eddy1234: IT HURTS ME WEN I SEE 90PERCENT OF PPLE MAKIN COMMENTS HERE AND SCARED OF DIS GENOTYPE ISSUE ARE CHRISTIANS.WERE IS D FAITH U CONFESS EVRY DAY,WERE IS D GOD U PRAY TO EVRYDAY,IS HE INCAPABLE OF GIVING U HEALTHY CHILDREN ,Y DEN WORSHIP HIM,IS HE LESS POWERFULL,ARE WE JST CHURCH GOERS,DO WE QUOTE D WORD IN VAIN,I AND MY FIANCEE ARE AS AND IT IS IMPOSSIBLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR WE TO HAVE AN SS COS WE KNO D GOD WE SERVE.DEY DAT KNO THEIR GOD SHALL B STRONG AND DO XPLOIT,BHOLD I HAVE GIVEN U POWER.....ASK ANYTIN,I MEAN ANYTIN IN MY NAME WITHOUT WAVRING..... I HOPE DIS WILL HELP OUR FAITH DEER KRISTIANS AND SHUT DIS TOPIC OF GENOTYPE.U R IN CHARGE OF ALL THINGS..GOD HELP UR UNBLIEF

Mynd_44: It still goes down to one thing ma'am, CHOICE. It is the choice of the couple to decide what they want and how they choose to live.

Mynd_44: Well for some like me who does not see biological children as a do or die thing in marriage, it is meaningless

danblaze:
its oly wen u take a DNA test u can knw if u r d biological fada/mom 2ur offsprints nt genotype

danblaze:
its oly wen u take a DNA test u can knw if u r d biological fada/mom 2ur offsprints nt genotype

nanalady: hia!!!very strange comment oh..

Mynd_44:
You are not a woman. I find it incredibly silly that you are talking about the joys of being a woman as though you have ever been one before

perrychocks: its only an impotent man or a barren woman dt can hv such reasonin.so maybe u re one of dem

eddy1234: IT HURTS ME WEN I SEE 90PERCENT OF PPLE MAKIN COMMENTS HERE AND SCARED OF DIS GENOTYPE ISSUE ARE CHRISTIANS.WERE IS D FAITH U CONFESS EVRY DAY,WERE IS D GOD U PRAY TO EVRYDAY,IS HE INCAPABLE OF GIVING U HEALTHY CHILDREN ,Y DEN WORSHIP HIM,IS HE LESS POWERFULL,ARE WE JST CHURCH GOERS,DO WE QUOTE D WORD IN VAIN,I AND MY FIANCEE ARE AS AND IT IS IMPOSSIBLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR WE TO HAVE AN SS COS WE KNO D GOD WE SERVE.DEY DAT KNO THEIR GOD SHALL B STRONG AND DO XPLOIT,BHOLD I HAVE GIVEN U POWER.....ASK ANYTIN,I MEAN ANYTIN IN MY NAME WITHOUT WAVRING..... I HOPE DIS WILL HELP OUR FAITH DEER KRISTIANS AND SHUT DIS TOPIC OF GENOTYPE.U R IN CHARGE OF ALL THINGS..GOD HELP UR UNBLIEF

Ngwakwe: Stop this bullshit. I am a happy married man (going for the record longest period of marriage without shouting at the wife), a marriage counselor who have come to know that ladies obsessions and love for their children are unconditional while at that, any slightest shameful act (past or present) by the so-called yommy husband of yours will lead to disrespect and call for divorce.

Most things ladies say, is better said and never done.

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Do people date to fall in love or do they date to find someone who will impregnate her/he can impregnate?

Call me old-fashioned, but I date to fall in love primarily. Sometimes, people fall in love with who isn't 100% ideal or what we expected (most times actually). If the guy I love and wish to spend the rest of my life with is AS, and I find out I'm AS, then so be it. He can't change that and neither can I.

My heart belongs with him. I won't abandon that for a guy I probably won't love as much as my AS love. Come to think of it, that would be unfair on the AA guy and unfair to any children we may have that I don't love their father as much as the real love of my life. Children deserve happy parents who love each other, not who happened to be convenient for one another.

Also, there's nothing wrong with adopting.[/size]

Mynd_44:
Take your own advise bro....... Have you met every woman in the world? You might meet a lot but not all of them so please do not start telling me what women want.

Senator Bola Tinubu is an adopted child. His mother said she never regreted having him as a son. Never.

There are a lot of parents out there who regret having a kid cos of bad behaviour.

What is my point? If you hing your happiness on the fact that you gave birth to children, you are on a very long thing

ogugua88: ^^^^

[size=13pt]I said no children is an option. I don't have to have children.[/size]

Ngwakwe: You misunderstood me, I regard conjugal biological children as equal to adopted children in all respect.

Both parents are bonded beyond death by a child. As in Until death do us path.

LeonessAug: i can't believe this is coming from a woman?

Common girl! except you already know you can't have children.

Mynd_44:
True

Mynd_44:
Another load of crap. What is the difference between an adopted child and a biological one?

I keep shaking my head at thses people

LeonessAug: i can't believe this is coming from a woman?

Common girl! except you already know you can't have children.

LeonessAug: Hello Mynd_44,

With all due respect, I haven't objected to having adopted children but the joy of a woman to successfully carry pregnancy of 9months and watching the child grow till he/she is successful in life cannot be overemphasized.

Mynd_44: Well for some like me who does not see biological children as a do or die thing in marriage, it is meaningless

Nivlin:

I don't blame you, being a bible believing christian doesn't mean you should ßέ blind †Φ a fault!

Now, since you're a GOOD BIBLE BELIEVING christian, why haven't you quote the bible †Φ overcome all the problems in life? Why haven't you quote the bible to make the world a better and peaceful/ problem-free place? Or tell me, why you haven't quote the bible to convert your genotype to AA?

I really don't blame you, I'm sure you're here to publicize your spirituality, mind you, all you're doing is not spiritual- its called TESTING/daring GOD. Keep it up, and you'll be surprised at the result.

You'll NEVER know what its like to father an SS child which you brought to live a life filled with pain- while you aя̩̥ε busy enjoying your life to its fullest, and keeping your child's life under restriction, cos you weren't sensible enough to avoid it!

Keep believing in Miracles! And keep increasing the number of ignorant Christians raising SS children- cos I'm sure you must have "preached" this your rubbish to some other ignorant christians like you

Mynd_44:
It is being overemphasized. Some women don't want to go through those pains. Some women have been told by the doctors that they won't survive it so are you saying such women are not happy?

Given birth to a child does not bring happiness, it is seeing your child make something of his life that makes you happy

Siga: Very very important....Lost 2 siblings cos Papa and Mama were both AS .... never make the mistake...my ex-fiancee is AS and Im AS as well.....we both ended the relationship after 6yrs....last time I saw her was 1999 ......and till today, we are very good friends even though we are thousands of miles apart ......I ensured that the woman I married is AA.....the experience I had as a child growing up with sickle cell elder bro and sis was bad....

nanalady: I understand all ur points..its clear..we are respnsible for the choices we make and having kids is not by force..but ur last coment drew me attention...how do u think ur mama and papa felt when they gave birth to u and maybe ur siblings..just asking no offence..

nanalady: I understand all ur points..its clear..we are respnsible for the choices we make and having kids is not by force..but ur last coment drew me attention...how do u think ur mama and papa felt when they gave birth to u and maybe ur siblings..just asking no offence..

kennyfao: Shoo! If u don't know what to say then keep quiet. What do u knw about losing the battle u ought to win, what do u knw abt the pains and agony a sickler goes through and endures, what do u knw abt impromptu crises, what do u knw abt waking up in the middle of the nite and the next place that comes to ur mind is going to the hospital, what do u knw abt swallowing pain killer every now and then, what do u knw abt being told several times that u are going to lose one of ur legs to crisis. U are here talking abt faith I don't blame u cos it nva happened to u I kenny is a living testimony and till I die I will always proclaim the words Sickle Cell is real! Pain is real. My greatness enemy will nva have anything to do with anybody with AS as genotype........crying.

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]I gave an honest opinion. Because it differs with your thoughts doesn't categorize it as deception towards the general public.



@CFCfan, I trust you bobo [/size]