CrazyMan: God said we were fearfully and wonderfully made...he made us in his image and likeness.

Stop looking down on yourself. At the appointed time, your man would come for you...so please don't be a slave to anyone simply because you want him to date or marry you.

@kenyattaMoore:
lol I am not a slave,I am the tough one in the relationship but I am just not so sure anymore that he will pass on a beautiful face girl and marry me I guess I am very desperate now I don't know what to do. People also tell me that I am lucky because nobody will want appart from him

@kenyattaMoore:
People always call me my face ugly and this has made me contemplate suicide several times. .even now but everybody says that I have a beautiful no. 8 figure and some women envy it.I‘ve been dating this guy for nearly 10 years now we are in our late twenties planning to get married in less than 2 yrs but the thing is I have zero confidence left in me and I am afraid that he will a girl who has a cuter face to marry. He also never compliments me about my looks ...this situation is killing me ,I don't go out anymore ,I just stay indoors for fear of people

Mynd_44: You only see yourself as ugly babe. Beauty is relative and some people don't care about physical appearances. What is important id that you unvest in yourself as a person and build youself as a person.

Beauty comes from the inside and you better realise it

SniperInADiaper:

This is a funny response...

Mynd_44: ^^
Nice

lola.luv:
OP
You need to get rid of those 'frenemies' telling you to feel lucky; that he is the only one that can marry you.

Says who? Look here, you need to get a life of your own and stop waiting and living your life for a man. When you do that, then your own man would come to complete the picture and not a moment before.
You also need to set goals and work on achieving them so that your self confidence would skyrocket. Wish you all the best!!!

@kenyattaMoore:


Y?

SniperInADiaper:

Cos he is one UGLY MOFO

@kenyattaMoore:



Thankyou Lola

lola.luv:


You're welcome, darling. Humans are resilient. You can overcome virtually anything you want to.
Especially low self esteem.
And you need to. Because alot of things that will happen in your life will be based on the way you see yourself.
If you don't place a high price on yourself, people will buy you less than you're worth.
I used to be shy and very bad at public speaking.
Now, I give the best talks in class. If we have a presentation, my group wants me to be the one to talk.
It wasn't possible before. I had to work on my self and I'm still constantly pushing myself to improve.

You can do anything you really want to do. It might be grueling. Hard. Painful. But you can.
Take care, dear.

@kenyattaMoore:



Mynd is ugly? I dont mind he still has a beautiful heart .

Mr knowitall.:
did you delete your post? I dont know what to comment on....

@kenyattaMoore:


No I did not, I have very low self esteem,dontknow how to build it up.Please commment

Mr knowitall.:


I dont even know where to even start....first, have you been like this since childhood?

@kenyattaMoore:



Yes since my teen years,now it's getting worse.I can two whole weeks indoors cause I'am scared of people

@kenyattaMoore:



How did you do that? did you read some special books to help you build up your self esteem?please share I am tired of this situation.