PureOhio: I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

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My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room. This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?
I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all. What should I do?

- Culled from LindaIkeji.

fineworker:
Please does your dad and mun leave their doors open while making love when the kids and a visitor is around? If you answer this question, you will see were the fault is.

50calibre:

Lorretta I can't believe you are saying this, not only are you a crazy and aggressive feminist, you are also freaky as hell. Damn I'm beginning to like you.

biolabee:

yes you are too sensitive


definition of conjugal right

conjugal rights noun plural
: the sexxual rights or privileges implied by and involved in the marriage relationship : the right of sexxual intercourse between husband and wife

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/conjugal?show=1&t=1371302400

1 Cor 7 : 3 - 5 Amplified

LoveAmaka:


I hear you...doesn't sound romantic...at all!

dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law

or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse

chassity002:

I will confront her. Would she rather be happy if I have to 'sort myself' out somehow?

vanitty: Think about it this way. Your father and mother I am sure did the deed when you were living in their house and you were not aware of it.
No one is telling you not to have sex but be discreet about it.
Infact not just for mama but also for those innocent children of yours. They copy everything you do, you know. You really don't want them to get to school or church and be humping others.

damiso:

Maybe am just a prude sha, but its on NL I saw that people do the do with kids in the room sef .

back of the car ore hotel ke? na ashawo she be abi na 1 night stand babe or booty call wey dem go dey do am for back of car or hotel.

I use my sweat build house,i no go free for my own house again i go con leave am go pay for hotel?kojo rara.instead of that,mama should go.why i go leave my own house,inconvenience myself for back of car or hotel. For how long them go do that one.if mama say she wan stay for 1 year nko. Na the man wey suppose no gree that kain levels na.yorubas say the thing wey you no go chop,no smell am.no mincing of words,talk am say make she dey go shooooo :oby the way there should be a lock na.if they dont have why dem no fit buy one.when e no be say the man na hefner for girls of the play boy mansion

abi the man and woman be porn star.i pity the kids.when broda begin nyash sister and them leave the door open,make them no complain

afterall charity begins from home na inside e dey start