Nigerian girls don't demand romance. Simple as that. You don't have to be a romantic guy to get any nigerian girl. You just have to 'have'. Spend on the chic. Take her out every weekend. Get her a good fone. Pay for her hair and make up. That is what a huge percentage of naija girls call 'caring'. Just be 'caring' that's all and leave romance for the white man and a few enlightened naija chics.

12 inches!:
Nigerian girls don't demand romance. Simple as that. You don't have to be a romantic guy to get any nigerian girl. You just have to 'have'. Spend on the chic. Take her out every weekend. Get her a good fone. Pay for her hair and make up. That is what a huge percentage of naija girls call 'caring'. Just be 'caring' that's all and leave romance for the white man and a few enlightened naija chics.

Gbam!!! Well said bro

SimplYeahmee: honestly you've not met me

Lets fix that then

Omoteeh: I have asked myself so many times too. Simple answer is,most Nigerian men and African men in general are naturally brought up to think they are mini gods that should be worshipped and waited on handand foot. I sit in an office with about 5 white men and i have often gone into the ladies bathroom to weep at how unlucky i am to have married an african man who is sooo selfish, his needs always come first. I see these my colleagues buying flowers, sharing recipes to surprise their wives with, planning holidays etc....

ABEG SEE FIGHT FOR Nl , u talk say boys no romantic, d gals dem dey talks say dia guys romantic, so wetin con be ur own, sey na boy u be or na gal, i dey suspect say na gal u be, when u too go go dey date and play with agbero, shey u no dey hear say wetin concern agbero with overload, abeg NLers, who we wit dash dish gal 4 dis place make dem shag am well make she know say we dey kampe

2blunt:


ABEG SEE FIGHT FOR Nl , u talk say boys no romantic, d gals dem dey talks say dia guys romantic, so wetin con be ur own, sey na boy u be or na gal, i dey suspect say na gal u be, when u too go go dey date and play with agbero, shey u no dey hear say wetin concern agbero with overload, abeg NLers, who we wit dash dish gal 4 dis place make dem shag am well make she know say we dey kampe

Lolzz

12 inches!:
Nigerian girls don't demand romance. Simple as that. You don't have to be a romantic guy to get any nigerian girl. You just have to 'have'. Spend on the chic. Take her out every weekend. Get her a good fone. Pay for her hair and make up. That is what a huge percentage of naija girls call 'caring'. Just be 'caring' that's all and leave romance for the white man and a few enlightened naija chics.

in that case they re elebis (hungry people). lol.

need to get me a white gal. lol

I wouldnt say Nigerian guys arnt Romantic...I think the typical Yoruba guy is pretty romantic....

I beg, we romance well well

Mr knowitall.:
I wouldnt say Nigerian guys arnt Romantic...I think the typical Yoruba guy is pretty romantic....

Crap

dmcdad:
Lmao... Thats more like a remix or a variant way of using it.. More like "na wa u ooo"

...and also na wa wa o! Lol...you're on point there! O kwa i ma

ATMC: ...and also na wa wa o! Lol...you're on point there! O kwa i ma

Sure now... You know how e dey go

May be you should look at how you got into that relationship in the first place.

If he spent a lot of money to get your attention, all he knows is you respond to material things than romance because his initial romantic gesture was mulled.

When most Nigerian men belief their women only respond to financially induced gestures.

If I meet a lady getting soaked by rain at bus-stop and offered to share my umbrella(getting soaked too in the process) and a guy comes along in a car to offer her a ride she will dump me with a thank you and get in the car.
A lot of ladies will see nothing wrong with thank you, but will find it wrong for me to keep the umbrella to myself while they soak up the rain.
Why will I want to share my umbrella with the next lady I see getting soaked when any guy with a car has everything to gain?

This example seemed far fetched, but what I'm trying to say is there are some things you have done to turn your man off romance.
If you give a proper response to any stimulus, or hint on what stimulates you better(remember you have no manual)men will learn to stimulate romance better.But if you only respond when you get the cash/gift why would he pay for the milk when he owns the cow?

dmcdad:
Sure now... You know how e dey go

jeje nwayo...

ATMC: jeje nwayo...

Abi...

While I totally agree with Sultaan's view, I believe if you wanna do a favour, don't ever do it with the intention of dating the recipient. Do it of your heart and forget how ever the person decides to thank you

I think it just depends on your idea of romantic.. what speaks to u. My man comes to see me. When i have to travel to him he is worried about me being put out. When we r together my needs are met most definatly. He for sure makes me feel like a woman. He spends time w me and it is very attentive. So it just depends .. will he open the care door? Not usually.but thats ok.

God forbid, Romantic for where.. No lady will ever stay with a pauper and if she stays, then there must have been a prophesy that the guy is gonna be great in the future, 9ja girls do not keep only one boyfriends, the rare at which they are doing PAROLE or Aristo is high, so, if i suspect my woman doing that, can you still expect me to be ROMANTIC TOWARDS HER?.. Bleep BITCHES********

Lol ni-still watching

I think I'm actually done with Nigerian men! They don't deserve me

Mindependent: I think I'm actually done with Nigerian men! They don't deserve me

Better...

Mindependent: I think I'm actually done with Nigerian men! They don't deserve me

ur right sweet;-)>naija dudes>we deserve better ladies

Princeparix: ur right sweet;-)>naija dudes>we deserve better ladies

Ha! You are looking for trouble o, im the best that you're never going to have

Mindependent:
Ha! You are looking for trouble o, im the best that you're never going to have

why dont u prove that to me ma'am

Hehe why don't you buy me a range rover and house in lekki then I may consider proving it

Mindependent: Hehe why don't you buy me a range rover and house in lekki then I may consider proving it

Now this would be a monumental show of romance.

Mindependent: Hehe why don't you buy me a range rover and house in lekki then I may consider proving it

waited too long 4 dis> the best naija babe is a money freak_lol>i prefer a yankee babe wey need only ice-cream~hw do u get d house documents nd car key?

Princeparix: waited too long 4 dis> the best naija babe is a money freak_lol>i prefer a yankee babe wey need only ice-cream~hw do u get d house documents nd car key?

Na joke I dey joke o oga

sometimes I wonder what kind of ladies w av in this Nigeria? how do u define romance? give a Nigerian girl flowers on val day or card on b'day n get d biggest humiliation of ur life. u hear stuff like: na flower I go chop? nw card I go pay hairdresser? etc. meanwhile, oyinbo girls appreciate things like flowers, cards, msgs etc. infact, most of Nigerian girls are confused, even d so-called high class babes. their definition of romance is eatery, pocket money and they thnk u by nagging

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Mindependent:
Na joke I dey joke o oga

joke well accepted>wont u prefer a full-paid 2weeks holiday 2 dubia?

Princeparix: joke well accepted>wont u prefer a full-paid 2weeks holiday 2 dubia?

As long as its full with romance and not a splash of cash then bring it on babayyyy!

Mindependent:
As long as its full with romance and not a splash of cash then bring it on babayyyy!

if u prefer romance to the splash of cash, why dnt we change the holiday location to Zamfara. Where we cant find shopping malls or boutiques~or Dont U tink so?