tomakint:
Aaaaarrrrggghhh o serious, a figba to figboju ja omo ele kuro lowo mi

oti miss road :p 8-)

tomakint:
Be n ti e ri afi gba to da gbogbo kombo mi ru, be ke kuylie ti n je dodo tungba mi lo eyin omo Nairaland yi sa

talo'n je dodo e wetin dey inside your boxers :p orisirisi.dey there dey deceive urself.come e be like say agro dey worry you.ojegbona ile asewo kolo san owo dido :p8-)

Ihedinobi: Gaggi, barcanista and nony30 are no longer following this thread, are they? I have a culture of seeing the full development of an issue before I contribute to it, that's why I browsed through the whole thread to make sure I got the full story before commenting.

To start with, nony30 spoke like a real jerk. Of course, everyone's got a right to be whatever they want, but every right comes with a responsibility to accept the consequences or outcomes of exercising them. So, nony30 was a major jerk whom I would have enjoyed going to war with on this thread. How disappointing and rather refreshing that he took his jerkiness elsewhere.

Barcanista, one small shade more courteous than his apparent disciple nony30, was not that smart either. A thread has a specific point of discussion that participants may agree with and reinforce with their own perspectives or disagree with and criticize with their own perspectives. Which did this broda-man do? Agree? He seemed to. Disagree? He seemed to. I think his summary of his arguments or rant or whatever was: there's nothing wrong with putting a timeline on your marriage plans as long as you do it for the right reasons. Which promptly causes me to wonder: did he read the op at all or he just read the title and his mind blanked from the rush of antagonism that had him rushing to type nothing?

His subsequent comments smacked of an annoying arrogance that he felt he'd said something smart for whatever reason.

Gaggi...Gaggi Gaggi Gaggi...whoever this person is, I'm both glad and quite upset that I didn't meet this thread as soon as they first commented. From his/her first comment, I was so put off that I could almost not wait to read the rest to get whatever they really meant to say. I still intend to go back and reread all he/she said so that I'm really sure that I get it. Suffice it to say that my first impression of this person is rather unpleasant. But, I gladly accept that I mightbe wrong. And the reason for being that open to correction was how kulyie responded to him/her. She accorded him/her a respect that I would have reserved for people I thought better of.

Ok. About Gaggi'sresponse to the issue, at first, it did seem like s/he was answering the op then it seemed that s/he was answering kulyie in his/her first post. Now, granted that each marriage and each relationship is unique, are all marriages and all relationships not based on the same principles? That is, are they not all fundamentally the same?

Now, if they are (and they actually are), should someone who gets the fundamentals better not offer what wisdom that they have come to possess to others who may not yet possess it? What is their crime in sharing what they have learned with their friends and people that they care about?

Again, does the fact that human beings are basically very good actors not show that a couple's attitude outside the walls of their own home in the sight of everyone is not necessarily the same as their attitude away from everyone's gaze? That fact along with the principles of marriage give the lie to the example of the couple who club and do whatever and still are such great friends.

Finally, I missed where the op insinuated that marriages made on short notice were always going to fail while those made after considerable time taken to court or whatever would always succeed. It seems pretty clear to me that Gaggi simply did not engage intellectually with the op. S/he just skipped the whole "thinking" part and jumped straight into the refuting part and ended up saying almost nothing.

Perhaps I'll pick particular posts and respond to them in subsequent posts that I make to address more directly what each poster of interest said.

May Amadioha bend ‎​dat ur useless mouth! just a wish.

kulyie: talo'n je dodo e wetin dey inside your boxers :p orisirisi.dey there dey deceive urself.come e be like say agro dey worry you.ojegbona ile asewo kolo san owo dido :p8-)

Omo awada e ti poju ye paro mo iwo gan moo pe o n gbadun paro yen but seriously I know you from somewhere ma ti e ro tinu boxers mi eru ma ba e tin ba tu sokoto fun e

tomakint:
Omo awada e ti poju ye paro mo iwo gan moo pe o n gbadun paro yen but seriously I know you from somewhere

hahahahaha awon wo lo'ngbadun paro e you like deceiving yourself sha 8-) orisirisi.no be say the thing wey you put for inside boxers na die,why i go dey gbadun your paro :p if you know you are proud of that thing inside your boxers,display it here,infact upload it here,let me see it then i'll say yea to you :p

tomakint:
Omo awada e ti poju ye paro mo iwo gan moo pe o n gbadun paro yen but seriously I know you from somewhere ma ti e ro tinu boxers mi eru ma ba e tin ba tu sokoto fun e

* singing in 9ice voice* bokiniyen :p

kulyie: hahahahaha awon wo lo'ngbadun paro e you like deceiving yourself sha 8-) orisirisi.no be say the thing wey you put for inside boxers na die,why i go dey gbadun your paro :p if you know you are proud of that thing inside your boxers,display it here,infact upload it here,let me see it then i'll say yea to you :p

wa sere fine girl ni bo loti fe woo ko ti e fi dan mi wo

kulyie: thank you for directly and indirectly delivering me from stalkers o :p

afterall nairaland is not the only place to look for wife 8-)

FYI i'm not looking for A WIFE. marriage will definitely come when befor i reach 29-30, for now i'm 25 still and hustling for money and career. i didn't ask to be your friend because i needed your heart/love. HONESTLY i don't! (for God sake it won't work due to your AGE).Your comments and anti-men posts marvels me, hence, while i want to be close to you to unravel the mystery behind your attitude. Pls stop calling me a stalker in a public forum, and i assume that you understand the word COURTESY and ETIQUETTE.

tomakint:
wa sere fine girl ni bo loti fe woo ko ti e fi dan mi wo

i want to see it here on nairaland,put the picture of your john thomas on nairaland,let me see it :p afterall seeing is believing :Dwhat i see here on nairaland is what i will believe 8-)

kulyie: * singing in 9ice voice* bokiniyen :p

***singing Tupac's 'fair exchange' you do me, and if it's worth the favour I return the favour, I'l give it back to you....***

barcanista: FYI i'm not looking for A WIFE. marriage will definitely come when befor i reach 29-30, for now i'm 25 still and hustling for money and career. i didn't ask to be your friend because i needed your heart/love. HONESTLY i don't! (for God sake it won't work due to your AGE).Your comments and anti-men posts marvels me, hence, while i want to be close to you to unravel the mystery behind your attitude. Pls stop calling me a stalker in a public forum, and i assume that you understand the word COURTESY and ETIQUETTE.

and what do they call sending numerous pms Hun?,biko dress jare

barcanista: FYI i'm not looking for A WIFE. marriage will definitely come when befor i reach 29-30, for now i'm 25 still and hustling for money and career. i didn't ask to be your friend because i needed your heart/love. HONESTLY i don't! (for God sake it won't work due to your AGE).Your comments and anti-men posts marvels me, hence, while i want to be close to you to unravel the mystery behind your attitude. Pls stop calling me a stalker in a public forum, and i assume that you understand the word COURTESY and ETIQUETTE.

25? So there's still hope for your intelligence ehn? Use the rest of your youth well, ok?

Anyone that does not want to be called a stalker should step aside
we have seen 5 pages on one persin mata and una say una no be stalkers...

creepy dudes

tomakint:
***singing Tupac's 'fair exchange' you do me, and if it's worth the favour I return the favour, I'l give it back to you....***

* singing in tlc's voice * i dont want no scrub,a scrub is a guy that *** hanging on the passengers side of his best friends ride trying to hola at me :p

mr man moni kobo kiniyen,i am not a musician,dont turn me to one :p 8-)

kulyie: i want to see it here on nairaland,put the picture of your john thomas on nairaland,let me see it :p afterall seeing is believing :Dwhat i see here on nairaland is what i will believe 8-)

Haba kulyie, there are better places around you can see the 'thing' other than here now, show some respect to the 'thing' as much as I respect your 'thing' too

biolabee: Anyone that does not want to be called a stalker should step aside
we have seen 5 pages on one persin mata and una say una no be stalkers...

creepy dudes

o sumi o abi o wa gbamike anyway thank God he has revealed his motive 8-)

barcanista: FYI i'm not looking for A WIFE. marriage will definitely come when befor i reach 29-30, for now i'm 25 still and hustling for money and career. i didn't ask to be your friend because i needed your heart/love. HONESTLY i don't! (for God sake it won't work due to your AGE).Your comments and anti-men posts marvels me, hence, while i want to be close to you to unravel the mystery behind your attitude. Pls stop calling me a stalker in a public forum, and i assume that you understand the word COURTESY and ETIQUETTE.

Buhahahahaha!! See dis chewing gum guy o! Iwo yen je mind reader abi? Wetin u dey unravel? Ti ishe forensic ba wu e she, send ya CV to EFCc.En le!

Ihedinobi:

25? So there's still hope for your intelligence ehn? Use the rest of your youth well, ok?

Lmao! Meanie!!!!!

tomakint:
Haba kulyie, there are better places around you can see the 'thing' other than here now, show some respect to the 'thing' as much as I respect your 'thing' too

what are you hiding,joor bring it out jare abi where are the 'better and 'other' places you want me to see it excluding your bedroom or a hotel room :p

mr man bo bo bo jare,o waste time mi o.i will soon change my mind about that levels o :p meanwhile

that is what i want,display it here or nothing for you :p 8-)

kulyie: and what do they call sending numerous pms Hun?,biko dress jare

madam make i use pidgin. does sending emails(of which you replied to virtually all) translate to being a stalker? do you even know the meaning of that word? BESIDE you don't know me. Asking for your friendship and exchanging mails with you doesn't translate to SEEKING for your heart nor being a STALKER. by the way, must you disclose who you've been exchanging mails with in a public forum? seriously you are begining to irritate me, you seriously lack MANNERS and i blame whoever brought you up for not doing a good job. NO INSULT INTENDED

Ha!! Oju mi o!! I'm underage o!! No bo anything hia o!

barcanista: madam make i use pidgin. does sending emails(of which you replied to virtually all) translate to being a stalker? do you even know the meaning of that word? BESIDE you don't know me. Asking for your friendship and exchanging mails with you doesn't translate to SEEKING for your heart nor being a STALKER. by the way, must you disclose who you've been exchanging mails with in a public forum? seriously you are begining to irritate me, you seriously lack MANNERS and i blame whoever brought you up for not doing a good job. NO INSULT INTENDED

Lmao! Ur style no work jare! Irritate u bawo? She ja e bo and u hia PARAing over wot? Mr man, lo le plaster jare! Ela Oju nkan!!!! Ntoi!!!!!!

barcanista: madam make i use pidgin. does sending emails(of which you replied to virtually all) translate to being a stalker? do you even know the meaning of that word? BESIDE you don't know me. Asking for your friendship and exchanging mails with you doesn't translate to SEEKING for your heart nor being a STALKER. by the way, must you disclose who you've been exchanging mails with in a public forum? seriously you are begining to irritate me, you seriously lack MANNERS and i blame whoever brought you up for not doing a good job. NO INSULT INTENDED

mshewwwwwwwwwwwww you have no point,your post is just baseless

and as for those who brought me up,go and tell them that one.alakori,alaileko,oponu,arindi,gbewudani,alainitiju alara galatia

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! Ur style no work jare! Irritate u bawo? She ja e bo and u hia PARAing over wot? Mr man, lo le plaster jare! Ela Oju nkan!!!! Ntoi!!!!!!

ose jare madalohun.o'n try lati get unnecessarily personal otun ni oun hustle.instead kolowa ise,shelo'n try lati ma stalk eyan kiri

Idowuogbo: Ha!! Oju mi o!! I'm underage o!! No bo anything hia o!

please jeko bo i want to feed my eyes this night 8-)

Idowuogbo:
Buhahahahaha!! See dis chewing gum guy o! Iwo yen je mind reader abi? Wetin u dey unravel? Ti ishe forensic ba wu e she, send ya CV to EFCc.En le!

madalohun.tie ti ba.shomope tori eyan ba feburu,ati eyin ese loma ti mo

Idowuogbo:
Buhahahahaha!! See dis chewing gum guy o! Iwo yen je mind reader abi? Wetin u dey unravel? Ti ishe forensic ba wu e she, send ya CV to EFCc.En le!

As for you, i've never asked for your friendship at any time, yet you keep on trolling me like a zombie. I wonder why you pick so much special interest in my posts each time i direct it(them) to another female. Are you in need of a man? are you a silent frustrated old cargo? do you get jealous seeing another guy sendin message to a girl other than you? do you seek NOTICE ME? do you need attention? if NO to the above questions, then answer this, ARE you mad? If your answers are all yes, THEN YOU DEFINITELY MUST BE MAD. mtscheew. Abeg free me jor-Old Spinster

biolabee: Anyone that does not want to be called a stalker should step aside
we have seen 5 pages on one persin mata and una say una no be stalkers...

creepy dudes

gbam

Oga o... Which one be pomo, agbalumo, water melon ati dodo ta lon je?, ejo o, omo kekere ni mi o

barcanista: As for you, i've never asked for your friendship at any time, yet you keep on trolling me like a zombie. I wonder why you pick so much special interest in my posts each time i direct it(them) to another female. Are you in need of a man? are you a silent frustrated old cargo? do you get jealous seeing another guy sendin message to a girl other than you? do you seek NOTICE ME? do you need attention? if NO to the above questions, then answer this, ARE you mad? If your answers are all yes, THEN YOU DEFINITELY MUST BE MAD. mtscheew. Abeg free me jor-Old Spinster

Ewo! Only me? Lmaooooo! Odun! O fe ke! Niggah,y u dey shower me with spit?Ti yaka gba Oju e! Blawwwdy EPA!

tintingz: Oga o... Which one be pomo, agbalumo, water melon ati dodo ta lon je?, ejo o, omo kekere ni mi o

you dey ask who dey chop am ?ba? but you claim to be 'omode'