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How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by lalasticlala(m): 6:31pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
No doubt, money is a desideratum in a relationship. But, some couples started with nothing, but today they are very much comfortable. Many guys are unmarried because of lack of financial stability. The high cost of bride price and other things associated with traditional marriage rites dont even encourage some low income earners to start thinking of marriage. You see babes dump their guys for richer ones. Below is a link to one of my threads which talks about women that said they can't date any poor man, in fact they detest poor men. https://www.nairaland.com/1842036/9-nollywood-actresses-strongly-allergic#25213122 It's captioned: The 9 Nollywood Actresses That Are Strongly Allergic To Poor Men. So what's your take on money in a relationship? How important is money in a relationship? 1 Like 5 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by diksucker(f): 6:39pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
We all need money to live. We need money to have fun. If you are truly in love with someone, money will not matter. I am 27, not married and I've dated men of all statuses...broke, rich, in between (my level). I will be completely honest, I had the best relationship with the broke guy. We were really in love, we had great sex and always had fun. Enjoyed his company the most and I still think about him. Other factors played a part and we broke up, but I always think of him as the one who got away.. In my opinion if you love someone, you love someone. If money is important to you, then you will find it to be important in relationships. If you have money and your partner doesn't, that can cause stress. And vice versa... At the end of the day, what is important to you? I say this all the time, but if you are happy, truly happy then that is ALL that matters : ) good luck! 109 Likes 35 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by bustyhelen(f): 6:43pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
very, if you want there to be a future.i would immediately dump a guy if he had a gambling problem also i would tend not to even start anything with a guy without a steady job or tertiary eduction or good business prospect. you gotta think long term when the honeymoon period wears off 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by GoodFaith: 6:43pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money is a big factor Money alone doesn’t create happy relationship There are lots of rich people that have divorce their husband and wives Do u people share same values and moral loyal , supportive, giving, Respectful, considerate, fair,not me, me person, not self center person Your and her kids are her frist prority in her life 1 Like |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Crocz(m): 6:48pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
bustyhelen: very, if you want there to be a future.i would immediately dump a guy if he had a gambling problem also i would tend not to even start anything with a guy without a steady job or tertiary eduction or good business prospect. you gotta think long term when the honeymoon period wears off What da f*ck are you doing here?...obviously I know what you are doing, commenting on a post. But really, what da f*ck are you doing here? 11 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Crocz(m): 6:53pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
bustyhelen: very, if you want there to be a future.i would immediately dump a guy if he had a gambling problem also i would tend not to even start anything with a guy without a steady job or tertiary eduction or good business prospect. you gotta think long term when the honeymoon period wears off I see you've put down "that" pic...good but it'll be nice on ur part to open a thread and apologise to people 3 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
diksucker: We all need money to live. We need money to have fun. If you are truly in love with someone, money will not matter. I am 27, not married and I've dated men of all statuses...broke, rich, in between (my level). I will be completely honest, I had the best relationship with the broke guy. We were really in love, we had great sex and always had fun. Enjoyed his company the most and I still think about him. Other factors played a part and we broke up, but I always think of him as the one who got away.. In my opinion if you love someone, you love someone. If money is important to you, then you will find it to be important in relationships. If you have money and your partner doesn't, that can cause stress. And vice versa... At the end of the day, what is important to you? I say this all the time, but if you are happy, truly happy then that is ALL that matters : ) good luck!dik suck.er 7 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by cooljoe(m): 6:56pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Quite important boss |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Believe it or not, money trumps looks and sometimes love. You need good money to maintain a healthy relationship as it's very important and it's matters alot... But that's none of my Business. 9 Likes
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Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by cooljoe(m): 6:59pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
diksucker: We all need money to live. We need money to have fun. If you are truly in love with someone, money will not matter. I am 27, not married and I've dated men of all statuses...broke, rich, in between (my level). I will be completely honest, I had the best relationship with the broke guy. We were really in love, we had great sex and always had fun. Enjoyed his company the most and I still think about him. Other factors played a part and we broke up, but I always think of him as the one who got away.. In my opinion if you love someone, you love someone. If money is important to you, then you will find it to be important in relationships. If you have money and your partner doesn't, that can cause stress. And vice versa... At the end of the day, what is important to you? I say this all the time, but if you are happy, truly happy then that is ALL that matters : ) good luck!switim, m willing to bet a dollar, u dint date d broke guy exclusively as in, when u were dating him, u still had options B nd C, samfin on d side baa 24 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money makes the world go around. Sure money is good in a relationship but it must not be the first priority a guy/girl looks into before considering marriage. What of if the money disappear later on. Who'll you blame? Will you be like Job wive? 3 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
mtcheew/ u and threads. you have finally moved from celebrity section to romance section. u get time sha! |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Love your lover like Juliet, Fight for him like Spartacus, Rescue him like Michael Scofield,Protect him like Jack Bauer, Don't cheat on him like Tiger woods, Fuvvck him like porn-star, Don't be stingy like Arsenal, Win trophies for him like Man United, Boast about him like Chelsea, Have confidence in him like Barcelona, Don't disappoint him like Liverpool FC, Don't promise him things u cant fulfil like PDP, Sweep him on your Bed away like APC, Don't keep him in darkness like PHCN, Don't cause him pain like Boko Haram, Win gold for him like Usain Bolt, impress well like crixus.... Be funny but don't act Foolishly like Akpors @OP just to make the thread lively before people cruxify me But sure money is important coz you won't want to suffer like Arsene Wenger. 74 Likes 23 Shares
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Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by dupsydee: 7:15pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Pls ao do I get to isolo from ibadan |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
My previous gf left me bcus of a mere penny of 5k,How I wish she knows how much am worth today Anyway bak 2 d topic,2 me if she can nt love u wen u ar broke,she does nt deserve ur wealth 54 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by irishCream: 7:20pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
There is a very big different between 'truth' and 'fact'. money is vital in a relationship and that's the fact not just truth!!! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by scribble: 7:22pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money shouldnt be that important but society has put money on a higher pedestal than love look at shade okoya or remi tinubu...their husbands have one thing in common, they look like they auditioned for shrek but were too ugly for the part and have tons of GWAP university girls today are not interested in their mate but they want a ready made man for the few in this our society who do not put money over love, there is a different kind of vibe there...more happiness in the relationship for instance i know a guy who was dirt broke as at 24 months ago but has a growing business that has already made N10 million this year his babe used to come visit him even in that his broke state and give him prayers, love and MONEY (i know its hard 2 beliv bt there are some good naija girls left) the guy is planning the wedding now...and is buying her a car etc... she didnt know he would be this better off 24 months ago, but she gave love a chance in Naija of today...most girls would rather go to vgc and sleep with oyinbo man dog than to give love a chance 66 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Tallesty1(m): 7:22pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
I don't believe a couple can start with nothing. It is untrue and impossible, there must be something. Money is important as the person you are dating. You will not understand this if a naija babe has not dealt with you. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Houseofglam7(f): 7:23pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money is damn important in a relationship. Try shagging on a bare floor, I bet you'll appreciate the California king bed. Try jumping on and off a Molue with your boyfriend, the way the conductor go shout for am sef go make you lose respect for am, then you'll appreciate an Aston Martin. Try living in face me I slap you with your boyfriend and see your boyfriend queue to use the toilet for morning, then you'll appreciate banana Island. Try smoking garri and groundnut till your vision gets impaired, then you'll appreciate continental meals. Bottom line, Money is the 'In thing' Don't watch him try to make it alone. Help him. Make money together. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Houseofglam7(f): 7:25pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
dupsydee: Pls ao do I get to isolo from ibadan Someone help this dude |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by GoodFaith: 7:25pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Houseofglam7: Money is damn important in a relationship.Please put ur photo in ur profile 1 Like |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Houseofglam7(f): 7:27pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
GoodFaith:Why na? |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by jmoore(m): 7:28pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money answereth all things. Need I say more? 4 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by GoodFaith: 7:30pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Houseofglam7:I like ur talk small just want see ur mouth 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Houseofglam7(f): 7:34pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
GoodFaith: Hehehehe 1 Like |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by lalasticlala(m): 7:53pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
irishCream: There is a very big different between 'truth' and 'fact'. money is vital in a relationship and that's the fact not just truth!!! Of course money is important in everything we do. nobody wanna b poor everybody detests poverty. but one may not b financially buoyant today, but may b a don tomorrow, so d babe that dumped him when he didn't have may wanna go bk to him. lol 3 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Romance without finance is Nuisance. Hope have answer your question. 4 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by write2obi(m): 8:00pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Money is important in life, money makes things easy, earn you respect, money will sweeten your relationship, but it will never make her love you. 8 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by irishCream: 8:00pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
lalasticlala:I don't subscribe to such any babe that dump a man when he was nothing shouldn't be given a sec chance. I don't know how ppl reason oh but I can forsee a man's future by mere friendship and if he's the smart type I bet he can't be poor in life wid little luck and God on his side. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by lalasticlala(m): 8:03pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
irishCream: I don't subscribe to such any babe that dump a man when he was nothing shouldn't be given a sec chance. I don't know how ppl reason oh but I can forsee a man's future by mere friendship and if he's the smart type I bet he can't be poor in life wid little luck and God on his side. ya |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by edymonte: 9:43pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
My babe dumped me bcs of phone. i had told ha dat i would buy ha phone she askd 4 afta month end wen they pay me. she waznt patient. she colected d 2500 i had and waz hoping to ad money to it and buy ha phn. she colected it and dumped me aftawads. so d importance of money in a rlshp cant b over emphasized 3 Likes |
Re: How Important Is Money In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Houseofglam7: 1 Like |
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