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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by chronique(m): 10:28pm On Aug 21, 2016 |
True though. Ugosample: |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by lordkrato(m): 12:15pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
So this thread never die?? one of my best on NL so far... |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by gnykelly(m): 8:48pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
esere826: best thesis in NL |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by 2sexyus: 9:25pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
gnykelly: |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by gnykelly(m): 10:50pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
2sexyus: you are lucky reading this |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by 2sexyus: 11:12pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
gnykelly:how? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by TheManofTomorrow(m): 12:52am On Sep 21, 2017 |
u This is by far the best thread I have read in Nairaland so far. The op is a genius and other talented contributors as well. lemme park my car here. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 3:04am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Esere, I believe your analysis largely borders on the universal law of economic determinism, which stipulates that the present situation and position of a nation's economy changes and influences other parts of the society, in this case romantic and sexual relationships among its populance. If you take a look at countries with well developed economy, people make love and relationship decisions basically to meet present "emotional" needs due the fact that their economic needs have been met. They also have the energy to pursue other things like arts, sports, mountain climbing, sky diving, research, gender equality, etc.which inturn affects positively the economy and vis versa as against their counterparts in developing society where survival of the fittest is the norm and decisions on external relationships, not just romance are taken with the idea of meeting and sustaining their economic needs. My point is that among all the human needs, the economic needs comes first, once this has been met, other needs will arise to be met and this is largely dependant on an individual's pyramid of needs. That said have you not heard of sit at home dads in other climes, men who prefer taking care of the household while their partner works and both parties are completey fine with the arrangement? Have you also not heard of female dominatrix relationship with a less dominant male? The case of Mariah Carey leaving her rich billionaire boyfriend and falling in love with one of her stage dancer? Or the case of the Korean princess annuling her throne to be with a "waiter" guy? The list goes on bro. So what you are stating largely borders on economic determinism affecting behaviour and not an isolated human behaviour. 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 7:42am On Sep 21, 2017 |
LUCKIE2014:in short esere's post just described the abraham maslow's heirachy of needs. We then need to identify the problem, which is summarised by the topic itself, then proffer solutions in which the end goal is that everyone finds a suitable match. One woiluld think that in a population of one hundred and eighty million, it wouldnt be so hard. I think it helps if each party knows what qualities they want in a potential mate. Step 1 scan the population and find most of the qualities in a person. Step 2 Step 3. acquire the soul mate specimen. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 9:20am On Sep 21, 2017 |
I wonder who is liking these old posts... |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 9:21am On Sep 21, 2017 |
TheManofTomorrow:Hahah. After how many years 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by rocketsky11: 9:27am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Its an old post but the problem still remains fresh. But how come the first anonymous online matchmaking website in Nigeria LostRib.com has more men than women registered and they are all looking for love and serious relationship? See here http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v. Just saying male lovers might be dwindling but look in the right place and you'll find responsible working loaded men looking for a woman to love. Just my 2 cents. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by TheManofTomorrow(m): 2:27pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove:Don't mind me Jare. I just registered on nairaland Nairaland... The thread is so on point. Thumbs up to the insightful and erudite Op. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 3:55pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
TheManofTomorrow:You're 4 years late 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by TheManofTomorrow(m): 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove:lol. I completed all my education within 3Ominutes yesternight. I'm addicted to good post. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
so a thread this good was hiding somewhere in the archives of this moribund section, i almost forgot I was still on nairaland 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by 2sexyus: 7:47pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove:no mind that one o |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 8:51pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
whew finally! the op is a master analyst, he'll give tim urban a good run for his money |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by MartinBond(m): 8:54pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
But really, who wants to date and marry a broke girl who isn't bringing anything to the table? ? |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by chronique(m): 10:33pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
OliviaPope: O ye late comer, the gods be with you... Thou art lucky to be privileged to see this. For a great tsunami once ravaged this site and lots of data went away with it. Kiss the brethren behind you with a kiss on the forehead and show them this thread. That it may be a sign unto ye and the generations to come. Peace be unto you. 2 Likes |
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