English, talking about home instead of answering questions from people who want to know what life it's like where you come from.

A black mans barbecue party rocks.

jidegirl12:

And these all went down in ajegunle or where precisely ?

Ori mi o ..... jydoe bashing only on NL

Tell me more babymama.

baby_mama:

Really?
But you eat in a white restaurant ?
Nne you have serious issues
Shebi na life we dey,you will understand me someday

jidegirl12:

You are fvcking dopey for typing my name.....na you I go defend ?

baby_mama:

Here in America

jidegirl12:

Very serious Nne..... picky type... just found out thats why all of una will never like me.... and I really don't care....sorry