dayokanu:

Is that not Lolly magazines with the lead character Dauda or Nackson

No, not lolly, it was so popular among girls. I would recognize the name when I see it. Let me try google and come back

dayokanu:

Secondary school in the late 80's early 90's

Secondary school student riots, seniors were bullying juniors, students were beating teachers, raape was rampart at Inter-House-Sport, Inter school violence was very high (E.g CMS vs Igbobi, GCI vs Loyola etc)- nowadays nothing but a bunch of butter babies in secondary school

Which of the above happens nowadays sef?

I can conclude these generation were better morally than their parents generation jare

As at 1997 I had a younger cousin who never missed an edition of better lover at age 13-14 buying it in open glare at Ikeja under bridge he married last yr and maybe later would tell his teenage son watching poorn that the world is spoilt

is lolly magazine still operational?
mr nackson was the bomb then, i had about 300 editions of it and that applied to most boys in my class.

by 16, boys were bringing playboy magazines to school on a monthly basis! crisp edition sef. political correctness has changed the whole scene now. every parent wants to act like the pope now.

baby_123:
No, not lolly, it was so popular among girls. I would recognize the name when I see it. Let me try google and come back

Hints?

dayokanu:

Hints?

Bingo. Lmao. That magazine!!! Ewooo!!!

coogar:

is lolly magazine still operational?
mr nackson was the bomb then, i had about 300 editions of it and that applied to most boys in my class.

In my primary school, One boy would bring it to school and we would all gather round to read it under the desk and even borrow it

We didnt have money to buy then.

By secondary school almost everyone had an archive. Later came all those Mapouka VCD's

baby_123:
Bingo. Lmao. That magazine!!! Ewooo!!!

Hints with Kayode Ajala before he went to Hearts and later Sweetdreams

Better Lover was Sandra Ekwunife

Lolly was by Wale Adenuga I think

All those authors would be grandparents now o

dayokanu:

Hints with Kayode Ajala before he went to Hearts and later Sweetdreams

Better Lover was Sandra Ekwunife

na woman dey write better lover?
she should be arrested - she must have corrupted loads of young girls then.

baby_123: Mills and boons nko? Then there was another sexual circulation too, I forget the name. In a newspaper or magazine. A virgin can have org*asm from those things.

:DAhhhh mo gbadun baby jor ... Too real

dayokanu:

Secondary school in the late 80's early 90's

Secondary school student riots, seniors were bullying juniors, students were beating teachers, raape was rampart at Inter-House-Sport, Inter school violence was very high (E.g CMS vs Igbobi, GCI vs Loyola etc)- nowadays nothing but a bunch of butter babies in secondary school

Which of the above happens nowadays sef?

I can conclude these generation were better morally than their parents generation jare

As at 1997 I had a younger cousin who never missed an edition of better lover at age 13-14 buying it in open glare at Ikeja under bridge he married last yr and maybe later would tell his teenage son watching poorn that the world is spoilt

Very very true.... that's not all , the very rich and lower class all attend the same school, you attend same school didn't mean I roll with you.you dey craze??

The only difference was the quality of uniform material, knapsack, runners compared to rubber sandals , patterned socks , even your pen and many more

Today , you enrol them for quality non stop strike free bully free education , you can hire moral teachers sef , money talks
.

Easy life

dayokanu:

Hints with Kayode Ajala before he went to Hearts and later Sweetdreams

Better Lover was Sandra Ekwunife

Lolly was by Wale Adenuga I think

All those authors would be grandparents now o

Hints was all the girls favourite. We used to analyse and dissect the stories, and at the same time looking in love or lost in thought. Probably imagining. Mills and boons had the sexiest men on earth as cover, and the most raunchy, romantic and pornographic stories. Another story I used to like was ikebe super. That character with heavy front and back and tiny waist. I think it was a comic and had something to do with papa ajasco.

jidegirl12:

:DAhhhh mo gbadun baby jor ... Too real



Very very true.... that's not all , the very rich and lower class all attend the same school, you attend same school didn't mean I roll with you.you dey craze??

The only difference was the quality of uniform material, knapsack, runners compared to rubber sandals , patterned socks , even your pen and many more

Today , you enrol them for quality non stop strike free bully free education , you can hire moral teachers sef , money talks
.

Easy life

My dear, Nigerian's are natural hypocrites. Its normal. The irony is that they are highly sexualized, immoral and hypocritical and at the same time religious. All those attributes cannot comfortably stay together, so they fight each other. Why are people so afraid of s*ex? This our body is totally se*xual. It is best to have those kids on the safe side of s*ex, than on the vulnerable side. I thank God my dad was a former playboy. He really shaped us o. I rmember finding my brother burning a condom when he was 17 and had snuck his girlfriend home when my parents were out. That was the first time I saw gold circle condom or a condom for that matter.

So basically, the summary of this hypocrisy chronicles over the last few pages is that if you ever read M and B, hints or lolly magazine in primary school, you should stand on top of the rooftop and scream in excitement and increase his allowance once you discover that your teenage son is dating. However, if it's your teenage daughter of the same age, you should be upset, be ashamed of her, discourage her and try to hide it....

Nice lessons on how not to be a hypocrite....

coogar:

na woman dey write better lover?
she should be arrested - she must have corrupted loads of young girls then.

She was the editor in Chief

She definitely didnt write all the stories

ileobatojo: So basically, the summary of this hypocrisy chronicles over the last few pages is that if you ever read M and B, hints or lolly magazine in primary school, you should stand on top of the rooftop and scream in excitement and increase his allowance once you discover that your teenage son is dating. However, if it's your teenage daughter of the same age, you should be upset, be ashamed of her, discourage her and try to hide it....

Nice lessons on how not to be a hypocrite....

The summary is that a 17yr old dating is not strange it has been happening ever since Adam left the garden of Eden

And if you dont talk to him/her and act like its the worst thing ever he/she already knows and is probably already doing the same thing everyone is doing at 17.

If I find out my daughter at 17 s dating I would want to know who the boy is and who is parents are. Find out more about him and tell my daughter what it entails to have a bf including the possibilities of getting pregnant, catching STD's

Probably the mother would be in a better place to have the discussion but acting like "Children of nowadays are spoilt at 17 for having a bf/gf, when the parent probably had one at 16. Is plain hypocrisy

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i did some schooling in nigeria and having a boyfriend/girlfriend is a junior secondary school thing. why are people pretending this isn't the norm in nigeria? these are the same people that would lie to their kids that they never came 2nd throughout their academic career - na first throughout!![/quote]


During my time,I was told if a guy hold ur hand,u don get belle be that o!so anytime me and mi friends c youngsters holding hand, we will start gossipin dat d gal is pregnant and they hv done that bad thing.I miss those days.so innocent I must say.
A guy gave me val card during my jss3,it happened dat he gave my galfriend to give me and instead of her giving me,she read it out loud in our classroom.I felt like d ground will open and swallow me. Till I left school I was nicknamed d guy's name.I wrote a letter insulting him and his generation for life.heard he was mad and said he will beat me up if he ever set eyes on me.na so I dey dodge him till ss3.then I hv known I fu*cked up.we made up and become friends. he traveld outa d country to study and is presently living there. sought me out after my uni and proposed.

I would hv agreed but...this guy is tall and big.his thing is equally too big.scared d hell outta me.I would hv wanted him to do d thing that time but what I saw made me wee on my pant.that put me on check as regards that part cos I concluded that all p were like that and there is no way that kind of thing will enter my body.he even tried,no way.I just
dey pity d wife.chei!

He was my first love.

dayokanu:
when the parent probably had one at 16

Meaning you don't know for sure? How can it then be plain hypocrisy?

dayokanu:

Probably the mother would be in a better place to have the discussion but acting like "Children of nowadays are spoilt at 17 for having a bf/gf, when the parent probably had one at 16. Is plain hypocrisy

OP admitted that if it were a girl the reaction would have been opposite, now that is glaring hypocrisy.

@yellowpawpaw lmao that was funny

The reality is that the consequences of zexxual indiscretions have always been greater on females

Parents have to be more circumspect with girls than their sons
There's nothing we can do about that

Call it hypocrisy or whatever
It's the way it is

How your eye take rish there

Badt girl

yellowpawpaw: [
i did some schooling in nigeria and having a boyfriend/girlfriend is a junior secondary school thing. why are people pretending this isn't the norm in nigeria? these are the same people that would lie to their kids that they never came 2nd throughout their academic career - na first throughout!!


During my time,I was told if a guy hold ur hand,u don get belle be that o!so anytime me and mi friends c youngsters holding hand, we will start gossipin dat d gal is pregnant and they hv done that bad thing.I miss those days.so innocent I must say.
A guy gave me val card during my jss3,it happened dat he gave my galfriend to give me and instead of her giving me,she read it out loud in our classroom.I felt like d ground will open and swallow me. Till I left school I was nicknamed d guy's name.I wrote a letter insulting him and his generation for life.heard he was mad and said he will beat me up if he ever set eyes on me.na so I dey dodge him till ss3.then I hv known I fu*cked up.we made up and become friends. he traveld outa d country to study and is presently living there. sought me out after my uni and proposed.

I would hv agreed but...this guy is tall and big.his thing is equally too big.scared d hell outta me.I would hv wanted him to do d thing that time but what I saw made me wee on my pant.that put me on check as regards that part cos I concluded that all p were like that and there is no way that kind of thing will enter my body.he even tried,no way.I just
dey pity d wife.chei!

He was my first love.

Dayo don kill me ooooooooooo . Dauda the sexy guy, I was well into adulthood before I figured no one can be that randy. I never forgot the supposed sound of sucking his conquests 'bobbies' *muyen, muyen, muyen*

I dunno why people come online and spew all kindsa crazy and ridiculous crap o jare.


There was this boy in my neighbourhood who was *toasting* me when I was 15, I did not like him like that but we kinda became friends. He had showed up at my house unannounced one day - (only God knows what possessed him) while I was out running an errand for my mother. You can only imagine my shock and *gbogbo fear* racking my entire body when I returned to find Oluwole sipping on a bottle of coke in our living room ( the stupid boy was comfortable enough to be drinking coca-cola offered him, imagine?)

I ran straight into the kitchen to find mother only for her to say to me "se oti ri alejo e t'on duro de e?" The woman wanted to dash me cardiac arrest o, I quickly delivered whatever it was she had sent me, ran back to the living room and did a Ben Johnson outside dragging Oluwole with me and sent him on his way in the meanest terms I could muster.

I went inside expecting fire and brimstone to fall on my poor head but mother never said anything. When I could no longer take the suspense, I decided to explain myself to mother that nothing was going on between me and the good for nothing boy only for my mother to dismiss my explanation with a shrug, she said there was no need to explain having a guest albeit a male one. After picking up my jaw from the floor and summoning some courage I asked my mother why I was allowed to have male guests as most of my friends were not even allowed to look at boys let alone have one in the house?

My mother then laughed for what seemed like eternity and said to me words I will never forget.

" I have just sent you on an errand that should have taken you 10mins but you took 30mins, only God knows what you were getting up to for the remaining 20mins. I entertained your guest because I wanted you to know that your mother believes she has raised you better than to open your legs to every boy that comes your way. It is only natural that boys will be interested in you as you will in them. If you decide to let a boy sweet talk his way to what lies between you legs, be rest assured that you will be carrying your child with your skirts and blouses because I don't have any wrapper to hand down to you".

Suffice to say that I behaved myself even though I was surrounded by boys almost all the time, most of them where *toasters* turned friends.

Waow!!!!^^^^

biolabee: The reality is that the consequences of zexxual indiscretions have always been greater on females

Parents have to be more circumspect with girls than their sons
There's nothing we can do about that

Call it hypocrisy or whatever
It's the way it is

Consequences brought on by the actions of 2 people. If parents are equally circumspect with their boys as they are with their daughters, perhaps females wouldn't have to deal with consequences of se*xual indiscretions to the extent that they have to today.

If you are not comfortable with your 17yr old female child dating, you probably shouldn't be jumping for joy at your 17yr old boy dating. Afterall, it is someone else's 15-17 yr old daughter he will be dating. There is no other name to call it but hypocrisy.

Ile , you wanna know why? From mom of Girls?

Girls are very delicate compared to boys.... once they ( girls) miss a step for example pregnancy, then that is it, not the end of it but her prime time is gone, mostly difficult to meet up with their peers.

Marriage wise, Most times , they have slimmer choice of men, I mean good men.

Boys however can pick up their lives and move on , marry someone else , good girl at that.

Does that make sense?

The only equality argument I can boldly make is achievements , whatever a man can do ( achievement context) a woman can and will beat him 1M times for sure, that I'm very very sure.

U know,one of d biggest mistakes parents make is being overly strict with their children.my mum gave me so much freedom that I wanted to pls her always.any guy dat toast me,she must know.if u c us discussin about boys like two teenagers u will assume she don't know what she was doin but she was stylishly monitoring my every move.
She told me abt her growin up,d guys that came for her hand in marriage and her boyfriends.
I was raised in a very religious settin but I broke protocol and started wearing d forbidin trouser from early secondary.and God help any mum dat will come to preach to her that her daughter did this or dat.she will put u where u belong!
She knew abt my virginity till d last day and how she manged know, till today I don't know.
She told me one day that I hv done it(then I've matured very well) I tried to deny but she told me its ok that I'm old enof.
I still miss dat woman cos she rocks!
Parents try and be ur children's best friend and also be free with them.

biolabee: How your eye take rish there

Badt girl

I saw him peein one day.also dat place always look big kind of anytime we r together.
My mum lvd dat guy very well but I told her why I can't marry him. C d gap ss3 and after uni but I still d fear.

yellowpawpaw:
I saw him peein one day.also dat place always look big kind of anytime we r together.
My mum lvd dat guy very well but I told her why I can't marry him. C d gap ss3 and after uni but I still d fear.

you should have gotten him arrested for sëxually harassing you visually.

Well it may be double standards but the fact is the consequnces are greater with girls than boys

If a man abandons his seed he is termed a player
If a lady aborts she is called a witch

A lady then has to suffer single parenting for years until by hook or crook the man changes his ways and starts paying child support
meanwhile she has missed oppotunities to get married to others who dont want baggage


That's why it's better teen preggies are not encouraged at all

See the societal expectations are different

ileobatojo:

Consequences brought on by the actions of 2 people. If parents are equally circumspect with their boys as they are with their daughters, perhaps females wouldn't have to deal with consequences of se*xual indiscretions to the extent that they have to today.

If you are not comfortable with your 17yr old female child dating, you probably shouldn't be jumping for joy at your 17yr old boy dating. Afterall, it is someone else's 15-17 yr old daughter he will be dating. There is no other name to call it but hypocrisy.

coogar:

you should have gotten him arrested for sëxually harassing you visually.

Ur head there!

yellowpawpaw:
I saw him peein one day.also dat place always look big kind of anytime we r together.
My mum lvd dat guy very well but I told her why I can't marry him. C d gap ss3 and after uni but I still d fear.

hahaha

young girl you dont know da thing
you are playing with that thing

so u were fearful of his one eyed king cobra

biolabee: Well it may be double standards but the fact is the consequnces are greater with girls than boys

If a man abandons his seed he is termed a player
If a lady aborts she is called a witch

A lady then has to suffer single parenting for years until by hook or crook the man changes his ways and starts paying child support
meanwhile she has missed oppotunities to get married to others who dont want baggage


That's why it's better teen preggies are not encouraged at all

See the societal expectations are different

Biola,

If boys are not discouraged from indiscriminate sex, they will keep sleeping with girls who have been well 'brought up' except if you want homosexuality to increase.

Look at it this way:

If A doesn't train his son properly, his son might look for a smart way to sweet talk your well trained daughter into doing something wrong and vice versa.

bukatyne:

Biola,

If boys are not discouraged from indiscriminate sex, they will keep sleeping with girls who have been well 'brought up' except if you want homosexuality to increase.

Look at it this way:

If A doesn't train his son properly, his son might look for a smart way to sweet talk your well trained daughter into doing something wrong and vice versa.

rubbish, if the girls are well-trained, they wouldn't become preys for the boys. how can you be well-trained and still fall victim to the predators?

coogar:

rubbish, if the girls are well-trained, they wouldn't become preys for the boys. how can you be well-trained and still fall victim to the predators?

So all the girls falling prey were not well trained?

I laugh in Spanish!

By the way, define what it means to be a prey!

LOLOLOL what a waste!!!!

Ok keep on blaming the boys
The wise parents will ensure their girls do the needful

bukatyne:

Biola,

If boys are not discouraged from indiscriminate sex, they will keep sleeping with girls who have been well 'brought up' except if you want homosexuality to increase.

Look at it this way:

If A doesn't train his son properly, his son might look for a smart way to sweet talk your well trained daughter into doing something wrong and vice versa.