It appears that by nature we are meant to PLAY in at least one stage of our lives. It could be as a Teen, young Adult or as we grow Old. Some manage to be full blown LIFE-TIME players . I have no stats for this but it appear that if you did not get the chance to play at your teen age you are more likely to do it later.

What's your thoughts on 'Playing' and the Ages?

We are not meant to play jare, If it happens, it happens, no matter what age, even if you are old and as crusty, it is very inconsiderate, what goes around will come back flying around towards your big head 

My thoughts are playing = prostitution

My thought on playing means A PLAYER has NO HEART (refer to "THE WIZARD OF OZ" and REMORSELESS, detest compassionate but LOVE messing around women's feelings highly emotionally- - -to pretend claiming "I love her/him".

It suppose to those Players' age are more likely between 18-25 during school years to be get over once they reach maturity after graduation upon landing on first job.

Unfortunately, in TODAY'S WORLD, there is no tell when it STOP, maybe 45, maybe 60.

I never date PLAYER before, but i can see the type of man like PLAYER to avoid dating with.

My thought on playing means A PLAYER has NO HEART (refer to "THE WIZARD OF OZ" and REMORSELESS, detest compassionate but LOVE messing around women's feelings highly emotionally- - -to pretend claiming "I love her/him".

It suppose to those Players' age are more likely between 18-25 during school years to be get over once they reach maturity after graduation upon landing on first job.

Unfortunately, in TODAY'S WORLD, there is no tell when it STOP, maybe 45, maybe 60.

I never date PLAYER before, but i can see the type of man like PLAYER to avoid dating with.

Na Lie!

sillyboy:

Na Lie!

@sillyboy
I ain't lie! From my experience, most men are so tripping!

For example, that guy whom I knew has long-time girlfriend still flirted at me asking me for dating! This was stupid! He has no intention of breaking up steady girlfriend. I ain't accept TWO-TIMER/PART-TIME LOVER!

Other example, other guy, who everyone knows he was womanizer/player, had hold on me while dating other girl. . .i asked him why in the world he wanted holding on me while he dated someone else? His straightforwardly answered to me," because i am highly intelligent he needed the most taking care of his financial matters which other girl is FLATLY OUT DUMB!". (me, college-degreed and that girl no job/no college degree- - -just partyhead) I TURNED HIM DOWN FLATLY for dating very DISGUSTEDLY!

Another example from my previously dating-online sites in the past with locally preference, most men asked me ONE SILLY QUESTION the same: Would you like to be my mistress permanently? or Are you accept having sexually casual relationship in a long-term? When they all are taken! AAARRRGGGGHHHH!!!!! Hell no! Hell No! I terminated 2-weeks FREE TRIAL membership account NO MORE!!! (total 77 men so far on 8 different dating online sites- - -I MEAN IT- - -NO JOKING!!)

Here when I was placed my YIM ID on NL profile since my member, all I get yahoo-yahoo boys (most new NL members to pop up during the night while everyone in Nigeria slept- - -I am in USA time zone differently) ANNOYED in the name of "bawo ni, iyawo mi" and "mo ni ife re iyamo mi" on the next day YIM chat conversation from the first day. That's how I found NAIRALAND google discovering the meaning of both mentioned Yoruba statements. Thank God I have DSL high speed internet to access it. _{On new year 2008, i removed it from my NL profile.}

I find it very disgusted that I do not know them (yahoo-yahoo boys), just one day YIM chat; therefore, blocked them.

Does it show that I am wrong about player? Keep in your mind, those idiot men except for dating online and NL are deaf! The rest of them in majority are hearing!!! Tell me about it!

_{what the world turn into sicko?}

Some manage to be full blown LIFE-TIME players

I like this statement.

awon boiz:

It appears that by nature we are meant to PLAY in at least one stage of our lives. It could be as a Teen, young Adult or as we grow Old. Some manage to be full blown LIFE-TIME players . I have no stats for this but it appear that if you did not get the chance to play at your teen age you are more likely to do it later.

What's your thoughts on 'Playing' and the Ages?

Based on which facts?

To respond to the post directly, i will rather say, it is better to play when one is much younger ! Its good to have exhausted all the "youthful madness" before one reaches "matured" adulthood" !!!

Cheers

@ uspry 1

I quite understand your points and experiences. But I need you to understand that most of the men from your experiences are really not PLAYERS.

Players are usually smart and intelligent. They dont get caught before the game but after the game and the victim is already hurt. They make their prey want not make themselves needy. Before a player is caught, he must have been through the game at least for the 1st quarter.

So my thinking is that you have probably never been played my friend

If u got the opportunity use it