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Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:00pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Gone are the days when ladies wait for the man they have crush on to ask them out. It seems that many women these days do not follow the traditional way of waiting on the man. Guys: Do you subscribe to this new line of action from women or are you more cormfortable when you are doing the chasing? Ladies: 1)Will you risk it and wait for a man that you have a serious crush on to ask you out even though he's not getting your hint or will you bold up and ask him out? 2) What if you are dating a guy for some time and he's yet to pop the 'will you marry me' question, do you continue waiting or will you ask him to marry you with immidiate effect? |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
I will wait to thy kingdom comes, i can never toast a boy and if he still doesn't approach me then too bad for me |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
That means you still believe in the traditional roles. What if you date that guy for a long time and he's yet to pop the question, will you help him do it? |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by SamMilla1(m): 9:08pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
ibkaye: USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!! |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!!Why is it pride? That's how we were raised in Naija. All these later day agression from Naija women today probably started in the new millenium besides, I think she has a right to decide what is best for herself. It's guys that cannot be bold enough to ask a woman out that call it pride. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
USELESS PRIDE DETECTED.!!!!! there is nothing like pride there,we women have our honour and dignity to protect and i know men wt their mouth,they will always use it against us,if we end up doing the asking,the girl will get the everyday insult no everyday national anthem of afterall u came running to me not me to u,i did not beg u for this relationship did i and so on,let d men do d asking that is what they were created for |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Needlelady:Hmm, i thought we were talking about basic relationships here hmm, still even if it were marriage i still wouldn't make the first move SAM MILLA:maybe so, but thats just the way it is jennykadry:exactly |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
SAM MILLA: oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave. These naija women need to get with the time. keep playing sisi eko till flying boat fly pass u |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by TheSly: 9:22pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
I would take a girl ''who pops it up'' to me very very serious than the other way around. . . . The world is changing with an unprecedented speed. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:24pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
I would take a girl ''who pops it up'' to me very very serious than the other way around. . . .whatever; farts on comment |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by welli(f): 9:25pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
that thing you call pride is what makes the woman in us.when we ask u guys out ,you tell your friends we are cheap,when we say we can't do that you say we are proud.say what you like the truth remain that some of us who knows the rules of being a lady just can't.full stop. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Needlelady:Papapapaphahahahahakakakakaka! u wan kill me |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
The Sly: o boy, na lie u yan. if babe ask me out i go first check if something dey wrong with her. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:27pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave.Most women in todays America are go gettas and it's the culture is slowly pilfering into Nigeria making it difficult for the traditional system to hold it's cause. Where are the men? Why are they being too gutless these days that they even expect women to ask them out? After that what next? expect us to feed them, pay their bills and hump them at night? |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
OMO IBO:Thankyou! |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:28pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Papapapaphahahahahakakakakaka! u wan kill meLol, he made the comment on a wrong day cos this hot chic here got plenty gas today. I've been farting since morning. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
welli: really, what do u know about being a lady? |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave. @omo ibo it is better to ask a white man for a relationship because i know they will not laf at u for asking,than asking u nigerian men wt una bad mouth,na this same mouth una go use yab d girl finish,all u nigerian men,its better i miss out from the potential loving dan enjoy it with one eyes opened one eyes closed ,or enjoy it with my heart in my hands,waiting for d guy to sing the national anthem to me, .you're d one that asked me out i did not ask u did i |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by nellydlaw: 9:30pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
If you like a guy, it is better you give him cues that you like him than just telling him you like or you are in love with him, it would make him confused.Most guys have few ideas of cues when ladies like them or in love with them.for instance, the lady laughs to any kind of joke he makes, the lady cannot look straight into his eyes and the lady tries not to offend him in words |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Needlelady(f): 9:31pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
@omo iboVery true, some of them will think you are a LovePeddler the moment you pop the question. I don't know what those men think they are. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Needlelady:lool @topic If i liked the guy, yes i would flirt with him but pop the 'question'? you gatta be kidding me! |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
needlelady and jenny, ru ladies trying say u dont make us guys the subject of ur round table discussion? or when u have that 3-way telephone conversation ofr hours u dont talk about the guy or guys that may have asked u out? common now, be real? |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
@topic thats right dearie, for me,flirting is 100% allowed |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Viante(f): 9:34pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
No, thank You. i can only let my feelings be known, its up to the guy to do the asking. Gosh! so akward asking a guy out, how the heck do you respect such a guy afterwards |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
jennykadry:yes na, give the guy signals |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Cadet(f): 9:36pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
Wait ke? If I feel like there's a point where he still won't get me, even after I kiss him, then I'll just tell him. I'll be like, "dude, are you that clueless? You can't tell that I like you? Na wa o! Anywaz, we're going on a date tonight and you're paying No arguments!" |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by TheSly: 9:37pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
OMO IBO:Lie as in what I am very serious |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
i wonder why una dey worry una selves with rejection. this is exactly what we go through. after uve turned us down then we face our friends who'll laugh and yab the life out of us. somehow, the news of our rejection tends to travel faster than the speed of light. thanks to ladies |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Cadet(f): 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
jennykadry:Abi o. But that's to the guy you like. People tell me that I flirt, I don't know how. Some people don't get it. Just because you're joking and laughing with a dude, it does not mean that you're flirting jare. If I like this guy, man, I will get him. Unless he shows that he's not interested, until then! |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
jennykadry: Yep @ topic If I should ask a guy out just know that I'm after something else, definitely not love. |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
needlelady and jenny, ru ladies trying say u don't make us guys the subject of your round table discussion? or when u have that 3-way telephone conversation ofr hours u don't talk about the guy or guys that may have asked u out? ofcourse we talk about it,but we dont say to each other AH DAT GUY DAT ASKED ME OUT IS SO CHEAP no we dont ,cos its not a new thing if a guy ask's u out,but u men also discuss women,and if a girl that happens to ask one of u out is d subject of dat day,una go use cutlass and matchet ,matchet d babe for d discussion wt words like so dat babe open mouth ask me out na waoo wat is dis world turning into ,another will say Bleep the girl and throw her away since she no get shame and another will say WHY U NO SPIT FOR HER FACE AS SHE DEY ASK U OUT i could go on and on and on |
Re: Are You A Go Getter? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 15, 2008 |
If i ever asked a guy out sha, God forbid, i know i will just feel icky |
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