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Was He Right? by Rebellious(f): 10:33pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
So, my cousin, who I'm tight with, was dating this girl for about 6 months then travelled to San Francisco for about 2 months in December. I went to his area during Christmas break and then some of my friends around there said the girl's been sluting around ever since he left. I wasn't exactly sure about it, so I confronted her about it. At first, she totally denied it but later confessed and made me promise not to tell him becuz she wanted to tell him herself. I was cool with that and I let it pass. But I guess she never did and because when my cousin came back and called me to know how things were generally, I noticed he didn't know about it yet so, I had to bite my tongue and make our conversations short so I don't spill the beans. Then, sometime this March, a friend of mine told me he broke up with her and gave me exact details of how it happened. He took her to a karaoke bar with a couple friends and placed her in the front seat. She was happy about it becuz she didn't know what was going on. The he went up to sing and guess what? The song he chose and sang was Eamon's "Don't want you back". . .the uncensored version. When he was done, he threw the mic at her and left while she sat there and cried till someone else offered her a ride. Now my question is, was he right in breaking up with her in public view the way he did? |
Re: Was He Right? by donchichi: 10:36pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
in all honesty, it wasn't right. yes, the girl might have deserved the song but not in public view. i guess he was too angry and he let his anger get the better of him. Just sad. |
Re: Was He Right? by HRhotness(f): 10:41pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
OUCH! i knda understand why he'd want to break up with her that way, as for wether it was right?,,,,,,,,,,, who are we to say really? its a a question of individual situation and personal choice, can anyone really say what exactly led him to do it that way? |
Re: Was He Right? by tRoOE(f): 10:46pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
That was so childish, damn he could have handled the situation in a matured manners. Why did he allow his anger to talk ever him? So tell me what he gained from what he did to that poor girl What the girl did was dumb, but how will she face the public, her reputations has been damaged. And as we all know, majority of Nigerians abroad are connected to each other one kind of way, and we know how news travel fast among people, like the elders also say “Where the mouth reaches, the feet can not get there” These are reason why i will not date/marry Nigerians abroad He isn't the first person a girl will cheat on nor will he be the last |
Re: Was He Right? by somze(f): 10:48pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
Sometimes we have to use a short range missile to kill an ant |
Re: Was He Right? by tRoOE(f): 11:00pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
I really feel so bad for that girl , i just can't even imagine what she was going through that moment [center]EAMON LYRICS Bleep It (I Don't Want You Back) Whoa oh oh Ooh hooh No No No [Verse 1:] See, I dont know why I liked you so much I gave you all, of my trust I told you, I loved you, now thats all down the drain Ya put me through pain, I wanna let u know how I feel [Chorus:] Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now Bleep the presents might as well throw em out Bleep all those kisses, they didn't mean jack Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now Bleep the presents might as well throw em out Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back [Verse 2:] You thought, you could Keep this shit from me, yeah Ya burnt bitch, I heard the story Ya played me, ya even gave him head Now ya askin for me back Ya just another act, look elsewhere Cuz ya done with me Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now Bleep the presents might as well throw em out Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now Bleep the presents might as well throw em out Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah Ya questioned, did I care You could ask anyone, I even said Ya were my great one Now its, over, but I do admit I'm sad. It hurts real bad, I cant sweat that, cuz I loved a hoe Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now Bleep the presents might as well throw em out Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah Oh oh Uh huh yeah[/center] [flash=425,355] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTIkmcqxQIo[/flash] |
Re: Was He Right? by somze(f): 11:12pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
The guy was pushed, broken and alienated by her promiscuity and snapped. Sometimes our cure is greater than the disease. Either way we can be happy we are rid of the disease. |
Re: Was He Right? by TheSly: 11:22pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
Lol. . . . . . . . . . . . . Good for her. . . Very Very Good. . . . . |
Re: Was He Right? by ariblaze(m): 11:56pm On Mar 10, 2008 |
talk about being served cold |
Re: Was He Right? by Nobody: 6:00am On Mar 11, 2008 |
Sounds childish, but I don't pity her. She deserved it!!!! |
Re: Was He Right? by stephanay(m): 8:31am On Mar 11, 2008 |
rather childish when i broke up wt my ex, he went about it in a similar way, he called me a LovePeddler (even though i know i aint one) he called me a pauper, all sorts of names u can imagine he even said i had HIV, now i can't help but laff at him because i know i aint all dose things, i gave him much credit but he messed up, guess we all av various ways of dealing wt hurt and anger |
Re: Was He Right? by hammers(m): 9:58am On Mar 11, 2008 |
The ladies will come with sentimental and emotionally guided comments now. The point is she chose to mess up in her own best way. The guy too chose his way . So? Tit 4 tat tat |
Re: Was He Right? by sweetberry(f): 10:03am On Mar 11, 2008 |
so immature on the guy's part totally wrong to do that, after all he won't be the first person to be cheated on |
Re: Was He Right? by jkpretty(f): 10:11am On Mar 11, 2008 |
This is childish, so so childish. There are ways u walk away that the girl will always always do anything to have u back. U'll have respect & the lady will keep saying 'u are the good guy she lost'. I can't even date a guy like that, does he think it will be a plus to his ego if he told me that's how he layed off his 'ex, dang, i'll pick my slippers & run. Cos i wonder what he'll do to me if i hug my brother. Anger management na whahala, people like that can kill sef. O. J Simpson. |
Re: Was He Right? by enibaba(m): 10:31am On Mar 11, 2008 |
That will depend on what you called public, I guess you first heard from the public that she was sleeping around, as the saying goes, the last to hear about one's whisper is oneself. The only problem is that she might think that you spill the bean. Anyway, you should be happy for your cousin for not taking the relationship to another level. |
Re: Was He Right? by micklplus(m): 3:23pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
two can play the game ! |
Re: Was He Right? by TheSly: 3:41pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
Right on!. . . . Childish ko. . . . Adultish ni . . . |
Re: Was He Right? by topgirl: 3:51pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
ha ha ha ha ha.v funny. and right to do so, cus she's wat she is ,a "H". |
Re: Was He Right? by TheSly: 9:01pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
Well Tell her to go sing ''irreplaceable by beyounce as well to settle the scores. . . . [center] Irreplaceable By Beyounce To the left To the left To the left To the left Mmmm to the left, to the left Everything you own in the box to the left In the closet, that's my stuff Yes, if I bought it, baby, please don't touch (don't touch) And keep talking that mess, thats fine Could you walk and talk, at the same time? And it's my name thats on that jag So go move your bags, let me call you a cab Standing in the front yard, telling me How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout How I'll never ever find a man like you You got me twisted You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I could have another you in a minute Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby) You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you by tomorrow So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' You're irreplaceable? So go ahead and get gone Call up that chick, and see if shes home Oops I bet you thought, that I didn't know What did you think I was putting you out for? Because you was untrue Rolling her around in the car that I bought you Baby, drop them keys Hurry up, before your taxi leaves Standing in the front yard, telling me How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout How I'll never ever find a man like you You got me twisted You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I could have another you in a minute Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby) You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you by tomorrow So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' You're irreplaceable (irreplaceable)? So since I'm not your everything (irreplaceable) How about I'll be nothing (nothing)? Nothing at all to you (nothing, nothing) Baby I won't shed a tear for you (I won't shed a tear for you) I won't lose a wink of sleep (a wink of sleep) 'Cause the truth of the matter is (truth is) Replacing you is so easy To the left, to the left. To the left, to the left. Mmmmm To the left, to the left. Everything you own in the box to the left To the left, to the left. Don't you ever for a second get to thinking You're irreplaceable? You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you in a minute Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby) You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you by tomorrow So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'? You must not know 'bout me (baby) You must not know 'bout me I could have another you in a minute Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute You can pack all your bags we're finished (you must not know 'bout me) 'Cause you made your bed now lay in it (you must not know 'bout me) I could have another you by tomorrow Don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' You're irreplaceable? [/center] its only right! |
Re: Was He Right? by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:12pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
@Sly am dying to sing dat song to someone very soon. LOL I think that was one of her best songs. ( there are only a few of them ) @topic Yes; it was childish but I guess that was the best way he knew to finish da whole thing. At least the girl should be happy with herself . . . . . . she hurt a man so much that he bothered to learn the lyrics enough to perform it to her at a Karaoke. This is a classic case of tit for tat. . . . . . . she disgraced him in public he did it back. The world is still in balance. |
Re: Was He Right? by tommyex(m): 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
That sounds so mean and childish,maybe i dont really feel the guy's pains though. At least the girl should be happy with herself . . . . . . she hurt a man so much that he bothered to learn the lyrics enough to perform it to her at a Karaoke. .I hope you have learnt ur own lyrics Who said the world is balanced anyway?na lie oo |
Re: Was He Right? by TheSly: 9:46pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
NJ. . . . . Yeah right!!! There is nothing stopping u purrtey laydie. . . do ur thing and l.emme know how it goes. . . |
Re: Was He Right? by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:54pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
tommyex: I have learnt a lot of lyrics darling. All for different kinds of occasions. Most especially when I can't seem to get da right words out because of too much anger In this situation . . . . the guy's world is balanced. so is the girls' |
Re: Was He Right? by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:56pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
®~^Sly^~®: which one is purrtey laydie. . . . this verbal write-ups confuse me sometimes |
Re: Was He Right? by TheSly: 9:58pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
Olodo ni e. . . . . . . by the way. . .its been a while. . . where have u been? Chasing cats on the street on london? |
Re: Was He Right? by henry007(m): 10:00pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
NaJa HaJe:hope u have made ur moni coz b did oh |
Re: Was He Right? by tommyex(m): 10:04pm On Mar 11, 2008 |
I have learnt a lot of lyrics darling. All for different kinds of occasions. Most especially when I can't seem to get da right words out because of too much angerok,i get the balncing of their world's equations now. Dont 4get 2 get d right words for too much joy too |
Re: Was He Right? by kalmebad(f): 12:06pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
I could feel the pain of the guy He is pained, but then he went too far with his reactions, there is more matured way of handling the situation rather than to disgrace her publicly, i personally would either walk away without a word, because silence can be golden sometimes, till she probably come asking why But guess its a pay back time he felt, following suit of Psquare Do me i do u syndrome, can only say pele to both of them |
Re: Was He Right? by NaJaHaJe(f): 5:03pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
®~^Sly^~®: oju eja lo ma je ti ti ti ti ti ti ti shiooooooooooooo!!!!!!! chasing cats ke? ma friend watch ya mouth oooooooo @henry007 not to worry about money. there are many ways of making that. @tommyex my tears will help me sing 'too much joy' |
Re: Was He Right? by Busta(f): 5:08pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
There are much better ways to deal with a situation like that. |
Re: Was He Right? by pahtahkee: 11:42pm On Mar 12, 2008 |
All this he should not have this and that. Ladies have in the times past given out worse rejections for guys that what this guy did to her. She went out cheating against him, and he paid her back in a better note, what better way should he have handled it? It rocked his boat to do what he did, the ladies here are only empathizing with her simply because she is a woman. She caused what she got. For me, I would have done it in a much more better but bitter way. |
Re: Was He Right? by Sapphic: 10:16pm On Feb 06, 2009 |
@ Original Poster, your cousin is an immature asshole. |
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