Colin Adua: Hello! Please Nigerian 30+ sweet, fully matured, full grown women. Don't let all these rubbish that these guys are posting here sway you to settle for someone you don't like or rush into marriage. Marriage no be achievement o. IT IS YOUR LIFE OOO, NOBODY SHOULD LIVE IT FOR YOU.

Men have really lost love, compassion, appreciation for their sweet beautiful partners. And now they are looking for more to rope down with doom. Run as fast as your legs can carry you.

FOR MY FELLOW MEN; LEARN HOW TO LOVE, CARE, APPRECIATE THE WOMEN THAT ARE ALREADY MARRIED TO YOU BEFORE, BLAMING THOSE THAT ARE YET TO MARRY, WHO ARE TAKING TIME TO SELECT THE BEST, AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

BECAUSE NO MATTER HOW YOU SEE IT, IT BEGINS WITH US. AM A GUY, 35, very single and loving it, NOT EVEN SURE WHETHER I WILL MARRY. LEFT FOR ME. I DONT WISH TO.

But if I eventually marry, am going for a woman I like her way of life, ie believes and character. I don't care about beauty (experience has shown me that less pretty women are very good, loving, nurturing and they give birth to healthy beautiful babies). I have decided to 'worship' the ground she walks on. I will go any length to make her happy. Imagine leaving her father's house were she grew up, to relocate to a strange crib (yes, many guys dont even have a decent accommodation and they are talking about marriage) only to be treated like a slave. Everybody say GOD FORBID. YES!


SHALOM!!!

H.C.F:
@milychocs; quite touched by ur post....

However, once again the re-emergence of 'I cannot settle for less' .

@op, Going through the comments on the thread, one can easily conclude that there are a thousand and one factors responsible for the high number of single ladies at 30+.

However, there seems to be no silver bullet to deal with the problem. life itself is full of ironies:I know of a lady, whose early to mid and late twenties were full of fun, from one guy/man/ to the other,even to secure a job, she used what she had to get what she wanted,... now at 33, she remains single and desperately so.... LAW OF KARMA?
Another female friend, decent, amiiable, beautiful, so committed that she spent six years in courtship with an unemployed guy, only to be dumped immediately he secured a job,(after seven years of joblessness).REASON?, it was seen by a pastor that she was not the right person for him!!.....and today, at 35, she is single trying real hard to put the pieces of her life together again! LAW OF....WETIN?.LOL

One can go on and on, but one thing is clear, a wise man is not always successful, and a fool is not always unfortunate; a wayward lady could end up with a happy family early in life, while a decent one gets married late/never/or to the wrong person!!....thats the irony of life!!!

all i know is this,

if as a young lady, you are pious, and genuinely, seek piety as the main virtue in your man,
if you exhibit temperance, patience, perseverance and simplicity in your endeavours....
if you realize, as a young lady, that you are meant to be a reasonable companion of a man...and not only a slave of his passion...
if you undersatand, that your sole purpose is to assist him in the toils of life.....even if men are as scarce as hen's teeth , u'l always be the one to chose from a pool of worthy husband materials...and if despite all this, u remain single!...then you'l be singly happy. !!

TO those in their 30+.....never loose hope, dont give room for depression,be cheerful always, be realistic, lower your standards and pray,pray,pray.....

aduaba: There are divas reasons for this situation. Firstly, believe it or not some ladies as at age 21do not have a man to boast of as their boyfriend. Others have alot to chose from that they get confused and go for the wrong guy instead. It is also a reality that some ladies are just so fond of going for men who are already committed, there could be a cute single guy after her but NO! she wants that man with a wife or a serious girlfriend. Most of these committed men waste their time till these ladies get the so obvious truth that these men will never leave their wives for them.Sadly we are in an era where most single men don't want to get married just yet.so its quite complicated.

fpeter: THE ONLY REASON IS THE NATION'S CURRENT ECONOMY!
NO JOB/INCOME= NO MARRIAGE
UNEMPLOYMENT IS THE MAJOR REASON......A REASONABLE
MAN WITHOUT A JOB CANNOT AFFORD TO GET MARRIED, LET
ALONE CATER TO ANY FAMILY.

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karpentar: Where are the guys? Folks are unemployed or struggling with poor paying jobs. These situations are not ideal for marriage.

obadiah777: ALL BULLSHYTTT. IF A LADY IS HOT ENOUGH, DOES NOT MATTER HOW BAD HER ATTITUDE IS OR HOW OLD SHE IS ( DIDNT HALLE BERRY AND JENNIFER ANNISTON GET MARRIED IN THEIR FORTIES ? ), SHE WILL ALWAYS FIND A MAN. YES I KNOW ITS UNFAIR BUT MEN ARE CARNAL BRUTE BEASTS. IF YOU ARE HOT, DOES NOT MATTER YOUR AGE, YOU WILL ALWAYS GET SUITORS. HOWEVER AFRICAN FOOD IS NOT GOOD ON A LADY SO MAYBE MANY AFRICAN LADIES AT 30 LOOK LIKE THE MICHELIN MAN HENCE WHY NO SUITORS HEY ITS A BRUTAL WORLD. YOU GOTTA SACRIFICE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT. YOU CANT HAVE IT ALL. DITCH THE AFRICAN FOOD AND TRY TAEBO, YOU MAY JUST GET A MAN AT 40

Da gr8tosyn: To my best of knowledge exposure can make or mar ladies of this generation, issue of environment and family back ground is a strongly influence in the Life of Ladies, making them to end up being Single parent; therefore Single Parent for example could easily make all female children grow up without fatherly love, atmosphere and believing it's interesting, and best to live as a single lady.

More so, it is not common for you to see a single lady at over 30years of age in most good homes where both parent exist. Please how do we correct the insanity of so many overdue (for marriage)single ladies and single parent in this part of the world, I strongly advice young ladies deviate from their mother’s believe( situation and condition) and come out different from the ways they are trained...?

Please what is your take on this topic?

back2sender: Seen a couple of interesting posts. I have the same challenge with a lady in her 30's rite now. how can a lady tell you, your apartment is not good enough. that the roads are not tarred and too much traffic in your area, in a nut shell she is saying she cannot settle for less.

I was so bitter about it because this is an apartment I pay 500k per annum, a 2 bed room in Ajah axis. i spend an average of 1,500 to call her daily, she eats out a lot and this is on my bills.

I don give am red card because this one go wreck person quick quick.
This are the challenge we see as men, our ladies are living in a dream world, there no 1 priority is money, money and money

dmcdad:
You are right anywayz... And like someone rightly said, they tend to be more materialistic than realistic... I think that defines why most remain unmarried at such age...

nbright: Why in the world would I want to get married when I was suffering alone in my academics she might have been busy hopping from one bed to another, she knows all the hotels and the prices of their foods and drinks. Since she went out with older men, I think it's right I too go oit wit young girls to see what the old men saw in her.

Mrs..Cork:



you are wicked and I mean it.

Mrs..Cork:


I love your signature.

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