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Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by EfemenaXY: 8:01pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: You forget that even banking staff (and I'm talking about telephone banking here), won't ask you for your full password. Maybe just 2 numerals/ characters out of the whole lot. coogar: of course it's nothing new - it depends on what role they play in the banks. personally, i wouldn't want any contact with any nigerian where personal banking details would be exchanged. You and I know it would be foolhardy for such a person be it Nigerian staff member or otherwise, employed by whatever bank here in Britian to tamper / perform a fraudulent act on a customer. Who wants to risk prison and a criminal record just for a few bucks? And even if they do, the bank would be liable to refunding you for your losses and compensating you for any inconveniences caused. At the end of the day, it's their reputation that matters the most, so either way, you win. coogar: i don't doubt that. my white butt attracts black women. Who told you I'm black?? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Lol at inferiority complex..... Enti ko no eni Lon feni sere( person wey no no una dey spew rubbish about una) .... no be ya fault na..... David you know what? Deduce what you want..... I really don't care what you think of my hubby....... you said you lead and so he does ......and so do I sotan? ..... if I talk now people will say I dey make yanga.... He just doesn't do peeps like you and I respect his decisions period! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: Lol at inferiority complex..... Enti ko no eni Lon feni sere( person wey no no una dey spew rubbish about una) .... no be ya fault na..... if not for the internet, you and i would never meet and life would go on just fine. So i find it quite odd when you proudly wave the "my husband just doesnt do blacks" as if it is some badge of honor. Secondly, the prison security guard does "lead" as well... Just saying. If there is anything i have learnt in the last few years... it is that you can be just about anything you want as long as you have the anonymity of the web as a cloak. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Efe siddon there they don't need your banking password? Your card number is enough Risk criminal prison after taking in maga that'll last you for the rest of his life? ..... who needs to come London when you can make Naija your own London Now we are derailing this thread! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:12pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: orisirisi ...... say what you want as long as it pacifies you about me .... prison guard lol.... Is that what you do? in style? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: many nairalanders are in worse jobs. but of course they all come here and pretend as if they live just a stones throw from the white house. I cant count the number of times i have been unpleasantly surprised at noisy nairalanders who turned out to be no better than your local shoe shiner down the street. Thank God for the internet... you can be a warrior with just a few key strokes. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Winneygirl(f): 8:17pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Thanx 4 derailing dis thread. Na 2 go sleep remain.. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:18pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Story story ..... you know what David? Lets make a deal.....my man will be coming home next year ..... you can meet up for drinks so you see yourself but Wait ! What if you're just a riffraff ? |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Bwahahaha! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: I actually live in the northeast US. Somehow you just assumed i must be living in Lagos ko? Nah i would hate to "meet up for drinks" with a man who "does not hang out with blacks". I typically have a low tolerance for folks who have identity issues. I prefer the company of confident and secure professionals. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by greatgod2012(f): 8:29pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
This thread...........na wa o! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:29pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Winneygirl: I dnt knw who 2 react 2. Please read me and quote me properly I hate to be misquoted I am advocating that her husband seeks help and where he still refuses,she should walk You and jidegirl are telling her to stop annoying him ,be a better wife ,try harder etc Don't even group davidylan on your side I doubt if he is saying the same things you are 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 8:36pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
I have tried my best to save this marriage and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year, but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf. He is a typical nigerian man who wants a wife he can walk on and dictate how she can live her life.How do you live with a man who does not agree with you before taking major steps in life. he wants to be a leader but does not set good examples.He wants automatic respect but forgets it is earned. Unfortunately am not one of the women,any man can boss around.I am not claiming to be perfect but i definately know what i want from life. He believes he is the head and so i should not question his authority.This is 21st century where man and woman work together in partnership.He still lives in the old age,where he believes the husband is always right. He is a businessman who is always home most of the time cos he has people working for him but he still expects me to come back from work to make his meal eventhough there is always stew in the fridge and he is a good cook. he complains that i don't wake up early enough to cook and get the kids ready for school but he wakes up earlier but will not lift a finger cos he believes it is a woman's duty. He said am not been submissive cos i have questioned why he can't cook his meal and have the kids shower since he wakes up earlier. The only thing he is responsible for is the mortgage and i pay the rest of the bills,just to let people know that am a fair person. i have to mention that he graduated from beating me to spitting. I am quitting the marriage cos am fed up and not cos some people advised me to do so. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
coogar: Yes o. Come to me for all your witch doctoring needs. I have a cure for diabetes, AIDs, cancer, impotence, madness, spitting sickness, name it! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: So you must be stone throw from us then.... why are you shying away from what you desperately seek David? .. .... doesn't sound like the ^^bolded character . Unlimited long distance calls to you even .... seek and it shall be given... your choice . ASHI! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:37pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: ***sniggers*** I actually thought it was joke I am still assuming it is, A black woman,Nigerian through and through with an accent hates hanging out with her kind? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: No it's not .... get used to it! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
[size=18pt]Tarababy sweetie please answer me Has this man ever kicked,hit,punched,slapped,beat or thrown an object at you?[/size] Even if he later apologized If yes How many times since your marriage |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: I think you need to shine your glasses babymama , not me and stop with the gossip. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:43pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
Ticklishmummy: OP,first of all I have to say I kind of feel sad that a woman like me is going through this.Its just unacceptable and its good you are speaking up. This is a smart woman speaking on the bolted part |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:48pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: It is an unfortunate mindset to have I won't even move into a neighborhood with no black people My neighbor across the street is an anesthesiologist,my next door neighbor is a retired police chief ,3 houses up is my neighbor who just ran and won the seat for district judge They are all whites But down my same street are two Nigerian couples and a Cameroonian I don't know the type of black people you have near you for you to utter such a thing Quite unfortunate I love hanging out with my kind anyday anytime 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
tarababy: I have tried my best to save this marriage and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year, but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf. I mentioned this earlier on and i was called an idiot. Ma'am... your life is in your own hands... much as i hate divorce, i would prefer that you live single to raise your kids in an environment that is conducive to your sanity. Appears to me that you married the wrong man and paid very little attention to who he really was BEFORE the marriage. Let this be a lesson to those who think it is more important to have the "MRS" title at an early age than to make sure you are prayerfully marrying God's choice for you however long it might take. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: You're quite a pathetic character if you dont realize the gravity of the words you uttered. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:53pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
jidegirl12: Lol projection much? I might be a stones throw from you but just for example, there is a world of difference between living in Union NJ and living in Princeton NJ. Just saying... Not everyone who lives in NYC lives in Westchester... Just saying... 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
tarababy: I have tried my best to save this marriage and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year, but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf. I didn't know you had answered I could have sworn that a man with this much anger had to be a wife beater too and I was right The signs are all over I believe I have posted enough My posts are in red Have a blessed 2013 without abuse |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Wow! Where did that post you quoted from the OP come from? Did she modify an old post? Did we all just completely miss it? Once again, I am not surprised to hear all this although it seems contradictory to the OP saying he was fine with her spitting on him. What I still can't understand is why the OP has been using the spitting issue as a front. Not that it's not bad enough on it's own though.. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: Same here. But i find out a lot of people who dont "hang out with blacks" are those who are not sufficiently up the career ladder to surround themselves with upwardly mobile, successful blacks. If you're at the bottom of the ladder then the blacks available to you are those who are on welfare... i suppose whites are a better option for such people. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 8:58pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
ileobatojo: I was wondering too Is David a witch |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
ileobatojo: lol it was right there on page 8. I could have given my entire yrs wages that a man who spits on his wife would be beating her as well. The OP simply clarified what we all knew... i bet Jidegirl12 is now revising her useless book that differentiates spitting from physical abuse ko? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Awwww..... Kpele....I don't live in the US of A , my family and friends does and not in New Jersey but ain't telling ....sorry to burst your bubble thanks for sharing tho |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
davidylan: Jidegirl will tell her to try harder since spitting is milder than beating It is just a matter of time and his fists land on her again I would have betted that he hit her too Chei make I go baff Night don reach 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
baby_mama: davidylan: Lol. We were too embroiled in the royal rumble to notice the post. Anyway, you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know suspect there are more terrible things being endured. Heck you don't even have to graduate primary school to know it. 1 Like |
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