Someone is not being entirely honest here.OP, forget emotions, actions they say speak louder.Putting up his baby mama's pix on the wall shows there is more than a surface connection. BTW, telling you he has a son may not really spell honesty. A player's first motto is; never hide whatever you know she can find out by herself. Followed by; there are degrees of truth, use the one least likely to cause damage. So don't be taken in, use your feminine intuition and your brain. Double check things and build a true picture of the situation.Don't be taken for a ride when you could have prevented it.

[color=#770077][/color]Hahahahahahaha......you are so funny,,,,,hahahahahahaha ;DHahahahahahaha......you are so funny,,,,,hahahahahahaha

Melmo: Yeah I. Gonna ask him to take them down.

then when you leave he put them back? why do ladies worry dem selves over nothing it dosent mean if he take them down he will marry you why

dont we put ourselves in the shoes of other if you are the baby mama when you hear this how will you feel, for me the end will justify the

begining, you dont have to force a man to do things, just proof that you are in charge thanks

my dear 4get dat guy nd go 4 ur own man,even if u eventually get married 2 dis so called guy,u will stil have ur self 2 blame takia

who has tampered with my post on this topic'

sexybash: some men are just not cool

My dear, We ALL can neva be cool o. Yl sum gast dey hot, sum gast dey semi cold nd sum nid dey comot smoke 4 body.

Melmo ur issues again!? ..

@BLESSING123
preaching the gospel is good..but l have this felling u might be 42yrs single lady? and also a Chosen member? b/f l forget are u aware ur in a romance section?..

This topic heading is a bit misleading.

You can say your guy NOT your man. Is he even engaged to you sef?

You are possibly the one going to scatter a budding family.

A man has decorated his flat with the sweet fotos of his family and you're complaining.

If you don't do your homework, you might just become another baby mama.

Women and their complex love affairs. Whatever happened to all those free men out there without baggage.

Her next topic now will be "All men are cheats, All men are bad".

bukatyne: Does your ppost make any sense to you? Would you take it as mere pictures if your gal hung pictures of her ex on her wall? I hate when men feel they are entitlrd to live by a different set of rules as ladies. Such will scream murder if their gals had the phone numbers or BB pins of their ex.

Get a grip of urself, its Jux a picture.

GUN_SLINGER:

Get a grip of urself, its Jux a picture.

Yvete:

Wow!! That's messed up.

Seems like its a new relationship, but as time goes on, he may take it down. He should put those pictures in a folder. Like a personal album for the son to see pictures of his parents together if he wants to. Honestly, I think its wrong to keep old pictures on the walls now that you're in his life. The earlier the son gets the memo that his parents are no longer together, the better.
Goodluck!

just like this yur name.....smiles

binger: If i recall correctly,u are the S.A lady dating a Nigerian...maam,for the last time,dump that man and move on. You deserve better.

dump him and move on ke, are you going to find her a new man? shes the one that know what she sees in him, you don't love him so it's easy for you to say leave him...

Konnektions146: just like this yur name.....smiles

awwww really? Smiles back

I just asked him if he's married or not and he said NO.
So when I meet his parents I will ask the appropriate questions.

Melmo: I just asked him if he's married or not and he said NO.
So when I meet his parents I will ask the appropriate questions.

Did you expect a YES?

Women!Na wah o!
@melmo,please dont get carried away with love o.God has blessed us (women) with intuition;allow it to come to play.All the best dear.

ALWAYS REMEMBER, THERE ARE TRULY NO FREE MEN ! YOU JUST HAVE TO HUSTLE YOUR WAY THROUGH THE THICKET!

bukatyne: Did you expect a YES?

Her name should be Ms Gullible, not melmo

melmo, I have some beautiful ocean front property in Kaduna that can be had for a very low price.

Contact me

SAFO: melmo, I have some beautiful ocean front property in Kaduna that can be had for a very low price.

Contact me

dont laugh, she might just fall for it, after paying for Ocean front, she will see arid sand front

Yvete:

awwww really? Smiles back

sounds nice ...but doesnt really mean "nice".

like it anyways

I will rather advice you to make a U-turn, break up with him, And the person meant for you will find you someday, and treat you like the lady you are, life is too short to still keep living with someone who doesn't decerve your love and affection.

GUN_SLINGER:

Ok ooo we are all impress wit ur SUPER STORY.

tnx

texazzpete:

How exactly was he 'dangerous'?
He has kids, does that forbid him from ever remarrying? Did you ask him if he had kids? Do you know if he was waiting for the perfect opportunity to tell you first?

excuse me mr man!! That does not forbids him from remarrying the point is that we had started makin our wedding plans b4 he told me d secret.. So if i were sister i knw u wouldnt have advise me as a single lady 2 marry a man with 3 whole kids,, haba.. Its 2 much nah

I suggest you make an independent investigation about his status. Any woman stuff in the house? Information from his friends, family members. Ask his sisters when you visit his family etc. I don't think he is married myself but confirm this yourself. Any wedding fotos? Tell him to keep his ex photos in an album and see how he reacts.

Good luck!!

so what is the Big deal in someone having his ex or late wife picture on the wall for there son to see? There are situation where you dont have a choice except you do that, Maybe they both really love there self so much and something serious happen and he lost his wife will you just ask him to just forget about her and take her picture down cos he is dating you now? What if they both love each other but thee parents does not support the relationship and they both have to part ways and still love there selfs.

Melmo: I recently found out that my man has a son. So I surprised him and visited him at his home and I found pictures of his ex on his walls. He says its for his son so that when he comes to visit him he can have pictures of his mom around. How do I deal with this situation?

You must be clown.Tomorrow you start blaming God.See how you're complicating your life.Your man indeed! Hahahaha

Some are wife while some will remain girlfriend and mistress depending on their conduct.You're a mistress dignified way of calling you Asha.so.