Loool, funny thread. The highs, lows, battle royals, the "you must fight your MIL" to gain recognition crew. All sorts. Anyway, safety first. If you don't feel safe don't wait for anyone to remove anyone, remove yourself. Is marriage by force? Evil people come in all shapes, forms and sizes now. Having the mentality that your MIL is evil will put you on the defensive. And if you disrespect someone's mother, you expect them to side with you because they married you. Then you have something else coming. I wouldn't let anyone disrespect my own mother, so I won't do the same. Afterall she gave birth to him, if she didn't he won't be there for you to marry. Carry preconceptions on your head and create a hostile environment, let us see how long it lasts. If it falls on your head, na you sabi. Na you go dey run from babalawo to mosque and church looking for sokoto in your shokoto. -jussst saying.

ileobatojo:

And the razz nature bursts through once again. As dull as you are, you can't even keep it hidden for 2 seconds.

I'm going to leave you to your stu*pidity now. Let people who want to discuss this serious topic carry on. Unlike you I actually have self control/self restraint. I don't go around with my wide mouth poking the beast and then feigning innocence, claiming to be the victim. Your MO has already been described to a T by multiples of posters, but your mental re*tardation prevents you from appreciating their advice.

Listen, I have no interest in conversing with you, rarely does anything intelligent proceed from your mouth so I simply have no interest, I don't respond to your posts, I avoid making snide references to them. I'm living and letting others live. I suggest you do the same, I ignore you, you ignore me. Everyone's happy. If you insist of stalking me around and continuing your childish taunts, you will be called out.

Now listen, you don't get to tell me who, what and how I do things on here. I really don't give a sh it everyone's happy or not, lonely old hag! stalking you? Are you outta your mind ?, I don't stalk people not to talk of loser nonentity like you.
Now get this to your calcified skull you call a brain, I will NOT ignore you from now on, I will comment if I see any rubbish comment of yours ,
You should know I'm not moved nor scared by any handle here except @cc and few others, I don't need to be in any rubbish online circle since that's what you live for , so ignoring you is outta the window from now on.so your suggestion/ begging to back off you na wash.. oops too late.

That's what you ALL say , you don't have interest conversing with moi jydoe and yet y'all type your epistle , what a life! Get yourself a blokos if you're that cranky witchdoctor

all-out:


You registered tonight just to type this

Infact, oga gan! Now who are you? The MIL

lmao
..detective all-out...

baby_123: Loool, funny thread. The highs, lows, battle royals, the "you must fight your MIL" to gain recognition crew. All sorts. Anyway, safety first. If you don't feel safe don't wait for anyone to remove anyone, remove yourself. Is marriage by force? Evil people come in all shapes, forms and sizes now. Having the mentality that your MIL is evil will put you on the defensive. And if you disrespect someone's mother, you expect them to side with you because they married you. Then you have something else coming. I wouldn't let anyone disrespect my own mother, so I won't do the same. Afterall she gave birth to him, if she didn't he won't be there for you to marry. Carry preconceptions on your head and create a hostile environment, let us see how long it lasts. If it falls on your head, na you sabi. Na you go dey run from babalawo to mosque and church looking for sokoto in your shokoto. -jussst saying.

apparently the man is deemed weak because he didn't send his own mother packing in those 4 years. strong husbands beat their mums in naija, send them packing and if she is reluctant to leave the newly weds the strong husbands stab their own mothers.

So many tough-talkers on here

I can never take such; I will never allow my daughter go through such!; No person I know would ever suffer such a lot ; I am a no nonsense woman!

All na wash


If all these tough talking could put an end to such violence, then we shouldn't be reading reports like this anymore!
Perhaps you should start enlightening people through seminars because taking tough stances on e-space is obviously not working!




May the soul of the victim rest in peace!

baby_123: Loool, funny thread. The highs, lows, battle royals, the "you must fight your MIL" to gain recognition crew. All sorts. Anyway, safety first. If you don't feel safe don't wait for anyone to remove anyone, remove yourself. Is marriage by force? Evil people come in all shapes, forms and sizes now. Having the mentality that your MIL is evil will put you on the defensive. And if you disrespect someone's mother, you expect them to side with you because they married you. Then you have something else coming. I wouldn't let anyone disrespect my own mother, so I won't do the same. Afterall she gave birth to him, if she didn't he won't be there for you to marry. Carry preconceptions on your head and create a hostile environment, let us see how long it lasts. If it falls on your head, na you sabi. Na you go dey run from babalawo to mosque and church looking for sokoto in your shokoto. -jussst saying.

MILs don rogo for Naija I tell ya! A brother just stabbed his own brother on the other thread , no eyebrows was raised much . Only in laws are enemies in a marriage, everybody should check their inner selves abegi. In laws are human too. Any form of violence is not okay.

Abia babes na wa .Umuahia women would never change.. They've bin violent since Adam . Remember the Aba women riot of 1929 ?. If they don't break your head with bottle , they will stab you . If that doesn't take you they use Omorogun or piston on you. God no go gree me marry there . Just Imagine what a grand mother did; then I wonder what their babes would do; BOMB you.

I am not sure the mother inlaw's husband is alive. If yes, then why staying with your son for so long? If the husband is not alive, why is she not remarried? Or she is adhering to the unrealistic assertion of for-better- for-worse? Rest in peace to the deceased.

The issue here is not MIL but domestic abuse.

A lot of are desperate to get married and are desperate to stay in marriage.
That's why domestic abuse is rampant.

This is Africa for you.

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

u just wake up from sleep baa? Are u ok?

coogar:

it does not remove the fact that a woman committed this murder against a fellow woman. what has it gotta do with the husband? the culprit should face the wrath of the law and may the soul of the victim rest in peace. why do nigerians always manage to blame someone else? the victim can't be blamed, the culprit is a woman therefore let's blame the husband. how unreasonable can some nigerians be? a woman murdered a fellow woman and you people are blaming the father of the victim and the husband of the victim........

lots of common sense there.....

Not saying it takes any thing away from anyone, just saying the person you quoted as proof of feminist thinking is a GUY!!!!!!

@Post

I pray the deceased gets justice. There is just too much domestic violence in Nigerian marriages/relationships. I have always wondered why.

Sisi_Kill:
Not saying it takes any thing away from anyone, just saying the person you quoted as proof of feminist thinking is a GUY!!!!!!

i couldn't possible quote everyone that agrees with his stance so i used the latest comment supporting the criticism of the husband. a woman committed murder here - that's the crux of the matter.

This is why anybody in an abusive relationship should run. It is difficult person that runs that lives to fight another. Day..so ladies advise yourselves.

coogar:

i couldn't possible quote everyone that agrees with his stance so i used the latest comment supporting the criticism of the husband. a woman committed murder here - that's the crux of the matter.

Lol...How then is it "Feminist thinking" if both men and women stated almost the same thing?!!

Wouldn't a stronger point be made if we said it's a "Naija thinking". . .after all we love to place the blame on others.

When we offer bribe to get a pass on something, we blame the bribe takers. When someone beats another person to a pulp, we say the victim must have done something, when we lose our jobs because we did a shitty job of it, we blame our wicked boss. ..this is the tried and true Naija MO and trying attribute it to one segment of the population, is a disservice to them.

jidegirl12:

Now listen, you don't get to tell me who, what and how I do things on here. I really don't give a sh it everyone's happy or not, lonely old hag! stalking you? Are you outta your mind ?, I don't stalk people not to talk of loser nonentity like you.
Now get this to your calcified skull you call a brain, I will NOT ignore you from now on, I will comment if I see any rubbish comment of yours ,
You should know I'm not moved nor scared by any handle here except @cc and few others, I don't need to be in any rubbish online circle since that's what you live for , so ignoring you is outta the window from now on.so your suggestion/ begging to back off you na wash.. oops too late.

That's what you ALL say , you don't have interest conversing with moi jydoe and yet y'all type your epistle , what a life! Get yourself a blokos if you're that cranky witchdoctor

Quoted for future reference. Now let me see any f*ool suggest that this person is being bullied again.

jidegirl12:

What snide remarks? Why do you always take my comments too serious? awww pele , see person calling another person razz thing? and yes you're a nonentity , bitter fat a ss , oh now it's me stalking you now? delusional mo ron. keep talking odę!
^^^bolded... go and ask ALL of them in your family house, ( if you have one )

Ladies abeg na,u guys shuld sheathe ur swords. Whatevar it is,just bone it....I take God beg pls.

ileobatojo:

Quoted for future reference. Now let me see any f*ool suggest that this person is being bullied again.

I know you'd come back with your typical sorry post.. nonentity sh ithead.
ileobatojo ko ilepapaetoquech ni lemme see you talk nonsense dia! pm all y'all cohorts too y'all never reach!

Bully me? ..., husband spit thread... That'll never happen again. I promise I'm armed to my teeth now! Fucktardress!!!

buchibabe:

Ladies abeg na,u guys shuld sheathe ur swords. Whatevar it is,just bone it....I take God beg pls.

Ohhh too late.

This is a complete travesty!

This MIL should also be deboweled and strung up by her hateful, bile-filled intestines!

What sense of wicked entitlement could lead her to do such to a human being? Or do they own her life just because they married her?
This shouldn't even happen to an animal!

MEN GROW SOME BALLS AND STAND UP FOR YOUR WIFE!
These stories make my blood boil. Do you think you dangle between the legs is just for show?

Upon witnessing this rubbish in your home CALL them both to order in a meeting and drop some clear terms.
Never let things deteriorate to this level. It is YOUR JOB to protect your wife from her inlaws.

In fact, you know you have succeeded when its like she sides with your inlaws and it looks like you are the villian.
She knows what's up and she will appreciate you so much for taking that cup from her.

Fawk "nice"!

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

You wish someone that is dead quick recovery, your comment is pathetic,and if to you it's a joking matter, I can imagine..........

lola.luv:
This is a complete travesty!

This MIL should also be deboweled and strung up by her hateful, bile-filled intestines!

What sense of wicked entitlement could lead her to do such to a human being? Or do they own her life just because they married her?
This shouldn't even happen to an animal!

?

Pathethic

all-out:


You registered tonight just to type this

Infact, oga gan! Now who are you? The MIL

Lol! Busted!!

how many times??

...am darn sure the hubby is bleeding his eyes out and saying "had he known he would have prevented his wife's death from happening"
this guilt he's gonna have to carry for the rest of his life-that's enough punishment for him.

and to his witch of a mother-her old azz should be found and prosecuted.

The woman who committed this evil is yet to be arrested. She has been on the run and the police has no idea where she is!!

lola.luv:
This is a complete travesty!

This MIL should also be deboweled and strung up by her hateful, bile-filled intestines!

What sense of wicked entitlement could lead her to do such to a human being? Or do they own her life just because they married her?
This shouldn't even happen to an animal!

It is written in the bible that a man will leave his parents and marry. So what was his mother doing in his house, why did he allow his mother to continue staying in his house even when he knew his mother doesn't want his wife to have peace in her matrimonial home. In fact the man should also be arrested.

..The husband said his mother had never been nice to his late wife since they got married, adding that they had been married for four years and bless..
God pornnish this kind "horse" without "band"

pastie: Wish her quick recovery

They say she died u said quick recovery. You dey feel sleepy?

Since the husband of the deceased knew that the presence of his witch-mother in his matrimonial home never bring peace y then did he allowed the woman to live with them? I guess his hand is involved over the death of the innocent wife. So, i suggest the Police should arrest him for interrogation.