uche08: Pls wot do I do?
I was having bed talk with my wife of 2 kids and 8+months pregnant, about a girl of 15yrs being in love with a 40yr old man, my wife said its child abuse and an affair with d minor. But i innocently told my wife that I don't see anything wrong with it cos secondary school girls and boys of 13, 14, 16yrs do engage themselves in a sexual intercourse, so it doesn't make any different If a girl of that age willingly extend it to a man of older age.
After a long deliberation on the topic, my wife develop some kind of suspense attitude and send our house-help back to her parents without my consent. When I asked, she said she had to secure her marriage first that she can't trust to the extend of living in d same house with a girl of 15+yrs.
Now my wife is always suspecting me. She will always like to go tru my facebook, my phone sms, my whatsapp, everything!
She will always cry to me to help her out in some domestic work that am not use to.
My wife has lost d trust she have for me and has consistently reuse to bring-in any house-help in d house again. Her reason is that "prevention is better than cure"
How do i get her to trust me again? Advice pls!
(Pls house, am not too good in english composition)

uche08: Pls wot do I do?
I was having bed talk with my wife of 2 kids and 8+months pregnant, about a girl of 15yrs being in love with a 40yr old man, my wife said its child abuse and an affair with d minor. But i innocently told my wife that I don't see anything wrong with it cos secondary school girls and boys of 13, 14, 16yrs do engage themselves in a sexual intercourse, so it doesn't make any different If a girl of that age willingly extend it to a man of older age.
After a long deliberation on the topic, my wife develop some kind of suspense attitude and send our house-help back to her parents without my consent. When I asked, she said she had to secure her marriage first that she can't trust to the extend of living in d same house with a girl of 15+yrs.
Now my wife is always suspecting me. She will always like to go tru my facebook, my phone sms, my whatsapp, everything!
She will always cry to me to help her out in some domestic work that am not use to.
My wife has lost d trust she have for me and has consistently reuse to bring-in any house-help in d house again. Her reason is that "prevention is better than cure"
How do i get her to trust me again? Advice pls!
(Pls house, am not too good in english composition)

Beync: What kind of a man would support relationship btwn 15yr old girl and 40yrs old man? isn't dat child abuse? would you encourage such relationship if the said girl were your daughter? shoes get size abeg, tell your friend to go look for his mate and leave the child alone. and yes your wife is wright giving that u support such a thing, she did the right thing before you'll start to notice the house girl.

190: you blew your cover cos we already know the said MAN is you
but chairman why you begin buggar 15yr old secondary school girls na
shame nor dey catch you
If i were your wife weda na you or nor be you
I go pour hot groundnut ororo for your nyash wen u dey sleep

nonsense

fuzzydesigner: Give her some time. She will get over it. Cintinue to b a great husband. Actions speak louder than words...

fuzzydesigner: Give her some time. She will get over it. Cintinue to b a great husband. Actions speak louder than words...

KINGwax: wat is child abuse? Some 17 yrs old boy d 15yr old will date's got a larger dicck compared to a 50yr old man. Besides, ] I biliv we're on d same page if we av to compare d size of an infant's head to a dicck!!!!
Sorry, am sayin ds cos u all biliv love knws no bound, so ur talkin abt child abuse is not abt sex, right? But hey, nt dt I wll support it o, and dt is only based on morals.

@ achina boy, I feel u. But I biliv it's quite clear his wife dnt bottle up tnz, if she does, she will only be actin with reasons only knwn to her. But she already told him wot is going on. The OP only needs to let her av her ways and fill the voids in her glitches.