Shollypopz: Thanks for the unsolicited information

For someone that is supposedly westernized, u want to tell me u haven't met white guys that are just like African men [size=18pt]in believing they are the head and sh1t[/size] . Those that believe their wives should be stay-at-home mums and.....
Especially the Southern religious ones

There are plenty of men in our generation who do not think like the average NL guy and do not have those backward-chauvinistic mentality. Surround yourself with educated black men(ones from good school and good/comfortable family background), you can always tell by their appearance. No responsible, hard working black man gives a sh1t if u wear weaves or if ur hair is permed or not. As long as u don't look a hot mess, u're good. Most African men I know do not even care

Shymexx and his kinds are tHe bottom of the barrell, stop judging young naija men by the rubbish that comes out of NL men a$$es. Most of the guys on here are touts and meat sellers in real life.

Idowuogbo:
visa tinz... we understand.

50calibre: Wanting something is one thing, whether or not it is achievable by you is another and that is where reality lies. The question is not whether you want a white man, it is does a white man want you?

You've manage to convince yourself of some myths regarding white men just to re-enforce your inferiority all because you saw a few black women with white men. You haven't asked yourself why you hardly see white men with black women but you see black men with white women always.

Many white men got a fetish of banging a black chick, to them it's more like a slave fetish and finding the one who truly loves you is like finding a needle in a haystack and even at that you've got to be hot. Have you seen a white man with an ugly black chick? Go watch Django unchained.

Enjoy yourself I'm sure it would be a fun ride.

Becacia_Barbie:

haba! That aint the reason o!
I find them more attractive...like they give me goosebumps!

Subomi-luv:
me too

CFCfan: @ Subomi-luv: Good luck in your search. Hopefully, you'll find one who loves u so much

abiL:


Have you dated a white guy before?... Or are you dating one now?

causewahala: ^^^ In other words, u intend breaking this black dude's heart soonest, ba? Free the guy now oooh, b4 he go dey include u for hin future plans!

Subomi-luv:
Thank you so much my dear. Perhaps i may invite you to my wedding

Emusan: You've concluded everything yourself. So my dear I'm strongly behind you because I know it won't affect me.

Subomi-luv:
I have dated a white guy before but am dating a blk guy now

Subomi-luv:
Lol come on bru how can i say something that i do not know anything about. Yes white men go for a "certain" type of blk women and i do fit into that type thank you as i have been asked by white men before and i have white male friends. I'm not some villager who woke up one day and decided i want to be with a white man so thanks for the concern. Yes there are many freaks and they are very easily to identify as they only want sex from you. Those are not the ones i am talking abt. And you right i have not seen a white men with an ugly blk women(they have standards)

abiL:

Okay. Just checking that you know what you're getting yourself into before considering marriage.

shymexx: Who cares?? I kind of used to rate the OP when she first started posting but she's turning into an attention-seeker a la Onila - with her redundant topics and stupidity... Who cares if you marry a white guy, or not? - at the end of the day, people go wherever they can find joy and happiness... If an alien from nibiru, or a san-man with a little brain is going to make you happy, go for it... However, when you start putting the black man down just to make yourself feel happy, then it becomes problematic...

You're not the first and won't be last - you won't be missed!

50calibre:

there are a few white men with ugly black chicks but the black chick tend to be very wealthy.

Well if you are absolutely sure it's a white man you want then go for it afterall many black guys chase white women around. As far as you are happy and find someone who won't treat you as sh*t. In the meantime you might wanna get a gym membership (that is if you could do with losing some weigh) white guys love slim girls they can parade around like some sort of model trophy girlfriend.

biolabee:


GBAM!!!!

Subomi-luv:
lmao instead of wishing me well and goodluk, you men will be bitter about everything while more and more blk women are coming out of the stereotyped african gals do this and african men dnt do this mindset. But hey just like i wont be missed, such men wont be missed either

2buff:

If a woman cannot accept this basic fact of married life, then she is NOT ready for marriage.
No exceptions.

...because at the end of the day, the same b1tch-made man that agrees to marry you with this your outlook is the same man you will be cussing out years down the road with phrases like "You are not a man" "Man up!" and general disrespectful behavior.

Subomi-luv:
Like i said before if i meet a blk men with the same mindset as me then great but like i said they are like a needle in a haystack and am not going to wait til i'm 35 to find that blk guy am looking for. Yes i know they love slim gals. No problem there too. Lol its usually the way older ones who love to parade. The younger ones are more chilled

OkparaIgbo:

And I wonder why you decided to come to a forum like this to post such gibberish if not for attnetion seeking as already pointed out. My friend the earlier you do we Able bodied, Aplha male and Proud African men a favour by going to marry your "weakling and supposed we have the same ideology a.k.a woman wrapper man white man" the better for everyone.! [size=24pt]THREAD CLOSED[/size]

tawa89: The OP is a confused woman who needs validation from members of a faceless forum for her choice of a life partner. We don't really care who u marry OP.

50calibre:

there are a few white men with ugly black chicks but the black chick tend to be very wealthy.

Well if you are absolutely sure it's a white man you want then go for it afterall many black guys chase white women around. As far as you are happy and find someone who won't treat you as sh*t. In the meantime you might wanna get a gym membership (that is if you could do with losing some weigh) white guys love slim girls they can parade around like some sort of model trophy girlfriend.

50calibre:

So you feel you are more likely to be compatible with a white dude than black? Are you serious? Have you considered other aspects like cultural background, religion, language, shared history of black people? Or you are just carried away by white skin? Would you feel comfortable in the midst of your husband's white family (if you marry a white guy) being a black chick in their midst?

If its dating fine I get it but marriage! Are you cut out for that? Because it seems to me like you are in some sort of fairy tale Hollywood fantasy where you get to bag a hot brad Pitt. I see black women of mature age turning down white guys because they want a guy who has got similarities with them, a strong family unit with traditional black values, a guy they can converse with in their local language.

Step away from fantasy and look at the real world.

Subomi-luv:
lmao instead of wishing me well and goodluk, you men will be bitter about everything while more and more blk women are coming out of the stereotyped african gals do this and african men dnt do this mindset. But hey just like i wont be missed, such men wont be missed either

Subomi-luv:
Thanks dear besides i know marriage is no joke. I have thought about this thing for a very long time now and it seems that i should go for what makes me happy instead of settling just because it's unafrican.

OkparaIgbo: [b]Some African ladies are fools and have nothing but pulse in their big head that they coat with fake hairs.. If I am to make a random guess on you OP, I will say that it is either your dad got divorced from your mum which is unfortunate and no fault of yours, or that you have been brainwashed by the white man and his media to believe gibberish. Who told you that black men don't help out their wives and don't contribute to the running of the house? You see here is the thing, as a black man myself, I wouldn't in any shape or form be selfish enough not to help out my wife and all in certain activites as long as 1. it is not on compulsion that I do it 2. My wife doesn't go as far as setting it out as a routine which we must split (As in she does it monday and I do it Tuesday etc) 3. She doesn't take my input and help for granted.
Yes I am a typical African man that loves his culture to the full and respect it too. (Why would the white man come and tell me to drop my culture and take up his own all in the stupid name of "westernisation or Women liberation" are you going to be worth more than some African women who have attained the apex of their career yet cherish and love their husbands like Ngozi Okonji Iweala, Mrs Obama etc. Infact OP please go and marry a white man so that we can eliminate you and people like you from the African race. Now I am not racist but I hate when people say they want to marry a white man and then go further on to insult the black man and speak rubbish.Watch this you ignorant mofo

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zvGRmX2gcs[/flash]

and marry who the f**k you want to and I assure you, you aint gonna be missed not even an inch..Mtcheew[/b]

50calibre:

So you feel you are more likely to be compatible with a white dude than black? Are you serious? Have you considered other aspects like cultural background, religion, language, shared history of black people? Or you are just carried away by white skin? Would you feel comfortable in the midst of your husband's white family (if you marry a white guy) being a black chick in their midst?

If its dating fine I get it but marriage! Are you cut out for that? Because it seems to me like you are in some sort of fairy tale Hollywood fantasy where you get to bag a hot brad Pitt. I see black women of mature age turning down white guys because they want a guy who has got similarities with them, a strong family unit with traditional black values, a guy they can converse with in their local language.

Step away from fantasy and look at the real world.

Shollypopz:
Not in the mood for this argument today, b1tch-made man indeed

Hiya zh zh hiya hiya zh.....I cry in swahili for some Naija women

50calibre:

So you feel you are more likely to be compatible with a white dude than black? Are you serious? Have you considered other aspects like cultural background, religion, language, shared history of black people? Or you are just carried away by white skin? Would you feel comfortable in the midst of your husband's white family (if you marry a white guy) being a black chick in their midst?

If its dating fine I get it but marriage! Are you cut out for that? Because it seems to me like you are in some sort of fairy tale Hollywood fantasy where you get to bag a hot brad Pitt. I see black women of mature age turning down white guys because they want a guy who has got similarities with them, a strong family unit with traditional black values, a guy they can converse with in their local language.

Step away from fantasy and look at the real world.