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Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by PureOhio(f): 6:07pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms. [img]http://1.bp..com/-9AtlvRnVf8k/Ubm6isv0wRI/AAAAAAABxI8/RaYPdgDgh18/s1600/black-couple-arguing-pf3-378x309.jpg[/img] My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room. This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room. My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy? I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all. What should I do? - Culled from LindaIkeji. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by coogar: 6:34pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
in that case, mother-in-law has to vamoose! after collecting my yams and the other stuff included in the brideprice? where did she think her grandkids came from? oyingbo market?? 166 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Godmother(f): 6:39pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
May God save us frm mother(in law) that want to control ur children all through their lives. I support d man in this jare. The mother.in law should mind her business and just pretend she didn't hear anytin 12 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by dayokanu(m): 6:48pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse 36 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by coogar: 6:54pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law 15 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by slimyem: 7:32pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In lawChoi! 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by SisiKill1: 7:43pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
So they wanna be ooohing and aaahing and give it to me hard babing with momma in the next room....with the doors open? Why not kukuma just invite momma for menage a trois and be done with it. 8 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by slimyem: 7:44pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
The couple shoud start shutting their door and let grandma handle the kids now that she's around or what else is she in the house for? Someone also suggested soft music in the background to drown the oohs and aahs. 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by dayokanu(m): 7:47pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: So they wanna be ooohing and aaahing and give it to me hard babing with momma in the next room....with the doors open? Why not kukuma just invite momma for menage a trois and be done with it. The mama too should close her ears joor or pinch the baby at that time so the baby cries would drown the ooohhh ahhhhh Abi how the mama think say dem born the pikin wey she come carry? Immaculate conception? 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Osama10(m): 7:48pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
When it's time for action you can close the doors and reopen after the whole show now. 8 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by baby124: 7:55pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law LMAO. Honestly, mama na vir*gin . Their are so many ways to avoid her hearing, if it is important to the wife. Loud music will work 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Bawss1(m): 8:06pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Osama10: When it's time for action you can close the doors and reopen after the whole show now. Time for action. Hahahahaha 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by slimyem: 8:18pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
They could also hand her ear plugs or muffs . 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
slimyem: The couple shoud start shutting their door and let grandma handle the kids now that she's around or what else is she in the house for? I completely agree with your solution. Hopefully this will help. But the mother sef get problem. How can you come to a married couple's house and tell them they cannot have sex while you are around. I mean, does the woman even listen to herself? You tell your a married woman, it is rude to have sex with her own husband. Who should the man have sex with instead? This is how people destroy their own children's homes. Poster, you can suggest the solution above, but let your wife know you cannot stay for two months without sex with her sleeping next to you every night. If she insists, then she should come up with ways of ensuring you enjoy sex while she is on sabatical! 9 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
They should respect d old woman jor! Infact why not call her to watch! Maybe d lock on their door is just for fancy. Since d door is always open,so also d 4yr old will be watching them most times they wake her up with their noise! Anyway,na nollywood Rubbish! 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
More importantly, these dullards leave the door ajar even when having se*x so that the children can have access to them whenever they want? Okay now, they will soon meet the fruit of their labor in front. When the children begin practicalizing what they've been watching from the ajar door, everyone will be shouting how children of nowadays are getting spoilt quickly. Mom is right to tell her daughter it is weird for them to leave the door open so she can hear all their action. Who is interested in hearing that shyte? Daughter is wrong to take it to mean they shouldn't have se*x anymore when mom is around. 33 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
ileobatojo: More importantly, these dullards leave the door ajar even when having se*x so that the children can have access to them whenever they want? Okay now, they will soon meet the fruit of their labor in front. When the children begin practicalizing what they've been watching from the ajar door, everyone will be shouting how children of nowadays are getting spoilt quickly.U dey mind them! Highest form of disrespect to an elder! Why not walk naked around d house cos its ur house and u lv being naked? Very immature. They will one day be granny and their own kids will do worst things b4 dem. The thing just dey vex me. Utter nansense! 9 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: So they wanna be ooohing and aaahing and give it to me hard babing with momma in the next room....with the doors open? Why not kukuma just invite momma for menage a trois and be done with it. grandpa simpson voice - back in my time wives lay back and kept quiet the mother is probably scandalized at the non missionary satanic things her daughter is getting up to she probably raised her daughter to lie back and brace herself 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by LoveAmaka: 11:06pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
coogar: in that case, mother-in-law has to vamoose! Very funny! |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by LoveAmaka: 11:08pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law Why do you have to say marital duty! Too harsh it's not a duty...it's lovemaking. Sweet good old fashion love making. Duty sounds like she go to work. Maybe I'm too sensitive. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by LoveAmaka: 11:10pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
PureOhio: I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms. Just close the door since you mother in law is there with the kids. How many thunderstorm is happening in one week. 6 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by LoveAmaka: 11:12pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
Nashville: You were on track until you mentioned sabbatical. Lol |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by MMotimo: 11:37pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
How does it make any sense to leave the door open during lovemaking when the MIL is next door? What is the meaning of that? If the door cannot be closed, it's time to move the games to a different turf/location. Every town has a hotel or you find cheaper alternatives like the back of your car. Haba, have some respect naw! I wouldn't even leave the door open with a sibling next door not to talk of a mother. No child of mine should disrespect me that way o! Because I came to help them with their kids? Orisirisi. Kia, I don carry my bag, face my house 9 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
But what is mamas buisness with the sex lives of a couple.you leave your own house and husband to be giving orders in another person house.that is called CROSSING YOUR BOUNDARIES ESPECIALLY WHEN THE HUSBAND HAS FULFILLED ALL PRE MARITAL RITES.by the way why is the man called husband,does he think its only to be nyashing his wife every second :p he needs to put his feet down when the need arises by not allowing mama intrude in what doesnt concern her.klet me give a scenario.mama good afternoon ma.please mama,can i talk to you,she says go on.mama please with all due respect this is my house and i have a right to my privacy.can you please come only when you are invited or your daughter calls you.dont be annoyed,but your presence here is more of an inconvenience.stand up quickly and walk away.them no go tell the mama to go. on an unserious note,if the action dey disturb mama,make she join them in the action,afterall 3 can play the game. As wifey is sucking dck,mama should be kissing and rubbing chest . Abeg let me leave here before some people call me a perv 1 Like |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
MMotimo: How does it make any sense to leave the door open during lovemaking when the MIL is next door?back of the car ore hotel ke? na ashawo she be abi na 1 night stand babe or booty call wey dem go dey do am for back of car or hotel. I use my sweat build house,i no go free for my own house again i go con leave am go pay for hotel?kojo rara.instead of that,mama should go.why i go leave my own house,inconvenience myself for back of car or hotel. For how long them go do that one.if mama say she wan stay for 1 year nko. Na the man wey suppose no gree that kain levels na.yorubas say the thing wey you no go chop,no smell am.no mincing of words,talk am say make she dey go shooooo :oby the way there should be a lock na.if they dont have why dem no fit buy one.when e no be say the man na hefner for girls of the play boy mansion abi the man and woman be porn star.i pity the kids.when broda begin nyash sister and them leave the door open,make them no complain afterall charity begins from home na inside e dey start 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw:as much as i am against open display of sexual activity at least for the sake of their kids psyche and their own privacy,mama nor get house? Na she go dey give dem timetable when them go nyash and when them no go nyash.abeg kulu down jare make mama sef go her own house take care of baba and if she is bored,carry her grand kids aong with her.8-) 1 Like |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by biolabee(m): 2:24pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
LoveAmaka: yes you are too sensitive definition of conjugal right conjugal rights noun plural : the sexxual rights or privileges implied by and involved in the marriage relationship : the right of sexxual intercourse between husband and wife http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/conjugal?show=1&t=1371302400 1 Cor 7 : 3 - 5 Amplified 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights (goodwill, kindness, and what is due her as his wife), and likewise the wife to her husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
Nigerians, if mama no come , she's not nice/not helping us, if she comes, she's obstructing their way again!! Gosh!! OP don't you have manners for elders? , if agro/kongi dey catch you, do it in your freaking car! It's just 2 freaking months and nobody will die. By the way if our nice Byvan can do it next to a cranky baby and didn't wake the baby up why can't you adopt that style abi you can't yansh without yelling ?? Touchy freaks boku everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
THE MAN IS JUST AN ANIMAL. NOTHING IN LIFE SHOULD CAUSE YOU DEPENDENCY, MOST ESPECIALLY NOT SEGZ. RESPECT YOUR WIFES REVERENCE FOR HER MOTHER YOU H-ORNY ANIMAL SMDH 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by chassity002: 3:47pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room. I will confront her. Would she rather be happy if I have to 'sort myself' out somehow? |
Re: Wife Says No Sex When Her Mother Is Around by dridowu: 3:47pm On Jun 15, 2013 |
dn go to a nearby hotel and have ur fun |
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