I'm here..I have been busy. Thanks for your contribution and I really appreciate everything. I think the problem is in her tenses.
Let me post some of her messages she sent to me recently. Raining was falling heavily yesterday and she sent this message; 'Baby mi(My baby), Rain is fall here and I need you to cover me'...Here is another one.
'Am not see anything' instead of ' I didnt see anything' cos we were exchanging pictures of whatsapp that day.. Can you now see where the problem lies?

alutacontinua:

You are getting me

chikk:

Thank you my sister..There was a day i received a text message and I needed to reply the message but I was so busy. My girl was there but I couldn't let her reply the message for me because of the errors and this thing is giving me serious concern. She is to visit me in July and before then, I want to know a perfect way to tell her my concern. Its for our own good cos if she gets embarrassed one day, I will feel guilty.

Young po413:

This was why I said ,I had a crush on you @alutacontinuation,you are great,everything about you are perfect,erm....... Are you married?

Married - No
Perfect - far from it!
Great - Yes
Thanks for the compliment.

Soyedele1: I'm here..I have been busy. Thanks for your contribution and I really appreciate everything. I think the problem is in her tenses.
Let me post some of her messages she sent to me recently. Raining was falling heavily yesterday and she sent this message; 'Baby mi(My baby), Rain is fall here and I need you to cover me'...Here is another one.
'Am not see anything' instead of ' I didnt see anything' cos we were exchanging pictures of whatsapp that day.. Can you now see where the problem lies?

Does she use the correct tense when speaking?

SniperInADiaper:

Does she use the correct tense when speaking?

Yes and i always wonder why it is then hard to write it down the way she speaks.

Soyedele1:
Yes and i always wonder why it is then hard to write it down the way she speaks.

Sounds like a learning disorder characterized by difficulty with written expression. Talk to her and find out. Chances are she knows and is frustrated herself.

Have you ever seen her handwriting?

chikk:
Oga, with all respect due to you, I don't understand you o. What do you mean by the Op doesn't love her for who she is? Didn't the Op explicitly state that in his post? Or should he just fold his hands and leave her as she is just to prove to YOU that he loves her the way she is? What is the essence of a relationship if not to complement and help develop? What if she embarrasses herself somewhere important one day? What he is trying to do is more for her own good than his. He never said he was dumping her.

Consider your lines above in bold font. I don't know if you didn't understand the op or what, 'cos those lines are echoing the op's topic. He is here to find out HOW to talk to the girl and how to help her without hurting her feelings. I don't see why you should be asking him those questions when it is obvious that those are his reasons for being here. For all I know, you're just throwing his question back to him and not really suggesting a solution(save for you last line anyway). No vex o.

@OP, just take aluta's words. She's on point

lol people like you are funny.... the only person he is trying to help is HIMSELF. he wants her to be the way HE desires his partner to be, not the way around...... get your facts right. if the lady had a problem with the issue, i guess she would have gone for English lessons to correct that.

if the questions i have posted above is what the OP asked then this thread is pointless as the problem would have been solved a long time ago....... so we can all conclude that if it is not solved then either A) he didnt ask the right questions or B) she didnt want to listen (aka she is no problem with her English abilities).....and unfortunately, if she doesnt want to listen then he has to accept "who she is" AND love her for exactly that.

as for me saying that he doesnt love her, it is obvious. unless you guys dont have a clue what love is, then you must all (first) Google the word, in order to reacquaint yourselves with the NOTION OF LOVE. the man says he loves her for WHO SHE IS, yet wanna change her?! in my world what he wrote makes no damn sense. you cannot say you love someone for who they are as a person, and in the same sentence turn around and say you wanna change something about that person, duh! and if he only wants to "improve" who she is then he shouldnt be ashamed of her text msgs, to the point of having to delete them (thats not improvement, that radical change).

MRbrownJAY:

lol people like you are funny.... the only person he is trying to help is HIMSELF. he wants her to be the way HE desires his partner to be, not the way around...... get your facts right. if the lady had a problem with the issue, i guess she would have gone for English lessons to correct that.

if the questions i have posted above is what the OP asked then this thread is pointless as the problem would have been solved a long time ago....... so we can all conclude that if it is not solved then either A) he didnt ask the right questions or B) she didnt want to listen (aka she is no problem with her English abilities).....and unfortunately, if she doesnt want to listen then he has to accept "who she is" AND love her for exactly that.

as for me saying that he doesnt love her, it is obvious. unless you guys dont have a clue what love is, then you must all (first) Google the word, in order to reacquaint yourselves with the NOTION OF LOVE. the man says he loves her for WHO SHE IS, yet wanna change her?! in my world what he wrote makes no damn sense. you cannot say you love someone for who they are as a person, and in the same sentence turn around and say you wanna change something about that person, duh! and if he only wants to "improve" who she is then he shouldnt be ashamed of her text msgs, to the point of having to delete them (thats not improvement, that radical change).

I can't imagine myself explaining the Op's post further. Its so easy to comprehend. All I can say is, if you can read all replies on this thread, you'll see that only yours is out of line. So abstract. Please, fall in line. Biko

^^^^ only sheep fall in line, but be my guest as i would rather use my brain instead. MBJ has never been a follow follow and is not about to start now. this is my views, take it or leave it, but it will remain MY VIEWS. so go on and continue being a sheep.

Is she a Benin girl?

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