luvmijeje: Op shebi is a date not sleeping with him,not even yes to a serious relationship.Just want to know him better.
Please the answer is IMMEDIATELY.

Hey...I ll like to know you better

Waiting till Rapture is best!

yuzedo: Waiting till Rapture is best!

WackyJ1: As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

I hate that zone......has happened to me so I know what you're saying......probably I delayed too much.....lol.....most times, if I see guys that really like my female friends, I'm like pls release them if you're not interested rather than keep them waiting......

The topic should be "f.uc.king someome you like, how long should u wait"

My broda its immediately for guys oh, before she turn u to broda or even her footmat...

Talking out of experience tho

As long as you like the person and the person likes you too, why wait?

The earlier the better

I av a problm openin ma mailbox, it keeps tellin me 'Apllication error' plzz hw do i rectify it?

As long as u can wait.

I have escaped from friendzone twice myself. After escaping the first i was captured like 2 weeks later and put back.
The second one pained me most but i escaped and had her coming for me

Feraz: I hate that zone......has happened to me so I know what you're saying......probably I delayed too much.....lol.....most times, if I see guys that really like my female friends, I'm like pls release them if you're not interested rather than keep them waiting......

Yeah you probably liked her a lot and was waiting for it all to be just right before you asked her out (that's what we get when we try to be Gentlemen).
Normally guys are supposed to know when the iron is very hot so that they can strike before it cools into friendzone.

Friendzone usually happens when the girl has "Seen you finish"

Cweetie: So NLs, should people who like each other front for many months or years before they decide to date.

In my opinion too much fronting can cost you some good love. What do you guys think? Any experiences?

It should have bin 'how long should you wait before marrying some one you like ?'
What is this dating thing all about self ?
God help us

mudistr: @op, it all depends
if you've known him for a long time, and he only just asked you out, you can start dating (including sex) him immediatiely
if you just met him, and you like him (you can start simple kisses the first week, and heavy smooching at the end of the month). by the end of 1.5 months, you can commense sex)
If you follow this patter, he won't consider u cheap

then u will end up sleeping wit all the guys that chik u. I dont beliv this.

it's nt a bad idea but at times delay is dangerous

When u re inlove wit sm/one u make the necessary move to win ur patner, if both re compartable u make a proposal, then invite us f ur weddg.

After the normal talking and getting to know each other which should take few days, go ahead and strike as soon as she's in a compromising corner...the rest is history

mudistr: @op, it all depends
if you've known him for a long time, and he only just asked you out, you can start dating (including sex) him immediatiely
if you just met him, and you like him (you can start simple kisses the first week, and heavy smooching at the end of the month). by the end of 1.5 months, you can commense sex)
If you follow this patter, he won't consider u cheap

You be learner,an average player go pretend wella for the next three months and bleep the hell out of you and move on to the next project

la zone de amite?
Its everything or nothing, Love me or leave me alone. Can a lion and a goat be just friends?

As long as you can bear

As a guy, wait until she does something that indicates she thinks "you are the one".

NEVER chase a woman!

Remember, women normally do the selecting and they most times know your intentions, don't be a mugu falling for that "I did not know what he wanted/if he liked me" BS.

She knows, and she is making her decision after a series of testing she would put you through and considering the other options she has. Dont' fall for their stewpid "Oh, I am naive!". It is all a power game to them.

If she can't indicate directly or indirectly it is you she wants, then she does not like you like that! She would do it for another guy she likes in a heartbeat! So it is not worth the investment you would put in wooing her or being with her when you can hammer around.

Sweetapple007: then u will end up sleeping wit all the guys that chik u. I dont beliv this.

Truckpusher: You be learner,an average player go pretend wella for the next three months and bleep the hell out of you and move on to the next project

you people are not getting it. a guy can even pretend and pursue you for more than two years for bleeping sake. I've seen it happen. I am talking about if you really want to have him, but you want to be sure that he wont look down on you as cheap. It has nothing to do with whether the relationship works or not

When you look at each other for the first time, both of you smile, feeling mutually attracted and you notice the vital signs (erection of nipples/breast, joystick) , you are good to go, hurry now do not delay!

Guess in the course of waiting, you might just loose out on something you need badly. Me I would act fast, because the delaying, might just mean prolonging your judgement day.

Sagamite: As a guy, wait until she does something that indicates she thinks "you are the one".

NEVER chase a woman!

Remember, women normally do the selecting and they most times know your intentions, don't be a mugu falling for that "I did not know what he wanted/if he liked me" BS.

She knows, and she is making her decision after a series of testing she would put you through and considering the other options she has. Dont' fall for their stewpid "Oh, I am naive!". It is all a power game to them.

If she can't indicate directly or indirectly it is you she wants, then she does not like you like that! She would do it for another guy she likes in a heartbeat! So it is not worth the investment you would put in wooing her or being with her when you can hammer around.

lol, is like you have experienced it dude. Buh then some gurls would nt want u to knw when they love you cuz they feel you might start toiling with their emotion.

Smartie gurl: lol, is like you have experienced it dude. Buh then some gurls would nt want u to knw when they love you cuz they feel you might start toiling with their emotion.

Yeah, I am not talking about girls begging you or chatting you up. If she likes you, she would just nudge you on gently. Women are usually very weak emotionally when they like someone. And secondly, if she likes you, she likely thinks you are desirable and would think some other girl might accept your approach so she would try to rush it to take the place. There is no way a girl who likes you and you have already started communicating with would not show the subtle signs she wants to take the place. An experienced guy will spot those cues.

She would show the 3 As: I am Available, I am Approachable, I am Agreeable.

If she does not show all that, she does not really like him that much.

Sagamite:

Yeah, I am not talking about girls begging you or chatting you up. If she likes you, she would just nudge you on gently. Women are usually very weak emotionally when they like someone. And secondly, if she likes you, she likely thinks you are desirable and would think some other girl might accept your approach so she would try to rush it to take the place. There is no way a girl who likes you and you have already started communicating with would not show the subtle signs she wants to take the place. An experienced guy will spot those cues.

She would show the 3 As: I am Available, I am Approachable, I am Agreeable.

If she does not show all that, she does not really like him that much.

your right though, buh gurls these days would nt want to show there love until they become very sure of how much u love them, becuz as u said "gurls are emotionally weak", dats why few of them may nt want to let u knw how much they love you, so you won't toil with their emotion....

Smartie gurl: your right though, buh gurls these days would nt want to show there love until they become very sure of how much u love them, becuz as u said "gurls are emotionally weak", dats why few of them may nt want to let u knw how much they love you, so you won't toil with their emotion....

We are not talking about love yet, we are talking about dating someone you like.

Sagamite:

We are not talking about love yet, we are talking about dating someone you like.

Sagamite, hello!! Don't you think you ought to love someone before dating the being?

wonder wil never end in NL..... Hmmmm... People with differnt tips....

Smartie gurl: Sagamite, hello!! Don't you think you ought to love someone before dating the being?

If that was the case, then most likely I would never date. So, No, I just need to be attracted physically and like their "first few impressions" personalities.

Sagamite:

If that was the case, then most likely I would never date. So, No, I just need to be attracted physically and like their "first few impressions" personalities.

lol. You own ur self hun.